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Of course there are still people who prefer to top. There are also people who prefer never to do anal sex. As with everything people still have personal preferences. My point was that most people who find it painful (not all) have not spent the time to try to not make it painful or the top they are with doesn't have the patience or skill. Your comments about becoming bored suggest sex is all about you and nothing for your partner. Anticipation heightens the experience. After 45 minutes I'm likely to be still in the foreplay. What's the rush?

There are a huge number of nerve endings in the anus, some say as many as the head of your penis. It's not about one spot, though the stimulation of the prostate can be exquisite if done properly. I think one problem is the rush to penetration. Try a "rosebud" massage with lots of oil. The masseur will concentrate on your rim, anus and use multiple techniques to increase your pleasure. Penetration is not necessary even with a finger though you may find that after 30 minutes of concentrated massage on your rim and anus that you will be begging for penetration.

Being bottom can be painful. Usually when a guy has only concern for his own pleasure as a top and does not prep the bottom well. I've had some pain from only moderately endowed guys who just don't get that it takes a while to stretch the muscles and lubricate properly to take a cock with no pain. Against that I've had some very hung guys who caused no pain and only a great deal of pleasure. I once nearly stopped a guy topping me as he was over 10 inches with a big girth. He spent about 20 minutes with fingers, tongue, plenty of lube and a lot of patience so that when he finally topped me there was no pain whatsoever even when he was in all the way. It's all about who you do it with rather than the act itself.

Scotland has a problem. Any exit from the UK needs oil prices to be a lot higher than they are or they will have a huge budget deficit. As for the UK, the entire political system appears to be in meltdown. Every person you speak to has a different idea of what Brexit means other than the unreal promises made by the leave campaign made which they are already backtracking on. Given that 75% of MPs were for remain, I don't see the mess being sorted any time soon.

http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-asia-36424091 . How sick is that.

I'm pretty sure that any evolutionary reason to men being attracted to younger men is a dead end.

Apart from the very obvious reason?

Looks are nice but far from the most important thing for me. I come to Thailand because I have a stressful job and need to get away from it all. I also love both receiving and giving massage. Thailand, for me, is a restful couple or three weeks where I can get plenty of massage and plenty of sex with no stress. I can spend as much, or as little, time with a boy as I want. Unlike most on here, I rarely go into a boy bar, but visit loads of massage places. I would rather have a boy skilled in massage and sex than someone that looks great but not as skilled.

I usually leave the tip on the pillow. Makes it obvious it's for them that you haven't just left some money out. I always tip them as I imagine they get more from tips than they do from their wage.

I leave a small tip every day (50 baht). In each hotel I've stayed in the room has always been cleaned daily and with no fuss or complex arrangements.

Sad if true. Location worked against it somewhat but always seemed to have custom.

Have fun, play safe. Whether it ends being true love, a holiday fling or a one night special, I'd start off playing safe as HIV and other tests all have various incubation times before they will show in a test.

Nooooooooooooooooo Omg that's so sad. Always a good massage, good sex and cheaper than most. I guess the location was against them.

Some of the best locations can be tucked away somewhat so wandering up and down some of the Sois is very worthwhile. Some places are great for massage, others are great for extras. Finding both in the same masseur is the Grail. Overall, it really depends what you are looking for. My favourite places are Adonis, Hero and Prince as I like both a decent massage and great afters and all three provide that. If I had one tip though, when you go in go for a boy who interacts with you, meets your eyes and smiles. If you go for a great looker but he won't meet your eyes and doesn't smile, chances are you will have an unsatisfactory experience.

In the UK schools, colleges, etc finish late July until September so August is mid school holidays. Families tend to holiday in that period so flights, etc are more expensive.

For me it's Condom for anal, natural for oral. Yes, there are risks and, as with getting on a Tuk tuk or motorcycle taxi, I accept them. Given that condom success rate for stopping pregnancy is only around 98% (100% between gay males), those wanting absolutes should only endulge in looking and not touching. Where's the fun in that?

Also, one of the two things I was most grateful about after my phone was stolen was that my UK SIM wasn't in it. Who knows what charges could have been racked up. The second thing was the functionality of the Track my iPhone and erase functions. That and the fact the FBI keep trying to get Apple to give them a way round the lock screen and erase functions gave me some peace of mind that any data on their couldn't easily be accessed.

It really depends on whether you are happy giving your phone number to the boys you may meet. I prefer not to give my personal mobile number so find the few hundred baht for a tourist SIM well worth it.

You can load them all up in Thailand. From what's been said, by two sources, you simply get 12 x 10 or 20 baht top ups and add them separately. Each top up adds 30 days so by doing 12 of them your tourist SIM will last a year.

If you buy a tourist SIM and buy 12 X 10 baht top ups then it is valid for 360 days (30 days for each top up). Note that if you buy 1 X 100 baht top up you only get 30 days. My shorts have 4 X zipped pockets, 2 X flapped pockets and 2 open pockets. The phone was in a flapped (Velcro) pocket. I don't know how she did it without me noticing. Luckily I keep different items in different pockets so she only got away with the phone. It's a 2.5 year old iPhone 5 so could have been worse I guess. I sent an erase instruction as soon as I realised what had happened. The phone was switched off for a long time but was erased at 0313 this morning. The erase gave a message telling them where I was staying and offering a reward so, having heard nothing, I guess that is that. I'm just glad I've got confirmation of the erase. Also luckily, the phone had a tourist SIM in and I have my normal SIM safe so no racked up charges.

Thanks for the information. If they are more expensive here I may just get a cheap "holiday" mobile. That way I can leave mine at home next time.

Find myself in need of some advice. Was pick-pocketed tonight an a baht bus. They got away with my mobile, but luckily nothing else. The reason I think pick-pocketed rather than dropped or lost is that the phone was pretty quickly switched off and isn't online to be tracked. So, I'm now in need of a replacement. Whilst I realise there are hundreds of places here in Pattaya, can anyone recommend somewhere "safe"? TukCom maybe? I really don't want to be ripped off any further so any assistance would be gratefully received. [edit] Can anyone confirm if I will have any issues with a phone bought here when I go back to the UK?

My goodness. If I'd realised sunbathing by the pool with my shirt off mean't I was advertising sex services I'd have bought a one piece body costume years ago. And to think of having to use apps when I can just go to the beach or pool and pick any random person that's taken their shirt off.

If you are in Bangkok, Ya from that sight is very knowledgeable. He is happy to show you the sites and organise where you want to go during the day and is happy to show you the gay sites at night and help you pick out some night-time company. It is also much less intimidating having company in the shows and he can keep the mamasans from getting too aggressive. Although getting around Bangkok is easy enough, your first visit it isn't always simple to work out the easiest way from A to B. Having a guide for a couple of days is a great way to familiarise yourself with the many, not so western, ways of getting around Bangkok.

I'm confused. Are you saying you are an escort in Bangkok or that you are looking for one?