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The classic example of this, for me, is Tao from Eros (or sometimes Toy Boys). Over the years he has had a succession of often quite stunning girlfriends, some agogo girls. And yet he is huge fun to take out, very affectionate, kisses passionately, loves oral sex, and is a good top - he does everything except bottom for me. He has been there a few years now and seems to feel entirely comfortable with his 'job'. Indeed last trip I had taken him out to the Stone House on Walking Street and he was dancing happily away and commented that his girlfriend would love this place. Ask her over, I said, and within about 20 mins this stunning girl shows up, a real head-turner, and she seemed completely at ease on seeing her boyfriend with his customer for the night. Tao remained equally affectionate with both of us for the rest of the evening. Nevertheless, I thought it best not to push my luck and invite her back to the room as well! hahahaha

Not so different to Pattaya then, I would guess that half the boys in Boyztown are straight, as are most of the boys in Eros and, I think, almost all the 'boys' in Goodboys. It is just a job for them - some are better at it, or better actors, than others, some are more versatile than others but most have no difficulties in 'performing'. In many respects not really quite so different to the young Thai girl who agrees to sex with an elderly overweight farang male (or female). Money is indeed the universal aphrodisiac ! LOL

Well according to its FaceBook page it has a range of events planned over the coming weeks? But sadly I am not on the ground to check it out?

What's the betting that we will now see airport taxi fares increase, and by considerably more that 45 baht. LOL

I am now fantasising about the sort swimsuits where a whiter cock is so important ? LOL

I have done it several times, and mostly it is when I have been into a bar with someone else as my LT for the night and we have got chatting with someone I know who has asked if I can barfine him to come with us for drinks/dancing/etc. but not (well occasionally) come back to the room with us. The boy who I have done this most often with is Tao from Eros Bar/Toy Boys, who has been one of my regulars for several trips now, who will often ask if he can accompany us - barfine there is cheap anyhow, and he is great company, he seems to get on with everyone, dances, flirts and his English is fairly good. I usually give him a tip when he departs - 500 baht is basic - but can be more if he has really been on form and enlivened the evening. Unless he has other plans, Tao is usually quite willing to come back to the room with us, but only on those occasions when my barfine suggests it - and then the fun can really start, unless we are all too drunk. LOL Where do we go? - anywhere really, but he shares my fondness for Zab and the Stonehouse on Walking Street, and loves Nab.

All I want for Christmas is .....

My favourite bar in Jomtien, but sadly I shall not be back until August, otherwise I would have loved to attend. Good luck and have a great night.

A beautiful shapely naked boy butt and my wallet seems to fall open of its own accord! LOL

Sadly too many months before my next trip but this bar is now firmly on my agenda - I am always happy to exchange cocks for tips! LOL How much do you tip if they cum for you in the bar?

I have never heard it referred to as anything other than the Jomtien Complex. And actually, in terms of its intensity of bars, I would have thought its parallel was more Soi 6 than Walking Street?

I agree that the ties and bowties were cute, but I am happy to reserve judgment on whether or not it was a mistake until I learn what (if anything at all hopefully) they wear underneath the towels? LOL

Whatever the basic charge now, if you were to pay by the centimeter, some would be a lot more! LOL

I suspect their bare bottoms will get plenty of attention in the 'monkey house' LOL

There is one bar I know of in Jomtien staffed mainly by Cambodian boys and with a Cambodian boy as boss. Many of the lads there are from the same part of Cambodia, several from the same village/town and so their bar becomes a home from home for them where they can venture into bar work in familiar surroundings, language and culture. Some speak Thai well, others, especially the newer ones, struggle. Other Cambodians work massage, both straight shops and 'extras' shops. I know a boy/girl couple in a longstanding relationship who have worked in one shop together for several years now. Together they do quite well, have a day off a week to relax and go out together as a couple, and also save for visits back home a couple of times a year. They seem happy and are 'doing ok'. Some bars and agogos advertise their staff as being 'only Thai', but in many others Thai boys mix with boys from Laos and Cambodia (not so much Vietnam) in apparent harmony. FaceBook and other social media now allow all these boys to keep in daily contact with friends and family.

Some of my Thai friends have been posting and sharing further pictures on Facebook of these two doing the same in other venues - along with very angry comments. So word is definitely out.

Maybe its my wry sense of humour - but I smiled at the 5 Euro note tip at the end. For my part I thought you handled and diffused an awkward situation well and with good grace.

When I am negotiating with a lad and talking about Long Time and how much, I make it clear that I want sex at night and again in the morning. Sounds a bit clinical (although I try and do it in a light hearted way) but, particularly if its a new boy I have not been with before, this is essentially a business deal and there needs to be clear expectations on both sides - does he kiss, is he top/bottom etc. Deal concluded I can then enjoy the rest of the night with him - eating, drinking, dancing (well usually me watching him dance), etc. So I am rarely disappointed and often end up with yet another 'regular'.

Certainly amongst the girl bars (yes I still have memories) there is a naturally held assumtion that you will pay more for an agogo girl for LT than a girl from a beer bar elsewhere in the town. And showgirls at an agogo even more than their sisters - that's if they will even agree to long-time. My experience to date in the boy bars suggests a similar, if less defined, distinction, in that whereas a boy from a beer bar, say in the Jomtien Complex, would be happy with 2k LT, a boy from Toy Boys in Boyztown would be looking for 2.5 or 3k. So, as with many things, how much you pay can depend heavily on where you shop LOL Others may, of course, have a different experience.

I feel very sad for him and indeed for any family he had, It is also something of a warning to many of us of similar or older age, unfit, overweight, who head off to Pattaya to party for a week or so. For my part I tend to concentrate on getting my finances bulked-up for the trip, and spend far too little time on getting myself physically fit for the trip. The demands of trying to go from an archair office worker to a night-owling stallion often leaves me dizzy and winded. Not saying that is what happened to our friend here, I don't know of course, but a lot of us are perhaps more vulnerable to the frailties of age and weight these days than we might care to acknowledge when we are let loose amongst the boy bars of Bangkok and Pattaya. May he RIP .

I am late to this so you may already have arrived? Pattaya can be quite an overwhelming place to start with until you find your feet and start to find your way around, learn the baht-bus routes etc. You dont say where you will be staying Of the three main areas of boy bars, then Boyztown is probably the easiest to find - although the drinks can be expensive in places like Toy Boys (my favourite) and BoyBoyBoy's. Sunne Plaza is fun, but can be difficult to find. The Jomtien Complex (at Home Bar is my favourite there) is a couple of miles from the centre of Pattaya, but actually just at the end of the main drag into Jomtien and also relatively easy to find. My advice would be to check out Boyztown first, and then take a motorbike taxi from the top of Boyztown to either of the other places. The drivers there will know Sunne and Jomtien Complex well and take you directly there (oh and have some small notes at hand to pay for the taxi-bikes). Enjoy.

Thank you vinapu, I am loving this TR and also loving your approach to your holiday, your friends and their tips. Its your holiday and its a case of 'whatever works for you' so that you end up spending quality time with the lads of your choice. I normally find TRs without picture boring, but certainly not so in this case - you have me hooked!

Tell me about it! LOL I spent far, far too much on my last trip (fun though!).

Haha, the Eros boys have their own personal penis waffles available for you to lick and nibble on! Various sizes and flavours too!

Oddly no picture of the ladyboy with the guy pointing at her. You are only guilty if you are being pointed-at! LOL