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There hasn't been any postings in this section for a while, so I thought I would give it a shot.
I'm starting my 2nd year of retirement and finally have realized I don't have to be home Sunday night to go to work Monday morning. I have been to Thailand several times for 10 days to 2 weeks. I thought I would give a 1 month trip a shot. I found an apt on AIRBNB. Heard good and bad, but this experience has been about perfect. Have a 1 bedroom, fast wi-fi, pool, little gym. I arrived at 1am so stayed in a hotel as I didn't want to go looking for the place and looking for keys at that hour. When I arrived the protests were still happening, so a 10 minute taxi ride here, took 1 hour. The roads are all open now, so just typical heavy Bangkok traffic. I found the Apt easily. The security guard had the key and it was that simple. Location is about 1/2 mile down Suriwong towards the river.
I flew from Miami to Chicago on American, then Cathay Pacific to Hong Kong on to Bangkok. All in Business.
Great flights. Had the mini Business cabin. It only has 8 seat, and only 3 were taken. Really quiet and great individule service. 30 hours door to door is a long day. I stayed in my first night trying to adjust a little to time change. For some reason hit me hard this trip.
Next night I went up to Soi Twilight. I have a couple of friends that work at Hot Male at the outdoor bar, so I hang out there a lot. When I was last in Bangkok, (July) I met a boy that I really liked. He was from Vietnam and I figured would be long gone. Well I show up and as soon as I say hi to my friends, they all said my friend had gone back to Vietnam and just arrived back in Bangkok the same day I arrived and was upstairs working.
Well that helped wake me up a bit. I went upstairs and looked around and didn't see him. Went to take a seat, and before I could park my butt, he was right there. I don't understand how these boys remember everything about every person they have met for years. I don't remember dinner yesterday.
I didn't off him that night. At 350 baht a drink, we each had one and then I was out of there. The jet lag was still getting to me and sex wasn't high on my list. Drinks at outdoor bar were 150.
He has been with me the rest of the week though. I have lived alone for a lot of years, so I don't need him with me 24 hours a day. So we meet up each evening for dinner, drinks and back to apt for a bit of fun. He really hits all my buttons so fun times for me, though probably kind of boring for a lot of you. Not into topping or bottoming anymore, but living alone the thing I miss the most is affection. This boy is amazing in that department. He is all over the place and I know so many of you like kissing...he loves it. He rams his tounge down my throat so much I am usually asking for a time out.
Usually when I get here it's off to the massage places for a little fun, but with my boy, I haven't needed to. Next week I'm going to give him a night or 2 off so I can have a little taste of what else may be lurking out there.
He also has promised me a 3 way with a friend of his that is arriving from Vietnam next week. When his friend arrives, that will give me an excuse to go off on my own.
Weather has been great. 90 each day and 80 each night. Low humidity has been a big plus with a good breeze. Now that I have lived in Ft.Lauderdale for about 2 years, the weather has been much less an issue for me here. Probably the biggest problem I have with my boy is the A/C. He likes it set about 80 and I like it about 70. We comprise, but I'm still to hot when playing around.
For those of you that have been here know what a bustling city this is. Right now it's as quiet as I have ever seen it. So many empty taxis and tuk tuks. Drivers are all saying, people are coming to thailand, but not coming to Bangkok. My flight Hong Kong to Bangkok only had 11 people in Business. This is the only trip I have seen empty seats. I had fast trak for emigration . 1 window open, and I was the only person there.
It was 1 am, but airport did seem quite. All the intersections are open now and the protesters are staying in Lumpini Park. So safety not really an issue now. An other sign, every time I have been on SkyTrain , I have gotten a seat.
Well my date for the evening has just shown up so it's off to Scozzi for dinner. I asked him if he eats only Thai or does he like some western food. He says he likes food any and all. Makes life so much easier.
I'm not the best writer and pretty much seeing only one boy, doesn't leave a lot to write about. But I will see what I can come up with.
Till then

That is right! I am a sports guy. I love me some figure skating. And, seeing the top 3 Men Winners, I'd happily marry any of them tomorrow. I think that makes me as manly as my friends who love football, baseball and soccer. Doesn't it?

Great find, Lucky!
I'm not qualified to judge the substance of Mr. Bangkokbois blog but the writing is first rate and laced with good natured humor. Even the comments from readers were well above average in quality.
I read several pages and will gradually work my way through his blog as I have time and energy.
Thanks again for pointing me to this blog. I recommend anyone interested in Thailand and the relationships between farangs and bar boys give it a look.

When I first started looking into a trip to Thailand, I searched the web for information and over a few days of searching I came across a web forum that has long since faded. I asked my questions and was told that Thai people don't like black people and that on and on. I received a private PM from a person from the board that told me to ignore all the crap they were telling me. He told me that I would have a great time in Thailand. I asked him about the advice that I would not be welcome because I was black, he told me that I would be treated like a celebrity because not many black Americans visit Thailand. He went on to tell me that it will be likely that I will be the only gay black American in Pattaya and Bangkok if I go during the off season and they would welcome me with open arms.
I went and he was right. Sometimes I received too much attention and it made me become more timid and shy. On my first trip I was hit on by a taxi driver, was checking into a hotel the same time as a cute asian guy next to me. When I was given my room key, he looked over at me and his first and only words to me was asking me what room I was given. I told him and once I was in the room my phone was ringing..
Even when I went to gogo bars, they guys who typically sold sex would show me too much attention and whisper that they would have sex with me for free. I never took them up on their offer because I no you don't get something for nothing and I feared they were expecting an experience that I didn't have the skill to deliver. Also, they may not have been my type. I am a bottom and I tend to attract other bottoms. Now don't get me wrong, there are LOTS of HOT Top guys in Thailand, but a lot of top guys think I am a top and won't play with me unless there is a 3rd party around that can confirm to them that I am a bottom but that does not happen too often.
So when I am on a forum and I see guys getting bad advice, I will send them a private message telling them what I know to be the truth and I will try to leave out my own prejudices and if there is something I don't know I will tell them I don't know.

Thanks to the travelogues posted here so frequently, we may know a lot about visiting Bangkok bars or Rio saunas without ever going there. But lately I have been looking at gay tourist sites, and here's one that I thought did a good job of helping you get through your first night a Bangkok bar. It's even funny!
http://bangkokbois-gay-thailand-blog.com/2011/02/26/first-timers-guide-to-bangkok-gay-gogo-bars/
For a chuckle, I quote the blogger's guess at what you experienced when you went to a message board for information on gay Thailand:
"If their first visit wasn’t a spur of the moment decision while already in Bangkok, the newbie probably tried to find out the scoop through the internet. Which means they found one of the gay Thailand forums. What a scary introduction that must be! If they man up and post their questions . . . yikes! Doubtful they’ll get the answers they were looking for. But before the thread goes totally off the track (that’d be by responding post #5) they’ll be accused of being someone they never heard of; someone else will abusively tell them to use the search function; some old disgruntled Pattaya expat will tell them they will be ripped off, left with blue balls, and spat upon; and one of the bar owners in Pattaya will use their post as an excuse to promote his bar."
hehe, right?

I think we need more photos for positive verification

I think we need more photos for positive verification

Great tips! Thanks for sharing. I've turned into a miles whore lately. It's turned into a kind of fun hobby. I think I need to design a flow chart though to keep all the ducks in a row.

Just Because....... Look at Him !

Oy. Wonder if there would be money in running a Davy Closed Captioning service? For those of us who prefer to watch him with the sound OFF.

One day to go and I know I have not posted much but it was a funny trip. This is low season and not too many Gay visitors .
Frankly I have become increasingly tired of the Bars and have concentrated on my Iphone contacts from previous trips and Gayromeo. Most of the boys I meet on Gayromeo also work the Bars .
Spent 24 days in Pattaya and 5 nights in Bangkok
Only went to the Bars a few nights. Certainly I not recommend for first time visitors this course of action but it is fine for me.
Even for first time visitor I think you should explore Gayromeo and Grindr is very active in Thailand.
In Pattaya it just seemed there was a constant flow of new Young talent. Legal but a lot of new 18-20 and they constantly amaze me in how experienced they can be at 18.
I am just going to post some candid shots of boys I met and few copies of photos in their profile on Gayromeo.
Don't waste your time complaining about how young some of them look. I assure you they are all 18-22 and even one 24 year old. Many Thai boys are only 5'5" and when they are young and small they can look much younger. Why it is important to carefully check id's
And besides I like Twinks and so do many others here!

I have been in Thailand for 3 weeks and have some reports I will share after the trip but thought I would post this to show the type of reasonable Hotels you can get in this wonderful city full of Hot Boys.


Checked in yesterday . The rate was $85 a night including breakfast. I have stayed at all the Marriotts in BKK and find this Courtyard very good value for money.

First the staff greets you at the front door with a big smile and "How are you Sir" and there is just something more genuine about it. Front desk speaks excellent English and as requested they upgraded me to a Corner Room because of my Gold Status.

Now the last few years I have stayed at some of the best serviced apartments in BKK and got quite used to the space. So I approached my room with some trepidation. It was going to be hard not to have kitchen etc but I just don't feel like spending $160 a night for a short 5 night stay.

I was pleasantly surprised with the room. Big windows on 2 sides with lots of light. When you first walk in is a large area to place your open bags, plenty of draws and closet space . Safe and small frig which is mostly empty so you can fill it up with stuff from 7/11.

Nice desk space with enough outlets and comfortable chair. Good TV with decent channel selections. Comfortable bed with many great pillows. Also one lounge chair very comfortable.

A/C very quiet . Bathroom has decent counter space and under sink storage and a window.

Big shower with great water pressure and a place to sit down.

And fast internet.

Will report on breakfast buffet later. Have included some photos , I apologize for the quality because of too much sun.

Oh and the boy was in my room an hour after I checked in. I love Gayromeo!

MBK in Bangkok: A Day in Photos
For those that need a cell phone repair or a new phone, the place to go in Pattaya is Tuk Com but the place to go in Bangkok is MBK. They have a massive section for cell phone sales, repair, etc. However, every time we tried to take out our cameras, we were asked to put them away. LOL I guess they didn't want photos of all the knock offs?
MBK is also a mall with a ton of stores and places to eat. It also has a movie theater.
MBK is often the place where my boys say they want to shop when they have some money to spend on clothes.
Siam Paragon is for high end shoppers and I can't afford most of the stores there but I love the food court. However, MBK is much more affordable and many Thai's love shopping there.
I like the movie theater there and have seen my fair share of movies at MBK.
I don't like their food court as much as most other malls in this area but the boys like it as it has a lot of Thai food.
All in all, MBK is a fun experience if you have not been there.

One of the things to do in the daytime in Bangkok is to go to the mall. There are several malls to go to but we always enjoy our time in Siam Paragon.



Siam Paragon is HUGE! All size queens should love this mall. It has just about everything you could possible want.




In Thailand, when kids in high school get out of school, many head to the malls. Also, this mall is right next to several Universities and several go there to study, meet friends and just hang out in a cool place.




First, in order to get to the mall you can take public transportation or taxis. There are good things and bad things about both. For the Skytrain, it is very easy to get around anywhere that there is a skyway stop. Signs are in English and easy to read and understand. Once you buy you ticket once, you will find it a breeze the rest of the time.




When you take a taxi in Bangkok during the day, be prepared for traffic. It is a true PITA to get around the city at times but that also depends on where you travel and if you know the times of the day the main traffic hits.

Of course, you can always take a motorcycle taxi which is always ready to get you there faster and get out in front of the traffic.

Even the animals are often excited to get to the mall.

Once at Siam Paragon, you have many choices of things to do. There is a massive food court.






I love the giant aquariums that you can beside.

There are tons of great stores.



There are places to view and buy luxury cars.


There is a great bookstore that has English books but also every other language.

There is a massive IMax Movie Theater with seats that are amazing and that have regular theaters and VIP theaters as well as IMax.

Always you can find something for HitoallUSA as his BF is everywhere!

Naturally, there is also just people watching.

The BF and I went to the movie today at Siam Paragon. This mall is the one I talk about all the time with the cute boys overflowing the walkways. I have never seen such a gathering of beauty in my life. But, we were really early and I decided to go to the bathroom. There was this really cute guy outside, around 18-19 years old, and he was just standing. I found him very attractive and asked him where the bathroom was and he told me. It was right behind him and I knew that but I just smiled at him and winked. He followed me into the bathroom and into a stall.
Well, I wasn't ready to have sex as I didn't have a condom on me but we did make out and he ended up giving me a great release and he swallowed every drop. It was a bit dangerous and exciting and scary at the same time. As I was all hot and sweaty when I left and as I had some other juices flowing, I told the BF that I didn't like the seats we were in and that we could come back another day. He was OK with that and we left and I got home and showered.
I am not much for bathroom sex, even though from time to time in my life I have had some, but this experience was great. I have been thinking on this today and I can't figure out if the guy was waiting for someone or if he was just taken by the moment of a Farang flirting with him. In either case, I was happy it happened.
Have others seen this mall as cruisey? Hooked up there? I have taken boys home from the mall there on a few occasions but never had sex in the bathroom upstairs at the movie.
And, the boy was not a money boy. He asked for nothing. He just wanted some protein before the movie started.
I have friends who say they get this all the time but at more local venues and not the mall.