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Well, it can happen anywhere if you do not do your screening sufficiently or are just unlucky. I suppose security staff may prevent some visitors from turning into violent demanding persons etc but as the OP commented dealing w/ security staff can be a hassle and it gives you less of a slut feeling. Mind you this is not Medellin and the majority of guys will visit you with genuine intentions/to make money by proving sex. I should also add that mostly I’m w/ guys I have meet before so I’m not that concerned about safety, security etc.

You have so many questions…😁 To be specific I think the reference is to Black and White sex club (really close to Phisicus sauna) which gets going in the evening /at night during the weekends (until 2 AM). Different themes throughout the week. Entrence fee is 20 mil (at least on Saturdays). Lots of young local guys having sex, also in groups, in dark room or whereever there is space, often at full display. Gay or not doesn’t matter; guys come here to have sex and a good time. Some guys will show interest in mature gringos but certainly not all; again your age, body and appearance in general play a significant role here. A very sociable place also when guys take a break/a smoke in the yard, small talk etc I’m told that when the club closes at 2AM Saturdays some of the guys will continue to nearby Phisicus sauna.

Cali: Whilst I’m able to endorse the Airbnb listings/the building recommended by xpaulo above (I have stayed there 2 years ago, and had no issues taking visitors to my room; there is no security /doorman but the caretaker on site, Mr Diego is really nice/friendly) the nearby ERE Luxury suites are better value; more upscale and really nicely equipped rooms and has slightly lower rates if you book directly w/ the property/on their website rather than Airbnb. Very good communication in English through WhatsApp. No security staff on site and visitors are no issue. Stayed there 3 times already and is my place to go to in Cali. In general, in cities like Barranquilla, Pereira, Manizales, Armenia, Cali, etc there is no issue taking guys to your room even in buildings with reception/security staff (no one will ask/bat an eyelid). In smaller /no-high end hotels you will often be charged a small fee for a visitor so inquire about that if important to you. In my experience it is only in Medellin, Bogota (and Cartagena?) the no-visitor policy is often applicable and you need to inquire about this ahead of booking.

It is not a Brazilian sauna if that is what you ask. As already stated you can have a massage with paying additional for full sex - or you can have sex with other guests. Plenty of young local guys frequent the saunas in Colombia. Some will be interested in playing/having sex with mature foreigners; others will not. Don’t expect a line of young local men ready to have sex w/ you. This is not the way saunas work. Being able to speak Spanish will improve your chances. In particular the events hosted by saunas like Salamandra on mostly Saturday nights, will draw many guests /young guys coming to sauna at late evening.

Confirmed! As for your strategy to use Grindr extensively, my experience is that you end up using excessive time chatting with guys without getting the results you like. I don’t know your expectations from Grindr in Colombia but if you think it will be your access to endless free sex (more or less how it works in Europe) you will find out that it works differently. You will get lot of attention/msg in Grindr but it will be from guys looking for money for sex (easy to spot from their profiles or just ask; guys are not offended by that in Colombia) or guys you have zero interest in hooking up with due to age, body, appearance etc. I know it is easy to say for someone who has visited Colombia several times, but I hardly never use Grindr here for the above reasons but rely on my contacts from earlier visits to satisfy my needs. I simply don’t have the time or patience to use Grindr in Colombia and I can’t afford to spend time on meeting guys which may turn out not to be the match that I’m looking for. That being said I have positive experience w/ meeting rent boys from Grindr who are very clear what they offer and that payment is required. Any blank/anonymous profile without info on age, height, weight etc and being reluctant to send pics except of their hard dick, is almost guaranteed to go wrong/be a guy that you would not meet had you know from outset.

You can easily spend 1 week in Cali. Plenty of things to do in add. to the 3 saunas I know of, Black and White sex club and the abundance of local chicos eager to provide services for small pay. 2 weeks is perhaps overdoing it, but if the OP has the time, it is one of the places in Colombia I would be happy to spend more time. Accommodation and plenty other things are cheaper in Cali than in Medellin, Bogota, Barranquilla etc and the going rate for guys there is low. You can get easily find great local guys who will do everything (as activo, pasivo needs to agreed in advance) for 50-70 mil. Plenty of slim big dick guys advertising in Grindr. Muscle /gym fit models are rare in Grindr and their rates are higher.

My two regular moreno guys keep me returning to Pereira. In addition to Salamandra sauna there are 3-4 others gay saunas in Pereira, including the LUX Men’s club, which is praised by the locals. There is also a new sex club, Morbo (similar to Black and White in Cali (but not as big) Try to search in IG or X. These places get going during the weekend.

Just to reconfirm that the going rate in Cali, Pereira, Manizales etc (i.e. outside major tourist hotspots like Medellin, Cartagena or Bogota) is 70-100 mil pesos, in particular if Venezuelan (100 mil is even on the high end). Many non-professionel/normal guys in Grindr will do full sex for 50-60 mil. Mileroticos guys slightly higher. Chaturbate models I have no idea; not my reference point. Often a bit of negotiation is needed. On the other hand, as a mature and probably slightly overweight foreigner, be prepared always to pay for sex; young, fit, big-dick guys don’t fuck you for free in Colombia. And you will never get quoted in USD or Euro (if a guy starts doing that, move on), i.e. if a guy quotes you “70” it means 70 mil/70,000 pesos - not USD or Euro!

200 mil is 200,000 pesos. Often people will just say/write 200 and it goes without saying that it is 200 mil/ 200,000. Mil is thousand in Spanish.

Just ask the guy to take you to a love motel. 20-30 mil for 2 hours.

150-200 mil for professionals/models. Venezuelans a bit cheaper. You should negotiate.

One reason might be language barriers. It is not pleasant to have travel companion if you are more or less unable to communicate. Inviting a Colombian guy to travel will you, will work out far better if you know basic Spanish (most likely he will have limited or no English language skills).

You would have better chance winning the lottery than randomly finding guys fucking in the metro

Except for the last guy I wouldn't consider them to have “big belly”. If the last guy is “big dick” and great top, I wouldn’t mind paying for him. The first 3 guys look perfect to me. Just my type.

Probably only 1 type standard condoms available. I haven’t seen guys asking for special sized condoms. If you require that I suggest you bring yourself to Thermas.

Indeed, if a guy offers you sex for 100 or 150 it is 100/150 mil pesos, i.e 100,000/ 150,000 COP.

They guys will get condom and lube from the bar in the basement when they agree to go with you to a cabin or room. I don’t recall if you get charged for this when you leave Thermas; presumably you do but it’s only a few Euros.

This is for a quick session at Thermas, 20-30 min max. You suck + he will fuck you until you cum (most boys are top) or you can fuck him if he is vers. Usually no kissing or cuddling afterwards and the guy doesn’t cum (that would be extra). The same guy would usually be charging 100 E or slightly more outside Thermas (in the apps, Grindr and Hunqz) for an hour, which is usually becomes 30-45 min (often the guy doesn’t cum; if you want that you need to agree on this in advance and pay more). You may from time to time encounter more ordinary escorts in Barcelona (often in Grindr) who are willing to meet for less than 100 E for a quick session, particularly guys from South America or if they know you from before (they know you don’t make troubles and cum quickly, i.e easy money). Outside Barcelona the rates are lower; often 50-70 E; again predominantly offered by non-Spanish guys. Attractive escorts (young, tall, lean, fitness body or muscle guys) or guys w/ big dicks charge more.

Yes. You might be able to find a guest who wants to play w/ you if you are young and have nice body (but then you most probably wouldn’t come to Thermas). Guests come to Thermas to hook-up w/ models/rent boys; not to have sex w/ other guests. If you want that you go to Casanova Sauna (regular sex club/sauna in Eixample). 50 E

Most likely maump meant post in forums rather than private messages

Thanks for sharing. I passed that club last year and inquired at the reception without realising that it was sex club (thought it was another sauna; I was on my way to nearby Phisicus). I was told that entry is 20 mil. As with saunas in Cali I assume that late afternoons is the time to go there /most busy? I will have a look when I return to Cali in July.

If you want Venezuelan guys (for pay), why don’t you just go to Colombia ?

Hotels: Mercure BH Zona Financiera and Holiday Inn Exp. & Suites Bogota. Airbnb: just message the host before you and ask if visitors are allowed. Most will reply that it is no issue even with doormen/security at the front desk/entrance. Local guys have no issue showing ID to security staff to visit you; it is entirely normal.

I have much better experiences with saunas in Pereira and Cali than in Medellin (I’m in my late 40’s). In fact, I plan to ditch Medellin entirely during my next stay and focus on secondary cities like Manizales, Pereira, Cali, Palmira, Popayan, Pasto etc

As long as you pay at check-in you will be fine/it will be removed. Ignore what you see online.