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Nice try ;-).

Haha. Famous for overtipping probably. My generosity to the boys stems from the fact that I'm pretty sure most of them don't want to have sex with me, and money hopefully makes it easier. Fair trade I'd say.

Day 7 I get woken up again early because of slamming doors. My fear of not getting sleep because of the busy nightlife outside of the Aya Hotel was unfounded, it’s actually the thin walls inside that makes it hard to sleep (it’s probably actually the thin, flimsy doors more than anything). Turns out, you won’t be bothered sleeping through the busy nightlife, if you are having a particularly busy one yourself. It’s 8:30 AM. Line has: Hotel Boy saying hi at 4:30 AM, and then emojis of good night. Grindr has: less Money Boy pings, I think I’ve exhausted the proactive Money Boys supply, and now what’s left are the ones who only message you when you message first, or think I am just on Grindr for free boys. Interesting pings from three free boys: one from a 26 year old Russian, I say hi back, no immediate reply, let’s see where this goes; another from a 22 year old Asian with Chinese characters in his profile, I say hello; and last a 36 year old Thai guy saying hi, I say hi back, emoji. (Quick aside: I get some quick “Fuck me now, go to my condo, I alone,”messages from the 22 yr old Chinese guy. I get great pics, I get location map, walkable. Pretty much all laid out for me. He really wanted to get fucked in his empty condo. Looks cute, young, I think about it hard, but I was not looking for a quickie this morning). So 36 year old Thai guy replies, he is online. Asks a requisite bunch of questions. Finds it interesting that “You American? I thought you Thai.” And then starts with some sexually suggestive questions. I don’t take the bait, I keep it PG. He eventually asks if I had breakfast yet. I said no, do you have suggestions? He says, “Have you gone to the buffet in Apex hotel yet?” I say no, so off I go to that buffet. It’s a 12-minute walk from Aya. The Apex hotel buffet has a lot of similarities to the Lek Hotel buffet. Mainly: Both 199 Baht, both had a good selection of Thai dishes; had fried rice and eggs and some meats (alas, no bacon). Apex probably has a better pastries selection, but since this is fitness vacation, breads are a no-no. Overall, somewhat decent enough, and coffee is hot and strong so everything is good. 36 Y.O. Thai guy is cute-ish, and is tall. But I wasn’t feeling it so just kept it PG but friendly. He’s a good guy, works the hotel reception at the Holiday Inn in north part of Pattaya. Very good English. I tell him I have the Spire Platinum level on IHG. Tells me to stay at his hotel next time, and he will upgrade me to a very nice room. I bet he will. I tell him I wish the Holiday Inn Pattaya was walking distance to Boyztown. This is when I realize that I’ve never stayed in a hotel that was not walking distance to the gogo bars. I never had to get in a cab with a boy to have sex with him. It sounds awkward to me, versus walking to hotel and getting familiar, but then again, I'll probably find a way to get familiar in the cab anyway. We finish breakfast, we exchange Line. Thank him for the good travel tips, but thought to myself, I probably won’t see him again. I walk back to the Aya, darn its only 10:00 AM, so early. I change to gym clothes, walk 17 minutes to Tony’s Fitness, and workout till 12. I get a protein drink. Walking back, I stop by Tuk Com and window shop. Open up Grindr, talk to a few Money Boys, but wasn’t wanting to just have the 30 minute wham bam thank you ma’am for 1000 baht. I get a Line message from Cambodia boy I talked about earlier. He said he is in bus coming from the Cambodia-Thailand border heading to Pattaya. He wants to see me when he gets to Pattaya around 3 PM. I tell him make it 6 PM, for dinner. I get to Aya at around 1 PM. I shower and set alarm for 5 PM. I take a nap and dream about X-boy guy from last night. Alarm wakes me up and I check my Line, I see 12 messages from Cambodia boy. Telling me he is close to Pattaya, telling me he arrived, asking me what I am doing, asking if I can meet now, ask if I am hungry, as if I brought presents, on and on. I answer I just woke up. Immediate response asking he is on his way. He’s been waiting for me. I tell him it’s the Aya and we meet at the lobby. Cambodia boy is an interesting blip in my travels here at LOS. I meet him on Grindr about 3 trips ago. He was this really striking, gorgeous 22 year old, trying out the Jomtien money boy scene, and supplements it with gay apps. When I met him, it was his first time in Pattaya, and just starting seeing customers. We arranged to meet and it takes him an hour and a half to get to my hotel. He did not know how to get there (did not even have a concept of what Second Rd. or Beach Rd. was) and did not know how Mocy or Baht bus worked yet. I was not his first customer, he says later, but certainly was the first outside of Jomtien. He was apologetic and was on the verge of crying when I met him at the lobby of my hotel (then was the Marriott). He was quiet at first, and the sex was uninspired, but he was gorgeous, his body was this naturally lean and smooth young body, and ass was beautiful. When he found out I was a talker, the floodgates opened. He talked about a lot of misery in his life, father in hospital, siblings poor, all in Cambodia. He does not want to be a Money Boy (does anybody want to be one anyway?) but there are no opportunities in Phnom Penh. Had a farang BF in Cambodia who supported him but got dumped for a younger model. He cries while he talks about all this. It was a lot to take for a first meeting. But I like a good story, and on some level I really wanted to believe that this was all true, and not just a pathetic plea for money. Instead of calling bullshit, I delved deeper, and discovered a happy-go-lucky gay boy who was relieved to finally be reunited with his Cambodian gay friends in Pattaya. All his friends have moved to Pattaya to be Money Boys, and he now he is finally with his “family” since his actual family does not know he's gay. His sad stories did not move me enough to give him more money, but I did make it a point to hang out with him, talk to him, crack jokes, watch movies at The Avenue Pattaya, and just be there for him. So now we meet at the lobby. He looked tired and emaciated. He was wearing the same pants he wore last September, when I last saw him, but looks now like its awkwardly hanging onto his thin frame, with the belt barely holding it up. I comment on how thin he is now. He said he has lost a lot of weight because he had to be at his dad’s side at the hospital for a month, because his dad was sick. Since it was a public hospital bed, there were no beds for family so he had sleep on the floor, with other patients in the big room, and that was not ideal. Lack of sleep, no appetite in hospital surroundings just made him lose a lot of weight. He was not wearing any underwear either because what he owned just was too big and kept falling down. He was lean to begin with, and now he just looks really really skinny. Lots of doom and gloom, I know. Not the sexy fantasy stuff a Sex Tourist looks for. Worse, it may be all lies. But Cambodia boy has lost so much weight, so I feel, no matter what, there was some issues there. And at the end of the day, I feel that I have an awesome, blessed life. So I felt it was really easy for me to provide some kind of respite for this kid. I won’t be able to save him, and I don’t want to, but I can be there for him today, right now, and that’s all he really needs, or has, at the moment. I tell him to take a nap. Those cheap bus rides are not comfortable (no aircon, rickety, uncomfortable). He takes off all clothing. Very skinny, but still hot (what’s wrong with me). He tells me to also take off all my clothes and sleep beside me. I do, but I just woke up from a nap, so I just lay there, with him sleeping. He wakes up at 8 PM. He says he’s hungry. We go to Food Wave on the top floor of Royal Garden Plaza. I figure the variety and amount of food will cheer him up. He orders 2 rice dishes. I order some duck breast (yummy). I tell him he can have more if he wanted (he doesn’t). We both order cheesecake for dessert. He asks what I wanted to do tonight. I tell him what do you want? He said, “I know you like gogo bar, we go together”. Can’t argue with that. We go to the GAP on the ground floor of the mall, and I buy him better fitting clothes. He gets a button down shirt, pants, underwear, 700 baht total. We go back to hotel and he changes, looking so much better. He smiles, takes selfies, posts it on Facebook. Recovery is beginning. Since I missed the sexy boy show two nights ago, we catch the 10:30 PM at Boyzboyzboyz. 350 baht drinks for the two of us. He gets a gin and tonic, I get a Singha. Boyz parade before the show. Cambodia boy clings onto me the whole time. Whispers in my ear “I can never be gogo boy. I shy.” Show begins, six hunks dance to “Sex Bomb”. Hate the song, love the dance. Recognize one of the macho guys I offed a few trips ago (talked about him a few posts ago). Big cock show. And two guys with the big cocks bang a drum with their cocks. Looks painful, but I guess if you have a penis big enough to make that big of a noise on a drum, then you can do whatever you want with it. B-boy show, two of the hunks I like were there. Give 50 baht. Intermission with the boys again. Then something with candles and melted wax, something with hula hoops, and then a shower show with three guys soaping themselves down. All ridiculous, all fun. Cambodia boy watched all this with some horror/disbelief, and whenever he sees something outrageous, he squeezes my hand and holds me closer. He works in the center of sin and hedonism, but deep inside, he is still the simple country boy who had to leave home for “better” opportunities. Mamasan leaves me alone because he sees I am with boy. We get back to the hotel. Guard takes his passport. At the room he takes off all his clothes and showers. Comes out naked, beautiful and smiling. I shower, and see him in bed waiting for me. We have tender sex, he is eager to show me a good time. Kisses were deeper, tongue was more probing, and lots of hugs and eye-to-eye contact. I decide to not fuck him, he sucks me till I cum (and almost swallows). He sits on my dick, and jacks off, and cums quickly. We shower together. We lay down, and he hugs me deeply. We fall asleep this way.

Haha that's funny. I never really wrote it with a specific thought for pacing, suspense and payoff. Again, this is all stream of conciousness blather that I wrote in my trip, and with some editing after the trip, just releasing now. And I guess there is something there when I am not as explicit about my sexual experience with Xboy guy. I didn't realize it till you pointed it out. There's 14 days of this. Hopefully i can post it all.

Oh awesome, thanks for telling me. I'll definitely check it out next trip. Maybe we can be workout buddies next time!

Yes, you will hear more about him in future reports. I was obviously smitten (still am, unfortunately). Are you talking about the lean guys from X-boys? I am bad with boy names (and most especially boy numbers). It might've been S (or Es). Sounds familiar.

Day 6 (Part 2) I started going to Pattaya around my 4th trip to Thailand, after only been Bangkok-centric for the first three. And I’ve been slowly dipping my toe in the various gay venues Pattaya has to offer. After only going to Boyzboyzboyz and A-bomb for the first two trips, I’ve ventured out to Jomtien last trip, after a local invited me to a birthday party there, and finding it fun and having a completely different vibe than Boyztown. It was only last trip that I ventured out to X-boys, in my last night, and was wondering why it took me so long to go to that bar. I wake up at 9 PM and shower to prepare of the night. I Line Hotel Boy and Cambodia Boy, and make plans with Cambodia Boy tomorrow during the day. With Hotel Boy, its been an endless flirtation. He is messaging me from work, and we graduate to asking if we were top or bottom (I top, he vers), as well as other sexual talk, but still no plans to meet. My Grindr crashes when I open it, and upon recovery notice a ton of messages mostly from Money Boys I’ve been talking to. This can wait. My impression is that X-boys is a more "modest" (for lack of a better word) entertainment bar than those in BKK and Boyzboyzboyz. This is just my impression, as I think the numbers are more basic and scaled down than those other bars. But what it lacks in glitz and glamour, it makes up for enthusiasm and fun. These boys are fun, and the numbers are done with a specific self-awareness about why they are really there. Yes, they know that this is all ridiculous. The dance numbers are just another contrived way to show the boys moving and shaking their moneymakers, while wearing minimal or revealing clothing. The boys know it, and sometimes deliver their moves with a knowing chuckle or sheepish grin. I appreciate this kind of honesty. I get there at 9:45 PM. Immediately, one of the Cambodian mamasans accosts me, sits on my lap, kisses me on the lips, and insists that I off him one of these nights. I say no, always, but appreciate the attention. He knows my story and makes it a point to explain to people (boys, other mamasans) that I am American, and not Chinese, or I guess tonight, I look like I am from Chiang Mai. The boys are all onstage. I estimate probably 40 of them. A good bunch, probably see myself offing 40% of them. Crowd was probably 15 customers, 5 of which where farang, two women, and rest younger Asians. At the stroke of 10, they play their signature music, and the boys do 1 minute of dance choreography. And then the slide show (Xboys!!!!!!!). They then have a big cock show, with just the boys sporting erections. Most of the boys are lean, most have visible abs, and 60% qualify as “big”. But all of them cute, I’d off these guys no problem. My guess is if you are in the big cock show, you are a top. I do not pay attention to them too closely, since I am looking for a bottom. And then I notice this gorgeous brown-skinned guy with this huge cock. He has a trim physique, with abs, probably my height, but a good 30 pounds lighter, but this huge cock was just calling my name. And it wasn’t big because it looked huge relative to his slight frame, it really was bigger than all but one of the big cock guys onstage. He was handsome too. Cambodian mamasan notices me salivating. He asks again what I want (boy who does everything). I ask - are any of these guys into that, he says yes, and points to three guys. One of them was that Big Cock guy. I immediately say, I want him. He leaves the stage, 5 minutes backstage (to put on underwear), and then he sits with me. I order him a drink. He is so cute. He’s 26. Body on point. And wearing tiny underwear barely containing his cock. Shakes my hand, asks the required questions, we toast, and then takes my hand and kisses my cheek. His skin is very warm. He smelled wonderful. I am way turned on by this guy, and was SO ready to off him and get to know him better. We talk for a bit, and then I ask him if indeed, he does everything. He says NO, top only. I ask again, maybe he didn’t understand. Nope top only. He even makes hand gestures confirming it. I call mamasan, ask, hey he does not do everything. Boy says, yes everything, except bottom. Mamasan then talks Thai with boy. Some argument, some shaking of heads. I interject: if not bottom, no way. Deep inside, I wanted him, but made a decision to choose good sex over good story tonight. I fish out a 100 baht note from my pocket, give it to him, and say thanks for the company. He apologizes for the mixup. He leaves. Mamasan then sits with me and tells me, “ he is versatile but will not bottom tonight because of some intestinal problem”. I laugh. That definitely would’ve made a good story. Back to the drawing board. I sit alone for the rest of the first show (with some moments of mamasan sitting with me and giving me kisses). The show itself was fun. After big cock show, the sexy B-boy (breakdancers) show was next. You can also see this at Boyzboyzboyz, but the size of the stage at X-boys was (my opinion) better for the crazy dance moves for these boys. They were all yummy, but I always fix my eyes on two very good-looking guys (fair-skinned, perfect lithe lean bodies, floppy hair). Great show as always, I give them 100 baht tip. There was a dance number where four guys were worshipping this one guy, with the end everyone getting naked. And then one number where one tall bottom was in a dress and was getting accosted by four tops. Another where there were 5 boys dressed as sexy angels, and then gets tempted by a boy in a sexy devil suit. And then a fuck show where the tall bottom gets fucked by a shorter top, and then they go around the room to collect tips, with the top’s dick firmly attached to the bottom’s ass. That takes a lot of skill. 100 baht for you. And then lastly, a stunning shower show with this tall, lean, handsome, super hung guy, dancing and getting himself wet, stage left that had the shower installed. The lighting, the music, the boy, the perfect movement, and the look of enjoyment and seduction in the boy’s face, got me so turned on. Best number ever, and it was the simplest one of them all. The boy sells it to everyone in the room. Lots of tips. Bravo. 10:45 PM, first show ends, and there was another one at 11:30 PM (and a third on 12:45 AM, if there are enough customers - no B-boy in that one, mamasan tells me). The boys go back onstage, and I continue the hunt. I reconsider Big Cock boy, and then Shower Boy, because these two just have me bewitched beyond belief, and both were still available (I don’t know why, they’re awesome). Mamasan flies to my side, and then points to one boy I haven't even considered. About my height, face of a 16 year old, the body of a gymnast, and perfect brown skin. “He does everything, especially what you want, promise.” Magic words. He sits with me, with some sweat on his body. He apologizes, and mamasan gets a towel for him. I volunteer to wipe him down. 6-pack, perfect back, big ass, powerful legs. He sits with me, I get him a drink. Mamasan says, free boy drink, to apologize for last time. Perfect. One slight problem: English virtually non-existent. Whip out google translate. I make sure first: yes is bottom, also top, is Thai, is gay. He has only been money boy for 1 month. Issan. Just turned 21. Loves kissing. Whenever I ask him something, he tries to answer in English, and then can’t, so has to google translate. He is trying. I like that. It is 11:20 PM, time for them to go back onstage. I tell him, I’ll off you, put on clothes and sit back down with me. I didn’t really want him to put on street clothes, coz that body was meant to be shown off. But I didn’t want him to get pneumonia either. 11:30 PM, second show starts. My boy sits down wearing a super fitted shirt and sexy pants. Gives me a kiss and then wraps himself around me like we were just sitting on the couch watching a movie. I like this. And it starts: boy choreography, slide show, b-boy show. Shower, rinse, repeat. Some numbers different, with different boys. It’s 12:15 AM, show ends. I pay for my drink and off fee (750 baht). Didn’t get charged for boy drinks. Tip mamasan 150 baht. We leave the bar. Outside was alive with people in the streets. We go to the Aya. Guard takes his ID. We get to room. He is sweating, takes off all his clothes, and starts taking mine off. “Shower together?” Yes sir. I’m at full attention. He sees my somewhat faded but still obvious hickey, touches it, and proceeds to the shower. He then gives me a thorough soap-down, presumably because he likes a clean workspace. Kisses me all throughout. He rinses me off and I step off the shower. He then does his own thorough soap-down. This was a pleasure to watch. Beautiful uncut dick flopping around, pecs, abs, great ass, glorious legs. He rinses off, towels down, and then dries his hair. And then out of the towel, that face. That sweet sweet face. All I’m going to say is: he knows exactly what to do. At least how I want it done. I cum twice, both his fault. He cums once on my face. I wanted more of it, because I feel that this kid works magic. He frowns when he sees my cum-drenched face and bolts to the bathroom and takes the toilet paper. I follow him and just rinse my face. We lay back down. Amazed at how experienced this seemingly innocent, young ringer is. I thought about Long Time, but I never do that with first-time encounters (I know, its weird). I pay him 2000 baht. We never agreed on a tip amount, I asked multiple times the answer was always “Up to you.” Takes the cash but doesn’t count it and says thanks. We talk for a bit, sponsored by Google Translate. I know more about his current situation. Parents poor, siblings are deadbeats, its up to him to help support the family. Everyone is closeby, parents are in Bangkok. Wants to go to school, and that might come later with more money from customers. I tell him about my trip so far (not edited, he knows sex touri life). We exchange Line. We kiss, he leaves, I get the guard phone call. And then, as I tuck myself in, I get an animated emoji from him on Line: it’s Cupid, with wings, hearts surrounding him, bow and arrow in hand, targeting my heart. Welp.

I use AMA Fashion, at the corner of Second Rd and Central Pattaya Rd, short ride on Baht Bus from Boyztown . I paid 22,000 baht overall for 2 two-piece suits and 5 dress shirts. Both suits are 100% wool. I think you can average about 6000-12000 per suit, depending on the quality of the cloth, cut, fit you want. I like slim fit, so it took me more fittings to get that good contoured look. The shirts are 1500-2000 baht, less if you get more, obviously. I've used these guys three times now, 2 and 3 piece suits, dress shirts and casual button downs. Good quality, the fit is excellent, no problem taking them to American dry cleaners, they have held up so far. TripAdvisor link: http://www.tripadvisor.com/Attraction_Review-g293919-d1603335-Reviews-Ama_Fashion-Pattaya_Chonburi_Province.html

Day 6 (Part 1) I wake up at 8:30 AM. It’s too early! I get woken up by doors slamming outside. These walls don’t keep the noise out at all. I toss and turn till 9:30, and I finally give up and check Line. I get messages from first Thai boy, PwC Guy and 24 yr-old Pattaya hotel worker that I just started talking to last night. At 6 AM he messaged me saying he just got out of work. I message back, he immediately responds. Says he’s in bed but can’t sleep. We exchange a lot of cutesy emojis but nothing about meeting up, or the possibility of sex. No reason at all to push it. Grindr and Hornet yields a ton of Money Boy pings. I answer the ones with promising pics. 3 guys reply back, they’re awake at 10 AM. They quote 1000-1500 baht for everything, even massage. This town has cheap boys. In the past I’ve tried about 8 MBs on Grindr/Hornet/PRomeo, and consistently I’ve been asked 1000-1500 baht, no more. Out of that number, only one was memorable, and the rest were just so-so sex, and rushed things (you get what you pay for?). The one that stuck with me,I still see from time to time. Cambodian, 23, super twink, beautiful (angelic) as hell. Demanding, asks for money when I am in USA. I never give him the money, but see him when I can in Pattaya. Great English skills, had a former faring BF pay for English lessons. Got replaced by someone younger (younger than 23? Crikey). More about him this trip. Not really wanting to get any MB online this trip. I turn my attention to free boys, and there was one Thai guy (28, average looks), who was chatty. He ran a taxi service, and wanted to get breakfast. He suggests the Lek Hotel buffet. It was a 9-minute walk from Aya. I get there, pay 199 baht and get a card I put at the table to signify that I had paid. I meet Taxi guy, he’s already paid up and eating. Not my type, but I think this was just a breakfast meeting anyway. English is good, and he had some great Pattaya tips he shared with me. It was pleasant company, and I learned a few things from a Pattaya resident. Food was fine. Western pastries, some warm meats (no bacon, my holy grail), Thai rice and noodle dishes, and rice porridge. The juice was hideous, but I was warned online that fresh juice is rare at cheap buffets. But for 199 Baht, you can fill up with quick with decent enough food. Moral of the story: Grindr is not all about sex. Since this is a fitness vacation I plan to burn every calorie I’ve taken in from that buffet. The Aya Hotel has the most minimal fitness center. The 6th floor had a fitness room with one treadmill, one elliptical, and puny weights and a weight bench. It had also some seating that had views of the sea(wer). I check it out, and immediately go online and check out my options in the city. I find Tony’s Group Gym (http://www.tonydisco.com/Fitness.html), which I guess is a chain of fitness centers (and discos) around Pattaya. There is one by Third Road and South Pattaya Rd. Google says it’s a 17-minute walk. If I walk it, and back, that’s cardio already. I get there, there are two versions of the gym. One is the open-air, no aircon, “locals” part of the gym. I’m guessing cheaper here, but did not check. I go to the aircon, “farang” building, where the fee is 250 baht for a day pass. No pool, just access to lockers and bathroom. Equipment is pretty extensive but old and decaying, presumably from the corrosive humidity and sea air that is a fixture in Pattaya. I can work with this. Clientele was mostly farang, there were two younger farang who look good. Got a great 1.5 hour workout, warmed up from the chaotic walk from Aya to here. They also sell protein shakes, ranging from 90-150 baht. I get the 150 baht version, and get a banana protein shake that was decent. Walking back to the hotel was actually pretty fun. I never see Pattaya by walking like this, opting for the Baht Bus or cab whenever I want to go anywhere. I never really thought Pattaya was anything special that I needed to sightsee. But walking probably showed me a more interesting slice of it away from the tourist traps. I make a mental note to get out of my tourist bubble next trip. I get to Aya at around 2:30 PM. I’m sweating like crazy, but feel exhilarated by the workout and the walk. Open up my apps. Line from Hotel boy and Cambodia boy. Emojis for both. Grindr and Hornet was busy with lots of pics from MBs that i've replied to. Naked bodies, penises, asses, holes. These guys must really need the business. Tempted to get a 1000 baht boy and just have my way with him. About to pull the trigger on a Cambodia boy who looked way too young than what I am comfortable with, but looked at the time and see that I have to get ready for my first fitting at the tailor. I shower, take the Baht bus, arrive at the tailor, get fitted for the jacket, and they already had the pants made to do a first fitting for. The pants even managed to show off my ass in a good way (LOL). I like it. These guys are fast. They have refreshments at the ready as well. I feel good, they do good work. It’s 6 PM by the time I get back to the hotel. Hotel boy is up and chats me up again on Line. We exchange pics of recent vacations we’ve taken. He gives me some of Hong Kong, I give him some of Tokyo. He looks happy, active, and way hot in his pics. Still no talk about meeting, but I waste a good hour just doing this. I keep doing it but go to Royal Plaza Garden to get some t-shirts to wear for the next few days (150 baht each). It’s 7:30 PM, and I decide to take a nap for an hour, to be reenergized for the long night ahead, and hopefully wake up in time to catch the 10PM show at Xboys. I'm getting a new boy tonight. To be continued.

I know. IHG is very stingy with their perks. I think that the IHG loyalty program is more of a "points program", and Marriott's and Hilton's are more of a "perks programs". With IHG, you get your rewards after your stay, and the others, you get it during your stay. Result: I get so much more points in IHG than the others, per stay (thus get way more free nights), but get fewer perks when I do stay. Whenever I use the two Marriotts in Pattaya, I always get free breakfast, and a way better room upgrade, for free, but it takes me longer to get free nights in general, with Marriott.

Its never too late to have fun TomNg! Good luck on your travels, and I'm glad these reports are giving you motivation to have the fun you think you've missed.

Day 5 Heading to Pattaya today. I’m planning to spend 8 days in Pattaya, with the goal of getting two suits and five dress shirts custom made at my favorite tailor. Oh yeah, I’m there for the boys as well. I was also going to try Sunee Plaza this trip, and see some of my regular money boys. I try to wake up my Thai boy, and end up giving him a blow job and him cumming. I get breakfast at the lounge with Thai boy, breakfast was free even for him. I tell him I come back in 8 days and will want to see him again. We go back to the room, I give him 3500 baht (I spoil him, I don’t care), and he gives me a big wet kiss and leaves. In the past he has opened up to me about some struggles he’s had with parents, Issan, bf trouble, farang trouble, and life in general. I am hoping I will be his friend long after he leaves this line of work, because I think he’s just a cool, hard-working guy. I ask for late checkout (1 PM), get a workout in, and check out of the Crowne Plaza. Get charged 1800 baht plus tax total for the lounge access, not bad for a 3-day stay. I booked my usual car service to take me to Pattaya (http://www.pttaxiservice.com/). They’ve been always prompt and fairly predictable in the past 2 years I’ve used them. Someday I will learn how to take cheaper forms of transportation to get to Pattaya from BKK, but right now the 1100 baht I give them to pick me up door-to-door from Hotel 1 in BKK to Hotel 2 in Pattaya, is working for me right now. Drive to Pattaya is uneventful. Thursday mid-afternoon traffic is non-existent. Open up Grindr during the drive, and get into a pleasant conversation with a long-time farang resident (Aussie guy), who has lived south of BKK for 6 years now. He talks about the ups and downs of expat life in Thailand, as well as his current, former money boy, boyfriend (cute af). I talk to him about my wish to invent a wormhole that connects California to Bangkok and be able to skip the arduous 17+ hour plane ride just to get to this beautiful and sexy part of the world. With Grindr open for 1.5+ hours, my battery gets drained down to 10%. I get to my first Pattaya hotel, the Aya Boutique hotel, near Boyztown. This is my first non-IHG, non-Marriott hotel I am staying in Thailand, as I am trying to mix it up this trip. Research before trip yielded: no joiner fee and check boy ID, certain rooms have street/bar noise, booked for 1500 a night (advanced, prepaid rate), which seems reasonable. I did not get the breakfast rate, as I wanted to explore the “breakfast buffet scene” in Pattaya. I arrive with passport and credit card in hand, and check-in took all of 3 minutes, which included them making a photocopy of my passport. First problem of the stay: they gave me a room facing the busy courtyard where the African-themed restaurant and another outdoor bar was. They were already playing loud music at 4 PM, so I am thinking this may be an issue. Everything else about the hotel was fine: safe to hide money and passport – check, enough towels for dirty deeds – check, free bottled water to survive the heat – check. Toiletries were kind of paltry, but did not expect much, since I am used to the services at American chain hotels. Open up Grindr/Hornet/PRomeo and immediately get accosted by a deluge of Money Boy pings. Some free boys too, most of them messaging me in Thai. I guess I look Thai on Grindr. Start up a conversation with an interesting free boy. He’s 24, works at the Hilton Pattaya, and was just waking up (its 6 PM). Nothing sexual was discussed but he asked for my Line. We message there and I look at his profile on Line. Lots of photos, and he is adorable. Tall, tan, fit and always doing fun things in his photos. I continue to talk to him, and have to go through a lot of those animated emojis in Line that the kids are into these days, but no real urgency with him or I to meet soon. He says he just woke up this late, because he has the night shift at the hotel. At 7 PM I take a Baht Bus to my tailor. I get my measurements taken again just in case I’ve changed. They commented I’ve gotten bigger from last time. Gosh I hope they meant more muscular. We plan for two more fittings in the coming days and they say I will get my 2 suits and 5 shirts in 5 days. I hunt for dinner, and settle for a Thai Omelet at a random Second Rd restaurant. 150 baht with drink, cheap. Take a nap, and wake up at 10:45 PM. Ooops, I overslept and missed the first show at Xboys (10PM), and Boyzboyzboyz (10:30PM). Take a shower, look out my window, Pattaya is in full swing on a Thursday night. Decide on Boyzboyzboyz (BBB) as I wasn’t sure what I was in the mood for tonight, and I wanted to check out the Cabaret show at 12 Midnight. BBB is like Dreamboys in BKK, has the most diverse boy collection among the bars around it. I’ve had great success getting boys there, and the show is entertaining. I get to BBB around 11:35 PM. No CNY pricing, but then again, CNY is over, so drink price is at “regular” 350 baht. Mamas recognized me from past visits and have me sit down close to the stage. They are just wrapping up their Sexy Boy show that started at 10:30, and I see there was a shower number that just ended. Some boys join the shower number, but they are wearing briefs. Interesting start to my night. Boys towel off, the stage gets mopped up and dried, and some boys line up and advertise their wares. I like going to this bar, for the show, for the boys, but also because one mamasan knows exactly what I am into, and what kind of boy I like. I always give him 100 baht whenever he gets me someone satisfactory, and he always does this every visit. So you can imagine the boys he sets me up with are usually younger, mostly gay, and once in a while fem. No problems with more fem guys, as long as the body is the right look (abs, muscular), and knows how to use his dick. Hopefully eyebrows not too manicured and definitely no makeup. One time, he recommended a boy (guy, really) who looked straight, super masculine, and had a body for Tawan (bodybuilder). Mamasan says he does everything, like I like. I did not believe him, I said he looks like he is a total top and won’t even kiss. He insists that the boy does do everything, and after some contemplation I relent and say yes. The boy sits with me, and mamasan gives him a stern talking to. Maybe to tell him I want him to do everything? He tries to be sweet, tries to be affectionate, but could tell it’s all forced. At this point I wanted to off him just to see what would happen. In a nutshell: he bottomed, there was blood, it was painful for him; he kissed, not into it, but kept doing it; he gave me oral, badly, but persevered. He was a mountain of a man, handsome, great dick, even greater ass. While not the best sexual experience, was hot and fun nevertheless and makes for a great story. I don’t bother exchanging Line with boys I do not intend to see again, and he was one of them. Asked for 2500 baht short time, high for Pattaya, but I gladly paid. Arriving later at a bar means most of the good ones are taken, and you are left with the ones not picked yet. I get my drink (Singha), and start assessing the boys. Lots of new ones for sure. I like 70% of them, and if I were to guess, they are probably total tops. Mamasan points to another super masculine, muscular guy, says he does everything. I guess its gonna be one of those nights. He was super handsome: he looks like a younger Daniel Dae Kim http://theactorsdiet.com/2010/04/27/interview-with-daniel-dae-kim/. I immediately remember what happened last time. Do I want good sex, or a good story? He sits down, says his name. I get him a drink. He takes my hand, they feel rough and had callouses. I ask him a bunch of questions: he’s 26, he’s Thai, he comes from Issan (shocker), and English not so good. I say fine, how long have you been a money boy? He does not understand, I grab mamasan, translate please. Boy says 2 months. What were you before, he said farmer. I immediately find this interesting. Callouses still a little bit fresh from past life, and have not smoothed out yet from the lotions found in countless hotel rooms in Pattaya. Cabaret show starts, and is always a good time. These girls know how to sell the illusion, and the backup boy dancers are cute. I always wonder if they are off-able. I give 20 baht tips to the girls who do a good job. First night in Pattaya, still in a generous mood. My boy holds my hand the whole time, but does not talk to me or shows affection. I expected this. The show ends around 12:45 AM, and afterwards the stage is engulfed with boys still not offed. There probably 50 of them still. That’s a lot of boys. Mamasan tells me some are short-timers who are just there for Chinese New Year. Business has been slowing down now that the holiday is almost over. Boys wearing jeans now instead of usual briefs. Presumably because they are “ready to go” with you to you hotel. My guy gets dressed. Simple jeans and white t-shirt (slim fit, you see muscles), suggesting he is really straight. I pay 1050 baht (My drink, boy drink, off fee). Tried talking to him but English really poor. It takes us 5 minutes to walk from Boyztown to Aya Hotel. We get to the hotel, the courtyard area parties are dying down. It’s 1 AM, there is a guard. He recognizes me, but talks to the boy in Thai and boy takes out his ID and gives it to the guard. He then asks me what my room number is. This is the first time this has happened to me in Thailand, as none of my IHG or Marriott hotels has even done this. But I like it, because I feel the hotel cares about security. We get to room, he starts undressing to shower, but I tell him wait, and he sits down. I take out google translate, and he knows how to use it. I get some conversation out of him. Family had a farm in Issan, but no money in farming so forced to go Pattaya. He has a girlfriend and she knows and does not ask questions. I ask if he likes kissing guys. He thinks for a bit, and says yes. I ask again, tell him he can be honest with me. He insists on keeping up the illusion, and says he loves kissing guys and bottoming. I don’t believe it, and will find out soon enough. He showers, I shower. Summary: he kisses: but not open mouth, not satisfying; he sucks dick: fairly well, and was my favorite part; his dick is huge: and I thought about bottoming for the first time this trip, and I suck gladly; he bottoms: fairly easily, but he makes a pained face. I fuck him, he gets soft, but he is a shower, so it flops around while he gets fucked, and I like this visual. I tell him he needs to cum, it takes him a while, but eventually does it on my chest. He sits back down, laughs, maybe in relief. I get google translate and told him “Good job, thanks for playing along, I had a good time.” He got the gist of my message, and took my phone and told google to translate “I like you. Can I see you again.” I laugh, tell him are you sure. And then spent 15 minutes using google translate to ask me about my trip, my life, how is the USA, do I have a wife (LOL). He showers, gets dressed. We agree on 1500 baht in the bar. I give him 2000 baht. The American in me always wants to give a tip. I know that 1500 baht is the actual tip, but not to me, and I feel he deserved an actual tip. He gives me a chaste hug, and leaves. 2 minutes later my phone rings: it’s the guard from downstairs asks “OK for your friend to leave?”, I say “Yes, thank you”. It is 3 AM. I look outside my window. The party had ended outside, and, just now, inside as well.

Will do. I created this post some days before my trip and I got a few private messages after that: http://www.gaythailand.com/forums/topic/10235-bkk-26-210-pattaya-210-218-bkk-218-221/ Thanks for thinking the posts are entertaining. It's very stream of consciousness the way I do these, and sometimes I get carried away with the sex stuff but oh well lol.

Day 4 Interesting night. Wake up at 10AM, and have breakfast at the lounge again. Excellent as always. Go to gym, get great workout. Go to Gay Protein Shake shake and chat up the boys. Fourth morning in Thailand and already I have a routine. At the gym, I again check Grindr/Hornet/PRomeo. Now its 50-50 Money Boys and free boys. One free boy was interesting, Thai, 28, darker skin, abs, lean muscular, and cute face. Felt too good to be true, might be a stealth money boy. Photos sent are the requisite bare torso, dick and ass pic. We exchange Line, and I get to see his Line account. He had more pictures there, lots of photos of him biking, running, and in beaches. OK, probably legitimate, and felt I’ve done my due diligence. We agree to meet at Crowne Plaza. I shower, and he gets there 40 minutes later. He is as advertised, probably looks even better, but is fairly quiet at first. Probably feeling me out. He is sweaty (its particularly hot and humid today), but smells good. We get to the room. He immediately unpacks a charger from his backpack, and charges his phone (the curse of living in the 21st Century). Takes off his sweaty shirt, reveals a sweaty smooth tan torso with abs. I am sold. He looks at the skyline from my 30th floor view, and identifies names of buildings that he knows. He tells me that he just quit his job at a hotel and taking a month break to see parts of Thailand he has not seen yet. He was going to get on a bus and ferry to some southern island later today (why don’t I remember these details), and wanted to meet me because I will be gone when he gets back to BKK later this month. English is decent, and smile is cute. He proceeds to shower, and takes his time. He comes out wrapped in a towel, and I immediately take off my clothes and take off his towel. That’s a beautiful dick. We then kiss, go to the bed, kiss some more. He loves to kiss, I love to kiss. We kiss and we kiss. No joke, probably 30 minutes of kissing. Needed to drink some water (kissing is dehydrating), and then kissed some more. I could do this all day. No fucking, just oral, but was very satisfying. He came twice, once a gusher, another a trickle, but could tell he was into it. So was I. His dick was beautiful, and I probably sucked on that thing more than I’ve sucked a dick on any guy. Perfect shape, not too big or small, uncut and really pretty. After that we talked some more. He wanted me to visit South Thailand more, and get out of the BKK/Pattaya bubble. I agreed with him, especially if he was there, I said. He laughed and said just Line him anytime. After about an hour of kissing and talking, he showers again, and leaves. Nap time: 2 hours only this time. I think jet-lag has left the building. Took the BTS to Siam Paragon, did not buy anything. Realized I would rather be on a Southern Thai island with Thai guy. But then sex touri needs to go to show tonight. At 10 PM, I go to Dreamboys. We are still at surge pricing at 500 baht, but sex touri don’t care. I immediately see one of my regulars, a Thai guy, a little bit older than me, and very hunky. Dark skin, lean muscular, handsome face, a bit of a mustache. He is gay, and we’ve had in-depth conversations before about how tough holding on to a boyfriend while being a money boy. He has tried dating Thais before, but the money boy thing just makes it complicated. He’s still single, but happy, he said. He does not know how long he’s gonna be a money boy, as he approaches 40. He still gets customers though, so he doesn’t have a reason to stop. He says he saves his money. I think about it for 5 minutes, and then decide on just getting Thai guy tonight. Sure, I can get mamasan to identify a new bottom for me tonight (probably the newest export from Issan), but I felt the familiarity of Thai guy is what I needed tonight. I immediately ask him to change to street clothes, and we see the show together. Same same! Same sexy boy dance, same drag queens with dicks hanging out (with Chinese New year twist), same elaborate dance numbers (different songs sure, but same same people). Neon show, fuck show. We leave before the show ends. Total is 1350 baht. I don’t ask why, I just hope most of that goes to my guy. We decide to go to DJ station on Silom Soi 2 to get some drinks and dance. DJ Station is one of my favorite dance clubs ever in the world. The music is great (universal pop music), the crowd is good looking (80% asian guys mostly in their 20s), though it can be too crowded in the weekends. I’ve used it to meet some Grindr hookups before, and it’s a good way to assess a trick before doing the deed. I pay 300 baht each for the both of us, which is the cover and also includes two beers. He orders us the drinks, and then we stand in the middle of the dance floor and drink. A Madonna song comes on, Thai guy tells me she is in BKK and her concert is tonight. He knows the words (Madonna is the closest thing to be universally gay I guess), and I sing along. We dance a little bit, and then I realize the one thing that I can’t do with my BF, I am doing with Thai guy. Thai guy is 5’9 ish, so us both standing we can see each others faces. We can kiss, we can talk eye to eye with comfort, and we can dance with our eyes locked in. With my BF, who is 6’5, I am unfortunately stuck with looking at his chest all night on the dance floor. While it is a good-looking chest, he has to lean down to talk, kiss, or be affectionate to me. Thai guy is very good with the boyfriend experience. Advantage of getting someone older I’m sure. He is very protective as well, and holds my hand the whole time. Advises me to protect my money from the pickpockets that haunt DJ Station, something I already know how to do. After two drinks he gets more handsy, and being his sole target of affection, shows it in a way only boyfriends in love can. At 1 AM we decide to leave and find street food. We settle on someone who had noodle soup and some coconut juice. We talk some more about life in general, and showed appreciation that I like to see him whenever I am in BKK. Food was delicious (about 210 baht, and 60 baht for the coconut juice), and we head back to the hotel. He showers, I shower. He knows I love his nakedness, and his brown and beautiful lean muscular body is a sight to behold. He is hard immediately (even before we get to the hotel), and stays hard the whole encounter. He wanted to fuck me, but knows it wasn’t gonna happen. He teases my hole though, and dry humps me. I fuck him, I cum in the condom pretty quickly. He cums, and I endeavor to cum again. We shower together, and then sleep. He gets to be big spoon tonight. Sweet dreams.

Next time, no matter how horny I am, i will verify. And definitely will say no if things are not right. Good advice

Great :-). I'm back April with the bf and will be staying by myself also for a while, so you or any members who want to meet are welcome.

Day 3 Slept like a baby on these Crowne Plaza beds. Definitely a good decision. Get to Lounge room and get breakfast. I order an omelet, get bacon, ham, and fried rice, and order a coffee and orange juice from cute hotel worker. Other Thai and Western things in the buffet also. Felt like looking for a white guy in Grindr. Whenever I get these urges, it always ends up a disaster. It is best to just let things happen organically on these apps, and it will cum. If you force it on the gay apps, it usually never happens the way you want it to go. I chat up a few guys, probably getting 30% replies back. One guy looked promising. Says he is in his 40s, furry chest. Been dining on smooth Asians up to this point, something opposite sounds good right now. But I didn’t verify enough. He comes to hotel, is older than he says, and out of shape. I make the most of it, but felt cheated. Not gonna say anything else about it. I shower after, too long, to get rid of the remnants of sex, and the shame (ugh). I change to gym clothes and take out my frustration on the weights. I felt better afterwards, and my protein shake from Gay Protein Shake place was especially good. Talk to the shake guys a little bit. Life is good again. Go back to hotel, make plans with Forum Member 2 (FM2) for tonight. He’s a fellow American, early 40s, blonde look I like, and in town for work. We plan on meeting at hotel and heading out to Jupiter to see the show. I think about getting a Massage, but I think I am just not a sensual massage kind of guy. Sure its fun, and probably good for my sore muscles after a workout, but I always feel the sex in massage places are awkward, at least for me. I like a good bed to have sex. A massage table is just not as inviting to me. Probably better if I get the massage in my hotel room (and I have done it), but my regular is in Singapore at the moment. I just jack off and take a 5 hour nap. Make it in time for Crowne Plaza Lounge happy hour at 74:0 PM, and get three red wines and some crab sliders, mushroom and cheese bits, and some salad. Again, all included in that 600 baht a day charge for access to the lounge. Not bad at all. Meet with FM2 at the lobby at around 9:30 PM. He’s as tall as my BF (at 6’5). I’m 5’7, short guy, but I am used to this height deficit. He’s cute, and from Washington state area, so we talk about the Pacific Northwest. He says he just lurks around the forums and never really posts anything, but follows the advice. I love his deep voice, which is usual for tall guys anyway. He thinks I’m cute. Hey, this might be something. We go to Jupiter, and they have higher drink price as others (450 baht), for Chinese New Year. We realize that its like surge pricing for Uber, and I guess one has to plan his vacations to avoid these special holidays, to save money, just like with Uber and planning your rides after surge pricing. We talk about how brilliant it is to have an Uber equivalent for getting boys, and then we realized Grindr was already this equivalent, and being the new kid in town and becoming fresh meat was the equivalent to surge pricing yourself on Grindr. Customers were almost 100% Chinese. I certainly got my fair share of “Nihaos” in the bar. But even if I was with the only white guy in the room (I think there was one other guy), we were pretty much left alone the whole night. The show was pretty consistent, though it was more drag queen-centric than I remember. The sequence is: sexy boy dance, drag queen dance, sexy boy dance, drag queen lip-sync, sexy boy dance, more drag queens. These queens were good, and almost can mouth out the English lyrics accurately. As the show went on, the boys got more naked, “climaxing” to their shower show, and then rinse down. The boys definitely had a specific look: tall, smooth, fair-skinned, and a boyish to manly look. Most are Chinese looking. I could pick out easily 50% of the boys I’d be interested in offing. And there were three boys that night that were just drop dead gorgeous, and amazing abs. Movie star quality, the type you see in HK cinema, which was probably the look they were going for, to attract the current clientele. They were immediately called over and presumably offed. I ask mamasan to point out bottoms, he mentions two numbers. I laugh, since I’ve offed these two guys in the past. They were expensive, but had that look, and were bottoms, and a lot of fun, so I guess they had their own Uber surge pricing. I did not have an intention to off anyone tonight, and I was having tons of fun with FM2. It was his first time in Jupiter, and knew its reputation. He said he was not going to off anyone either, and was content with present company. I take his hand, he’s OK with it. Life is good. The end LOL. I don’t need to report on the rest of the night.

Thanks vinapu. I'll keep them coming. I took notes during my trip.

Day 2 (Part 2) I set the alarm for 7:15 PM, so I can catch the happy hour drinks and food at the Crowne Plaza. The Plaza lounge is nice and my favorite part of the hotel. They have free unlimited coffee, juices, sodas and tea that you can access any time of the day still 11 PM. And at 5-8 PM they have a (free) happy hour food and drinks thing at the Plaza lounge. I get there, and there are about 5 other parties there, mostly Japanese. I give them my room number, and order a red wine. The food is mainly appetizers, but I usually just eat a lot enough for dinner (I gotta save money when I can). I get some sushi, duck breast, chicken kabobs, and some cheese and bread. Waiter who gets my red wine is handsome, looks 21, and has excellent English. Leave a 20 baht tip at the end. 8 PM now, plenty of time to shower and get ready for the night. Check my messages and make plans with some forum members. Check Line and Thai boy from last night replies with a “5555”, reacting to my hickey pic. He sends a photo back of himself shirtless. He knows what sells. Asks me if I wanted to meet again. I say maybe, I’ll get back to you. PwC guys checks in also and says hi. I say I have plans. Check Grindr, get some promising money boy offers. But damn it, I want to go to a bar, see a show, grope a guy, have him sit with me and take him home. Tawan is probably my favorite bar, in terms of just pure entertainment value at least from what I look for in an entertainment bar. Oh sure, Dreamboys might have the best overall show, Jupiter might have better consistent quality in the look of their boys, but Tawan just has the better package overall. The bar is dark but not too dark, ample seating, good views almost anywhere, and even if a boy (ok, guy) is just standing there by the sidelines, he is almost as entertaining too look at as what’s happening on stage. Because these guys are jacked, muscular and wearing tiny (really tiny) briefs. Ok, so this may be just run-of-the mill briefs that any boy in BKK bars wear, but when a humoungous muscular body with trunk like thighs and a big butt gets squeezed into them, the effect is striking, as least for me. Plus, my usual boner shrinkers are not there (lady boys, fem mamasans, drag queens). Nothing wrong with those, but not for what I need my sex fantasy place should have. I get there at 9:50 PM, and the drinks are 500 baht (special Chinese New Year show!). They really are fleecing everyone because of CNY. No problem, I sex touri, I pay. I get sat down. I’ve been to this bar probably 10 times, and have some regulars already. One of my regulars, a Lao guy, spots me and sits with me. Says hi, English is great. I notice he has gotten bigger, more muscular, more cut. His grin is wider, and is more handsy and affectionate than before. We talk about my travel plans, and I ask him about his girlfriend and how that is going. He continues to sit with me, not asking to off him, and mamasan leaves me alone, not insisting to get drink for him. I am really turned on by this, and it was my intention to get a new boy tonight, Lao boy is making a good case for himself. 10:20 PM comes, Lao boy gets called to go to stage, so he says goodbye and heads to stage to advertise his wares. I make a quick decision, and tell him, you don’t have to, I’ll off you, let me buy you a drink, and just sit with me for the whole show. He smiles, kisses me deeply, sits back down, and then just gives me a good head and shoulder and back rub for the rest of the night, throughout the show. THIS IS WHY I GO TO GOGO BARS. The show was fine. Chinese lanterns and decorations on stage (500 baht!). Some sexy dancing, a chuck wow show, some number with some guy dressed a feudal chinese guy, flogging a twinky guy to submission. I counted about three fuck shows (as in some guy fully erect fucking another guy). One fuck show had two guys fucking each other (flip-flopping) so that was interesting. One of them was kind of fat-muscular, but it was hot nonetheless. This was a Monday night, and announcer says they have two shows on weekends (is this true?). Show ends around 11:40 PM. My guy goes out back and puts on street clothes. Final bill is 1250 baht (My drink, boy drink, off fee, pricey but: I am on vacation!). I tip captain 100 baht for leaving me alone earlier. Walk to hotel, I notice him sniffling and hiding a cough. I ask if he is sick, he says a little bit. He says he just needs rest and will be fine. But he can perform no problem. I probably should’ve taken that as a sign. We get to Crowne Plaza, no one ever checks ID there. We get to room, takes off his shirt, and confirms that, yes, he is more muscular and cut than last September when I saw him last. I take out my phone and find photos that I took of him last September. I show it to him, and see the difference in physique. I am impressed, and I take more pics of him flexing, smiling, having fun, and sometimes coughing (oh dear). He showers, and then my turn. I finish and head to the bed. He is looking at his phone, dick in hand, trying to get hard. I see that he has loaded up straight Japanese porn on his phone, and using that to fluff himself for me. That was concerning. Last time he didn’t need it, was hard all throughout, now he has problems. I’m a pretty laid-back guy, so I am OK with the porn in the background. It actually was fine, and was a bit turned on by it. But he was intently looking at it, wanting to get hard, and not being able to. He then turns to me and kisses me, licks my torso, take my dick in his mouth (no condom), and stays there for a while working on my dick and looking at the porn. What a multi tasker. I felt bad for him. He clearly is having problems, is clearly sick, but wants me to have fun. I try to make the most of it and help him out. I have him lay down, and I work on him, Worship his body, his hard work, his money maker. It’s an impressive body, worthy of worshipping, and I’d probably be fine just doing that and chuck-wowing myself and still be happy. He kept wanting to work on me but I took my time worshipping his body. I got to his ass, nice pink hole. I rim him, it tastes like heaven, and was content on doing this for a while. He gets hard a little bit, so I put on the condom and fucks him a little bit. He gets soft, look at porn, but makes “porn-quality” groans that he feels he needs to do as a sex worker. I tell him he doesn’t have to do that, he smiles and apologizes, and I continue. I stop after 5 minutes, that’s enough I think. I pull out, lay next to him, kisses me, wraps his arm around my neck, and then puts his mouth on my nipple and sucks, and then chuck wows me with the other hand, with his massive legs draped around mine. He knows I like this. I cum too long, he is drenched is sweat. He then stands on his knees and chuck wows himself (he also knows I want boy to cum no matter what). He is adamant to get cum out of him. He is struggling to stay hard, but seeing that struggle, and seeing his muscles tense up and his abs contract with every stroke, was a huge turn on in itself. He finally cums, after too long I think. He looks at me, smiles, apologizes, and promises he’ll get better for me next time. He showers, and when he gets out I take more pictures (naked, and promised only for my consumption). I give him 2500 baht, because he’s been with me since 10 PM, and its 1-ish now. He is grateful, and says he needs to do a visa run in the next few days, but Line him anyway to see if I need him. I tell him to get better.

Day 2 (Part 1) A new hotel can be both a blessing and a curse. The Holiday Inn Express Sathorn only opened last December, so the chrome finishings are still shiny, key cards fresh and working, and facilities in excellent working order. Bad things about it: staff is new so not as efficient, other parts of hotel still have workers installing stuff, and my pet peeve this week: the bed is hard as hell. I like a nice pillow top mattress, so a new standard bed (not broken in) in Thailand means it is rock hard. Tossed and turned the past two nights on this new mattress, and decided at this point that I might have to move hotels. So yesterday I cash in 75,000 points on IHG to get three nights at the Crowne Plaza Lumpini Park. It’s my go-to hotel for BKK. Pricey if you have to pay (average 3500-4500 baht a night), but great if you can get it for free, obviously. Has excellent gym facilities so Clark Hatch gym won’t be needed at this point. There really is nothing wrong with the Holiday Inn Express Sathorn. The breakfast is again excellent this morning, its fairly quiet, facilities are up to par or exceeds western standards, and is relatively cheap. Plus its close to Chong Nonsi, walking distance (for me) to Soi Twilight, and no joiner fee for one boy/girl. So 10 AM I eat breakfast, pack my shit up. Flush the used condom from last night (hey that was fun, I smile). Notice that I need more lube (how much did we use last night???), and take off my clothes to shower. And I see it, that giant hickey on my chest. What was a great, passionate, symbol of lust I proudly took from Thai boy the night before, was now a big, dark red, unattractive splotch on my chest. I try to rub on it to see if it goes away (like I do with past hickeys, and it never works). I take a picture of it and send it to Thai boy. No reply, probably still asleep. I shower, check out of the hotel, and hotel gets a taxi for me. Tip concierge 20 baht, and off I go to Crowne Plaza. 60 baht cab ride. I get to Crowne Plaza at 12 noon. Concierge there knows me by now, and greets me with small talk. Check-in is at 23rd floor, and check-in was efficient, as expected. I get upgraded to a Premiere room, as always. I accept the upsell for access to the Crowne Plaza Executive lounge for 600 baht a night. I gladly accept, knowing that I will be able to get (a) another upgrade, this time to an Executive room and (b) I get free breakfast and happy hour dinner and drinks. Good deal I think, considering that I am not paying to stay there anyway. It’s over in under 5 minutes, and I’m now unpacking and changing to gym clothes. At the gym I peruse Grindr/Hornet/PRomeo. Have an interesting conversation with a Thai guy office-type in Grindr while I lift. He’s close to 6 feet, (centimeters throwns me off) nice tan skin, with glasses. He’s very cute, and looks younger than 30 in his pics. He’s a financial analyst for a Big Four firm (PwC?). He asks what I like, I answer “everything but…”. I am not a bottom. I was a bottom in my 20s, when I was a a super twink. Now in my 30s I have graduated to being a muscular Asian, and bottoming does not give me pleasure anymore. I’m naturally dominant, so topping is a natural way to go. The conversation quickly turns into exchanging photos. Photos of penises, holes, body. I like what I see. We make an appointment for 6 PM, after his work. Works for me, so I can nap, shower, fuck, dinner, drinks, show, and fuck to end the day. I finish at 2 PM, leave hotel and walk 5 minutes to Gay Muscle Protein shake shack. Give them a tip this time, they’re good guys. Change some of my dollars. The exchange rate is amazing. Go to Boots to get toiletries, lube and condoms, 7-11 to get new headphones (220 baht) and gatorades, and head back to hotel. Was about to take a nap when I get a Line message from PwC guy saying if we can meet now. He is horny and can’t wait. I say sure, give him room number, but ask him to meet him at first floor lobby, since the Crowne Plaza building configuration is kind of confusing to first timers. I shower, stage my new lube and condoms (I always put them always in the drawer with the bible, maybe to bless them?), and then wait for PwC guy. He arrives 20 minutes later, and I meet him at the lobby. He is handsome, geeky, and in office clothes (adds to the hotness). Big butt can be seen in those slacks. I can tell he’s shy, so I try to talk to him. He tells me about his work, I tell him about my trip so far (heavily edited, to not scare him). We get to the room. He wants to shower, I tell him he may, and I already did. He immediately kisses me and we do this for 15 minutes. I managed to take off his dress shirt revealing a tight, smooth torso. This will be fun. I had to tell him to shower now, since I wanted to go further. He asks to shower together, and we did. Kissing, sucking, rimming. All good stuff. He backs up to me, and allows me to have my the tip of my dick touch his hole. I could probably just slip it in and he wouldn’t mind. I don’t, but was very tempted. Towel off, get to the bed. He’s very tender, fairly slow but deliberate. He does not say anything about the hickey (embarrassing) thank goodness. I fuck him, he cums while fucking. I cum in the condom. I take off the condom, he checks it, and takes it to the bathroom, and comes out with towels. Such a gentleman. We cuddle, fall asleep for an hour, and then he has to leave. He tells me he is usually free during the day, and I should Line him anytime. He offers to come back later for dinner and spend the night. I say I have plans (sex touri). But keep him in mind if I get a slow day. I could easily just have spent the whole vacation with him, but that’s not why I am here. He seems interested in seeing me again and knowing me better, but I can’t go down that road. Before he leaves he kneels and puts my dick in his mouth. I get hard right away, but he needs to get back to work. He leaves. I jack off and cum. I fall asleep and dream of boys.

Day 1 Wake up at 10 AM, just in time for the free breakfast, a hallmark for all Holiday Inn Expresses anywhere in the world. Breakfast is excellent, eggs, hot meats, fried rice, rice porridge, and the usual pastries and cereal for Westerners. Why can’t they do this in USA Holiday Inn Expresses? Maybe everything is just better in Thailand. I notice a few gay Asian guests, but the majority are families. I see two obviously looking working girls with farang, but do not see any obvious money boys. Maybe I’m too jet-lagged to be discerning this morning. I’ve decided that this trip will be worth it if I also focus on fitness and losing weight and maintaining/increasing muscle mass, so I’ve researched my fitness options in Bangkok and Pattaya for this trip. The Holiday Inn Express does not have a complete gym, only some treadmills, ellipticals, and some puny weights. So I decided to go to the Clark Hatch Gym Thaniya on the 9th Floor Thaniya Plaza. Took me about 9 minutes to walk from the hotel to Thaniya Plaza, so I figure the hotel is more or less walking distance to the Soi Twilight bars. At Thaniya Plaza, it took me forever to find the correct set of elevators to get to the 9th floor, because I couldn’t figure out which ones to take. I first entered Thaniya Plaza from the Sala Daeng BTS station, not knowing this was the BTS wing of the building. Went up to 9th floor, nothing. Found the main Thaniya Plaza, but only found a hundred golf shops. I finally find the elevators to the 9th floor, and checked in to the gym. It’s very pricey for a day pass at 500 baht a day, but you get a change of clothes (tank top – or singlet here, and shorts), a small and large towel, and a locker. You also have access to the pool and the shower facilities. I get a good 2 hour workout in, and checked out some hot young Asians, presumably Thai, body builders. Do they work in Tawan? Probably not, but they certainly were the type. I went on to hunt for a post-workout protein shake. Do they exist in the Thailand? I was lucky, I stumbled upon this Jamba Juice type corner shop across the street from Flann O’Brien Irish Pub in Silom. Got the protein shake for 75 baht (super cheap, yummy and filling), and noticed the gay posters decorating this store. It’s a gay establishment! And the two guys making the shakes where very cute, Tawan type guys (muscley, late 20s). Maybe BKK is telling me to go to Tawan tonight as a first bar. I check my messages, and make plans with a forum member to have dinner tonight. I’m not comfortable revealing his username so let’s just say he comes from a neighboring country of Thailand and is close to my age. We also make plans to go see a gogo boy show. Should be fun. I get back to hotel and thankfully the maid has made up the room. It’s 1:30 PM and I check Grindr. More pings, and get some messages from some farang too. Had a serious conversation with a 24 year old Thai money boy (twinkish, fair skin - probably photoshopped, prefer darker skin anyway so its cool) who is offering massage and “I do everything” sex for 2000 baht. Seems something I would be interested in, but in between the jet lag and workout, I fall asleep. Luckily I set the alarm for 6 PM. Enough time to shower and do some research on some forum messages about Soi Twilight bars. I meet forum member 1 (FM1) for dinner, he suggests some street food, which I gladly accept, because at this point I’ve been in Thailand for 18 hours and all I’ve eaten are a couple of Kit Kat bars, an omelet, and a protein shake. We sit down for the street food, menu was in Thai, but had giant pictures of the dishes (for stupid tourists) as well. Since this is a fitness vacation, I opt to get a chicken curry (chicken, coconut milk – healthy) and no rice (don’t want bloating tonight). FM 1 decides on fish. Food was excellent, and FM 1 paid (thanks!). We then walk to Soi Twilight. I realized that we were close to Chong Nonsi BTS station, so it was a bit of a walk. But it was great talking to FM1, and we talk about life back home, and why we go to Thailand. Newsflash: we go for the boys. We decide to get a drink first at Dick’s Café. Nice bar for people watching, and I start getting excited about the possibilities the night might bring. 110 baht for a beer, I buy FM1’s drinks. I let FM1 decide what bar he wants to go to, since it is his last night in BKK. We go to X-Size at around 9:45 PM. Good looking boys (12 of them), about 4 customers, 1 farang and the rest older Asians. Drinks were 350 baht. FM1 makes googly eyes with one boy, and I guess this was enough for the boy to just get down the stage and sit with us. He was tall, cute, probably 21, and I immediately think of the things I want to do to him (something about burying my face in that great ass and eating it for days, among other things). But I settle for just a respectful grope and some required conversation (“You from America? I thought you chinese”). FM1 gets antsy, says he wants to see a show. It’s 10:30 PM, so Dreamboys probably is a good next bar. 500 baht drinks because it’s Chinese New Year, and supposedly there is special Chinese New Year show. Super expensive but oh well, I’m on vacation, and I want to see a Chinese New Year themed fuck show. I’ve been to Dreamboys probably 7 times, and the show is always the same. Not really the same, because they change the dance numbers fairly frequently (I enjoy them, and the Chinese crowd eats it up), but they usually have the same sexy dance number featuring their star (gorgeous guy, crazy abs, not off-able I believe), something with candles, something with neon paint, something with drag queens with dicks hanging out (for comic relief, newcomers love it). Between sets, the boys parade. Dreamboys always has quantity and diversity on its side. You like tall and masculine, he’s here. You like a twink with a boyish smile, he’s here. Muscular and a big dick, he’s here. I’m not in the mood to pick yet, I’m just enjoying the spectacle of it all. FM1 can’t decide. I decide to wait for FM1 to get one, and then I decide if I do as well. The show ends (11:30 PM, and a 12 AM show coming up), and we decide to leave because we were not feeling it with this bar. So we head over to Screwboys. I’ve only been to this bar once before, and was able to get a great bottom last time. So this is the third bar of the night, and with it, the third ridiculously expensive drink. But I was having fun, FM1 was good company, and this was the first night. We get to Screwboys, there was probably 12 customers there, and 15 boys. We sit down, and I immediately ask the mamasan to write down in a piece of paper the number of the boys who were bottoms. She gives me 6 numbers. I zero in on two guys. One looking super innocent, probably 19 and super twinky. The other, gorgeous face, probably late 20s, and has a ridiculous 8-pack. I ask mamasan if “they do everything”, and mamasan promises an amazing night of ecstasy whoever I choose. I choose older boy, and mamasan talks to boy for 30 seconds, presumably about my wishes (do everything). FM1 gets a hunky guy of his own, and both boys sit with us. We buy them drinks. My guy asks the required questions, and then has great follow up questions (“You from America? I thought you Vietnamese”). His English was pretty good actually, and that’s all I needed to decide to off him (ok, his 8-pack and big bulge helped). FM1 offs his guy as well. We get our bill, I am charged 1200 baht (My drink, boy drink and off fee), and FM1 is charged 1100 baht (for same things). I ask why I pay 100 baht more, and mamasan tells me I am offing the star of the bar. Bullshit or not, I am OK with it. We leave and FM1 and I part ways at the door, with respective boys in tow. I ask my guy if he wants to eat something. He gladly accepts, so we head to Foodland on Patpong to get something to eat. He picks a chicken dish that cost 120 baht. I get a water (fitness). We have a great conversation about his life, why he is a money boy, him being gay, and admitting that he was 34 years old. He thought I’d be mad because he lied before (he said 28), and I said I’m used to the age being fudged, because I guess they think youth sells, but I tell him that if I picked you it’s because you’re my type and you can hold a conversation with me. Time and again I get boys who are older than me, and this happens more often than not, because one of my musts is that the guy needs to be able to talk to me, and if you’re older, you have had more time practicing your English. Very pleasant conversation walking to the hotel. I open up about my work, and how I can afford my trips here. He opens up about family life, and his on-and-off gogo boy life, and failed businesses. We get to hotel, guard is there, but does not check ID. We talk for 30 minutes in the room, cuddling, kissing as well. He showers, gets out of bathroom in a towel. A body to die for, and a killer smile. Hard as a rock, I hurriedly shower, and then commence with the festivities. He sucked like a champ. I fuck him, and then he sits on my dick, he almost breaks said dick coz he is crazy excited. I pull out, he chuck wows me, a gusher. He then chuck wows himself, cum flies everywhere, and manages to get cum in his hair. We laugh, leave the cum there, and talk some more about silly stuff. He then puts his lips on my chest, and then leaves a giant hickey near my left nipple. A badge of honor. I don't care. I decided for just short time (jet lag is cruel), but paid him 2500 baht (we agreed on 2000 baht ST and 3000 baht LT beforehand), because I was feeling happy. We exchange Line, and I had every intention to see him again. 3 AM now, we probably fucked for 20 minutes , walked for 15 minutes, ate for 15 minutes, so that makes it a solid two hours of talking.

This is my 8th trip to LOS and its probably one of the longest ones I’m taking at 17 days. Usually I only take 4-9 days at a time because I’m usually in Asia for work, and this is the first time I’m going just for the heck of it. Background, I’m 34, Asian American, and have an 8-year relationship with a great guy (white, 33). Why do I go to Thailand? Well, I’m a horny bastard, and believe or not between my bf (sex life still there but has declined), occasional Grindr and Scruff hookups, and the random trick in West Hollywood gay bars (I live in SoCal), I need more. I am intoxicated by the sex industry in Thailand, and fascinated by the lives and try to make friends with the money boys and locals. I booked this trip way back in September, 2015 one week after my last trip to Thailand (9 days, BKK and Pattaya). That trip was great, and it was a trip of some firsts for me (first time at Jomtien Complex and had a blast, first Massage place I visited – Hero and then Senso). What tipped the scales for me to buy a ticket was the unbelievable $550 fare that United had for February. So decided to book a two-week trip to Thailand, and fast-forward to February, a week before my flight, forgetting why I booked this trip, and not wanting to go. Do I really want to endure that 10 hour flight to Tokyo, and then that 7 hour flight to BKK? Am I really that horny? Why can’t this Asian guy I just hooked up with (found on Grindr, mid-20s, twinkish, insatiable bottom) be enough? Relunctantly, I get some crisp $100 bills from Bank of America, do a giant load of laundry and haphazardly stuff clothes in my bag, and then ask my bf to drive me to LAX. He is used to me running away, due to my work travel and generous vacation package from my work. He’s coming with me this April for Songkran and GCircuit, and is eager to see what the fuss is all about with Thailand. I get on my flight, load up on sleeping pills… zzzz Day 0 I get to Suvarnabhumi at 11:45 PM. I guess it really is peak season, because immigration is packed. It took me probably 15 minutes to get through it, and then another 20 minutes waiting for my luggage. At this point, its 12:30 AM, and I’m just about to get a SIM card at the dtac counter for the Grindr/Hornet/PRomeo access that has been an intrinsic part of my experience in Thailand. Figure in getting in line for the SIM card, the 40-minute cab ride to my hotel (500 baht, never changed since 2014), I was at my hotel close to 2:00 AM. It’s probably too late even for Screwboys at this point (don’t they close at 3 AM?). Sigh. I open Grindr/Hornet/PRomeo in the cab ride to the hotel. Looking at the guys on there suddenly got me hard in the cab. Cab driver is nice uncle type but not cute. I try to follow the ride on Google Maps. I chose the Holiday Inn Express Sathorn for a first hotel. Background: I get a ton of points from IHG and Marriott hotels, from my work travels, so I cash them in when I’m on vacation. The hotel is kind of off the main drag at Silom, but I wanted to check it out coz it only will cost my 15,000 points a night, and it just opened in December. And yes, everything looked new in the hotel when I got there. Checked the joiner fee status of the hotel before booking by emailing them beforehand. They say it's fine if it's one guest, 500 baht for any additional. No orgies in this hotel I guess. Nice big room, nicer than Holiday Inn Expresses back home. No idea if this was an upgraded room because of my point status. Surprised there is a mini bar. I take a shower, prepare for bed, and check my gay apps. I get some pings from cute boys, and I try to engage. The usual “How are you”, “whats your name”, “ where you from”, and “how long you Bangkok” come in rapid succession in the chats. Took 15 minutes of this and got probably 3 money boys and 2 locals that were interesting. Forced myself to jack off so I don’t meet anyone (I need to get over this jet lag), took some sleeping pills, and then went to bed. It is 3 AM. To be continued

Thanks guys, this is great information. SenYai, awesome link! All your suggestions have made me want to go. With the understanding that (1) the gay scene is not as big and as "out there" as pattaya, (2) the beach is great and there are pretty good excursions and shopping choices, and (3) the gogo bars are different, but they exist, and they have that unique street presentation thingie, and I am curious to see that. I guess the last question I would have is where to book the flights. I'll be in BKK April 9, I'm thinking of flying to Phuket on the 19th. Is it cheaper to book in BKK closer to the date of departure, than it is using Orbitz or Travelocity now? I'm seeing ~$60 via AirAsia or $160 with BangkokAirways (I like them, use them to go to CM), would it be more advantageous to just go to a travel agent in BKK and save a few baht?

Thanks firecat69 and vinapu, for the encouragement. I'll post my trip report soon and see if anyone even reads it. We all come to Thailand for slightly different reasons, but I guess one constant would be: we are here for the boys, so I guess there will be some use for my useless ramblings. I do appreciate your reports though and have used them to great success in my trips. I'm still on the fence with Phuket. Main reason to go for me at this point is that I've never been there before. If any guys have any more suggestions about it, I'd appreciate it.

Yes I understand the risk. I've actually done this with some of my "boyfriends" and they seemed to be generally ok with it. It's especially fascinating to see a Jomtien complex boy react to the show at Boyzboyzboyz, and then try to pick which 3rd he wants to have for the night. Or a Dreamboys guy go with me to the Jupiter show and comment on how he thinks his bar is much better (as well as have some bitchy asides all throughout the show). Most of the time, I just want to see the gogo boy show, with my boy beside me, and not have the pressure to off anyone by the end of the night, since I already have someone I'm going home with. Any off that might be picked up that night will just be the cherry on top of an already beautiful sundae.