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50s and 60s still escorting and hustling...Now that is extremely sad... You are right that everyone has his own preference but I believe that all things have a shelf life... The comment was not meant to get you to the point of cursing guy...it was an opinion....It is not for everybody There will always be somebody older so I can imagine somebody in his 50s or 60s having some clientale into that....Just as the twinks and musles and body builders and TS have people into them

There are 3 US cities out of 50....So many???

I had such a great trip in March, Im heading back to Bangkok but definitely need some suggestions on what to do and where to go... Here is what I have on the list of MUST DO so far... Khoasan Rd on Friday and Saturday night...maybe Sunday night... I will definitely go to Tawan Saturday since I missed it last trip 6-7 massages...Maybe more... This time I want to go to a few malls...which ones do you recommend and why? I would love to go to an actual restaurant in BKK, I did go to a few while on a food tour on my last trip but Im open to suggestions... Is Asiatique on the Riverfront worth a trip? I plan to see a Calyso ladyboy show this trip.. Anywhere to see and ride an elephant in Bangkok? Are the water markers worth a trip? I did visit the leaning Buddha and the Grand Palace already. I went to a really nice sauna but definitely stood out and only found one hot type to shag with while I was there... Im open to all suggestions...Ill definitely take them and do some research Thanks guys...

None of these places surprise me....thanks for sharing....

I am sure that definitely works...that would work with many guys in the states, said in English...Not all but many....

We all know you have traveled to both countries numerous times...hilarious you added that last "30 trips to both countries and that has never changed"SMILE The older and wiser I become, the more I realize that other people...places or things don't really change...yes things get older and people grow older but the main thing that changes is how I view things and places and people that I am in consistent contact with... Congrats on your other 30 trips...I am looking forward to retirement in the future so that I can travel even more than now....

Thanks for sharing...Both of the guys are attractive but definitely look like they have (or should have) been out of the sauna seen for some time... Im taking this recent pic being sent to you meaning they are friends or still keep in touch? The one on the left is hot but clearly in his 40s...the one on the right early 30s? '

I found that MANY Thais speak some English....especially those that work in the service industries... More Thais than Brazilians speak English....even bad English from my experiences...

Technology has also made communication easier so that you can at least attempt to use some of the local language to communicate with guys you are interested in... Great feedback so far...

I, like most of the people in the forum, travel often to Brazil and other parts of Latin America and the rest of the world... I learned some Portuguese and Spanish for myself...for me it is good to at least understand what is going on around me and to be able to ask basic questions... Its also important for me to be able to read signs and understand as much as possible... I have met people who speak English everywhere that I have traveled but find that I really get to experience the culture and the people through people who sometimes don't speak English... How important is it for you to learn the local language to wherever you are visiting?

I have had a few guys from the saunas spend the night but actually prefer the locals who dont work in the saunas... If you speak some Portuguese then you can do more than just have sex...you may be able to actually talk and vibe... Dinner and drinks....sometimes clubs or bars happen... I guess it depends on who you are and how comfortable they are hanging out with you...

Most of the hotels will allow guest and just charge you more for them unless the guest "looks" like he is staying at the hotel...ie, not local Brazilian or a wealthy Brazilian... Why not check the website for the hotel?

Are you stating he quoted you 120R for overnight? That would not make sense for going outside of the sauna and spending time with you unless it was extremely slow or the guy was extremely hard up for money...for an overnight

want to encourage everyone to post their experiences but Bobbalino with all due respect, your reads are tedious at best! I have yet to read a entire post of yours..i tend to skip over the parts where you try to impart your knowledge in less then common English wording! This is not a forum for a course in getting a graduate degree in English Lit! (I do have a grad degree so I kind of know what I am talking about). Write as if you are talking to a friend in your living room not as if you are lecturing! thanks WELL SAID TOMCAL.....

Im comfortable on buses and the trains and only take uber to the airport or if there is somewhere I dont know how to get to via the train... Buses in Rio are amazing and can get you most everywhere...

Something doesn't add up... The guys never seem aggressive and most of the time are not engaging customers in public...even for money.... The most that most would get, outside of maybe you, is a head nod or a hello....

I thought you stopped posting all together...based on the feedback you got from your LONGGGG complicated stories...

This sounds made up....But if it did indeed happen, you were an easy mark and should be more careful....Never give guys money outside of saunas to even start the pressure of wanting more money In all my years of traveling to Rio....I have never had any issues like this..not saying it couldn't happen but given the way you told the story, it sounds made up... The amount of money that you were being hassled for was very small... If this did happen, its a good thing that you got out of there without any serious harm...

Ill be back in Bangkok for July 4th weekend...the long weekend and again in November with flights already confirmed... Lets meet then for a drink somewhere...

Trip and hotel confirmed for June.... Alerted all of my Brazilian boyfriends... Open to suggestions or info on things that may have changed since February... Always open to cool suggestions....

Loveddddd BKK... Stayed in Silom...really liked the apartment type hotel... Surprised at how inexpensive BKK really is...prices for food...drinks...massages...just abt everything was incredible... Went to sauna in Silom...Huge...very modern...in a gate alley type neighborhood...didnt find too much of my type but got one good nut from a hot athletic Thai....he is about 23 yrs old... Went on a foos tour as well as Grand Palace and leaning Buddha... Fell in love with Khaoson Rd until I went to Chatuchak market...two visits in two days... Met one guy from app...he was visiting as well... got approached on the treat near Patpong market but a Thai guy who told me he would suck me...I would fuck him...He would be a good boy...turned him down... I missed the clubs...really wanted to go to Tawan but went too late...forgot abt DJ Station...will def try to go next visit 7 massages in 4 days...No happy endings... I get why so many people visit and love BKK Absolutely love the country and city...planning to go back a few more times this year

Yes...details please...Sounds too good to be true...

Again...what are they getting out of it? If they aren't getting money...surely they are getting something... Even in typical May/December relationships there is a reciprocation... College tuition...a father figure...some type of security...maybe a fetish...hell it could just be the idea of being in the company of an older gentleman...I myself liked "older" men in my youth for various reasons but I have a motive... Everybody has a motive...just as you have your reasons for liking young guys I asked the question to be funny but of course there is some truth in the question and all responses....

What do these guys get out of the deal?

I'm planning to stay in the Ipanema area, in an airbnb, I was wondering if anyone has any general advice about airbnb in Rio or has a particular recommendation? It's quite possible I might invite someone back so a discreet set up would be great. As a first timer and not knowing the language, I dont recommend this....you can do everything you need to do in the saunas.... My type is cute twink bottoms, is Mondo(something) the best place to meet guys like this? Mondo or apps or on the streets....Cute twinks are not the standard in the sauna scene in Brazil...But you would probably LOVE Thailand....Brasileiros tend to be muscular or athletic....especially the guys who work in the saunas....Mundo may be a good option for you to find your type.... Is it worth popping over to Sao Paulo or Porto Allegre for a couple of days or do you think I should just chill and enjoy Rio for my first visit? The major determinant here would be cute twinks, N. European mix would be welcome... If you are seeking N Europeans....go to Europe....Brazilians are a mixed race...there are some more European looking Brazilians all over but unless you speak the language OR are attractive, NOTHING WILL HAPPEN....If you are young and hot or attractive....you will have your pick of guys for free in Brazil because they tend to be very sexual and all over the apps like Grindr These 3 things I can probably find out elsewhere but if you feel inclined : Any recommendations for restaurants in the area, or Rio generally? I enjoy eating out and like high-end cuisine all the way down to great street food. Google restaurants in Brazil or Rio or whatever city you go to....there are TONS of options in Rio...Its a huge city.... How much are clothes there in comparison to Europe or the US? Like a pair of decent shorts for example? Hoping I can pack lightish and just buy whatever. Clothing are expensive compared to the US....But the weather is warm so you dont need winter clothing.... Are there clubs playing techno or house there? Depends on the club.....Use google... Cheers for any replies, I will post some kind of report, and if anyone is in town and wants to grab a drink or dinner that would be great! I highly recommend you use Google and read more from the blogs...some of the questions you asked make sense as a first time person visiting Brazil but some are just plain using your best judgement or common sense....' GOOGLE is your friend....my experience in Brazil is going to be completely different than yours or Tomcals or other members based on who they are....