Lucky

There is the stereotype of the hard-working, very smart Jew who is a whiz at his job but not so good in the social realm. I have met many Jewish professionals who are indeed whizzes at their job, but many are quite adept socially. But often when you are dealing with someone super smart and well educated, they tend to be on a level of intellect that does impede their everyday social interactions with the common folk. They don't have to be Jewish. I did meet Charlie's dentist, and we hit it off right away, as it seems we like many of the same authors and are both avid readers.

A long time ago, actually about 8 weeks ago, Mexican Coke was discussed in this forum in a thread started by yours truly: http://www.maleescortreview.com/forum/index.php?/topic/7320-whats-in-a-coca-cola/page__p__40002__hl__coke__fromsearch__1#entry40002 As I mentioned there, I am a fan of Mexican Coke. Forget the article above. Mexican Coke has a smoother, cleaner taste. The sugar is what we grew up with. Now, American Coke uses high fructose corn syrup, which has a thick feel to it, and the aftertaste is not as smooth a sugared Coke. So, my answer is yes.

Ditzy, Inc. The receptionist at my gay dermatologist called me at 8 a.m. today. It seems that when I left on Monday, she charged me a balance of $5.00, but was really supposed to charge me $55.00. Could I come right over and make that payment? I said, "Why, do you have creditors at the door?" "No, she replied, "I just need to get this posted." I asked her to send me a bill, but she said she couldn't do that. So I drove the several miles over there and were they at all apologetic for this inconvenience? Not at all. It was more like I had skipped out on them. But no doubt the doctor knows none of this, and I am generally happy with him, so I will not say a word.

So that's how we get Oliver to post! Happy Birthday!

It's probably more fun to pursue the will-o' the wisp than a real terrorist!

As I understand it, closing a restaurant without notice to the employees is a common practice. It keeps them from quitting before the place is finally closed, and also keeps pilferage down. That's how they closed the local Marie Callender's too.

Apparently "Silver Spoon" is just a bad name for a restaurant. I googled it to see what the story is, and found numerous restaurants named Silver Spoon had closed: RIP, Silver Spoon: the Roncey restaurant shutters after a decade of ... www.torontolife.com/.../rip-silver-spoon-the-roncey-restaura.. Jan 12, 2010 – The Roncesvalles institution Silver Spoon is closing in the next two weeks, but chef and owner Rocco Agostino says the never-ending ... Silver Spoon - CLOSED - Englewood, CO Silver Spoon Cafe - CLOSED - Phoenix, AZ Silver Spoon Thai Kitchen - CLOSED - West Portal - San Francisco ... Silver Spoon - CLOSED - High Park - Toronto, ON Silver Spoon Closed by Department of Health After Earning "A" Only ... Jun 30, 2011 – In fact, the DOH ended up closing Silver Spoon this past Monday, June 27th, after an inspection revealed 52 points of health violations, a slight ... Silver Spoon - CLOSED - Denver Breakfast Restaurants - Southeast .. (I wouldn't worry too much about this restaurant closing. There has been a restaurant on that spot ever since I moved to LA in 1978, and no doubt well before that.)

And while we are busy taking our shoes off, some TSA officers are taking bribes to let drugs get through security: http://www.nytimes.com/2011/09/14/nyregion/tsa-officers-arrested-in-drug-smuggling-conspiracy.html?ref=nyregion Or, even worse: On one occasion, a witness wearing a police wire sought advice from Officer Jones about how best to smuggle a handgun through security and coordinated with her to make sure Officer Jones could guide him through the screening checkpoint at the Westchester airport, in Harrison, N.Y.

A gay geriatrician speaks on the subject of gays getting older in an opinion piece in today's NY Times: Gray and Gay

Jane Brody's column in the NY Times today is on obesity and may be of interest to you to read: Brody's Column

Thanks for sharing!

Well, we certainly have reflected on it. I hope you are pleased to see how many here and over at daddy's wish you only the best.

"Why did David post a response like that?" Um, I thought you were David?

Well, lurkerspeaks, in that thread you said: As someone who has done relatively little international traveling, I have a pretty long list.. In no specific order (as long as it is ALL espenses paid), Thailand, Budapest, Barcelona, Paris, Venice, Athens, Egypt (for the pyramids, etc, not for sex), really, pretty much any major city in Europe. So your trip to Thailand will be the first installment on fulfilling your travel dreams. So I guess I was wrong that you did not know of that thread and all my worries were for naught. But that's okay, it sometimes it's good to review what we post. I have seen older posts and ask myself "Did I write that!" My oldtimers disease!

Compulsive shopper? From Wikipedia: Psychiatrists do believe that the behavior can be triggered by a need to feel special and to combat loneliness, as well as a hope that shopping will somehow change them for the better. But compulsive shopping satisfies none of those needs and therefore the shopper's behavior may escalate'.[12] Similar to other compulsive behaviors, sufferers often experience the highs and lows associated with addiction. 'Like people who have to shoplift, compulsive shoppers are caught in a cycle of anxiety: endorphin-fuelled highs and guilt-ridden lows'.[13] Victims often experience moods of satisfaction when they are in the process of purchasing, which 'gives shopaholics a sort of euphoria, excitement, and "high"' that seems to give their life meaning while letting them forget about their sorrows; but 'there is usually a feeling of disappointment afterwards, followed by guilt'.[14] Once leaving the environment where the purchasing occurred, the feeling of a personal reward may already have gone, so that to compensate, the addicted person goes shopping again in a 'vicious cycle of repetitive impulse buying...just one more thing to achieve a better self-identity'.[15] 'Compulsive shoppers are prone to shop in secret as the condition worsens, debt increases, and relationships with family members and friends become strained'.[16] At the point where bought goods may be hidden or destroyed, because the person concerned feels ashamed of their addiction and tries to conceal it, and 'when shopping habits involve lying about and hiding purchases, the mental, physical, and emotional toll goes up'.

Lawyers, doctors, dentists- probably all professionals have their flaws. I was once in a courtroom where the defendant had plead guilty under a plea agreement. Everything was cut and dry as to his sentence. But, for some reason, the family hired a lawyer for the sentencing. Rather than tell the family that there was nothing he could do as it was all set in stone, he charged them $2500 to appear in court. He told the court what a good guy the defendant was, and, of course, the judge sentenced the guy as per the plea agreement. The lawyer had essentially ripped the family off. Doctors too are human. They run all sorts of tests to run the bill up, then bill for things they didn't do. I have long since learned the value of getting a second opinion from another doctor who has no financial stake in the outcome. But today I am here because of frustration with dentists. When I moved to the area, I immediately sought out the services of a gay dentist. You know, keep it in the family, patronize gay business, and,of course, a certain belief that one of our own wouldn't rip off one of his own. How wrong I was. The dentist put crowns on two teeth, and I paid extra for a precious metal crown on each. I later had the occasion to see another dentist on an unrelated matter. He asked me if I knew that one of the crowns had a chip in it, and the other was not properly fit. The one with the chip should be replaced right away. So, I wrote the gay dentist and he refused a refund. But luckily I had a picture, and he ultimately sent me a check. The second bad crown was replaced later and I did not seek a refund. But guess what? When the crowns were removed, I discovered that he had used a cheap metal, not the precious metal I had paid for. No doubt he thought I would never find out. Recently a periodontist told me I needed $18,000 in urgent dental work. The person very aggressively told me that nothing less would do, that I could trust no one else to be honest with me because they would just tell me what I wanted to hear in order to get my money. So I went to a dentist I knew, and he didn't see the problem. Neither did the dentist who had just cleaned my teeth and did a full mouth x-ray. I sent the x-rays out of state to get an objective opinion, and the dentist and periodontist who reviewed them didn't see the need for all that work either. So today I got a thorough exam, complete with the latest in digital x-rays. Guess what? That dentist thought I didn't need that work either. While I was at the dentist, he showed me the x-rays of a 17 year old girl. They were just about the best teeth you could imagine. Yet a periodontist had told her, in writing, that she needed 14 cavities filled at a cost of over $3000. This guy was going to drill into perfectly healthy teeth just to make money! So, yes, I am glad I went for a second and third opinion. I am going to end up spending $700 instead of $18,000. Friends of mine have been having similar issues. So far, they have 3 estimates. One is $20,000, one is $12,000, one is $7,000. All for the same problem. What a world we live in. No doubt the economy is keeping many people from having dental work done,and some dentists are desperate to keep up their boat payments!

Charlie's response has had such an impact on me that I am considering a sex change operation in Thailand just so I can identify more with the transgender community. Unite brothers/sisters, and in between folks!

Sometimes after I post, I consider what I have said and then realize that people may not take it the way it was intended. Above I pointed out a thread wherein this subject, or a similar concept, was discussed last July. It occurred to me that it might be taken as an indication on my part that lurkerspeaks should have picked up on this thread before starting this one. Not true. I am well aware that lurkerspeaks was away from MER at that time and could not reasonably be expected to have known of that thread. I added it so that the responses there could be considered along with the responses to the current thread. I was away from my computer for a few hours and am glad to return and find out that no one seems to have taken the response in a way I did not intend. You never know! Lucky, Esq.

Am I the only one in America who found this segment on the TV show Curb Your Enthusiasm offensive? EXPAT can bring the clips to you directly, but I am too lazy, I just give you a link to them! Offensive Young Actor This kid tries to act "gay" by doing a poor job of being effeminate. The perpetuation of this stereotype is supposed to be funny.

But you are the one they wrote about in the NY Times today, not me! "As Perry Rises, G.O.P. Elite Look Toward Romney" GOP elite, get it? That's Mr. Epigonos!

Quite a long time ago, well, last July, a similar question was asked. So those answers might apply here too: http://www.maleescortreview.com/forum/index.php?/topic/7306-what-if-you-had-a-chance-to-go/page__p__39905__hl__travel__fromsearch__1#entry39905

Is that what he said? The first part I can find, but not the second one: November 01, 2004 The Arabic-language network Al-Jazeera released a full transcript Monday of the most recent videotape from Osama bin Laden in which the head of al Qaeda said his group's goal is to force America into bankruptcy. Al-Jazeera aired portions of the videotape Friday but released the full transcript of the entire tape on its Web site Monday. "We are continuing this policy in bleeding America to the point of bankruptcy. Allah willing, and nothing is too great for Allah," bin Laden said in the transcript. He said the mujahedeen fighters did the same thing to the Soviet Union in Afghanistan in the 1980s, "using guerrilla warfare and the war of attrition to fight tyrannical superpowers." "We, alongside the mujahedeen, bled Russia for 10 years until it went bankrupt and was forced to withdraw in defeat," bin Laden said. He also said al Qaeda has found it "easy for us to provoke and bait this administration." *** Or maybe it was this: Bin Laden's Goal: Kill 4 Million Americans Stewart Stogel, NewsMax.com Wednesday, July 14, 2004

And today's LA Times headlines an article: Studio City's Oil Can Harry's helps country fans kick up heels A thriving country and western club in L.A.? You bet, partner Hehehe...nothing country about the old Oil Can in SF. On one of my first visits to SF in the 70's I wanted to go there, having heard it was a twink bar...and I thought I was into twinks then. But my SF friend said "You don't want to go there, it's an Oriental bar!" Well, coming from the midwest, I didn't think I'd like that either, so we didn't go. Later, when I moved to SF, I learned that "Orientals" liked me. It took a while, but I finally discovered that this could be fun. At the Ritch Street baths, before AIDS, an Asian guy made a kamikaze attack under my towel in the orgy room. He had his mouth on me before I had a chance to resist, so, not having much choice, I decided to give Asian men a try. Many of you know how that ended up!

And what does that mean? Because we spend billions to defend against a phantom enemy? Or are the terrorists now ruling Milwaukee?

The NY Times today uses the acronym LGBT, defining it as the "abbreviation for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people." But when did I get abbreviated? How is it that lesbians are identified as a group with gay men? And what about transgender? What does that have to do with me? Yes, I know it is a common thing to use LGBT when talking about these groups, but aren't we individual people and individual groups? I don't know much about what it is like to be transgender, and can guess that lesbians are like gay men except when they are not, which is a lot. So I wish they would just use gay men when talking about gay men, and lesbians and transgender when talking about them. But I know it is not going to happen. It's too easy to use this acronym, and it is easy in part because we have let it happen.