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I think yours is an intelligent question. The "legal" part is not the crux of it but simply points to the morality of the act. And I agree with the consensus. The act is immoral, but we all pity the situation of the perpetrator and we accept the victimization like part of the price of being alive. I was the sucker one time, on my first visit to LOS. I came with a package from this site "utopia-asia" which included a one-day tour of BKK with a guide. This guide was so sweet! He took me to the typical tourist spots, to fine restaurants where he was known, to a performance of transvestite show where he was known, to a massage place where he was known, to a store where he was known and where they tried to sell me some expensive rugs (they were out of luck with a careful guy like me!), and he presented me a friend of him who I could perhaps take out another day. At the end of the tour he explained to me that he kept taking insulin shots for his diabetes, and my soft hart responded with a tip of 1000 baht. I DON'T KNOW what went on behind my back, but this was the first and only guide I have ever hired throughout my extensive trips. And I don't feel like a fool, but I had a learning experience, and it was not even expensive.

Firecat69, here I have to in all seriousness give you my deepest thanks for all the nice photos you have posted, which I have enjoyed very much. And I promise you that I will not write any negative comments about the pictures you post, of which very few if any deserves such comments from me.

I'm so pleased that I seem to have pressed the right Gay button, since you are not interested in my word twisting garbage posts like you are not interested in what people comment about pics, and like you couldn't care less about a bunch of other things. Please keep blessing us with your disinterest.

Yesss....agree! I enjoy this picture, thinking that he would be great if he - would not have that nelly collar around his neck - would not have the facial hair that gives such dirty look. - would not have such fat face and bland smile but a slim boyish face with some character. - would not have such massive muscles that show what an obsession he has with getting big. - would have a slim and firm body that would amaze by its strength when embracing it. - would have a nice waist so slim that the big yellow towel falls down and shows more of him. I am so happy that we agree and enjoy your picture, instead of fighting over it.

So you think that those who are critics of the gay scene like to put it down and undermine it? You want them to only post what they like and not what they dislike? I totally disagree. Before I came to this forum I had found the blog of ChristianPFC and read it with interest. It has helped me and I thank Christian for the work he takes by writing it. If you happen to read it, you will find a good mix of criticism and praise of many gay places. THIS IS WHAT HELPS US, WHAT WE WANT: HONEST OPINIONS !!!! And if you think that the only honest opinions are those you agree with, you have a problem. It would be dumb if we should only write praises about the scene. Leave this for the owners of the places.

If I am the ugliest person on the planet I still have the right to comment about the looks of everyone else on the planet. One thing has nothing to do with the other. And what if I like to be on the internet exchanging opinions with fellow posters about the pictures displayed here? A chat like this will have positive and negative comments, that's part of the fun. The only one to rightfully complain of negative comments on a picture is the guy shown in the picture. And even this is relative, because a guy who models for pictures posted on the internet should be prepared to see all kinds of comments. So we are not hurting anyone by making our comments.

I assume you refer to the picture #7. The last but not least. This one is also from the whole collection the one with a guy who is not excessively big for my likeness.

I think we all would prefer to be in your place and sit in a bar with friends, commenting on the nice boys we see. But one sees few boys in bars in the USA that are so much fun to comment about. So we have to sit at the internet and comment with fellow posters on the pictures of boys we see here. What is wrong with this? BTW, you are very special to have been born in with eyes wide open when they pulled you out in 1980... and what a memory!

Oh, is it a cat? I had wondered about for weeks.

Became so negative just from some posts? Yes, you are easy.

If you agree about some posters going too far, you should do some introspection into your posts. Why is it always "the others" who are at fault? In your last posts there has been a putting down of posters for writing comments about pictures, now you accuse posters of "eroding away the gay scene", as if a few posts could have such an influence on a scene that involves thousands of people in a huge city. When a criticism of a bar or any other place in the ambient is HONEST, it is a service to all of us. A similar service is done with a HONEST positive opinion. I don't find in this forum a predominance of neither negative or positive opinions but I think that they are well balanced. And if you think that some criticism is unfair, you have full freedom to criticize the unfair criticism right away. You have of course the right to your opinion that the old times were much better. But remember that today is the time that will be the "old times" of the next generation, and they will look back at today with nostalgia. And it seems that times are getting better all the time for us gays, not the other way around.

You fail to see the point of us writing about pictures . You have no interest in what one likes or dislikes. You fail to see a connection I made between comments about religion and boy pics, etc, etc... Guy!... What a lack of interests! And you throw this into the faces of readers here. Why should WE have to know what YOU are NOT interested in? Cannot you keep this to yourself? Your post seems to be a perfect case that leaves one "Amazed by the Perjudicial Comments" that is the title of this thread. How did you manage to become so negative ???

I'm with Bob and Vinapu on this one. I find it interesting when someone dislikes, as much as when someone likes. If you only care of what you like and dislike, you don't need a forum but simply write to yourself. I can understand your position, where a dislike sounds like an impolite criticism. But such dislike written in a forum will never be the same as saying it in the face of the person involved, so it is still civil. A forum where dissenting opinions are permitted gives us the opportunity to grow a thick skin that is immune to feelings of being slighted. This reminds me of some discussions I have in forums about religion. There, the believers happily throw around their beliefs, usually as "facts", and when an agnostic like me challenges their "facts" they become very defensive, even feeling insulted. But as long as posts comply with the rules of civility, we have all the right to give our opinions, and the "insulted" have the choice of either swallow their pride or leave the forum. (usually they become more combative, and this adds excitement to the discussion)

Why does it have to be a war? Don't we get tired of preaching always to the same choir?

The fact that we are all alive is an indication that the idea of making sex with fem bodies does not make all men vomit. In fact, many of us get hungry for making love to a thin fem body... as long as the body has a cock.

Yes, we are lucky. And much of it is from our own making. The ability of making a good relationship out of mutual love without the destructive effect of mutual sexual exclusivity. If you have been together for 8 years already, there is a good chance that it can last forever. A consistently good cake bread, and a good variety of icing. All the long lasting gay relationships I know have something of this too. My BF is of a little higher maintenance (LOL) as yours, he is more dependent and he likes to chat, and this is perfectly fine with me. What I find interesting is your use of Skype in say, the opposite way, getting a little sniff of the cake icing back at home. I imagine that the excitement of this more than compensates for the limitation of only smelling the icing and not being able to eat it?

That's it! You are a really smart guy, and your BF too! Your relationship is not "modern" but it has been a win-win for many happy people throughout the ages. When I make my trips to LOS, my BF of 19 years (now more of a friendship) wishes me a lot of fun. After taking me to the airport he returns home to much peace and solitude only interrupted by a few friends, with as much sainthood or not as he pleases, and we then chat every one or two days over Skype until I return. Life is good...

You are surely kidding. But it seems a sincere reaction to those who are not crazy about the men in Tawan. Maybe I can explain. There are some strange creatures who like me have just one piece of sexual orientation out of place. I am a man and turned out to be like one except for an important detail. I like most attributes of women, except what they have down there. I don't care at all for the sexual feelings of a woman but I empathize with the sexual feelings of a man. If a man is young and boyish, is slim and well proportioned, has very soft skin and and no hair except on the skull, no piercings or tattoos, he is my type! Nothing macho, muscular, rough for me, because I feel in competition and clash with a man like that. I feel so thankful for having that piece of sexual orientation out of place! If I were a normal straight man it would be so boring with always the same thing until death should us part... so much fun I would never have!

Interesting how this guy changes his appearance over time. Picture #4 must be the last one, judging from the tattoo he didn't have on the picture at the beginning of the thread, yet he looks younger here. And this obsessive thinking that he can improve his looks by putting more tattoos on his skin! How will he look like as an old man if he keeps adding more and more... A good example that more IS NOT better. I like guys who are slim with some muscles and ... natural.

3000 baht is cheap if it buys you say a one-fifth of his muscles. But... for sex? I would not get close to a "Mr. anywhere". There is a point of optimum musculature (in my personal judgment) where anything above this turns ugly. This optimum is just where a slim body is firm and strong. Going beyond that for eagerness to impress and win competitions is a turn-off for me. (I apologize to those who worship muscle)

LOL! I also prefer them at university age and also pre-university. This guy may not be so old. He would look much younger if he had not overworked his body with weights, had avoided dumb tattoos, and would throw away that chain and earrings.

We are all different. So interesting! I look at this Superman and I wonder about him like I wonder who would like to have sex with the bodies painted by Rubens. Don't get me wrong, it is surely my fault not realizing how such a big bulky body can turn one on. And then I see a boy with a fraction of that flesh, slim, firm, delicate yet masculine, and a heat builds up like crazy...

Yes, we'll get Hilary. This has been a lost opportunity to bring the country forwards with Sanders, which I attribute to the many Blacks in the South who think that the Clinton are their best friends. That's the way it is, many people vote against their own interests. And yes, anything is better than any Republican who did run this time.

The US behaves imperialistically? Well... who can blame it for that? It's so big and powerful! If you want to point fingers, you will find so many other countries who have fared much worse in its situation, done much more evil. One problem of the US is the large number of conservatives that like imperialism, and the politicians who play into their wishes. Maybe Donald Trump will change this by bringing the GOP to a well deserved defeat.

I was in BKK on Songkran two years ago. I stayed at the Babylon barracks (I like saunas) and had a good time at their foam parties. I also attended a "pool party" of G Circuit that I found boring, and it was on the way to this place and back that I got soaked. It was worth to have a dress-strategy for the very possible soakings. nothing but a t-shirt, shorts with two good pockets to carry the wallet and smartphone, each in double hermetic plastic bags, and sandals. They could have thrown me in a pool, and I would have had no damage. Of course it would have taken some dry-up time before I dared to get into the BTS or MTR, but in the BKK weather this is not a long time.