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I have Romeo, Hornet, Grindr and Jack'd. I also had Gaydar but that app appears to be abandoned. I was wondering - in your experience which - apps are a must have for Thailand? I think only Hornet and Romeo. Most boys have at least these 2. But what is popular in Japan? I am interested in twinks. Hornet and Romeo two will do it for Japan too, or I will miss some good oppertunities because another one is more popular there?

Well, in all honesty you should be thanking me :-)

I mean the one located in Silom 64 building, 3rd floor (some of their twinks are sitting outside at streetlevel trying to lure you in). It is not Health Land. It was just called 'Health massage'. This building also has a Subway restaurant. I had massage from a hot 18 year old twink there in October. Just search Google maps for "Silom 64 building".

Yes, this is exactly the reason why this time for the first time I have booked a hotel in Jomtien also. Because of this forum.

Thanks so far. Since I will stay also 2 days in Bangkok are there some Bangkok tips?

I agree, the reason is maybe something Thai. He says he doesn't want to 'share cock' with people he knows. Share it with boys he doesnt know is fine, but not with people he knows. Maybe this is some kind of Thai sensitivity? But you apparently don't recognize it, so looks I am maybe the only one with a boyfriend like that :-)

My boy doesn't even want me to have sex with people he knows. He knows I want to have short time fun with other boys also (so not 3some, just me and the other boy). He is OK with it (I know he sees other Farang also), but not when I go with a friend of him or an acquintance. More guys recognize this? I wonder what reason can there be for this. He has a very hot friend and I can't fuck him :-( I don't want to take the risk that fiends tells him.

Thanks so far. You know Health massage in Bangkok?

Since the gay scene changes rapidly and I only have 2 or 3 one week trips to Thailand each year - with quite a few months seperating them - a lot can have changed since the last visit: bars previously having a good selection of twinks, today having no twinks or very few and not in the best shape, some bars now closed, same goes for massage places. My last trip was October 2016. I am about to go again. What is the up to date situation regarding twinks? 1) Which gogo bars in Bangkok and Pattaya have mainly twinks? 2) Which massage places in Bangkok and Pattaya have mainly twinks? Health massage in Bangkok still the place to go for twinks? You don't encounter that name often in posts here. Last October it was still the place to go.

No one mentions Health message. That was adviced here a few months ago for twink massage in Bangkok. I went there last October and indeed was serviced by a nice twink.

I really wonder what these boys are thinking. What will their reply be when you ask them: "You are a money boy, what minimal services do you think 99.9% of Farang expect the least from you when they off you"? I am sure they must know a blowjob without a condom is part of that very small list of minimal expected services (in fact maybe it is the only item on the list, that small is it). Then why do the job? Looks some new money boys think their job means that you collect money from Farangs, without performing the standard - centuries old - service, in exchange for it. A service that from at least 500 B.C. until 2016 A.D. was silently considered to be part of the agreement. Are there female go go ladies who only suck men with a condom? Any bi-sexuals here who have an answer to this? Or is this only something we gay men experience?

But then what is the fun for the customer? I don't want to wear a condom when receiving a blow job. Who does? What do these boys think? They must know it is a strange demand. As someone else said before: they won't see the same customer twice. If they have this demand they should tell me before I off them. Because it is a reasonable expectation to think Farang wants blow job without condom. That is standard. If you don't want to do that you should inform him before he offs you. Now it is a scam almost by only telling him in hotel room.

Happened to me once. With a boy from Hot Male. Last October. Was very surprised. I always ask before offing a boy what he will do. Looks like we now have to add to our list of preliminary questions: "Will you give a blowjob without a condom?" Until now I always assumed that to be the case. I hope we don't need to carry a book with us in the future with all the questions we need to ask. What if the boy says in the hotel room: "Yes, as I said, I will give you a blowjob without a condom, but I will only do this if you will shit yourself while I am giving it, else I can't get turned on". If that ever happens I will need to add another question to my list of questions before deciding to off: "Do you give a blowjob without condom and I do not have to shit myself while you are giving it?" These boys with these demands have choosen the wrong profession. I understand for fuck. I not understand for blowjob.

I have to transfer from Suvarnabhumi airport to Don Muang airport. I have about 12 hours of transfer time. I hate waiting 12 hours, so I was thinking: I can go to city, have a nice massage from a hot twink in Silom with happy ending, and then travel back from city to Don Muang. But maybe some of your guys know if near one of these two airports (I don't care which one) there is also a possibility to get a massage from a nice (gay) twink, preferably with happy ending? Will save me the hassle of travelling to Silom and back.

Strange that the price for an "attractive, sexy, muscular Thai guy" is the same as for an "attractive, sexy, twinky Thai guy". In my experience the latter type is more in demand (I know, I know, Vinapu and others prefer the first type, but among all Farang in Thailand they are a minority, I think 20% goes for first type, 80% for second type). Economic law says: what is more in demand is more expensive. I learned that in school. Why doesn't that work here? I always thought Vinapu's holidays were more cheap than mine, apparently this isn't the case. He needs to pay the same rate

Unlikely, but indeed possible and that is why the best strategy is to pay a small tip to a non-performing moneyboy. Saves a lot of potential inconveniences which otherwise can occur. On the other hand, what does it say about the average Thai or Vietnamese if after a fight with a foreigner their first priority is to kill him or ruin him? I never have that impulse when I feel angry at someone.

I always take into account the unpredictability of some boys. Say you don't give him that small amount, what if he causes a scene? Remember you are in a foreign country, you do not know the inside out of everything. You do not know your way around the institutions, you do not speak the language. I know some risks are extremely unlikely, but still I rather pay 500 baht to get rid of him, then risk that very unlikely event. Because there are Farang who experience it. Why won't you experience it, what makes you immune to the type of scams I refer to in the next parapgraph? Because take these very unlikely scam examples (but not 100% unlikely, so it can happen to you, so why not pay a small amount to make it 100% unlikely?): What if he says "pay me, or I will tell police you raped me"? Or "pay me, or I tell all moneyboys in Soi Twilight you are a bad customer and they shouldn't go with you?" Will you pay then? Or will you just see what happens then? In a country where you do not know the language of, where you do not know your way around? Then 500 baht is such a small fee to pay for this scam, compared to the inconvenience of a scene caused by that angry money boy.

I just discovered a very cute Japanese boyband: Sexy Zone. Some beautiful boys in it. I will add visiting a performance of them to my itinary.

Ok. So what does it then mean boy is soft m?That he wants the slave role or master role in the masochist role play? And what does it then in practice mean when boy says he is soft s? Most are soft m I see. Sorry. Question not needed anymore. I see poster above me answered it already

At the risk of sounding stupid, in each profile you can see if boy is in for 'soft s' or 'soft m'. I assume s = slave and m = master? But then I am surprised most have 'soft s' = NO and 'soft m' = YES. I think thus 'soft m' means the boy is willing to be humiliated?

Thanks, I manually changed the link to http://kids-jp.com/en/tk/ and then the Tokyo site comes up (couldn't find that link from the Osaka site). Many very beautiful boys. The first 3 nice twinks I try l however list as their 'sexuality': heterosexual. I don't care about that really. But something I notice.

Thanks. And as a tourist how to recognize a host bar from a normal gay bar (before I go I want to have a list of these bars to visit, but a quick search on the Internet yesterday talks about gay bars, I failed to find yet a bar clearly marked as host bar)? For me a host bar is where you can sit with a boy who works at the bar, have drink and take him to your hotel (after paying an off fee). This is the concept of a host bar also in Japan?

Can you please give an indication of that price?

Ah. Now I understand. When you wrote "As a Singaporean, I dare say that many local young men are in for the sex." you meant "As a Singaporean, I dare say that many local young gay men are in for the sex."

Does this mean most Singaporean males are gay? Or does this mean the concept of "gay" has a different meaning in Singapore and there sex with a male doesn't make you homo?