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Last night (30 Sept) I in Dreamboy. Waitor says they move today= 1 October to the next door premises-before called Lucky Boys. The waitor says new bar "only on one level" ..no idea what he means as I already have a lot to drink. The old premises I am told "will close". Maybe someone can give report on the new Dreamboy as tonight is opening . I now in recovery from boozy and fun last night and into the early morning! 😂

On the subject of covering the face----if your date turns out to be not so good looking then remember the two bags rule: Before having sex put one over his head, and a second bag over your own head in case his bag falls off.

Living in Bangkok with the high levels of pollution wearing a mask makes sense.

Last night I was at a bar near to Jupiter and chatted with a waiter at that bar who is experienced and knows the score. He told me that most (not necessarily all) the boys in Jupiter are looking for females and not males. If the latter wants one of the Jupiter boys the tip being asked is often @ 3000-5000. But for women the tip is at a lower more sensible rate. In my view most working in Jupiter are straight boys who see themselves as alpha males.......

Agree with the above posts about bad attitudes. Jupiter full of that!

Try to enjoy life to the full. Don't dwell on the past or worry about the future. Now is the only time that matters. Op says: "my goal this year starting from October 1st to December 31 is to suck as many cocks , and be fucked ". Start now not October...u know what to do next time u come across African guys... U say usually u don't drink. Many guys do not drink or smoke but are happy when they get fucked multiple times bare-backed. Good luck to them! Remember the saying: "Enjoy yout life, or die trying" 😄

The so called "advice" re not giving contact info etc is way over the top and quire frankly ludicrous. If you do not want someone contacting you just block them...

Most people who have lived in Thailand a long time have come to the view that giving a cash gift however tarted up is the best you can give as a birthday gift here. 😀

Hey Olddaddy : good luck with your specialist appointment. Despite the cost the outcome hopefully will give a definitive diagnosis and treatment. I am not a doctor but a few observations: i) Has a connection with Covid being ruled out? An attack on the throat is a common system of Covid; ii) I know u say you have taken anti biotics but in the event that the specialist appointment is inconclusive (or even if it is) maybe try a combination of different anti biotics until you get the problem cured; iii) if they cannot diagnose the problem and fix it, then just fix it without knowing the cause....or is that unsatisfactory? Take care, 😊 Zombie.

Olddaddy writes after telling his doctor about rimming: "he sat in his seat ...looking like he was shocked...😳😳😳he didn't speak like for a few seconds staring at me . he didn't say anything then said loudly...almost urgently..." We need to give you a full sexual health check up immediately!!!!!" -Seems you in a clinic or with a doctor who ( quite wrongly )dissapproves of your lifestyle. Its not for him to judge. Can you not go to a place or a clinic that is more welcoming?

Yes not boring: try to stay hoppy😃

Good advice given here to the OP. Make sure that you are clear and agree the price including tip before the massage. Ideally agree with the masseure exactly what is expected and what will be paid before the massage.If the massage is good and the happy ending as you want no reason not to give extra if you feel it appropriate. Remember: ""He who pays the piper calls the tune"

Interesting the important issue Londoner raises with taking a younger guy into the straight world and getting bad vibes etc from straights esp Karen types. Anyone got any ideas how to handle this? I suppose just adopting the attitude not to care less what others think but easier said than done. Seems unfair that straights can come to our scene such as Soi 4 in Bangkok and no problem; but try bringing a gay boy with you to a straight dominated area and things are different...or am I being too sensitive?

OP writes: "To be brutally honest I had sex without a condom probably 90% of the time whilst in Asia" Well done for your honesty. I have a straight friend who when in Thailand does not use a condom and a straight relative the same when in bkk; a gay top farang acqaintance also living in bkk says he never uses one. Seems with a lot of guys PREP causes them to think they are safe and likely they are from HIV but there are a number of other diseases they are not safe if doing bare back. Whilst I can understand non-usage of condoms as the feeling is better it is probably wiser to use.... May i ask anyone here what their views are on Monkeypox? Seems in the western world the main ones affected are in our circle.

Nothing new here: "Side" is another way to say "No anal".

The shame, the shame! I used to take 5 boys a day. Nowadays down to 4 ,.Even only 3..... 😅What am I to do?!?

Thank you Olddaddy for the interesting topic. Maybe its only me but i have found that a fair few of the people on certain dating apps give misleading profiles and photos. Either "doctored" photo's or old photos and sometimes photos of someone else. Their plan is once they get in your door even though they are not the same as their profile/photo the customer will still take the bait. Often it works!

It is not normal. Possibly the boy had a bad experience when a cutomer did not pay him after sex. But that is not your problem. And anyway maybe he perfomed badly with another customer and non payment or lesser payment was justified. Leaving payment to the end is an incentive for the boy to do well; paying up front is the opposite.

From what I saw usual type of show- similar other bars-I not stay long in bar so maybe others can give more info.😀

Further along from Mango Tree restaurant, this new bar opened last night: 2 May. Whoever the owners are they have put a lot of work into this comfortable place with decent seating etc.There is a show and a selection of boys and staff. My drink @ Bicardi was 350 baht and only time will tell if this new establishment will succeed: Worth a visit!

Thailand’s nightlife venues to reopen on Jan 16, subject to assessment Thailand’s nightlife venues to reopen on Jan 16, subject to assessment - Thailand News - ASEAN NOW - News, Travel & Forum

"why should tourists bother to come if all entertainment venues are closed there are better options at other countries" Exactly...as they say: All dressed up with nowhere to go 😯

a glimmer of hope?!: Tourism Minister proposes reopening entertainment venues November 1 | Thaiger (thethaiger.com) -But not in BKK...

Done it now for 3 years plus in BKK and no problem. A few times need to wait a while to get the receipt returned but apart from that all OK. You need to send it in by registered post and also I have found its also useful the self addressed return envelope should also be stamped and registered.As an added security measure when getting the return envelope stamped etc at the post office take a photo of the envelope with the registered number on it and before putting it in the envelope to Immigration.

Thank you TotallyOz for this very useful update. I have read the first part of the Intervac update which reads: "Registration for COVID-19 vaccination appointments on ThailandIntervac.com has already been closed, but the Department of Disease Control has adapted the service to make it more convenient and secure for foreigners in Thailand to register. The new vaccine appointment method will be via booking in advance or “pre-registration” with the following hospitals. Notes: Pre-registration is registration to express intention to receive the COVID-19 vaccination at one of the designated hospitals. After registration, you must wait for the appointment confirmation from the hospital for the vaccine as per the proposed date and time. Notes: Pre-registration is registration to express intention to receive the COVID-19 vaccination at one of the designated hospitals. After registration, you must wait for the appointment confirmation from the hospital for the vaccine as per the proposed date and time." -So my reading of this is no need to try to register with Intervac but book directly with the hospital? Or have I misunderstood it? Thx.