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The following appears in THE NATION: _____ 100,000 Passengers Miss Flights in 3 Days By The Nation Published on November 29, 2008 Nearly 100,000 passengers have missed flights since protesters shut down Bangkok's two main airports on Tuesday and the total could hit 300,000 as the shutdown continues, Tourism and Sports Minister Weerasak Kowsurat said yesterday. "The total number could hit 300,000. When Suvarnabhumi and Don Mueang airports are cleared, it will take 24 to 48 hours to verify aviation standards. It will take time to send people home," he said after a meeting with 14 airlines yesterday, including Japan Airlines, Scandinavian Airlines and EVA Air. The ministry will set up an emergency centre to help stranded travellers, whose number is estimated to be about 30,000 a day. Four hotels will be chosen for airlines to operate check-in counters, where passengers can reschedule flights and pick up new tickets and be transferred by coach to U-tapao International Airport, 190km southeast of Bangkok. The centres are expected to start operating in the next 48 to 72 hours, the minister said. TAT is to gather travellers' information. Those put in priority groups will be sent home first, while their baggage will be shipped on later flights. Weerasak said the ministry would host a discussion with representatives of the Customs Department, the Immigration Department and related private and government agencies over additional assistance measures. Thai AirAsia chief executive officer Tassapon Bijleveld expects no more than 10 aircraft - belonging to Thai Airways International, Nok Air and Bangkok Airways - to operate from U-tapao, as most aircraft and equipment are locked up at the two airports and can not be moved out. U-tapao will be useful for incoming flights, he said. "We have no power to bargain for the aircraft as the government itself could not," he said. He also urged airlines with aircraft to extend help to other airlines' stranded passengers, to restore the tarnished image. Nok Air CEO Patee Sarasin expects the airport shutdown to be extended, which is not good for any airline. Nok Air, which normally handles 2,000 passengers a day, is still selling advance tickets. "This will affect our business plan next year, but I don't know how yet in the middle of chaos like this," he said. Among stranded travellers are a group of 20 arts teachers from France who are now in Ubon Ratchathani. Traveller Alain Muni said protests were frequent in France and major venues had been shut down, but an airport had never been closed. While his visa is not a problem, he is concerned about extra expenses if he has to stay here for a long time. Anti-government protesters seized Suvarnabhumi on Tuesday evening and Don Mueang on Thursday morning. Some 7,000 travellers were stuck at Suvarnabhumi when it was raided, more than double the figure given by airport authorities at the time, Weerasak said. Tourism Authority of Thailand overseas offices are instructed to slow down their activities promoting air trips even if the airports reopen soon. TAT is ordered to focus more on trips on other transportation and encouraging more Thais to travel to compensate for the lower income from foreign travellers. Hotels in Nakhon Ratchasima witnessed a 90-per-cent cancellation of hotel bookings from foreign travellers, mainly those from Europe who could not reach Thailand after Suvarnabhumi Airport was shut down. Sawat Mangkornwat, chairman of the tourism business council in Nakhon Ratchasima, said travellers have lost confidence in safety following the shutdown of the airport. They have switched to neighbouring countries like Cambodia and Malaysia. If the problem is prolonged, the country's tourism and economy will suffer greatly and it could affect employment if business operators could not cope with expenses and needed to lay off workers. Now they are turning to local travellers through special packages. From the council's survey, tourism business in the province - involving hotels, restaurants and resorts - has lost Bt200 million so far. "Both sides must retreat for the national interest. They must step back to end the problem, before the country's economy is battered even more," Sawat said. He urged the prime minister to dissolve Parliament and the PAD to stop its protest. Ending the conflicts would restore tourist and investor confidence. Kamphol Tansajja, director of Nong Nooch Garden in Pattaya, is fretting that foreign travellers may not return to Thailand, following news that Thailand is bracing for civil war, which could affect their safety. He noted that his property suffered greatly during the Sars epidemic and the Persian Gulf War but survived due to support by Thai tourists. He also urged Thais to do the same thing this time.

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Use the IMG function. That's how the picture below got here: I use Photo Bucket. That's where I store my photos. Under each picture there is a direct link which can be copied, and then pasted, like this (use brackets where I put in parentheses. I can't demonstrate with the brackets because the brackets won't show in the post): (IMG) link goes here (/IMG) That's how it's done.

That's why this evening was the first and last time I'll be in that particular bar.

This evening I went and had a look. In all honesty I see no significant difference between this bar and any other bar. I counted ten boys on stage, a few of whom I recognized from other bars. Two were dancing. The rest were doing the "one-knee shuffle." The seating and stage was no different than it was when the bar was Top Man. The music volume was blaring and about fifteen minutes of it was all I could take. I was charged 140 baht for a typical gin & tonic. There were, however, no pushy mama-sans. I really had hoped a new bar would bring something truly innovative to Sunee Plaza. In my opinion, the bar is typical of the type you find in Sunee Plaza.

Maybe this isn't such a bright idea, but I would try two things. First, since there are so many times when one branch tells you one thing and another branch tells you something else, try two or three more branches of the same bank before giving up. If that fails, try other banks. Different banks seem to have totally different policies. It's possible that other banks may issue you the credit card while your own bank won't. You can't be any worse off than you are right now by trying.

It's either U-Tapao or nowhere near Bangkok or Pattaya at all until this is over. There's not a lot of alternatives in the vicinity unless you want your plane to fly over Pattaya and drop you in by parachute (your luggage arrives later . . .). If some of the airlines opt for U-Tapao, there might be long lines and long waits for luggage, customs, check-in, etc, but at least you could get in and out of Thailand at all. It seems to me the airlines are also taking a wait and see attitude and I doubt they'll do it at all if it causes them to lose money rather than at least break even.

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I was at the Amor and it was wonderful. Surprisingly enough, given the lack of tourist numbers, most of the tables were filled and everyone seemed to enjoy it as much as I did. Richard always has more food than will be served that night. He will provide the same dinner each night, for those who want it, until it runs out. Usually, it's all gone within a couple of days, so if you missed it, you can still get it. I have not heard any reports about the White Night dinner.

Me too! And my favorite part of the turkey is the wing.

There is also the problem of transportation to and from the U-Tapao airport. I don't think there is near enough taxi service to accommodate large numbers of passengers. Maybe, if it comes to that, since there would be money to be made, additional taxis, vans, and buses would head for U-Tapao, but be prepared for rip-off prices. If any of you are able to find flights to U-Tapao and are concerned about transportation to Pattaya from there, if you want to contact me and make an arrangement, I'll be glad to come to the airport and bring you to Pattaya myself. All I would ask in return is for you to refill my gas tank.

Actually, I was referring to Buaseng's post in which he talks about full flights and the difficulty of finding seats to get into Thailand. Some of you might recall an earlier post of mine in which I was talking about my friend trying to get back to Thailand from the USA, but ended up in Hong Kong. He did make it back. Apparently he's very lucky to have found an available seat for a flight into Thailand at all. He managed to get a seat on a flight from Hong Kong to Ko Samui, and then a flight the next day from Ko Samui to U-Tapao. He did make it back to Pattaya. As a matter of fact we're having dinner together this evening. He's very fortunate, considering he was caught up in the middle of this mess, and he knows it. If he wasn't able to get that flight from Hong Kong to Ko Samui when he did, Lord only knows how long he would have been stranded in Hong Kong trying to get back to Thailand. In all the years I've been coming to Thailand, and for the length of time I've been living in Thailand, this is the damndest thing I've ever seen. Meanwhile, here in Pattaya, if it wasn't for the news media you wouldn't know anything is going on at all. Aside from the lack of tourist numbers, everything is open and operating normally. I feel very badly for those who wanted to come to Thailand now, but had to cancel their plans because of this. We're enjoying some of the most beautiful weather we've had here in ages . . . cloudless skies, very comfortable temperatures, nice breezes, and low humidity. It's a shame some of you can't get here.

As an aside, since many of you seem to own and know about cameras, how come so few of you are participating in the two photo contests (in the pinned section of the message board)? Doesn't anybody like Chivas Regal?

Actually, that's still not correct. I'm the moderator. Stef is the Webmaster. GayThailand is the owner of the web site and he is the one paying the entire amount of the contest out of his own pocket. I hope everyone realizes he's doing an extremely generous thing. He has nothing to gain by doing this.

Maybe it's just Bangkok, but I was under the impression that it's illegal for them to refuse to use the meter no matter where they operate in Thailand. I'd love to be able to recommend who to contact to register complaints, but I have no idea. If somebody knows, please post the information. I don't know if complaints will do much more than complaints about everything else, but it can't hurt to try.

Thank you. That idea finally occurred to me a few hours ago. Now I understand what it is.

That's very likely the case. I would think the top dogs in the government are preoccupied right now with trying to save their own skins as their top priority. Right now, it's very difficult to get in or out of Thailand. Those of you trying to get into Thailand might want to check the possibility of getting to Vientiane or Phnom Penh and then taking a bus or hired car into Thailand. At the moment I can't think of any other way to get here any time soon. Getting out again might also be a problem if the shut-down of the airports continues very long. The police have announced they do not intend to use violence to try to disperse the demonstrators at the airports, so I don't know how they're planning to force thousands of people out. And if a coup does indeed occur, it will be anybody's guess as to what will happen next. I'm somewhat surprised that it's difficult to get seats on flights into other cities in Thailand. Given the present circumstances, who would want to come? Maybe the flights are filling with people, like Buaseng, who are trying to get home, and home is Thailand. Are any of you presently stranded in Thailand, trying to get back to your home country? Are any of you stranded in another country because you live in Thailand and can't get back here?

Those of you considering a trip to Chiang Mai in the near future might want to keep tabs on the situation. The Prime Minister is in Chiang Mai and apparently is moving the entire government there because of fears of another coup. The following appears in THE NATION: _____ PM Has no Schedule to Return to Bangkok, Apparently Fearing Coup: Spokeswoman Chiang Mai - Deputy Government Spokeswoman Suparat Nakboonnam said Friday that Prime Minister Somchai Wongsawat has no schedule to return to Bangkok in the near future. She said Somchai decided to remain in Chiang Mai as part of security measures due to uncertainty related to the moves of the armed forces. All moves of the prime minister will be held confidential for safety reasons, she said. The prime minister will resort to teleconference meeting with other Cabinet members in Bangkok, she said. ___________________ And this, from the BANGKOK POST: _____ Somchai Moves Government to Chiang Mai Prime Minister Somchai Wongsawat will remain in the northern city of Chiang Mai "indefinitely" because of tensions with the military, a government spokesman said. Somchai was forced to land in Chiang Mai from a trip abroad on Wednesday after anti-government protesters seized control of Bangkok's two airports. He declared a state of emergency at the airports on Thursday night as rumours of a possible military coup swept the capital, although the army said it was not intervening. "As there are still uncertainties in the tensions between the government and army, for his safety the prime minister will stay in Chiang Mai," government spokesman Suparat Nakbunnam said. "He has no schedule to return to Bangkok, he will stay in Chiang Mai indefinitely for his security," Suparat said. Cabinet ministers flew to Chiang Mai for an urgent meeting on Thursday, effectively setting up a government in exile from the capital, which remains cut off by air from the rest of the world. (AFP)

I think it will be interesting to see what the current problems will do to your plans to come to Thailand.

I agree. Actually, when they say the tourist industry will lose half its income, I think they're being optimistic. I believe they'll lose a lot more than that, especially if this airport nonsense continues much longer. If that ends up happening, then how would the foreign tourists get to Thailand in the first place?

I agree. That's why when I go to Bangkok you won't find me anywhere near the bars anymore. I'm not about to be hustled by aggressive street touts who literally try to pull you into the bar, where you're charged the equivalent of US $7, or more, for a watered down drink while watching go-go boys who don't turn me on in the first place. Other than that, it's great! "You buy drink for boy?" Then, half the time after spending a lot of money in the bar and to take the boy off, you get him back to your room and he turns out to be a total dud. Sorry, none of that's for me. In Bangkok there are plenty of available boys without having to go to the bars to find them. Saranrom Park springs to mind. You can also find plenty of boys at Babylon Sauna, the parking lot of the Malaysia Hotel, shopping malls, and plenty of other places as well. You can also arrange a hook-up via personals web sites such as Gay Romeo. Most might be money boys, but I'd rather tip them without having to go to the bars (which for me is more of an ordeal than a good time in Bangkok) and spend an additional fortune for drinks that I don't even want and off fees. The least of the problems in Bangkok is finding a boy. Usually I'm very supportive of all gay venues, but when it comes to the tactics now used at several of the Bangkok bars, they can kiss my support goodbye. I'm happy to lend as much support as they want if they're treating customers honestly and fairly. But when they start trying to rip people off, start charging exorbitant prices, or start using high pressure tactics, that's where they lose my support and they also lose me as a customer.

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The mama-san is usually the one to go. They know where to go to find "new recruits." They usually lure the boys by making them think that all they have to do is dance in their underwear and they're likely to find a farang who will "take care" them from here on in. They are assured they'll make a lot of money (by Thai standards) and have a much better life than the rice farm can ever offer. The lure of the city life is also very appealing. Many of the boys are gay in the first place, but the lure of "big money" is very persuasive to boys who are not truly gay. To many, they don't view sex as westerners do. To many, it doesn't matter much whether they are really gay or not. It's no problem at all for them to have male-to-male sex. It doesn't take much to convince plenty of boys that "this is the life!" Often, several boys who are already friends will go together. That way they get to room with their friends, which is a lot better than going alone. Of course, most of them end up disillusioned in the end and eventually return to the rice farm, but many of them really do enjoy the life and choose to stay on, whether they "have farang" or not. The average 3000 baht or so they earn per month is far more than they can ever hope for back on the farm. Sometimes the parents encourage it in hopes that the boy will be able to send money to them each month. Many of the boys view it as a lark and a way to escape from the rice farm life. Many have wanted to give the bar scene life a try. They've heard stories, but didn't have enough money to get to Pattaya, get a room, and give it a try. The recruiter brings them free of charge and accommodations are often provided upstairs in the bar. Many boys don't move into an apartment, usually shared by two to five boys, until they're making enough to be able to afford it. The allure is especially appealing to the boys who are gay in the first place, and many are.

That would depend on the reason for the breakup. If it was an amicable breakup then there is no reason not to remain friends. If it was a heated breakup and/or because of something serious the boy did, then it may be best to move on and find new friends. I would think the best way to retain a friendship would be to reach an agreement with each other that it's best for the both of you to move your separate ways. I know it's little consolation, but the majority of relationships between a farang and Thai boys do break up in the end. I've been through it. Most of my farang friends have been through it. I only know of four farang-Thai boy relationships that lasted more than a few years. Those relationships are solid and most likely permanent, but those are the extremely lucky ones. Most fail to work out in the end. Most fail much more quickly than years going by. It also happens all too frequently the other way around. I've had quite a number of boys come to me in tears telling me that the farang who they sincerely loved broke it off with them, usually for another boy. I also know of many cases in which everything appeared to be fine. Then, one day the boy simply packed up and left for no apparent reason, not even to the farang who ended up jilted. On thing that has become quite clear to me is that if you go into a relationship with a Thai boy, then you also have to be prepared for the possibility that the relationship will sooner or later come to an end. Unfortunately, the odds weigh heavily toward that result. If you're lucky, you and the boy with whom you broke up really will remain friends, but don't count on it. Once each of you find someone else, and you will, the friendship will probably slowly fade and eventually fizzle out as you each move on with your lives. Again, I know it's not much consolation now, but you'll get over it and find another relationship. I know you well enough to know that while it hurts like hell now, you'll be one of the people who do survive it just fine and be able to move on. You definitely will find someone else. You can bet he's out there somewhere waiting for you and you will eventually find him. I hate to keep saying it, but I have come to truly believe in the advice Richard Burk, owner of the Amor restaurant, gave me when I first moved here: "If you want love in Thailand, rent it." That doesn't necessarily mean limiting yourself to taking boys off from bars, but it does mean that you need to keep the possibility of a breakup in mind to avoid heartbreak. Some people bounce right back and are able to move on. Others never really recover from it and fall into a deep depression. I hope that won't be the case either with you or with your ex-boyfriend. If you want someone to talk to, you know me well enough to know that I'm here to help in any way I can. You know my number and please feel free to call me at any hour, any day.