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As for paying for sex from your narrative it seems that if was your decision, not that you were forced to by the boy. Didn't cross your mind that scene was right but you picked up wrong role to play, lover instead of buyer. Very few travelers to Pattaya are landing there without knowing what scene they will see there, after all I can see many competitors to the tittle of world's sex capital.

There's report on CFS forum that Golden Cock is being upgraded with both new furniture and new professionals. This would be good as that bar, an icon of old good days became dump recently and it was always handy due to early afternoon opening if somebody felt on loose end. Hope somebody in BKK will volunteer to inspect premises for us, from my rotation its first on my list to visit next time but I don't think I'll be able to go to LOS before end of this year.

nice underwear, where did you buy it?

Dear A, B or D , I forgot what name you told me. I would gladly send you 40 000 English money but yesterday I was driving on the wrong side of the road , got hit by the big truck and died instantly. Hope all is well in Pattaya and in your village, Waiting for you impatiently here in heaven Your old, monkey like hansum ATM

I don't think it's a game, in game must be winner and loser. They have bodies and we have funds , it very fair exchange with both sides getting what they want. If one side lives with illusion of finding love during few weeks stay and another has illusion of landing life long farang sponsor there are to be disappointments with bots sides having sad stories to tell. First sentence of last paragraph of Alexx post should be hanging as a motto in all of our hotel rooms when we are vacationing in Thailand.

Now I count my blessings as i can't recall any Thai boy who told me " I love you" , so it looks I'm not a candidate for framing. On another hand when one told me ' I like you" all of the sudden in middle of the quiet night I must say I liked it very much and still smile when recall it. Being butterfly has advantages.

I don't think money issue is unique to farang - Thai relationship, rather applies to most if not all person of means - poor person relationships. Mikke, no need to feel bitter,one may find love everywhere and no need to write Thais off, just use luvthai advice above and try not to be blind

certainly He felt deeply connected to forums he participated and moderated since arranged for all those e-mails to be sent after his death. RIP jinks

jealousy I guess, love tends to be imperialistic

who , me or OP ?

enjoy while it lasts ! nothing wrong in being old , look at the alternative -dying young

welcome to the forum

that's very uplifting hope somebody will update us of how stabbed boy is doing and reports in near future that he recovered

Mikkes69, look at bright side, sex was great and by your own admission money given to him was not that much to you, I'd say lucky you on both accounts. You are not first one taken for a ride and will be many more, may be that's the price some people need to pay for buying nice illusions, cherish memories of bed activities with him and move on. Nice revenge you took by posting his review in he GR section. At least you contributed a bit to more just distribution of world's wealth I agree with williewillie, it seems nobody learns, everybody thinks his boy / girlfriend is different.

yes , some report would be nice as we did not have one for a while

I'd say I rather die old with shrinked dick than young with full sized, thanks God, dying young option no longer being available for me. What I find amusing is that ChristianPFC initiated discussion about dick size while by his own admission size is not important to him when selecting boys, I belong to the same sect by the way. nevertheless I found bkkmfj's findings interesting, thank you

I hope last three members will post some reports of their adventures as we did not have any trip reports recently

I collect miles but actual accrual was never reason for me to fly particular airline. While flying to Thailand I'm looking for best connection and then price, if I get some miles, good, if not - I'm not worried. In 9 trips there used 8 different airlines, only Thai Air repeated.

Exactly, it's why i told my friend just to shrug it off

no, if tempted to try , do that. If you don't try you will never know . Yes, I was disappointed at Jupiter too but I suggest go with your guts. It took me 9 trips to finally enter Tawan beacuse of mixede feedbacks, now neither very impressed nor disappointed at least now I know what I was missing and definitely will pay them visit next time, God willing.

In Pattaya yes but in Bangkok kissing , groping and testing dick's hardness in the bar is rarely if ever done other then in Nature Boys. As for rushing to beat others to a hot boy I wouldn't cry if on loosing end - had my share of disappointments with hotties and like my rules - catch eye contact and generate smile, if not I tip hot boy 100 baht and move on. / I have habit of tipping hottest boy who was not sitting with me 100 bht on departure from the bar/. Instead of testing everything I like a bit of adventure - to see how it turns out. Who said that all money must be well spent

I'm neither one of three above but slowly and surely getting there. It's why I like my boys as they skilfully overlook those shortcomings and for small consideration are providing me with their cheerful company. What they think and what their preferences are is unknown to me but never ever one of them showed that he is at pains being in my arms or whatever. And if sometimes they are lazy sandbags they are still there for me. As long as they like my tip even now , far away I think about them and still smile

1. make your choice of boy on stage or in the audience / sometimes they circulate among patrons or are sitting somewhere in the bar 2. make sure you made eye conctat with him and generated smile / step not necessary but will help / 3. motion boy to come over or call mamasan to bring him to you 4. mamasan will be looking for a tip / 50-100 / 5. talk to the boy, see if there's some chemistry, ask him if he will go with you, ask him if he wants drink, clarify of what you expect him to do, and how long. If planning long time / overnight ask if he is available, some boys don't do overnighters / You may wish also to clarify his expectancy of tip although some of us are not discussing that leaving to market forces. If he says ' up to you ' quite possible means he expects going rate, may ask for taxi money at end. 6. pay for drinks and the off fee , grab boy and go to your hotel or if you are looking for short time room , they are right there in Suriwongse hotel, boy will know. On my way I usually ask boy if they want something to eat and if they do ask them where they want to eat / not necessary but will show you have a good heart / 7.Close the door and enjoy your encounter 8. Tip the boy , kiss him good bye 9. if boy stays overnight and I liked him I always offer them breakfast in the morning, if they decline I escort them to the street anyways, I think is nice not to leave them alone to stares of another guests when they retrieve their ID from reception /again not necessary but if you like boy gives you chance to enjoy his company over meal with your knee toughing his /

Guy could safely assume that my friend is whoring and lady is just temporary companion as they could see each other at breakfast few days in row with different companions each time. Is pissed off because he completely ignored him in this situation. I think Christian's approach would be the best, wait until they part ways or at least excuse himself if in such a great hour of need and than slip a number. If in his shoes I'd console myself with thought that others are sharing my taste in companions / I was very pleased when lady sitting in X-boys beside me told me she likes boy I was with /

Them may have preferences like everybody else but still will go with ugly farangs for reason Alexx outlined. The same like us, most would be rather on vacations but still we are waking in the morning and going to work. We can only speculate what their preferences are if any, my guess would be young and busty ladies are their preferences.