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typical late afternoon at the apartment
Tomcal replied to Tomcal's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
Basically what it comes down to is what each of us feels what is safe for Them to do! One reason the sauna scene is safer is all the guys ID’s are on file with the mgt., if you are going to take someone back to your place the chances are better if it is a sauna guy! and letting someone know who you are going with! -
typical late afternoon at the apartment
Tomcal replied to Tomcal's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
it is like a car crash off the side of the road and traffic slows to a stop, people don’t enjoy it but they have a need to see the carnage! i don’t think myself this is going to increase participation in the site but rather have the opposite effect! this posts are supposed to be informative not cat fights! -
typical late afternoon at the apartment
Tomcal replied to Tomcal's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
I have just read al the comments and i am smiling! First of, this is a escort review site! ESCORT REVIEW! I have been telling various Americans for years when they say they are in love with a garoto that if they are really in love, then they should say to their Brazilian BF “My love i have lost alll my money in the stock market but at least we still have each other!” and watch how fast their ass is out the door! :-) now keeping that in mind, i know for a fact that the sauna guys like anyone, have clients they like better then others even to the point that they(not all)would take less money and go with one person over another! There is a wealthy American that has been going to Brazil for as long as i have and due to his personality and general nature is not liked by the boys or his fellow Americans! He is pompous, Arrogant, etc., makes no attempt to know one word of Portuguese. One day about 3 years ago i ran into him and he says “you know all the guys are asking $200 - $300R now and have been for almost a year! this means he has been paying that much since 2013! when i was sitting with several guys one night at the sauna and he walked in and the guys all universally groaned! i smiled and asked them why ? they said none of them liked him and they all told him their rates were 2 to 3 times what their normal rates were hoping that would discourage him and if he didn’t at least it would make it more bearable to have to be with him! i have over the years learned at least in my case, if i make it as enjoyable as possible for the guys as i can that i want to see on a regular basis it becomes more fun for me too! while i agree with most comments above, i think only a fool would make statements regarding the sauna scene in Brazil without ever having been there as while some generalities can be assumed to be the same worldwide there are definite differences in culture, gay relationships in different non US/Western European countries! as example, in mexico where my last trip, of the 12 guys i was with, 9 we’re free! In SoCal i am dating a 23 yr old off of grindr for over 1 year, my point being it is becoming more difficult at least for me to say in fact “this is the case or you will find..,” That is why i try to always say Imho or in my case or experience... -
typical late afternoon at the apartment
Tomcal replied to Tomcal's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
Here is another oldie from about 2005, these 7 guys were all neighbors in Niteroi, and all worked at 117 from 2004 or so to about 2008! One of the guys i saw for about 3 years! -
Now is the time to go South to Mexico or Brazil
Tomcal replied to Tomcal's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
tonight. Brazilian Reias $3.91 to $1. US Mexican Peso. $20.04 “. “ -
Normally no one gets up before 10:30 - 11:00 am, go to lunch then the beach, usually get back around 4 ish and everyone catches up on their emails, texts!
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photos from first trip in 2001
Tomcal replied to Tomcal's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
i never met his brother. He had one of the biggest dicks for sure! He liked to 69 and liked to bttm although everyone assumed he was a top because of his huge dick! I cropped the photo to hide his hard dick! the photo cuts off a mm before his dick shows, about 10.5” and thick -
photos from first trip in 2001
Tomcal replied to Tomcal's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
i found several X pics of him so i cropped this one so i could put it here! btw i gave him his name of JFK, Jr but i will let Florida Rob take credit! LOL -
photos from first trip in 2001
Tomcal replied to Tomcal's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
His name was Alexi and he moved to Paris around 2006 and worked as a naked gogo boy for several years, i have a video of him dancing there if i can find it i will post it. His younger brother went to work at 117 for a short time when he turned 18 but wasn’t as much fun as Alexi -
photos from first trip in 2001
Tomcal replied to Tomcal's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
yup it was! i stayed there from 2001 to 2004 -
photos from first trip in 2001
Tomcal replied to Tomcal's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
i should add i hadn’t seen these photos, about a 100, for years as they were stored in my garage in a box with work papers! Guess i need to go through and check all my files as it would be shocking for someone to find these after i die! lol as most are X-rated! -
Some photos of sauna guys from 2001 on my first trip to Rio, they either worked at Roger's or Club 117 as this was pre Pointe202 and MM although In 2002 Estacio opened. I have more photos but if having issues uploading so will post them later. There is one guy who is in a photo from 10/23/2001 who still works at 117!
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Got this from a Brazilian friends FB post today: If you think your life goes wrong, imagine these siamese Twin(conjoined) brothers, in which one has declared gay and the other straight... but the ass is just one...
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Porto Alegre Street Boys Calendar
Tomcal replied to Tomcal's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
He is the one that lives in Spain and who i still communicate with. He is German as are most of the guys pictured. and comes from a German Village about 50 miles from Porto Alegre. At the time that photo was taken he was 23 -
in 2005 the owner of the Hustler Bar “Era Uma Vez” , both of which are deceased, Made a calendar and gave me a copy. Recently i was going thru some boxes in the garage and came across it! 3 of the guys pictured i had gone out with back then and one although i haven’t seen him since 2007, when he moved to Europe we still keep in contact(he married 10 years ago) One of the guys is pictured talking to a guy in his car! the good old days pre phone apps!
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Rio and nearby sights: what's fun? What's boring?
Tomcal replied to caeron's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
that’s the one! it is directly across the street from my apartment! it is similiar to Sunday swap meets we have her in SoCal only all new goods like t-shirts, Jewelry, paintings, women’s clothes. -
Rio and nearby sights: what's fun? What's boring?
Tomcal replied to caeron's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
my apartment for the last 7 years is directly across the street from the Hippie Fair and i have been once! the food and dessert stands were the only thing i felt was worth the money -
i agree with Mvan when i visited The first time on a Friday afternoon there were 5 Thai ladyboys, a couple Romanians and 2 Brazilians and one guy from england who was the only semi attractive guy there. he told us the rate was $100. per 1/4 hour! one of the few times i left a sauna w/o doing anyone!
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thanks Ferrar! My intention is to continue visiting Brazil 3 or 4 times a year for 12 - 14 Days each visit, and get residency in Mexico in the future but my main Residence will stay SoCal. The considerinably shorter flight to Mexico, coupled with the Access to great healthcare(should the need arise), the safety of living in Merida coupled with a house there i really like and a abundance of fun guys definitely i’ve Mexico the edge! As long as i can bring guys from Brazil to visit! :-)
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the guys on here that know me, know that i am a pretty happy guy always up and happy with life in general. I take things as they come and accept that we only have limited control over our lives, saying that, i am the happiest i have ever been and this and one other guy :-) have everything to do with it! I am going to be in Rio 8/9 - 8/20 and then back to Merida with the Paulista 9/27! then i may have to make some decisions...but it will be great whichever way it turns out! I used to say who ever came up with the saying “the golden years” was full of shit! maybe not so much!
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My favorite photo of my house in Merida!
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Report on Porto Alegre - Mezzaninu
Tomcal replied to 12is12's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
Tart i have been going to Mezziniu since it opened in i think 2007 and have always had a great time there but i have never been on a Mon/Tue or Weds. i actually like the area a lot and if i ever was going to retire in Brazil I would definitely consider Porto Alegre and the Rio Sul area. -
Martha Stewart in Merida, Mexico
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Your comment made me laugh out loud! i am up for it if Andy Cohen wants to do it! In all seriousnessly i feel very lucky having found this guy after all these years of HOing in Brazil! But i will probably blow it so to speak, as i am not the best at LTR since my first one of 6 years duration! But this guy could make me commit for the first time in a long time! Brazilians are like a addictive drug to me and i don’t want a intervention!