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i am back home in Ft Lauderdale from 7 days in Rio and 5 in SP! I felt The saunas were back almost to their Pre covid days! most nights they were busy! i had 4 guys staying with me in Rio, one couple from SP, a guy from Uruaguay who i have known for 4 years and a guy i have known from Rio for 2 years. i was to leave on Sunday so i went sunday morning to take my Covid test and went back to my apt to meet up with some of the guys, 4 hours later i got the results…Positive!!! i had no symptoms and i did not want to stay in SP for 10 more days before i could be tested again! So i cantacted a guy i know who would retest me, since i was sure it was a false positive! I boarded my flight back home that night!! it paid off making friends over the past 21 years!
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At the age of 13, ready to “win in life”, Júnior Barbosa (47) left the small town of Cedro (Ceará) heading for São Paulo and, later, for Rio de Janeiro. He slept on the beach, in squares, went hungry, became a prostitute, was a street vendor, sold “hotspots”, did a little of everything until he became one of the biggest businessmen in the gay nightlife in Rio de Janeiro. For over 20 years, Barbosa has owned one of the best-known saunas in Rio de Janeiro – and the only one in Copacabana – but the path has been arduous. His three-story house is a stronghold of young men and visitors from all over the world, including famous people. In a chat with the staff of GAY BLOG BR, Barbosa recounted the difficulties of the past and his trajectory until he became a successful businessman in his segment in Rio. A vida no Ceará era muito difícil… Era, pois vim de uma família humilde, e éramos em seis irmãos. O sonho de todo nordestino é morar em São Paulo, só que quando cheguei, passei perrengue pior do que no Ceará. Quando cheguei, morei na casa de uma tia. Sofri humilhação e descaso. E comecei a trabalhar com tudo que aparecia: fui balconista, faxineiro, passei roupa nas confecções do Brás etc. E chegando ao Rio de Janeiro, como foi? Eu acabei me envolvendo com a prostituição na Avenida São Luís e um agenciador perguntou se eu não queria ir para casa de uma amiga dele, travesti, no Rio de Janeiro. Na época eu não sabia o que era uma travesti. E vim para o Rio, morando no Baratão 200 [edifício na rua Barata Ribeiro com 507 apartamentos onde, no passado, ficou famoso por aparecer na televisão em programas de investigações policiais]. Acabei sendo explorado por ela também, e eu era quase um “escravo”. Comecei a trabalhar para pagar o aluguel dela e todos os seus gastos. Além disso, ela quase não me deixava sair do apartamento e eu ainda dormia no chão. Foram só três meses, mas de intenso sofrimento.
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I miss Samba and Sun and the boys....
Tomcal replied to Badboy81's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
i am only in SP on Thursday to sunday usually I can only comment on Thurs -Sat nights! they have been good the 3,different times i was in SP this past year! but also i was seeing guys i know well for the most part! -
i am in Merida Mexico this week
Tomcal replied to Tomcal's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
Not really masks are worn everywhere but as soon as you get in the bars/restaurants etc they came off -
i came down to Merida this weeek and it has been good! Grindr is alive and well. 2-1/2 or 3 years ago i was down here and meeting a guy for dinner while waiting for him at the house i was on grindr message me and said hey you like you’re pretty close to me and I looked and I said It looks like you must be less then a block away! so i opened the door and look down the block and there are some standing there good looking guy and he was waiting to eat so he went to the house we sat on the couch and you’re just ourselves and within about two minutes it was my dinner date! so i invited tge third guy to dinner with us! we had a good time at dinner but they both had to leave to go home after dinner your flash forward to three years later I Kept in contact with both of them and saw the one guy who I dated several times in the ensuing two and a half years and the guy who had walked near my house moved to mexico city we talked occasionally but we never got to see each other again until this week! every three or four months we message each other but now he’s back in Merida going to visit his family so last night we finally met again. He has a car so he picked me up and FloridaRob was having a party so we went there and had a good time! He slept over but had to leave at 7:00 this morning. so i went to give him some cash and he goes “what’s this for?” I said “in case you need some gas money”? He says “I don't” and handed it back to me! this is not the first or second time this has happened to me here! btw he is from Tobasco state and has a big dick!
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I miss Samba and Sun and the boys....
Tomcal replied to Badboy81's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
That has statues about the same! Mondays you option is poine202 as 117 become a Women’s night(formally it was closed on Mondays). Tuesday is the biggest night for 117, Wednesday it is Poijte all the way! Thursday is a crapshoot either is so/so Friday. can be god at pointe don’t know about 117 i have never been there on a Friday. Saturday is usually slow. Sunday should be decent at 117 -
Owner of Pointe shares his views on Saunas longgevity
Tomcal replied to Tomcal's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
I agree Oz, unfortunately i think the Brazilian economy has affected the middle class/middle age clients the most! a night out at the sauna for a Brazilian costs $60R. for admission, suites vary but a night out at the sauna for a local runs about $300.R.if they do one guy! and have a drink! those who used to go Once a week go once a month if that! -
Owner of Pointe shares his views on Saunas longgevity
Tomcal replied to Tomcal's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
Sorry i thought the link was there! https://noticias.uol.com.br/cotidiano/ultimas-noticias/2021/10/30/copacabana-sauna-gay-sobrevive-a-pandemia-mas-dono-preve-sucumbir-a-apps.htm -
this article recently appeared in a publication with a interview of Junior Barbarossa the owner of Pointe. He like everyone else does not think the gay escort saunas will last much longer(as most everyone agrees)! So for those who have been putting off going for whatever reason, you should go this next year as it could be your last chance!
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I heard last week when i was in SP that a new owner is taking over which is why it closed and reopening after some cosmetic changes are made. i heard this from 2 sauna guys so not sure how accurate it is, but will know in a week! the old fragata/new 555 is a nice space i hope it makes it!
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i usually get there around 5:30PM! and leave around 8:30 or 9:00 at the latest!! i am not a affectionado of drag shows!, so once they come on i usually leave!
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Prices are dependent on how good a negotiator you are! But considering that the current currency rate is over Brazilian $5.25 to $1.00 US. i didn’t really worry about what the current rate the guys were charging. none were out of line.
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i will say that 117 was very packed on a rainy tuesday evening! it was almost as much fun talking to guys i had not seen in a long tine that i forgot to get my name in for a room! until after 7:40 and we got there at 5;00! Wednesday was a repeat of tuesday during the day, and then my new love interest and I met up at Pointe202 for their busiest night of the week. By 6:30 it was packed! we be met up with a guy i have known about 1-1/2 yrs who is a 21 yr old kinda shy(out of bed!). who ended up going back to the apt with us and staying the night! Really a fun evening with these 2 guys! con’t
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i don’t know why/or how that font started out so big but decided i would leave it that way for Lucky! On Monday night the 24,year old i am very hot on, stayed overnight snd left at 8:30 am with plans to meet at 117 that evening. Tuesday at noon a guy i met 2 years ago and is a Brazilian Jujitsu competitor is at the gym from 8:00 to 11:00 every day so he usually shows up at noon or 10:00 at night after classes, so i have to make sure i keep accurate times when he is due to stop by! He does not work at a sauna i met him through another guy i knew. Really a nice guy! After he left at 4:00 i left for 117 as Tuesday night is their biggest night! I met the guy there who is my newest “love” interest and we looked for a 1 or 2 passivo to go to a room with us….that took about 2 minutes! after we left 117 we went to dinner in Ipanema and then he spent the night. con’t
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i got to Rio today after the overnight flight from Miami! i love the 5 hours less travel time then coming from SoCal, i am staying in a different apt. then i have the past 11 years as it wasn’t available! the location is great, i’m in Ipanema a 1/2 block from Farme de amoedo and r. visconde de piraja, which used to be the heart of gay nightlife but no more!🥲 My phone started going off as soon as i landed and there was one of my favorites here to greet me 15 minutes after i arrived! we went to lunch then played around for a hour and. then he left and i got ready to go to 117, it was raining very hard but there was a surprising number of guys there and fairly busy for a rainy sunday night! Monday my Lunch date came over and left at 4:00(he did this for the next 4 days!) I went to Pointe202. and by 6:30 it was fairly full. I went up with a guy i know and a new guy who said “I love being passive!” we had a good time and after socializing for awhile i left to meet my dinner/sleepover guy…who i have been rapidly falling for over the past year! con’t
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it is true i have experienced that pricing often in Rio and SP the past 6 months! The economy in Brazil is still in the toilet for everyone and gogo danvcers /strippers from the straight clubs are meeting up for $200-$250.
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You can Uber to Bangu it’s about a 45 minute + ride.
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I am heading back to Rio and São Paulo the first week in October. i was last there in May, but now i will be flying from Miami instead of OC airport so a lot shorter flight!
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Cellphone Service in Brazil
Tomcal replied to bucknaway's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
I agree with FloridaRob i have been with T-Mobile for the last 3 years and it is so easy! when the wheels of the plane hit the runways in Rio or SP my phone sends me a test saying welcome to Brazil! unless you are on the phone for hours a day while in Brazil it’s not that expensive! -
Lucky i don’t know yet I don’t get there until tomorrow but the trip across the county with the 4 dogs has gone surprisingly smooth! the dogs are doing great! and traffic has been very light the whole way! it’s a 6 day car trip averaging 450 to 550 miles a day!(2?10 niles)!
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Is Club 117 having “Straight” nights?
Tomcal replied to Tomcal's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
That is Rodrigo who is a stripper at most of the clubs gay and straight in Rio. He has also danced in Europe! Nice guy with a big dick! -
Saw this on Instagram today! I may be translating this wrong…although it is advertising for it’s closed night Monday!?
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How is Mexico controling the outbreak?
Tomcal replied to iendo's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
as someone who has a 2nd home in Mexico and goes to Brazil 4 times a year, i can honestly say there hasn’t been much change for me other then closing hours changing in Brazil’s saunas and restaurants and also Mexico(Merida specifically). my routines did not change drastically in either country with me finding the rules enacted were stricter in Brazil and the Yucatán then in the US! -
No i have until August 6th in Ca. before i move! The biggest part of the adventure is traveling across country with my 4 Frenchies!