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This BBC link allows you to listen (on demand) to the pronunciation of some common Thai words and phrases: http://www.bbc.co.uk/languages/other/thai/guide/phrases.shtml

Nothing in terms of public sex exceeds what I experienced at The Adonis, a former legit first-run movie theater (Tivoli) given over to gay films from 1975 to 1988. The interior was huge with at least one balcony. On weekends, the crowd swelled by hundreds as the "bridge and tunnel" crowd from new Jersey poured into midtown. It became so infamous that a porn flick (A Night at the Adonis) was filmed there. Here's a great excerpt from a review of the place (see link): In the late 70’s the Adonis was a sexual amusement part. While the images of Jack Wrangler and Movies by Joe Gage flickered on the screen men in the aisles, the seats, the balcony and anywhere they could would act out their own sexual fantasies. Sundays were so crowded that it was hard to find a seat in Adonis but that was all that was hard to find. Men would literally avoid the seats under the balcony’s edge at busy times for fear of being showered with semen from above. http://www.back2stonewall.com/2013/02/adonis-movie-porn-theater-nyc.html

Excerpts from Khaosod English BANGKOK — While the country is not lacking for teen melodramas, less commonly aired issues of youth sexuality and identity are coming to the screen Thursday in a fusion of documentary and dramatization. Stories of Bangkok youth and their search for identity and place in the gender spectrum are brought into focus by “#BKKY,” which follows Jojo, a 17-year-old high school senior, as she grows close to a female friend. Jojo becomes uncertain about her sexual identity when she meets skateboarders Jeff and Jasper. Prior to filming and writing the screenplay, Nontawat interviewed 100 adolescent boys and girls in Bangkok – high school juniors and seniors between 17 and 19 – asking them mostly about love, family and their dreams. “It’s an important transitional period. I remember it was very fun at the time and things changed so fast,” the 34-year-old filmmaker said. “Now I want to know, how are the teenagers doing these days? What do they think? What are the issues?” For the docudrama, he cast four of his teen interview subjects in roles. And many elements remain true. Jeff (Jeff Watson Kiatmontri) and Jasper (Jasper Dohrs), as in the film, grew up abroad and are skaters. In real life, Jojo (played by Ploiyukhon Rojanakatanyoo) and Q (Anongnart Yusananda), used to date girls. Asked if he set out to make an LGBT film in the first place, Nontawat said that wasn’t his original intention. “It’s coincidental that most of the interviewed teens – 60 of 100 – openly talk about their sexual orientation and diverse gender identity. Some said they liked both boys and girls,” Nontawat said. “I also noticed that many kids from all-boys and all-girls schools are more open-minded than those in co-ed schools." “I hope that many parents will watch this and understand their kids in this modern society better, so they can live together in harmony,” Nontawat said. The film premiered in October at the Busan Film Festival and has shown at LGBT film festivals in many cities including Quezon, Glasgow and Boston. It won the Jury Prize at the Hamburg International Queer Film Festival. “#BKKY” opens Thursday in Bangkok. Continues with film clip http://www.khaosodenglish.com/life/entertainment/2017/07/30/taboo-breaking-director-turns-lens-teen-sexual-identity-bkky/

Dusit Thani is in its final year of operation. It closes at end of June and will be demolished (along with other Dusit properties on lot) and replaced by high-rise complex of hotel, apartments, offices and shopping mall. Agoda is offering rate of about 4k bht in early December.

Don't sell yourself short, Stevie. You were robbed of it all right. But at least it was a victimless crime. You're aware, of course, that it's common practice in many Asian cultures to display wealth in this manner, not just the Chinese guy who you castigate here. Although I don't recommend that farangs wear gold on vacation, I respect the right of anyone to wear whatever they wish. You say you have "little respect for guys who wear jewelry." Reminds me of your oft-stated position on guys with belly fat and fail to keep their bodies slim and smart like you do. Doesn't quite square with the "live and let live" motto you're so fond of saying now does it?

Stevie, I beginning to appreciate the wisdom of your logic: blame the victim! So if someone picks your pocket, steals from your room or assaults you, you're fine with that. And I'm sure, as you say, that the thief used the income to feed some poor people. He certainly didn't waste it on drugs. "We"? Can't speak for you, Stevie, but suggesting that criminals be held accountable for their actions doesn't quite equate with advocating Sharia law. I think you fall into that category of liberal who hasn't yet been mugged.

Although there are many unknowns at this point, it's interesting to look back on the Spring of 2015 when he was announcing the pending demise of the column. Then came the news of the investor who reportedly rescued it all. But the details remain murky and will likely remain so as Alexx suggests. I believe that this column tells us a lot about his motivations for wanting to leave the LOS. He's certainly disillusioned with the city that once enchanted him but likewise seems a bit reluctant to disengage from the column. It's been around since 1998 so it's easy to understand the attachment. https://www.stickmanbangkok.com/weekly-column/2015/05/the-last-month-explained/

For someone who knows that "Thai ladyboys have been known to steal from tourists for ages," you seem remarkably ignorant of criminal procedure. The police "inspected around crime scene, questioned eyewitnesses and collected CCTV footage." They present the evidence to a magistrate, obtain an arrest warrant and execute it in Udon Thani. You ask if the necklace was recovered as if the whole case would fall apart if it wasn't. You read the article and know that the disposition of the stolen item is not mentioned. However, robbers rarely hold onto commodity items that they steal. Their objective is to convert it into cash as rapidly as possible (i.e., "fencing") which achieves two of the thief's three objectives: income and disposal of evidence. (The thief has already accomplished the first one that must always precede the others: acquisition). Successful prosecutions are commonly brought in these types of cases on the basis of preponderance of evidence such as CCTV, interviews, and admission of guilt. What puzzles me is what would prompt you to be laughing out loud at the commission of a crime. Doesn't Pattaya have enough crime already to keep you entertained?

You asked and answered your own question. In Pattaya, it obviously is a business.

From Pattayaone A Lady boy has been arrested over a robbery which took place in Pattaya on July 25th. He previously managed to get away with a gold necklace worth roughly 100,000. Pol Maj Col Piyapong Ensarn, inspector of Pattaya tourist police, was accompanied with police officers to track and hunt Mr Itthipol Srichumpon aged 23 after he had robbed a foreigner. The incident took place in the night of July 25th around the South Pattaya area. The officers were told by Mr Li Zhengyu aged 37 from China who revealed that he was smoking in front of a hotel when a ladyboy came closer and tried to charm him before she suddenly snatched his white gold necklace estimated to be worth around 100000 baht and ran away. The officers inspected around crime scene, questioned eyewitnesses and collected CCTV footage, but the victim wasn’t holding his breath and was realistic that the chances of catching the thief were slim. However, using the evidence collected, the officers managed to track the culprit down and brought arrest warrant to arrest him at his home in Udon Thani.

From Bangkok Post Travellers have been told to allow for at least three hours if they're going from downtown Bangkok to Don Mueang airport by road as roadworks in the area get under way. The Highways Department plans to rebuild a ramp connecting the airport with the adjacent Vibhavadi Rangsit Road. The work is part of a project to expand the outbound Vibhavadi Rangsit Road opposite the outbound Vibhavadi Rangsit Road opposite the airport. The plan is to demolish the ramp and rebuild it so the entrance to the ramp will be located closer to the nearby rail track and away from the point of traffic congestion. Once the ramp entrance has been moved, there will be space to construct a third lane on the road which will improve traffic flow. During the closure, motorists heading to the airport from downtown Bangkok should take the U-turn near the air force base on the road and enter the airport through either entrances 3 or 4. http://www.bangkokpost.com/news/general/1296891/don-mueang-off-ramp-closed-for-repairs

I don't disagree (that's what prompted me to put a question mark on it). And his wording left room for negotiation. He's talked in the past of wrapping it up before the current investor emerged. Although he works the other side of the tracks, I almost always find something of interest in his columns. He's introduced some interesting characters along the way and takes the reader behind the scenes. Stick somewhat reluctantly covered the ladyboy bar scene (they were, after all, advertising on the site). He seemed surprised that so many otherwise straights indulged.

Stickman is telling readers in this week's column that his next will probably be his last. Stick moved out of Bangkok several years ago and has been writing from his native New Zealand with occasional return visits. He reports that readership has been holding fine. It appears, however, that the problem may be one of ad revenue. The majority owner informed him that he expected to have problems coming with future pay. Stick has frequently described the underbelly of the entertainment industry, leaving some of the powers that be less than happy. Recent columns focused on what Stick and contributors saw as increasing disillusionment of the lady bar business in Nana, Cowboy and Patpong.

From Channel News Asia KOH KONG, Cambodia: From a small, unassuming factory in the Cambodian outpost town of Koh Kong, a couple of rebel Thai brewers are leading a craft beer revolution. Nestled strategically close to the Thailand border, Stone Head is a company in a unique form of exile with beer being brewed by mavericks. With small-scale beer production prohibited in their home country, this is ostensibly a beer start-up taken across international borders for the purpose of survival. On site, there is a distinct earthy aroma of boiling malt and hops in the air and a dozen or so polished silver fermenting tanks are slowly transforming raw ingredients into a variety of first-class craft creations. The modest set-up looks similar to other boutique breweries growing in abundance around the world, but here each drop is being forged out of defiance. On the final product, the words “First Thai legal craft beer” are emblazoned. It is clear that these brewers are the obstinate type. “The name Stone Head, it means we are stubborn,” explains one of the group’s founders, Dusadee Thummarat. The slogans on his t-shirt further explain the attitudes of the Stone Head crew. “They tried to bury us – They didn’t know we were seed,” reads his shirtfront. “Taste of Freedom – Served with Pride,” adorns the back. (continues with video) http://www.channelnewsasia.com/news/asiapacific/cross-border-beer-thailand-s-craft-beer-dream-brewed-in-cambodia-9068794

OKLAHOMA CITY - The Oklahoma State Bureau of Investigations seeks a missing backpack in the suspicious death of a Thailand man. A passerby discovered Thanakrit Thuetong’s body on Sunday, July 23, along Highway 56 in Seminole County. Investigators say the 41-year-old stopped at a convenient store right off I-40 and Highway 56 on Friday. “He was actually an educated man from Thailand,” said Jessica Brown with the OSBI. “We know he owned his vehicle that was found there at the convenient store. He was driving from Florida.” Surveillance video captures Thuetong inside the store wearing a backpack. The video then shows him walking outside the store, past his parked black Pontiac and along the highway, still wearing the backpack. Two days later, he was found dead about a half mile from the store and his backpack was gone. http://www.news9.com/story/35998723/osbi-investigates-thailand-man-found-dead-in-seminole-county

It's possible to find fares of less than $620 RT from Chicago as far out as December. ANA has a flight with a stop in Narita and a duration of about 24 hr. If your flying out of JFK, You can find a Cathay Pacific flight for under $600 (layover in Hong Kong) with a duration of about 21 hr. It's a great opportunity if you can plan ahead.

Agree that there's always another key. I think best option is z909's recommendation to take valuables into the shower if it's not in your room. Just stuff a 7-11 bag into your back pocket and shove your pants into it. While on the general topic, it's worth bearing in mind that there's also always by-pass combinations for room safes. One of the things I like about Tarntawan is the safe deposit boxes in lobby. Most major hotels usually have them, also. When checking out of hotel, I always clear combo and enter a few random combos because some safes store the most recent one. Especially because I tend to use the same combo. Banana Club all-in minimum tip 1k bht for an hour and 1.4k for 90 min. if I recall correctly.

Good to hear that United is moving 787 onto its Tokyo route. The 787 and the A350 are the only aircraft in commercial service using carbon-fiber construction, This permits them to be pressurized to 5,000 ft. as opposed to the standard of 8,000 ft. on aircraft of aluminum construction. On my last two flights I flew the A350 and I found it to be a more comfortable experience. There was less dehydration and dryness of eyes. Overall, I arrived at destination feeling less fatigued. Having said that, agree that it's still a long haul.

The current issue of Aviation Week magazine reports that the three US international carriers (America, Delta, United) are either cutting back, delaying delivery or both of orders for new, wide-body aircraft. They're concentrating on their hugely profitable domestic routes and are comfortable to let their aging wide-bodies to fall into the 15-20 year-old range. Delta has cancelled all orders for Boeing 787's that had originally been placed by Northwest before the merger. None of the US legacy airlines have direct service to Thailand, although you can still ticket with them for a code-share flight. But even that is going to be more difficult as they curtail code sharing with the three major Middle East carriers over claims of fair subsidies. Oddly, in the past few months Emirates, Etihad and Qatar have substantially raised business class fares where the competition had been fiercest. Of the airlines offering one-stop service between major US airports and BKK, the Middle East trio, All Nippon and Japan airlines are flying fairly new equipment. If you're flying from the West Coast, expect more options. The magazine also reports that Airbus is reducing production of the A380 jumbo to a dozen next year as airlines are opting for the twin-engine Airbus' A350 and A330neo and Boeing's 787 and new 777X equipment. This Bloomberg News segment says China is likely to rival Hong Kong and Singapore for future international transit passengers. https://www.bloomberg.com/news/articles/2017-07-26/singapore-and-hong-kong-s-airport-dominance-is-under-threat

One advantage of Banana Club is that you are provided with small locker with key in wet area. In places like Arena and My Hero that have showers in the message room, you have an added sense of security. In these places I choose to roll up my trousers (all with zipper pockets) rather than hanging them on a hook or hanger. Likewise, I carry less than 1,000 baht beyond what I know I'll need.

Point well taken. I've only had a few guys who requested more than agreed on when it was time for them to leave. In both cases, I declined, reassured by the fact that I was staying in a hotel that holds guests' ID's until they check with me. In most situations, however, I believe the advice to be clear in advance is sufficient to prevent unpleasant outcomes. And if you're taking someone from a bar or message shop with a good reputation on the boards, I believe that you're even less likely to encounter problems. That is one of the great advantages the boards--and this one in particular--offers readers. I reiterate what I've said in other threads as advice of newbies who have little or no experience with massage shops. I strongly recommend that they try what I feel are the most reliable places: Arena and Banana Club. Whoever you choose should be showering before and after with you. Tip expectations are known. And many reviews appear here and on Travelgayasia website. Then when you experiment with other places, you'll have a good standard for comparison. I believe that newbies are better off starting with known venues before venturing onto the apps in search of partners.

Here's just a sampling of ladyboy incidents, none of which involved insurance fraud. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SULXS_C4Cd0 Pattaya police officers made the statement about arrest Mr Chayarat Muttiko aged 26 and Mr Itthipol Sichumpol aged 22, they are ladyboys, on charge of robbery. Pol Lt Col Chitdecha revealed that he was notified from a Chinese tourist on July 25 that these ladyboys robbed his gold necklace with amulet. They tried to befriend and offer him prostitute before they snatched and went away quickly. http://pattayadailynews.com/pattaya-ladyboys-busted-for-theft/ Two motorbike taxis won kudos from police after they apprehended two transvestites accused of pickpocketing a Middle Eastern tourist. http://www.pattayamail.com/news/motorcycle-taxi-drivers-chase-down-accused-ladyboy-thieves-136965 Thai police are engaged in a worsening street battle against ladyboys, who have become increasingly aggressive as they beat and rob tourists in popular ‘girlie’ resort towns.In the latest brutal attack, German tourist Lutz Mohler was smashed in the face with a rock after being approached by two ladyboys in the Pattaya area, south of Bangkok, resulting in him losing consciousness and being robbed of all his money. http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-3558652/Thai-police-warn-gangs-ladyboys-targeting-tourists-wave-muggings-German-man-attacked-robbed.html A Facebook page WE LOVE PATTYA has posted a video clip that 2 foreign tourists had been surrounded by a group of Thai ladyboys before the foreigners were attacked. http://pattayadailynews.com/foreigners-attacked-by-ladyboy-gang-on-pattaya-beach/ Police are investigating whether a British man jumped or was pushed to his death by a group of transvestites out the fourth-floor window of a central Pattaya apartment house. http://www.pattayamail.com/news/police-question-british-mans-fatal-tumble-from-pattaya-apartment-54115 Phuket ladyboys nabbed after snatching from Swedish tourists http://phuketwan.com/tourism/phuket-ladyboys-nabbed-patong-snatching-swedish-tourists-18920/ Two lady boys who snatched a tourist’s wallet were subdued by motorbike taxi drivers at the scene. http://pattayatoday.net/news/news-from-around-pattaya/ladyboys-busted/ Thai police are again alerting foreign tourists to the dangers posed by some ladyboys robbing unwary visitors. http://pattayatoday.net/news/latest-edition/police-warn-tourists-beware-ladyboys/ Two transvestites have been arrested for allegedly pickpocketing an Australian tourist on Walking Street. http://www.pattayamail.com/news/2-ladyboys-nabbed-pickpocketing-aussie-178533

While scanning through the Bangkok Coconuts website, came across a reference to a list titled "Best LGBT Cities 2017." It was generated by a Berlin-based company, Netpick, that's in the business of connecting property owners and tenants. What captured my attention was that it ranked Bangkok in 61st place worldwide, barely edging out Rotterdam and Cardiff. What were some of the cities that ranked higher? How about Tel Aviv, Brighton, Austin, Edinburgh, Reykjavik and Calgary. It's a classic example of what happens when arbitrary values are assigned to selective criteria and Excel spews out the results. You be the judge. Here's the complete list: https://www.nestpick.com/best-lgbt-cities/

1. Don't wear anything gold. 2. Be wary of ladyboys, particularly in Pattaya and especially when they are in groups of two or more. The following article describes theft from a foreigner by ladyboys. This is a commonplace event in Pattaya and some involve violence. From Pattaya One A Chinese tourist claims his 150,000 baht platinum necklace has gone missing after he hugged two ladyboys in Pattaya. Li Shengyu, 36, a bank manager, told police how he was walking on Soi 2 Pattaya during the early hours of Wednesday morning when him and his friends were approached by the ladyboys. The ladyboys approached the three Chinese men by telling them that one of them had dropped something. When they stopped to check the ladyboys started touching and hugging the men, Mr Li said. When the men returned to their hotel, Mr Li said he realised his expensive platinum necklace was missing and that he believes the ladyboys had stolen it from him. Police said they will check nearby CCTV footage. http://pattayaone.news/en/chinese-tourist-hugs-ladyboys/

I have the same issues at massage places, particularly where I have picked same guy more than one time. Vinapu provides solid advice but, as he says, you can't predict how individual boys will react. I think you're more likely to run into this in the smaller places. I was anticipating the dilemma as I approached one of my favorite haunts last month but I lucked out: my regular had gone home for a week. In the end, it's always best to be as nice as possible about it while bearing in mind that we're the customer.