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Saunas in other Brazilian cities
Tomcal replied to wncdemcub's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
I am wrong you are right! Wow that’s a. first! :-) -
Saunas in other Brazilian cities
Tomcal replied to wncdemcub's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
Rob are you sure you are not thinking of “Era uma vez”? I don’t think Mixx Bar was there when you werre going to PA?! -
As someone who grew up in Mpls., and went to st. cloud state and moved to Calif. 30 years ago, Let me say welcome! i post 99% of the time in the South of the border section.
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Saunas in other Brazilian cities
Tomcal replied to wncdemcub's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
I would skip Florinopolis as far as the sauna scene goes! there is only one rent boy sauna, if it is still opened and never had more then a couple guys in there. Also you are going during the Brazilian winter which in Florinaopolis is cold and the town slows way down! it is a tourist city from November to March! But worth a visit just not for the sauna scene! Curitiba is a pretty city that also has snow in the winter as it is i think at 5,000 ft elevation, 2 saunas, one is ok but not worth going to Curitiba specifically for the sauna you will be disappointed compared to Rio or SP, imho Porto Alegre is my favorite sauna physically, and can be very good or very bad, just depends on the night! Mixx Bar is a favorite place of mine because it is like(and the last)old fashioned hustler bar around! 1/2 the guys in there will be guys from the sauna that didn’t make any money earlier and 1/2 are just local guys looking for some cash for the weekend. there are 3 rooms scattered around the bar you can rent for a 1/2 hour, i would not recommend taking Bar Mixx guys back to your hotel as they probably wouldn’t get by security. -
i have been getting requests to join the pvt club on here by members that have Zero History and Zero posts! as i stated in the first post “unless you are a KNOWN member you will not be approved!” i made this mistake in the past i am not repeating it! Start posting!!(one post doesn’t count), this club is private for a good reason!
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the owner or manager i assume
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this was posted on MR’s Facebook Page tonight! interesting read.... PORTUGUESE: Manhattan Rios.... Somos a melhor? Não. Somos a maior? Não. Somos a mais bonita? Talvez. Somos a mais limpa? Com certeza. Somos a mais chique? Sim. Cada casa tem a sua peculiaridade: A melhor localizada, A maior e mais famosa, etc... Eu não tenho a pretensão de ser a melhor mas uma coisa eu garanto. Quem vier pra Manhattan Rios vai ser bem tratado, desde o dono até o que faz a faxina... Além de que, aqui na Manhattan, o que a gente valoriza são os nossos meninos. De bom atendimento, eu entendo... Uma ótima noite a todos ... ENGLISH: Manhattan Rios.... Are we the best? No, I'm not. Are we the greatest? No, I'm not. Are we the prettiest? Maybe. Are we the cleanest? Of course. Are we the fancier? - yeah. Each house has its peculiarity: the best located, the biggest and most famous, etc... I do not claim to be the best but one thing I guarantee. Whoever comes to Manhattan Rios is going to be treated well, from the owner to what does the cleaning... besides, here in Manhattan, what we value are our boys. Good service, I understand... A great night everyone...
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Pointe 202 and Manhattan Rios
Tomcal replied to buttnovice's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
Riobard. you can separate friends and family and acquaintances, etc., and when you post you can select whether you want your Friends or relatives can be in the groups that see it. The same with your friends you can select who can or cannot see your friends list! works great i know! :-) -
Pointe 202 and Manhattan Rios
Tomcal replied to buttnovice's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
I am seeing 2-3 posts a day! not sure why i can see them and you can’t? i see 4 posts just for yesterday! -
Pointe 202 and Manhattan Rios
Tomcal replied to buttnovice's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
i just went on FB and typed “ Manhattan Rios” -
Pointe 202 and Manhattan Rios
Tomcal replied to buttnovice's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
MR facebook page is updated daily! they are open on Saturday from 3:00pm to 5:00 AM but it changes at 10:00pm from a sauna to a Sex club ...no sauna(small distinction i know) -
typical late afternoon at the apartment
Tomcal replied to Tomcal's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
Paulerio it was payback for the blonde guy you introduced me to in Prague! (i had to crop it because of the new rules!) -
go to the “clubs” section on boytoy and click on that link
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typical late afternoon at the apartment
Tomcal replied to Tomcal's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
i introduced him to you! :-) -
Do most non blacks avoid Black guys?
Tomcal replied to Tomcal's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
Tasso the saunas don't hire the garotos, whoever shows up with a valid ID (and sometimes a not valid ID)at the sauna can work, since technically it is against the law to make money off Prostitution(except for the prostitute)they will let anyone who they have not had issues with work there! I think very few if any Native indigenous men have ever applies at the saunas in Rio or Sao Paulo, but if they did they could work there! now maybe in the sauna in Manaus there is...but I have to admit I would not be interested! -
Do most non blacks avoid Black guys?
Tomcal replied to Tomcal's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
Badboy remember this was 20 years ago! My response would have been different today, one thing that no ones says about me is that I am shy or afraid to voice my opinions, but I am judicious enough not to make a scene at a party, but rather wait for a one on one conversation at some point! Also I have learned that you are not going to change a ignoramus's opinion, and it's not worth my time! -
Do most non blacks avoid Black guys?
Tomcal replied to Tomcal's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
Thanks everyone for your comments! i remember a conversation i had one time when i had a Cuban BF from ‘97 to ‘99, he has been in the Cuban Navy and when the ship docked in Mexico he hopped on a plane to Houston and made it here! He worked as a trainer in Miami and i thought he was beautiful! When he came to LA for his first visit i had a party with about 25 guys to introduce him and one person came up to me and said “why didn’t you say your BF was Black?” I said “I told you he was Cuban!” It never dawned on me i had to define his skin tone! (He was really black like fresh from Nigeria Black) But it never occurred to me to make a point about it..i was very naive 20 years ago about things out of my wheelhouse! Anyhow, i understand preferences for similiar types person to what we are, i have always liked differences! i grew up in Minnesota where everyone was Blonde, blue eyed and named Johnson/Anderson or Hanson! :-) and that is not usually what i am attracted to...unless i am in Prague! -
Do most non blacks avoid Black guys?
Tomcal replied to Tomcal's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
Best I could come up with, but maybe I just don't have the eloquence of the written word like some...but I thought it got the point of the topic across! -
Recently one of our members, SolaceSoulposted this in response to a question regarding why there is not much on the board regarding Salvador and Northern(NE Brazil)? “Because Salvador and the entire Bahia is predominantly black people. It should be plainly clear by now that many of the posters here aren’t “into” that.“ I respectfully disagree, partially with that statement! Here are my thoughts. The majority of people go to Rio and secondly SP because those are the 2 centers of tourism in Brazil especially Rio! Most people reading the board do not go multiple times of the year or even consecutive years there! So naturally they would not pick Bahia, or Salvador or Fortaleza, etc. Secondly, personally i don’t know if any poster personally who does not go with Black sauna guys! i go with whoever i think is “Hot” at the sauna! i think that photo i posted of the 7 friends who were sauna guys at 117, who are at the restaurant shows the rainbow of colors(and for the record i have been with 5 of the 7 more then once!). I know their is bias and prejudice in the gay community but i think it is less in the South of the border group and again partially can be explained by the geography and tourism centers of Brazil. a friend of mine owns Salvador’s gay sauna and their are some very hot sexy guys there!
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i will give it a shot at answering some of your questions where i have had current* experience! Over the last 17 years i have seen the saunas change back and forth in popularity but 117 has always remained in #1 or #2 position! Saying that there are nights when it is not the most popular and it is closed on Mondays. For weekend getaways i like Porto Alegre and São Paulo! In porto alegre i always stay in the Moinjos de Vento area which is a upscale neighborhood and has 2 hotels i like, The Sheraton and the Quality Hotel. The Sheraton is attached to a 3story Boutique higher end Mall and the street in front of the hotel is called Padre Chagas and in its 5 blocks has about a twenty plus restaurants, specialty stores, clubs! there is a park that starts a block down from the Sheraton and goes for about 5 or so square blocks, very nice with many joggers on the weekends! Mezziniu sauna has always been one of my favorites it opened in 2007 i by chance happened to be there the week after it opened. best times there are Fri, Sat., Sun. thou not necessarily three nights in a row! I wont go in depth regarding LaGoa as there has been much written already but i like Friday and saturday nights there! Mvan is the resident authority on SP here and can give much better detailed info then i can. i will say the last time i stayed in SP i used Airbnb and got a great place in the Aclimacau neighborhood which was a great location and had a whole house 3bdrs/3 Baths for a really reasonable price
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typical late afternoon at the apartment
Tomcal replied to Tomcal's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
what year was this? because Rogers saunas opened Copacabana in 1973 , Spa 73 in 1990 and 117 in 1997! -
typical late afternoon at the apartment
Tomcal replied to Tomcal's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
Free, as a typical Grindr hookup, comes over to the house, a few minutes of small talk and then hop into bed and a hour or 2 later they head home. NO $$, no food, one did ask if I could uber him home and when I checked it was 32 pesos($1.66US) so I agreed to that. Not that I have seen, most guys, Mexicans or Brazilians have a difficult time judging your age if you are over 35 it seems. Nope, Nada, Nothing regarding their expenses for me it is fucking when I am in town, and depending on the time of day, we may go to a bar afterwards but nothing more then 1 or 2 drinks. He prefers dates but setting up specific time for a date is difficult before I arrive so usually it is set up the afternoon of the day. Individual mileage will vary on this, but for me being a Top, is a definite plus as whether I am in Mexico, Brazil, Prague, L.A. there seems to be 9 bttms for every 1 top! I will say that there is someone who does better then me on the free hookups and that is Florida Rob! I have been in Rio different times when he got a guy for a week staying in the apt, free and in the case of one, a top in demand escort who he was with on and off for about 9 years! but that is a long story...In Mexico, I don't think he ever pays, and I have met up with him many nights at bars and he is with the guys! He unlike me likes to make a whole night of these encounters and does very well. -
the private club on here “Brazilian and Mexican Guys” is going to become active but membership is limited to known posters(due to photos being leaked to Garotos) by members, and is at my sole discretion! So i apologize if you are not approved immediately but not taking any chances this time around.
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typical late afternoon at the apartment
Tomcal replied to Tomcal's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
Whoa. this has certainly varied from what i intended this post to be! I thought i was just showing a photo of what a typical late afternoon at the apartment is like in Rio! but like most things it has had its share of surprising turns! with that i will say goodnight!