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Does Point 202 Have a Jacuzzi Now?
Badboy81 replied to sanddunes's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
That will make me go check the place out now....very nice.. -
Stunning...Hope he is doesnt mind being known for as a former sauna boy...since outing him on here will definitely put him on international blast...
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Sao Paolo v. Río de Janeiro ... Newbie
Badboy81 replied to brockmiller's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
Exactly what he said... If you like beaches, sun, saunas and a cheaper experience...RIO If you like museums, tons of traffic, a huge metropolis....Sao Paulo... Both have tons of hot guys around...both have saunas...both have metros, uber and taxis so getting around is not an issue SP is more experience to me than Rio.. -
For those of you who have never been to Samba school practices or parties....you are missing out... Samba schools and events centered around samba have some of the sexiest local dudes in Rio... You get some incredible culture, can try some local food and learn hang out with locals... People are very friendly and welcoming, you will have an incredible time and may meet a non pay guy(I have some great pictures of local guys from the samba schools)..especially if you speak some Portuguese.... And its definitely something different...and worth trying... *One of the most popular samba schools is Mangueira **I definitely suggest either going with a local or using uber https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Estação_Primeira_de_Mangueira Samba Queen Contest....another event worth checking out http://sambafogo.com/samba-queen/ https://www.tripadvisor.com/Travel-g303506-c97548/Rio-De-Janeiro:Brazil:Samba.Schools.html
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Do most non blacks avoid Black guys?
Badboy81 replied to Tomcal's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
Times have changed and tastes have changed as well....I would imagine that while white guys are still in demand for some clients who just prefer them, there are some hot black guys who are in demand when it comes to "talent"... Interesting, when I travel, I tend to see that most of the escorts that are traveling are either European or Latino... And it could also go back to what some may do versus others...depending on your particular taste or fetish or if you want to top or bottom or be seen out with the guy versus straight sex... Thanks for sharing that info from years back -
Delta is running a sale to Rio with dates until the end of the year... Great for me since Im in ATL and got a direct flight for under 1,000K for right after Christmas and after New Years... If you are looking to for after Christmas, check prices now...they are definitely going to go up....
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Do most non blacks avoid Black guys?
Badboy81 replied to Tomcal's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
Where are you getting this information from....can you please provide some receipts.... Why would a hustler trying to make money refuse somebody based on them being Asian but not because they are fat or old or gross or ugly or smelly or WHATEVER??? **When you say indigenous I take it you are talking about the Native Indians that are still around...the ones that didn't die from the diseases the colonizers spread OR from slavery or rape and murder? You also may want to check the actual stats on the number of Native Americans actually in Brazil.... Maybe, just maybe they don't want to work in the saunas....not everyone wants to be a sex worker...Its not that glamorous and some people figure out other ways to make ends meet... -
Do most non blacks avoid Black guys?
Badboy81 replied to Tomcal's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
Well Said..... -
Do most non blacks avoid Black guys?
Badboy81 replied to Tomcal's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
I made a point and at the time was not being sarcastic....What you said had nothing to do with anything BUT perception is reality And I had an amazing weekend....I just got back to the states from Madrid -
Do most non blacks avoid Black guys?
Badboy81 replied to Tomcal's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
What city or country do you live in...? I live in Atlanta and the Asians are doing fine when it comes to dating...Most prefer to date white guys which is fine by me I have traveled to China, Japan, Korea and Thailand..several times and did not see Asians facing racism or discrimination... The people being discriminated against the most in the world are PEOPLE OF COLOR...in the LGBTQ community it is transsexuals... -
Do most non blacks avoid Black guys?
Badboy81 replied to Tomcal's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
Your response to your friend should have been I told you he was Cuban, which he was, what concern is it his color....interesting...I would have had to side eye that person...since there was a clear motive to that question... I traveled to Nigeria and saw every hue across the board from coffee creamer light to charcoal black...there are tribes in Africa that are very very dark but most Africans run the spectrum thanks to the colonizers.... As Americans, we African American don't define our color to anybody except other black people since most only see black...when you travel to other countries, there is where the defining become finite because people either are very proud of their identity, ie, many Afro Latinos OR in the case of some Brazilians, ashamed of their black blood but because of appearance,cant wish or lie it away... -
Do most non blacks avoid Black guys?
Badboy81 replied to Tomcal's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
My personal experience was that it was welcoming and I had a great time but it didnt have the same vibe as Rio or the diversity in the people and I actually like the beaches in Rio better... -
Do most non blacks avoid Black guys?
Badboy81 replied to Tomcal's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
I understand your response may be based on your age and generation....You tracing your family history has nothing to do with what you stated (although kudos to you for doing that research) The newer generations....those who are a little more "woke"...the ones that do travel more than our parents and grandparents ever did understand that those of us who speak Spanish or Kreole, or French or Portuguese are just as black, they were just raised in another country, with very similar cultures and foods, etc..but when you look at some of them, they could definitely be a part of your family....or mine.... -
Do most non blacks avoid Black guys?
Badboy81 replied to Tomcal's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
Every country in South and Central America as well as the islands was touched by the slave trade in some form or fashion and have deep histories Africa....hence the term Afro Latino or Afro Hispanic... You can break that down by country based on how somebody looks OR how they choose to identify... I would suggest when you have time to do a little research...you can even use google and look at how much African influence is in those countries south of the border... -
Do most non blacks avoid Black guys?
Badboy81 replied to Tomcal's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
This is why it is extremely important to proof read what you type...This right here is racist as fuck... Underhanded racist compliment.... -
Do most non blacks avoid Black guys?
Badboy81 replied to Tomcal's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
Interesting heading but I get what you are trying to ask...Also noted that it was about time the question got asked since most of the posters seem to be enamored with Europeans traits even when traveling to a country that has has a higher percentage of black and brown people anywhere else in the world except Africa...(go figure) I hope more of the African American posters reply with their personal experiences and opinions... I personally LOVE and prefer people of color....POC...I love melanin, naturally tanned or bronzed or black skin as well as the features that many POC have whether they are "black Brazilian", Dominican, African American, or Afro dot dot dot.... I have been to Salvador and enjoyed the people there and plan to go back more often...Rio just offers everything that I like and its easy...I know how to get around, how to get to the saunas, flights from Atlanta are less expensive for me to get there than other parts of Brazil...I LOVE beaches...especially Copa and Ipanema, I know the Samba scene there and I have friends there... But I have also been to DR...tons of people of color there...including sexy Haitians, Jamaica(really dont have to go back there), Puerto Rico, Panama, the Bahamas, S Africa, Nigeria, Egypt and a ton of other places where POC turn me on and I just prefer them... Currently in Madrid and cant help noticing all the hot Dominicans who work over here and have seen a few very hot African hustlers....selling shoes and purses not ass... I'm cool with everybody's preference and they all stem from somewhere or something... I don't get into fetishing anyone sexually based on their race which I do find happens among other communities but again, to each his own... -
typical late afternoon at the apartment
Badboy81 replied to Tomcal's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
Thanks for posting this.... -
typical late afternoon at the apartment
Badboy81 replied to Tomcal's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
Well SAID... They are hanging out at your place versus hanging out with YOU... And I agree, I am NOT trying to befriend any of those guys...I want you to be available when Im in Rio and thats about it... At this age, I don't want or need new friends, especially those who basically want me for my money and I just want for some sex.... Gotta learn how to set boundaries... -
typical late afternoon at the apartment
Badboy81 replied to Tomcal's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
Your reality is yours and yours alone...Thanks for the insight I can definitely imagine that guys will quote higher rates because they dont want to go with a guy...But again, when you are in the money game, you go for the most you can get, IF you are smart so those boys just got more money from a wealthy American.. I can also imagine having tons of free sex with Mexicans...(I still need to get to Merida to see what these hot Mexicans look like, since the ones I encounter in GA are NOT hitting on shit) but when you say FREE, does that mean some the 9 guys just wanted to have sex with you and got not a meal, not a snack, not a drink, not anything out of it? No matter how well preserved you are and how young you look (by the Grace of God) we have established that you are a seasoned gent *don't have the old cat daddies flocking to Mexico thinking they are about to come up on free sex because you are As far as the 23 yr old, that goes back to what I said....defining dating is so different based on the person....Your dating may be my fucking regularly or somebody elses "we hang out on a schedule" Does he have a dad complex? I know some guys definitely get into that Are you monogamous...he is he monogamous- hell we all know the answer to this Are you paying tuition, housing, giving an allowance... **I remember being a young guy only interested in older guys myself....I wasnt necessarily interested in the guys but what they symbolized-Stability, maturity, careers, money, etc...(I have never been a fool) Once I established these things on my own, I no longer liked being "kept" What ends up happening, is that based on what you contribute and the little details that are left out (minor details) some guys who arent as sharp as others misunderstand that there ARE details that are missing out... -
typical late afternoon at the apartment
Badboy81 replied to Tomcal's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
When was your agency in business? What years? -
typical late afternoon at the apartment
Badboy81 replied to Tomcal's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
I have no doubt that he has an amazing personality and guys are drawn to him, especially after traveling to Brazil for other 20 years I think the point that was made by the other guy is that money talks... Its cool to fantasize the sauna scene and the hot boys in Rio for loving us (any of the guys who actually travel to Rio) for our looks or bodies or personalities but it definitely boils down to MONEY...then how you treat somebody If you know that you will get guaranteed money on a bi monthly or quarterly basis, you will keep ties with that person especially IF you enjoy their company... You can disagree with somebodies views without it being an argument or a battle of balls... ***I like reading some of the views that guys post on here on how they deal with guys and how the guys deal with them... Unless the relationship is monogamous and you retired the sex worker, this aint Pretty Woman... Again, not sure WHY I always feel the need to say again in regard to commenting on something said about Tomcal (probably because I don't want shit with his Tomhive) I am not taking anything away from him but lets play a game Tomcal goes broke (knocked on wood that does not happen) he changes how he travels to Rio or where he stays or how he treats the guys who regularly spend his trips with him...(how generous he is able to be) Im sure things would change JUST like that really good looking girl or guy that used to get stares all over the place that gained a ton of weight or that ex ball player that used to be the shit when they were playing and since retiring, are suddenly a nobody... That being said, Good for him for being able to do what he can... If you want to be able to have 4 guys stay with you when you travel to Rio, he is your man on info and pointers... -
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Badboy81 replied to Tomcal's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
I love the beards on most guys...young guys without beards just look extremely YOUNG but to each his own... Beards turn me ON.... -
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Badboy81 replied to Tomcal's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
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typical late afternoon at the apartment
Badboy81 replied to Tomcal's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
Depends on how you deal with them.... Are you "dating" them? Connecting for sex? Trying to develop a friendship... Those are all variables to take into account -
typical late afternoon at the apartment
Badboy81 replied to Tomcal's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
Having a lot of money, knowing a little Portuguese, knowing where to go to find boys...It isn't that hard... Its called supply and demand..Plain and Simple You find boys (or girls) in some type of need, money, housing, attention, and cater to that...Gets done everyday in the world... Not taking anything away from anybodies fun or escapades but It Is What It Is... I do find the idolization interesting though...But that says more about the idolizer than the person being idolized...