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Salvador, BR — new Sauna, Thermas Club 13.
Badboy81 replied to SolaceSoul's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
Since you are familiar with Salvador, can you give me a rundown on the sauna scene there...Planning a trip there this year and that info would be helpful Did not check out any saunas on my one and only trip there a few years ago... -
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Badboy81 replied to sanddunes's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
And you shouldn't...unless they are flirting with you or you understand and speak Portuguese... Don't set yourself up to get beat up or mugged or both -
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Badboy81 replied to sanddunes's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
What is the point in even doing this when there are saunas available making sex easy... I wouldn't suggest somebody trying this without speaking the language or getting some type of vibe that the other person is interested...eye contact or something I don't believe in setting people up for bad things... -
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Badboy81 replied to sanddunes's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
I think you may want to specify many components that went into this....we wouldnt want a horny, unattractive guy going up to random hot guys in Rio asking are they interested in fucking for money...you COULD definitely get hurt...Or robbed...Or both Brazil is a very macho country regardless of what happens in the saunas or gay clubs... 1. What area were you in? Gay area? Gay club? Area known for picking up guys? 2. How attractive you are? This is a big deal damn near everywhere regardless of money being exchanged.... 3. Did you have tell tell signs besides "looking like they needed extra money" as incentive? I personally would be repulsed by some unattractive American coming up to me assuming I wanted to fuck around for cash if that wasnt the MO.... Do tell us how you made this happen when with only being rejected one time... -
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Badboy81 replied to sanddunes's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
So basically you could have skipped most of what you said and just said you don't care what they label themselves... I already said that many people just don't care about labels...especially when its just sex Great usage of HUGE SAT words...YOU IS SMART!!!! -
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Badboy81 replied to sanddunes's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
Beauty is 100% subjective...My type may not be your type...While there are American standards of what is beautiful, that is not the standard around the world OR in different communities... Let me give you an example because you seem to work best with things broken down...Curves are considered beautiful within my culture, Im African American... I don't necessary find blond hair and blue eyes attractive or what is considered the "All American look"....Again subjective... Your thoughts on Miss Universe and VSM....Aside from some amazing genes and pound of make up...those women would be a very small percentage of what the majority of women look like or are built lik...those women, the vast majority are not even considered the standard of beauty because they are way outside of the spectrum for most women Your belief that you can be straight and have same sex sex is ignorant...Its okay to not like or believe in labels but Im basing my comment about them being gay or bisexual based on the definitely of same sex relations.... Im done with this subject -
What's Rio like in May? Help needed by first timer
Badboy81 replied to Tomasian's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
There is a bus from goes from the airport to Copacabana for about $15R.... May take an hour or two hours -
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Badboy81 replied to sanddunes's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
I would not say the majority of the sauna guys are straight..Many are fully gay and more are bi...IE, you cant be straight if you have sex with men....regardless of if its for money Brazilians are not big on labels moreso masculinity and keeping personal business, your own, personal, ie, not telling that they may bottom or letting everybody know they work in the saunas Average looks are your opinions...I have seen some pics and vids of some amazing looking girlfriends and wives Attitude may be based on you and their interaction with you.. I personally dont care about your attitude if I am only interested in sex....do you take dick well, was everything clean, things like that... My outlook on attitude goes for Rio and everywhere else...But especially in Rio where you are paying for a service But I am able to separate the act of sex and the need to have a "connection" or actually like somebody Im having sex with -
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Badboy81 replied to sanddunes's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
I strongly doubt that any of the guys (the working boys/sauna guys/ex sauna guys )he sees reguarly would hang out with him if he wasnt paying...He has quoted several times what he pays for his overnight/weeky guests... If you are a working boy or like money and you know it will be good money and regularly (since he travels to Rio very often) you are definitely more inclined to develop a lasting "relationship" I consider myself attractive and Im in my 30s and dont try to fool myself into thinking that the boys I see when I am in Rio (the ones from the saunas...I have others that I did not meet in the saunas) will want to see me and hang out and have sex for free.... While we all want to think that something is that special about us, how you meet somebody tends to be how the relationship will go... Again, I dont know Tomcal personally or all of his relationships but I do read what he types and he is generous and pays well...And I hear is a good time I,e. Nice place to stay when you are with him, paid activities, sexy other guys, great money...etc... I have no idea if they would otherwise enjoy his company, ask him.... -
What's Rio like in May? Help needed by first timer
Badboy81 replied to Tomasian's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
1-The hottest part of Brazil is the northeast, where temperatures of more than 38 °C (100 °F) are frequently recorded during the dry season between May and November. Along the Atlantic coast from Recife to Rio de Janeiro, average temperatures range from 23 to 27 °C (73 to 81 °F). 2. No idea what Top 40s music is but the club scene in Rio is going to vary heavily based on your age and the areas you are willing to travel to for clubs/music Never heard of a bracelet thing...you usually pay a fee and then you pay for your drinks unless you go somewhere that has unlimited drinks 3. Good luck with the 75/80R...you will either be ignored or they will simply walk off UNLESS you are very attractive and hot...then you may be able to get lucky 4. Just take the bus that goes into Copa...its cheap, easy to find right outside the airport and air conditioned... Based on your questions, I would suggest you using Google for more information to optimize your trip and make sure you stay safe -
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Badboy81 replied to sanddunes's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
12 and 13 are fundamental truths across the board for most sex workers....Most are not interested in a lasting relationship except if money is involved and that makes sense since we are paying them for sex and not conversation or friendship... The guys who have lasting relationships with many of the guys or see the same guys regularly may be nice or good guys but for the guys who are getting paid, they are easy, consistent money... Having a decent or good personality is like icing on the cake... I love hearing guys on here "romanticize" the relationships they have with the guys from the saunas or guys who they are paying for sex.... Why romanticize a business transaction....it is what is is.... I'm all for having a "relationship" with the guys but 9.5 out of 10 if we weren't paying them they would not give us the time of day... Note-this is regardless of how you look, how great your sex is or how nice you treat these guys... -
The Week and LeBoy are like night and day... While both were night clubs...they cater to different clientale... Because LeBoy also had the sauna...you got the horny Cariocas as well as the typical gays who like just watch hot guys, hence there were go go boys there most of the times I went You could also go to get your freak on in the balconies which were dark....almost too dark... The Week caters to the upper class Cariocas Barbies....the hot tourists that come to Rio to enjoy the sun and go out dancing and drinking until the sun comes up...Like at a Circuit Party... While you will definitely see the gay sauna boys there, you will likely be ignored You will likely be ignored if you arent a hot Barbie, have a shit load of money and look like it or just be attractive and young and hot... Take the hot gays on the beach during peak season, the ones from Ipanema and put them in shorts with no shirts, drinks and drugs, very loud music and a huge crowd
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Badboy81 replied to sanddunes's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
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Need a suggestion about another SA country
Badboy81 replied to likeohmygod's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
There are tons of hung black guys in Rio....Depending on how you look, try Grindr -
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Badboy81 replied to sanddunes's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
Totally agree with you on this one -
It could also have been your expectations...If you have never been to the saunas before, its best to not have expectations so you wont be set up for failure... I have been going to saunas for too many years and most of my experiences have been great based on understanding what the saunas are for... You go to unwind, socialize, have sex if you find somebody interesting or attractive and make connections to connect outside of the saunas... If all else fails, Grindr works well for me...
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I liked the Week for what it was....A club full of hot Brazilians who are there enjoying their friends and dancing I don't tend to go because I dont like crowds or the music Not for me to pick them up like at the saunas But I also still go to Circuit Festival and have a blast taking it for what it is...
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The WEEK is an expensive dance club where most of the guys there either have money or have sponsors to make sure they are able to afford the place At 41, I can imagine you wasted your time there...
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Need a suggestion about another SA country
Badboy81 replied to likeohmygod's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
A place with super hung black guys....why not check places with large African populations where being gay is tolerated.... That definitely eliminates Jamaica....where is extremely dangerous to be gay and if you arent in the "know" almost suicidal... Since Africa isnt a continent of interest and you are over the two main other destinations where you are looking for hung black guys... Outside of the Dominican Republic, I can't think of any other countries where what you are looking for is going to be common Sidenote-if you are looking for guys to pay for or just guys that will be interested in you, that also opens your search... DC, Chicago, Houston, NYC, The Bahamas, Trinidad and Tobago both have hung black guys....the majority are looking the exact same and not for pay If you are looking to pay....at a loss for that one for you -
There are tons of places where a straight guy can get laid....Take him to Villa Mimosa...that will be an experience he wont ever forget... When you are in Brazil in July, it is the height of winter there...just FYI http://www.wikisexguide.com/wiki/Rio_de_Janeiro
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Paying for non-performance - clarifications
Badboy81 replied to 12is12's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
When is a good time or day to go here? Thanks in advance -
Paying for non-performance - clarifications
Badboy81 replied to 12is12's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
And the other one you mentioned? -
Paying for non-performance - clarifications
Badboy81 replied to 12is12's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
Yeap....Babylon.... Are either of the other two different? Are they mainly locals? -
Paying for non-performance - clarifications
Badboy81 replied to 12is12's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
Interesting experiences you have had....this will be my 4th trip to BKK within a year... I met a HOT muscular Thai guy off Grindr and tried my last time to meet him again My first trip I went to a sauna there...total waste of time fo rme My last trip I met a hot Algerian tourist that I fucked... I prefer the massages, shopping and food.... Definitely havent been impressed by the Thais in a sexual way but there are tons of other things to do in BKK....And there is always Rio next month!