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Chicken with cashew nuts! The first thing I order on my first night in Thailand. The Balcony, Dick's Cafe....wherever. And now I'm feeling bereft; fifteen months without. I ordered it in London many years ago. Never again.

Nonsense! we are all irresistible, whatever we look like, whatever we wear. Or so I've been told.

Speaking of clothes... Things have certainly changed. On my first visit in 1995, my memory is that, in Boyztown, falang gentlemen (sic) made an effort to dress more formally in the evenings. I mean by that long trousers, usually not jeans, and shirts with collars, not T-shirts. I certainly did but "dressing for dinner" had always part of my holiday experience. In the Caribbean, which was my chosen destination before Thailand, hotels wouldn't serve dinner to guests in shorts and some places even demanded a jacket. it took a few years for me to adapt to the more informal (and infinitely more sensible) fashions of today. And P too, though I expect some of you will be surprised by that. Like me, he wore shorts in the daytime but for the evenings he changed to long trousers. He is as old-fashioned in a Thai way as I am in my British habits! And then , one evening, on the way to Central from Jomtien we both noted that we were the only men in a crowded bus not in shorts. A revelation indeed! Now, my up-bringing is out the window and I wear shorts and a polo shirt to dinner. Just as P does. And it feels so much more comfortable.

Thaiger is a reliable source but.....July? I'm not even confident of my October plans going ahead.

A quick look at the website suggests that its readership must have very different tastes to mine. I wonder if it's aimed at women, despite its name?

Pattaya hotels have been ordered to close by the Governor. For weeks I've been trying to sus-out the Agate situation. This what the management told me a fortnight ago.

My sympathies to all Brazilians. It would help you and all your fellow citizens, if you got rid of the Covid-denying, racist, homophobic and ineffably stupid Bolsonaro and elected someone who would fight the virus. Come back Lula!

To be blunt, I don't care..... were it safe and the hotels open, I'd be on my way there now.

I'd like to know more. What "trick" could have persuaded anyone to give up a password?

I can understand that. What I like about Thai food is that the simple dishes which I enjoy- such chicken with cashew nuts, or squid salad- don't require a huge amount of expertise to be tasty. I eat it only occasionally here in London and I suppose that its association with Thailand adds a certain lustre to it. A bit like sex perhaps.....no, not really! "Occasionally" doesn't even begin to describe that .

Some positive news at last....thanks.

As an aside, I'm surprised - and I hinted at this in an earlier post- that most of the recommended restaurants aren't Thai. Is this a fair reflection of falang taste? For me, the prospect of Thai food- both the sophisticated and that on offer at basic restaurants- is one of the things I look forward to most. And miss now!

Hundreds of thousands of Thais will be on the road as I write. Usually, the fear is that many won't arrive at their destinations owing to road accidents. Now the fear is that they will arrive.... and bring the virus with them.

Not quite as disturbing as the video from a few years back of a snake climbing up a toilet while a guy was using it. In fact, this creature looks quite friendly.

Yes, I recommend it. I think it preferable to the Pattaya FM one on Youtube , though that too is useful for those of us missing Thailand. The young Thai (Jet) is part American. It's reassuring to hear the correct pronunciation of Patta-YA, too. I always find the falang "Pa-TTA-ya" irritating. Silly of me, I suppose. Age!

Yes....just as I'm an expert on Classical Boyztown, circa 1998.

A word of thanks to those who have posted about the Japanese scene. It's been an eye-opener to me and I now regret that I didn't go there in my younger years. Which brings me to a question; we know that many Thais are happy to maintain relationships with older men and that their up-bringing and culture is a significant factor in this. Is the same true in Japan? I recall reading about samurai and their young acolytes and the similarity to practices in Classical Greece.

My perception of this current situation is largely governed by age and my fear that I haven't many trips left. The three I've already missed, as well as the next (June) I shall also miss, were ones that , physically, I'd cope with. The time is coming when neither the journey from the UK nor the delights offered to me on a plate in Thailand (I'm obviously referring to Thai food!) may no longer be within my grasp.

That was my view from Tarntawan thirteen months ago....thanks for the memory. Unfortunately, my depression continues.

Thanks for that memory....particularly the salt-water pool!

Am I the only one who enjoys Thai cuisine? Has anyone tried the Thai up-market restaurants in Terminus 21? unusual menus, elegantly served....considerably more expensive than run of the mill places....but worth it.

The period I was referring to was the late 90s. In those days, the A A go- go dancers were predominantly Thai twinks, sometimes from hill-tribes. As with blue Star, my experience is that the more macho guys are more comfortable than twinks. By the way, the bottoms during sex shows in Bangkok invariably wore jock-straps. Perhaps this is a similar issue?

Blue Star (Soi Twilight) used to have periods of nudity in the late 90s. There were two separate "troupes" of go-go dancers, one basically twinks, the other macho. I recall the periods of nudity featuring both troupes together. The macho guys seemed happy, the twinks less so, some standing with their hands strategically in front of them, looking most uncomfortable. I also remember Adam's Apple in Chiang Mai having nude interludes during the show , when a few of the dancers would appear. My memory is that they too looked unhappy. So much so that I couldn't watch. We know from the manner in which offed guys undress in our rooms, towels tightly around their waists, that nudity is not always welcome.

If only...... Any reference to whether they speak English?

I had the same thought...preparing the worst scenario last week, I looked at Zing on Agoda. Apparently, it was taking bookings. A lot of Agate's custom is from Chinese tour group "one nighters" , or so it seems to us, and so it may not re-open until these groups re-appear. But that's a guess. At least we know now that Agate staff (or at least some of them ) are still employed1