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Congratulations on your promotion Spoon!! Yes, totally agree, last day is always different and similar to you I had given bigger tips than usual

Vinapu – You are simply great! I agree with all you said above and thanks for the kind words BTW, this means a lot. A BIG THANK YOU to all for reading this big, almost one pager blog and sharing your thoughts with me and the wider community. The more information we share, the more awareness we will spread. Alizizou, gerefan and Steveboy – I do appreciate your thoughts, and really like that you guys are sharing with us, though please don’t take me wrong, when I say, I don’t quite agree with some of your thought process. Like Vinapu said, we all have our own way of happiness, for me vacation is all about having good time, (Sex is great but not a deal breaker), with a place like Bangkok where you can, not only have a companionship but can have added benefit with that, is what makes this experience unique. I know, I might have paid more than what the market trend is or some might say, guys took advantage of me knowing I am a newbie but to be honest, this would have happened with them too, someone would have taken advantage of them when they were new and now they are merely returning the favour. Not good on my part of course as I am pouring money down the drain but it’s all part of learning, right? Had I not got these treatments, I would have never come across to this wonderful site and got to know about this enormous knowledge bank, so that’s a gain isn’t? This knowledge and my learning from self-experience is priceless. You would be glad to know, I did corrected some of my mistakes later, I would post soon covering what happened on day 4 to day 6 after knowing about this site and after reading the experience that you all shared, though again referring back to Vinapu, we all have our own way and I like to appreciate something unique or reward great experiences that I had while keeping our social responsibility in mind to ensure boys and establishments have better experience too, to keep this flow going as ultimately it benefits us more than the guys who provide the service, taking Europe as an example where we pay way more than what we pay here in Bangkok but again it’s just me as some might argue I am comparing APPLE vs ORANGE which is really big topic in itself Spoiler alert, Steveboy and Alizizou – You probably won’t be happy with what I did on my last day in Bangkok therefore please feel free to disregard my experience as it just applies to me, to my ethics and has no bearing on anyone else.

Thanks ggobkk. I couldn't agree more, I have learnt a lot from this trip and I am sure next trip would be more exciting, though I am sure everyone would agree, first time is always unique, either it’s good or bad or so so experience, whatever it is, it’s all new. This newness won’t be there next time instead there will be experience and learning. It's nature, you need to give something to get something.

Thanks Jasper, in fact, I would be very glad to tell you, all the boys all met, say about 5 in total during my trip, except one, none of guys seems to have any complaints about walking, most of the time either we were talking or taking a little stop to eat a bit or pick up something from 7 eleven, so nothing seemed too far. Although if we were brisk walking, we could have covered the distance may be in 13-15 minutes but what’s fun in that

Might I ask, how was it back then? Was it better than what it is now? Or The world is more exciting these days?

Day 3 – What a lovely day, a perfect time for all touristy things. Spent time visiting temples, tried some street food and installed LINE (wait, did I say “Installed”) Yes you heard it right, after having conversation with 3 boys during my short-lived journey so far, I finally decided to give it a go and downloaded an app on my mobile also it’s more comfortable than giving people my Facebook ID so WINWIN situation, plus I can always uninstall it if I don’t like. 5:00pm back to my hotel, my legs are sore and I could use really nice foot massage, so that’s on the menu tonight for sure. After resting a bit, it was time for a quick shower and time to get ready for another exciting night. After finishing an Italian dinner, I started my journey with HM2 this time, said “Hi” to the guy I met last night, shared a drink with him, paid him 200 BHAT for his caressing and partially & sort of divided attention (well he was going in and out to greet and bring new customers in between hence “partial”, which I don’t mind BTW as it’s his job) Time for a new bar, this time, I was gonna go to the place called “Jupiter”. Last year my friend mentioned this place to me but due to shortage of time, I couldn’t visit, so I decided to look it up over the internet and give this place a go tonight. After following google map (perfect app for a tourist like me) it didn’t take much time to reach there. It was around 10:15pm but the place was fully packed, entry 400 BHAT, there wasn’t much space available but I got the stool with a good view to the stage so was fine with it until I got my drink ☹ Why? Because there was no place to put the glass on, nothing “NADA”, I had to hold the drink all the way, it was little uncomfortable but besides this, no complaints so far (SO FAR). The show started at 10:30pm and was pretty good. Guys available on the stage were very pretty, most of them were little hunk type and 3 of them were awesome, I would offer them immediately, however after looking at each of them, I got a feeling that none of them would be bottom, so, either I have to settle down with no sex tonight or need to move on to the new place. Hmmm, tough choice, considering I had fun last two nights and since I hadn’t been able to enjoy DJS the other day, I could use this as an opportunity and try something new, who knows how things turn out, I might get lucky and guy might let me try OKAY too much thinking, I gotta hurry otherwise no boys will be left to offer tonight, so “TOP it is”. I called mamassan or captain and asked about those 3 guys I liked, as expected all three super TOP, first one, the guy I liked the most “Already taken”, Second one “Available but not okay with “Kissing” – PASS, third one “Good looking, pale skin, good shape, OKAY with KISSING though speaks very little English and he is from VIETNAM” – FINE, I said, “You are my guy for tonight my friend, let’s go”. Paid 400 BHAT for his drinks and another 400 BHAT to offer him & 200 BHAT to captain for facilitating talks and confirming about the stuff that I wanted to confirm like “DOES HE LIKE DANCING”. At 11:30pm we leave for DJS. He got dressed and came to me, without hesitation, he held my hand, little firm but very comfortable, exactly the way I like it. Opens the door like a gentleman and across the alley never let my hand go, like saying “Hold my hands and I will go anywhere with you”. At this point, I was super happy with my decision “thinking, how romantic, I like doing that and he somehow knew, I would love it, good sign for a seasoned professional in his field”. DJS – Paid 600 BHAT for two of us, man, this place is always packed with hotties, this time I had one with me too (I thought). We picked our drinks and headed towards the first floor, I like to watch the dance from upstairs and once everyone is drunk, when I say everyone, I meant “ME”, I join the party. Now we are downstairs, trying our way through in the middle where two couple or bunch of hot, topless guys are dancing. Since it’s hot and many guys are topless, showing their nice muscular, gym fit bodies, I asked my dancing partner (let’s call him MR. V), “V” why don’t you take your shirt off and there you go, no hesitations, he pulls his shirt off hand it over to me, I slowly moved my hands to his back and nicely & gently put the shirt into his shorts, leaving no chance to not enjoy touching inside his underpants. Man, this is what I came here for. After a while, we were like other hotties, enjoying music, enjoying company of each other and hands all over the place. At 2:00am finally music died down and it was time to leave the place. So far I had really nice time and I was looking forward to another eventful time in bed, I knew we aren’t going to have sex though there was this teeny tiny hope that things might turn out differently (later this did happen), so held his hand (this time me) and walked him out of the crowded place and led the way back to our hotel, we both were exhausted but he was little bit more than me (guess not used to dancing a lot ) he rested his head for quite some time over my shoulder, while we were walking silently to my hotel, I was caressing him every now and then, with smile and sweet kisses (LIKE a perfect date night). After 20 minutes long walk, we reached our hotel, I opened the door and he said “Hello, how are you?” to an empty room, I couldn’t hold my laugh and we kissed, at this point I am completely melting (I know it’s all been paid for and no real feeling but common I am enjoying my time and this moment is real even though the next won’t be). I pushed him to the bed and kissed him a bit more, after 10 minutes of having fun with each other, I said, “Do you want to take a shower?” and he said “Yes” but then he immediately said “What time it is?” and I said, 2:35am “Why, do you have to be somewhere” I was hoping he would say “NO, just curious” but instead he said, “Sorry but Yes, I have to go around 3:00am, is that fine?”. I was shocked, a little surprised and confused at the same time, I was like “He is telling me now, at 2:35am??” not even mentioned once while we were hanging out whole night? But then I thought, I was partially to blame too, I never cared to ask him if he can stay longer and if not, how long? He was simply going with the flow and wherever I wanted him to go, so how is this his fault?? Immediately I calmed myself down and didn’t show him that I was annoyed but made a little sad face so that, at least he knows how I was feeling. He said “I am sorry and folded his both hands in an apology and I was like, “no no, don’t, it’s absolutely fine, you must have something important” at this time, only 15 minutes left before his deadline and my mood spoiled. He asked me to connect on LINE so we exchanged numbers and chatted a bit. It was almost his time to go and I didn’t want to show him that I was pissed, not on him but more so on myself (I could have communicated better). I opened my wallet and thought to pay 2500 BHAT to him (a bit less than others in past) Since we didn’t do anything, just hang out and that should be fair but then my guilty conscience kicked in, “I was blaming him and therefore not paying him as equal to others”. I had known from the start that we would have no sex tonight, I know, I didn’t expect things will turn out like this but to his fairness, he did everything I asked him to, so why I was punishing him and not paying for his time that he deserves, I gave up (I hated these negative feelings) and gave him 3000 BHAT for his time and 100 BHAT for taxi. He smiled and again said sorry by holding his hands and I placed both of my hands-on top of his and hugged him and said “It is fine” and returned the smile with brief kiss, we parted and he left the room ☹ To be continued…

hahaha, I can't imagine you ever being in this situation Vinapu Specially not after reading your blogs and knowing how experienced you are now

Hahaha, I wouldn't say "molested", I would rather use "appraise" as we were appraising assets of each other, plus the key point was, he came and sat down with me, which I am very glad he did because I am little shy and new to this wonderful world of Bangkok so if someone else makes their first move, it makes it easier on me to open up and lead the way afterwards

Thanks, yeah, it was quite new thing for me, I always thought it was just a bar but it tuned out to be more than that which is really good. One more place added into my visit list for next time Re the amount, I think, it's pretty fine to offer about 3000 BHAT or little more if the guy was really good and did beyond their service, I had delightful and not so delightful experiences during this trip but no one seems to have exceeded my expectation, to whom I offer more than 3500 BHAT. Hopefully during my next trip, I can find someone better who is available during day as well at night time

Day Two – Evening: After having quick shower and a light dinner, it was time to start the night with the hope that it goes better than the last one. Since I had already been to Dream boys last night, I decided to check out other places and explore a bit. At usual 10:30pm, first stop "Fresh boys", quite a few people but not full as Dream boys. Drinks 400 BHAT, show was pretty okay with 2 guys performing on the stage, one of them was to my liking and as expected, he is damn top and doesn’t like kissing, so it was a letdown. Since there weren’t many customers, boys were hanging around the place, either chatting themselves or sitting idle enjoying the show. One of the guy who serves the drink was pretty good looking, coloured hair in Japanese style, pretty sleek and seems to enjoy the place, unfortunately he isn’t available for offering. One drag show and then they installed the poll, so I got excited to see if they gonna do the pole dancing (I like good pole dancing where guys take their cloths off one by one and know how to make good use of the pole) it turns out to be nothing like it, still enjoyable though. While I was enjoying the show one of the guy who was sitting little far from me came over and sat besides me and asked me how I was doing. Pretty looking twink with a very cute smile though not someone I would fancy. He seems to be from Laos and anyone who fancy twink, I would recommend giving him a go as he definitely knows how to please a customer. While I was there, he shared no shyness touching me or guiding my hands touching him or his assets, pretty smooth skin and very talkative, speaks fairly decent English so the conversation isn’t a problem. After the show ended, I offered the guy 200 BHAT tip for sitting and chatting with me and while I was about to leave mamassan asked me where is her tip so I gave her 100 BHAT (not sure if that happens with everyone but again 100BHAT is not a big deal) While I did had a light dinner, I was feeling little hungry and thought a quick bite or two wouldn’t hurt and since no more shows were on until mid-night anyway so I had a good 25-35 minutes at hand and therefore why not make a good use of it and feed your belly. Went to 7 eleven nearby, got myself coconut water and a snickers bar and that did the trick. Back to the same street I came from although before I cross the lane, a guy from “Hot male 2” came over and said, sit at his place and he has better prices for drinks 200 BHAT cheaper and since the guy was of my liking I said, okay. I thought, since I still have time, wouldn’t hurt having a drink or two and maybe I can ask this guy about some of the massage guys who were sitting across the street and get to know about this area more. After I settled down, I called the boy and said, would he have time to come and sit with me for a while and he was like “yes”, since I was drinking beer, it wouldn’t look good if someone else who is sitting with me has nothing to drink so I asked the guy if he would like a drink too? so he brought himself a juice of something but overall bill 400 BHAT so far, I looked at the bill and thought not bad. While the boy didn’t speak that good English like the other two boys I met earlier but still conversable. After a while I asked him about the massage place I was interested in and he said, it’s a boom boom place but the way he said it was kinda funny, so I laughed a bit, he then asked me, do I like “boom boom” and I said “Yeah I like it”, he asked me “do I like him” and I said “Yes, you are very cute unfortunately you don’t work there” and suddenly he came very close to me and started caressing me and I was like, wow, this is good, is it not the normal bar or something?? The guy was fully dressed, so I thought it was just a drinking place but since the guy made his first move, it piqued my interest hence I asked him, does he like "boom boom" and he said “yes” and then he added “You and I can go boom boom tonight”, at this point, I was like “sure” I didn’t know this place is same as others, the drinks are cheaper, guys are fully dressed but guys can still be offered huh? how wonderful!! Or wait, it's not the bar but the boys want to make some extra cash and may be they go with the customers. Let me ask “When you will be free”, he said, usually “2:00 am” but you can pay bar fine of 600 BHAT and I can leave now, things confirmed, the bar was like other places, so I did pay 600 BHAT and asked him to join me. 1:00am, back to my hotel, he drank water and then took his shirt off, while he was folding it, I was admiring his lean body as this was the first time, I had a good look at him, I moved a little and touched his torso while he was opening his jean’s button. He moved his head a little and briefly kissed me, as he guided my hands into inside his briefs, I could feel he was already tuned on, and I thought "THIS IS GOOOOOD" He came out wearing bath towel, I could still see he was still in a mood , I smiled a bit and kissed him briefly on his neck before heading out for shower, 8-10 minutes later the fun started, he asked me if I needed a BJ and I was “you got it”, oh man, he did his magic, he really knew how to make a man happy. He was going slow and fast, slow and fast again, I needed to keep up with his pace as I don’t want to come just by BJ after playing for good, it was my turn, I started with few kisses and moved to his nipples, man I need to suck these, slowly moving to his cock to his sweet little sexy ass (the rest is censored haha) At 2:30am we are finished playing and it’s time for a sexy bath. After the shower, I was hoping he could stay a night but unfortunately, he couldn’t as he had to go for some work in the morning. Since he was very nice to me and I enjoyed our time together, I did same thing like last night, paid 3000 BHAT for his time and 100 BHAT for a taxi. He didn’t seem pleased but wasn’t unhappy either, he kissed me one more time and off he goes. Now it's time for my beauty sleep To be continued…

Hahaha, yeah, it's very true, I am sure I would remember this trip as there were quite a few experiences (some good and some not so good) and I do have an update on Vietnamese boys too, which I will post soon as I red few very negative comments about it and was little wary of hiring one again but as you rightly said, unless you try you wouldn't know so I did

Yes, I was reading DivineMadam's post about the place and noticed PRIME is mentioned there, I was happy to have chosen there for the type of massage I needed, it would have been fabulous if I could have got the service from the guy I was attracted to but nonetheless enjoyable session.

Day-TWO – After spending very long night a day before and not having much of a sleep I decided to take a chilled afternoon and what else could be better than a nice massage, especially when you are in Bangkok and staying at Silom. Unlike me who usually likes to read the review first and then try the place, this trip was more about being spontaneous and see how it plays out so I decided to take a walk and see around what’s available and choose based on what catches my eye. After 30 minutes’ walk and looking around what’s open and how the ambiance is, I noticed a nice-looking guy standing outside the shop, so I thought to give it a try, when approached the guy, I was directed to a reception which was just around the corner. The shop seems to have two premises, very close to each other and the establishment is called “Prime”. Though before I could enter, the guy with walkie-talkie stopped me and said, “We are full”. First, I couldn’t understand what he was saying but when he kindly repeated for me 3 times and with some gesture, I realized he is saying they are fully booked. It was only 5:45pm in the evening, so I was like really?? Okay, what time should I come then or can I book the session now? I tried to be as slow as I could while saying these words but I was pretty sure he wouldn’t understand. To my surprise he actually did pick up few words and got the gist of what I was asking and said, “Choose a massage” and I said, good, where’s the menu and he pointed me to the gate where the printout was with all the prices on it. I had “Foot and Thai” massage in my mind before, so, when I found that on the menu, I was like this one, but when I looked at the price and hours i.e. 2 hours at 500 bhat, I thought, really? This cheap? Does this mean the service won’t be good? Is this a dodgy place or what? But then I stared at the reception where 6 people were sitting, 4 hot guys and 2 cute girls and the receptionist who looked professional enough, I thought no, this seems like a decent place and with this kind of price, no wonder they are fully booked at this hour. So, after this very thoughtful 2-3 sec deliberation with my inner self, I told the guy, No#4 on the list, he immediately called someone from inside or may be his colleagues but told me “wait a minute”, this time no confusion, I got what he said “he wants me to wait” not too long, may be a minute or so, he opened the door and said, “Please” and I went in. I looked at the receptionist and pointed out the massage that I needed and asked when, she said, “now??” And I was like yeah, now is good, (earlier I thought they were going to book me for later session since they are fully booked but apparently, they had a spot, works for me). She also pointed out the note at the bottom which reads “minimum tip 100 BHAT” and I said, ohh yes, that’s not a problem, I was going to give more anyway. I asked can I choose the therapist? but she completely ignored what I said or maybe I was fast spoken but then she asked me boy or girl, and “I was like definitely a guy” but to her, I politely said, a boy please and before I could repeat myself and ask for the guy I liked outside, the door opened and the person with walkie talkie asked me to come with him. Now inside the second premise which is very close the one I was in, I was settled on a chair, offered pair of floaters (not my size BTW) and again before I open my mouth and ask what I wanted to ask, a guy came over and greeted me with the smile and I thought, “I missed the train, better luck next time” but then again, I wasn’t looking for any tryst, so what difference does it make “who”, as long as person does his job and was good at it, it should be fine. One hour gone by with splendid foot massage, it was time for my first time “THAI massage” having heard so much about it, I was looking forward for some stretches and some tolerable pain. The guy who had given me delightful foot massage pointed me to the tiny room, I could hear other people a little bit but the place was very quiet otherwise. Mats on the floor, the room smells fine and there was a pair of clothing, so I changed into that, though I was not sure which way I should, so I sat for a minute until the guy arrived and asked me to lay flat on my back. He started with my left leg and slowly moved to the crotch on both side, slowly pressing my thighs and my “sleeping baby”, he pressed once, twice and thrice with few seconds gap and I thought, Oh man, he is gonna go all the way. This is the part I have heard about. No, I don’t need it now, I have full evening ahead of me and I don’t want any HJ or any other service, that was the worse thought considering the situation I was in, cause now, I was little aroused and it was very much visible. To my surprise, he pointed, look look and pressed a little more and I said, be careful (with the smile of course) and he laughed and asked me where I was travelling from and how long I was here. I replied with a smile again careful of my surrounding so that not disturbing others but was very pleased with his technique to calm someone down, a little conversation and things get back to normal, he asked me to change the sides so I was relieved nothing funny happened and everything went the professional way I needed it to be. After the session was done, he brought me a cup of green tea (I guess) and stayed outside, I took a sip and headed to the door, and paid the guy 300 BHAT, he seems pleased with the tip. I was really happy with having spent 800 BHAT, 2 hours delightful massage in a professional environment. Time for a quick dinner and then the night starts. To be continued…

Thanks Vinapu and yes, you are absolutely right, and to the fact I couldn't agree more, It did happen and I will write the whole story about it cause that led me to search about was I alone or these things happen and l came across to this forum

27th December-17: First day in Bangkok, after resting whole day and dealing with my jetlag, started my night at Patpong night market, ate some street food and tried coconut water before starting a crazy but fun filled night or so that I thought would be. First destination, the last place I remembered from my previous trip, so went straight to Dream boys, paid 550 bhat for an entry, the show started at 10:30pm and the place was almost full, though mamassan found me a nice spot hence I was able to enjoy the show, so far so good. On the stage, many many boys, though majority of them were not to my liking except very few who I would like to offer, so I called mamassan and asked who can do bottom and she pointed me to the guys who would and who wouldn’t. After getting #no’s from mamassan, I started looking into the guys and to my disappointment none of them were who I would like to offer, the one who I liked were either with some customer already or were picked up very quickly before even I make up my mind. Coincidentally, one guy who was sitting with Chinese couple, got free and came on stage with his number on and that was my chance, I kinda jump straightaway before anyone else does and called mamasssan to call the guy for me. Now was the time to find the connection, offered the guy a drink, paid 450 bhat and chatted a bit, after knowing he had been to Australia before and speaks decent English, I was like fine, no additional information required (first mistake). After the show ended, we headed out and since my spirit was high (after picking the guy on my first night), I needed some place to dance, so we headed out for DJ station. Entry 600 bhat with 4 drinks (300 for each). The show was ending so we went straight to the first floor to get our drinks and enjoy the time from upstairs and later go to downstairs once music has evolved and shirts are off, only to find out the guy doesn’t like dancing and particularly at DJ station (bummer ☹). After staying for a while at DJ, I realised there was no point as the guy didn’t like it, so no point staying longer, so we headed out to our Hotel at Silom. After having nice shower and quite a good fun at bed (boy was pretty good at his job) we called it a night at 3:00am. Not knowing what’s the decent amount, I paid 3000 bhat plus 100bhat for taxi to see what the guy says though to my surprise he accepted the amount happily and left the hotel to start his early morning class that he needed to attend. So far, one set back, no dancing on my first night but at least the rest of the night was fun so I was satisfied with overall event and went to bed afterwards. To be continued…

Before I start, first I would like to thank you all for sharing your experience and views on this forum, this seems to be the blog everyone should read before coming to Thailand no matter how experience they are. I now feel so stupid not having done so before my travel but mistake corrected and now I do and therefore thought to share mine too. Second, a very special thanks to DivineMadam and Vinapu, you guys seem to have lot and lot experience and thanks to all your posting and recommendations, not only I was able to correct my mistakes (details will follow later) but was able to enjoy the time after having, which I call not a healthy start. Okay, now little background about my trip, last year I traveled to BKK with my friend from Singapore who kinda introduced me to Soi 4 and after bar hopping and having splendid time at DJ Station & GOD, I gathered some courage to offer one boy on my second night at Dream Boys, it was so so experience but not bad for a one-night fun. This all led me to plan my next trip and knowing my friends can’t spend so many days with me here in BKK we planned our itinerary as below. Trip Date: 27th till 29th (3 nights of my own) 30th till 1st (me and my friend) 2nd till 4th (3 more nights of my own) Continue...