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On my last trip to Pattaya back in July I visited Nice Boys for the first time in years. And I had a great time. The boys were very eager, and most were making money from the customers, who were even more eager! What I particularly liked about the place was the fact that the guys seemed to also be enjoying themselves and came across as a tight-knit group. None of the guys looked bored of disinterested. The next day I caught up with my regular guy and spent the rest of my holiday with him, so never got the chance to go back. That wasn't a problem, as he has a better "package" than any of the guys in the bar! But on my up-coming trip later in the month I will definitely go back again, just for one night to enjoy the atmosphere and the other delights on offer.

That certainly seems to be the case in the video. You could hardly call that caning. A photo of one of the the Malaysian woman about to be canned appeared to show her wearing some kind of padded vest under her clothes.

CurtisD, I love your writing style!

Compared to what we pay in Australia for a "reasonable meal" 1350 baht is an absolute bargain!

Vinapu wrote: "...paying a bit more than price list creates a lot of good will..." That sums up the purpose of tips in a nutshell.

When I first left Japan to venture out into the "real" world, I found this whole tipping concept very confusing. As others have pointed out, tipping in Japan is unheard of. Who do you tip on a restaurant? Just the waiters? And what if you are served by more than one? Do you tip all of them? And how much? Do you add a percentage of just give them the change? And when do you tip? At the table? As you are leaving? How do you give them the money? Slip it to them quietly or just hand it to them in the open? Which countries do you tip in? I learnt the importance of tipping when I first went to Hong Kong. I was staying at a very nice hotel and was expecting Japanese-like service. When the bellboy brought my luggage into the foyer I noticed he was hovering next to me. Did he wasn't to have a chat? I just thanked him and left it at that. When he'd brought my luggage up to my room the same thing happened - it seemed like he didn't want to leave. I started having naughty thoughts; was he looking for a bit of fun? Later in the day, as I was leaving the hotel he did not open the door for me. No greeting. No smile. Nothing. The next day I went down for breakfast. Everything was fine. But the next morning the waiters totally ignored me! Nobody greeted me or brought me over a cup of coffee like they had the day before. I looked around and noticed that everyone else was being pampered and fawned over, but here was me, sitting all alone. I later commented to another guest, complaining how rude the staff were. "Maybe your tip wasn't enough." "Tip? What tip? I didn't leave one." "Well, what do you expect??" So the next day I started throwing money around like a drunken sailor. And it worked like a charm! Suddenly I had changed into a VIP and the staff couldn't do enough for me. I was treated like royalty. And that's when I realised that you get what you pay for. And from that day forward I have always left a tip - a very generous one if I'm planning on coming back again. It works like a charm. In Thailand I tend to stick to the same bars and have certain guys on hand to look after me whenever I want. So I tip them well, although not over the top as they receive money from me on a regular basis. As we are total strangers, at least in the beginning, they have no incentive to go that extra mile. You have to pay for that special attention and that's what the tip is for. Once you get to know someone really well, they just take really good care of you as a matter of course, because they know that's what you expect, plus they know that they'll be getting repeat business. And for them, a regular income is probably more important than the size of the tip. Some of these guys have been getting repeat business from me for years. And we are all happy!

Well, the way I see it, everyone can have their fair share. But only after I've had mine!

I've been a regular customer there for years, so they "take care of me" very well. They know what I like and are happy to oblige. The tips I give the guys in the bar are substantial but not over the top. But I am the bar's biggest contributor to their weekly earnings when I'm in town. And I am a regular source of income for the guys I spend time with. They know they will have a reliable income for the week or two I stay in Bangkok. So everyone is happy, which is what it is all about. I'm not sure exactly how much I spend there every day, but probably 5,000-6000 baht. More on some days. Give and you shall receive.

I think you'll find they are from Laos, unless they now have Cambodian guide working there. It changes all the time, especially at night when they often have new guys turning up. Maybe they are freelancers or friends of the bar boys. Your best bet is to go there at night and if you find an attractive guy, ask him to come to the bar in the afternoon. If he's keen you'll find him waiting for you.

You can both give and receive oral in Golden Cock. Although I only partake in the bar when there are no other customers and the door is firmly locked, you can do anything in the bar at any time. If you are shy in front of others, be it customers or the other boys, you can go upstairs. The two Lao guys have exquisite oral skills. Both really love giving as well as receiving. Enjoy!

Mmmm....if I recall correctly, a day or so after Suvannaphumi first opened one of the runways was closed down because of cracks in one of the runways, caused by sub-standard concrete.

I've written extensively about Golden Cock in my reports. Nature Boy is on its last legs, from what I hear. Even though it's open every night, often there are no guys working. Some of the guys who used to work there now work at GC. And the owner sometimes parties at GC, rather than NB, with some of his boys. One of the mamasans - the tall one - at Super A is often found drinking at GC these days, as is the little tout who stands out in the soi.

Last trip I had the hots for one of the coyote dancers in Hotmale - a tall guy with a beautiful body and some very sexy designer stubble - so I went and sat in the smoking area where the boys congregate and waited for him to come off stage. But as he walked towards me I could see he was acting very fem. So that was the end of that. Damn!

A typical day in Bangkok is very easy for me to describe, as I follow the Japanese way of doing things; viz. look around until you find the best of the best and then stick to it, be it a "jiggly" cheesecake, a bowl of ramen noodles or a guy! I wake up around noon, post a report about the previous night's adventures and then head off to Golden Cock for an hour of hands-on fun while my room is being cleaned. I then grab my regular guy and head back to bed for an afternoon in the sack. Then we'll either go out for dinner -usually at MK in Silom Complex, Mango Tree or the Japanese restaurant across from Golden Cock, or I'll head off alone to Siam Paragon for some retail therapy and dinner if he has other plans. I then head over to Soi Twilight for a show and then back to GC for more fun and perhaps another off. After we've finished I'll go to another bar -usually Screwboys - to finish the evening. Same, same every day. I have tried varying my routine every now and then - last trip I had a leg massage and offed the masseur - but I prefer my normal routine.

I'd be lost in Thailand without Line. All the guys seem to have it. They know exactly how to use it and can quickly set it up for you and then add you as a "friend." These days we tend to exchange spoken messages rather than type.

More than many can handle! It's a jack-off bar; you jack them off, not the other way around (afaik). Drinks 150 baht, fee to service guy is 300~400 baht, depending on your negotiation skills. Once you've finished with one guy don't be surprised if the others line up for their turn.

And don't forget Goodboys in Sunee!

Unfortunately, the gay areas in CM are spaced out, forcing you to decide what venue you want to be close to. For me, I want to be near my favourite gogo bar - Adams Apple - and so stay at the Lotus Hotel right across the street. It's not that convenient for some of the other gay attractions - e.g. the massage places and beer bars. However, it is close to a few other gay bars. Getting transport in and out of town from the Lotus has always been a bit of a problem, especially late at night.

Ah, the eternal question - how do the straight boys do it? As a gay man there is no way I could possibly have sex with an old woman, no matter matter how much I was paid. Getting it up would be impossible, even if I watched gay porn. I put it down to the fact that the guys are just so horny, they will do anything in order to get off. This is certainly the case with my guy in Bangkok - his hornyness knows no bounds. He has the hardest cock I have ever seen. It's literally like an iron bar and it stays hard not only during sex, but for a long time after he has cum. But it is his love of fucking that also explains his ability to perform. He can go on forever, but I can't. When I eventually tell him I've had enough he begs me to hang in there. "Can do more? Please! Just some more!" I always give in to him as he having such a good time I don't have the heart to refuse. My Pattaya guy is also 100% straight. And I'm sure I don't turn him on either, yet he gets hard at the drop of a hat. Often we both lie on the bed in our underwear, me on the ipad and he playing a game on his phone. I'll put my hand down his briefs and there is an immediate stirring. He's hard in seconds. So like my other encounters with the guys - all straight - it's about them, not me. They just enjoy the sex. I can't get enough of my Pattaya boy's cock. It is truly magnificent. When I start to "samoke" him he grabs a pillow, closes his eyes and just enjoys the experience. The expression on his face is priceless. No doubt he's imagining it's a hot young girl working on him, not some old farang. However, I think the situation would be very different if he were gay. It would be very difficult for him to enjoy the sex, as young gay guys only want to have sex with young, handsome guys like themselves. The straight guys don't really care what we look like but for the gay boys that is an extra hurdle for them. That's my take on the situation.

"Iit's really fun to be with the same boy the whole trip no need to seek for boys every day and you aren't lonley." Yes, that sums it up perfectly. Not am I never lonely, as he spends from 4pm to around 1am with me every day, I really enjoy the conversation. One thing my regulars have all had in common is their English ability. It has allowed us to enjoy a good chat. No more sitting in silence in restaurants. I love it! This guy had an incredibly varied vocabulary and words you'd think a Thai would never know just keep popping out of his mouth. And as I mentioned, his general knowledge is fantastic - he can talk just about anything. It's simply amazing. And whenever I say "How do you know that? You know everything!" he replies : "Only little bit." His parents didn't have the money to send him to high school. Just imagine what a smart boy like him could have achieved had he been given the chance of an education! Sadly, there are probably many like him out there. What a waste.

Well, I'm pretty sure he likes me; in fact, I'm 100% sure of that. We got on well the moment we met. Having grown up in Asia I'm very good at reading the signs and non-verbal cues. But a relationship is out of the question - he has a long term girlfriend. But I'm totally ok with that. I knew that on the first night I met him. I'm just happy to meet him and spend time with him every visit I make to Pattaya. We have just a fun time together.

Tonight was our last night together so after dinner I decided I'd take him shopping. "Do you still want a new shirt?" "It's ok. Too expensive. No problem." "Come on! Let's go and see if we can find one you like. I know you want a black one." So off we went. As we were walking around I noticed he was wanting to say something, but he was very hesitant. "Alright! I know you want to tell me something. Don't be shy; what is it?" After some hesitation he did : "Err....maybe not shirt but jeans. You ok?" As he was looking at the jeans I saw him glance at a beautiful black shirt. I just knew he wanted it, so I said I'd buy it for him. "No. Too much. One enough." I suggested he try it on with the jeans and when he came out of the change room, wow! - he looked amazing. Black is definitely his colour. Mind you, his slim body means he looks great in (or out of) anything he wears. He had a huge smile on his face. He was happy. Mission accomplished! As we walked over to the cashier he was still protesting. "No. I want to buy something for you. Then we are both happy. Just tell me what you want." Of course, he didn't, so I told him I was going to buy him a new belt to go with the jeans. The one has been wearing has had its day. I said he needed a new pair of shoes to complete the outfit but he wasn't having a bar of that. "Too much already!" "Ok. Next time I come to Pattaya, I'll buy you some." "Oh, thank you!" he said and gave me a discreet cuddle. What a guy! His attitude just blows my mind. He knew I'd buy him anything he wanted. He could have walked away in a new pair of Nikes. Many other boys would quickly take advantage of a farang waving around a credit card, but not him. As we have been seeing each other for years, his attitude doesn't surprise me in the least. Unlike so many guys I've met here in the past, he has never asked for anything. I just can't believe it. When we got back to the room he couldn't wait to model his new clothes for me. For the first time ever I thought he looked just as good in clothes as without! Well,..... Tonight being our last night together we got started early. He asked if he could cum on my chest. Sure. No probrem! He straddled me and started furiously jacking off and, as usual, I took over when he was about to cum. I put my hand up to catch it but it somehow flew over my hand and I got a facial instead. "Oh, sorry! Sorry!" he said and he reached for a towel to mop me down. We lay in bed hugging and cuddling, and chatted for half an hour or so. And then he was gone. He's probably heading home next week. I've written about him many times in the past. He's the real deal. Of course, the sex is important and he is one of the few guys who actually has a good time in bed, just like my boy in Bangkok. But for me, that is not enough to become a my regular guy. I want the full package. And he has it. I'm just pissed off that it took so many years of coming to Pattaya before I found him. He was out there all that time, but our paths never crossed despite the small confines of Sunee Plaza. There is someone for everyone - you just have to be patient. I'm supposed to go to Europe in September but if I can get out of it, I'll be back in Pattaya. I think I'm in love!

If the situation in Pattaya does not improve, I'll only visit when my guy is in town. The final straw for me was Boyzboyzboyz - it is but a shadow of its former glory. The new owner obviously decided to change direction and as a gay man, it now offers me nothing. I can see more attractive fully-dressed guys on Beach Road - no need to pay 280 baht for the privilege. And although the Tiffany show is entertaining, I'm here to see guys, not ladyboys, cocks, not tits. And now that the cocks have virtually disappeared, there is no reason for me to return. Tonight we after dinner we went to Starbucks as usual. After covering a bewildering number of topics ( including the G7 meeting and Asian history!), he started telling me about his early life and how he ended up in a gay bar in Pattaya. He was born into a very poor family and daily life was a real struggle. At the age of 13 he wanted a bicycle, as all his friends had one. But the family couldn't afford it so he decided to go to work and earn some money to buy one. After 3 months he had saved enough to buy a second-hand one and was able to join his mates cycling everywhere. At the age of 19 he decided he wanted a motorcycle, and he worked hard to buy a second-hand one. He was ripped off by the motorcycle shop, who charged him 49,000 baht for a bike that was only worth 29,000. Not growing up with money he had no idea about making such a large purchase. The owner took advantage of his youth, inexperience and shy disposition. "What did you do? Did you pay the 49,000?" "Yes. I just work harder. Bad experience make me strong." A friend then suggested he go to Bangkok to look for work. He found a job in construction, but being of slight build, he only lasted about a month before going home, where he worked as a car detailer. But it was a dead-end job and the money was barely enough to live on. He worked 9 hours for the princely sum of 150 baht per day. Then out of the blue he got a phone call from a friend groom guys home town who was working in Happy Boys, just outside Sunee Plaza. He encouraged him to join him and after hearing how much money his friend was making, he got straight on the bus. Instead of 150 baht for 9 hours work, he could make 1,000 in 30 minutes! And 300 in 5 minutes if it was a chuck-wow. "How did you feel on your first night working in Happy Boys?" "You know I shy. And straight not gay. I have to wear skirt and customer can lift skirt and see my cock! Then customer touch my cock! OMG! I tell my friend I go home. I cannot work here. I cannot get hard for customer." But he was shocked by the amount of money he made that night, just from tips from drinks and customers playing with his cock. After his first night he had made more in less than an hour than he'd made in a week back home! He was hooked - there was no turning back. With stunning looks, slim body and that huge cock he had many offs every week. Suddenly he had more money than he knew what to do with. His life had turned 180 degrees. He now regrets the way he spent his new-found wealth; he squandered it and did not send much home to his mother. He still feels guilty about neglecting her, although he certainly made up for it later. I never knew him in his free-spending days; ever since I've known him he has always deposited the money from me in the ATM when we go out for dinner. Unlike many of the guys, he doesn't party. And he no longer drinks -a bonus for me considering my recent experience in Bangkok. As a result of the owner's financial troubles and a staff member allegedly helping herself to money from the till every night, Happy Boys eventually closed. That's when he moved on to Nice Boys. The mamasan spoilt it for him - she was always asking boys for a cut of the customers' tips. If the boys refused she would physically abuse them. When a customer entered the bar she would only recommend the boys who paid her. So he left and went to Eros. I met him outside Queen Bar one night after work. He was with a guy I had offed earlier in the evening. The next night I went to Eros and had my first look at his endowment. We had a long chat and it became immediately obvious that he was someone truly special. This time I was the one hooked. I also have never looked back. He was one of the most popular boys in Eros and had multiple offs every week. So he called his younger brother to join him. Unfortunately, he missed out in the cock department and couldn't speak a word of English, but being such a nice guy he still did well. A farang friend of his decided to open a new bar - Sunny Boys - and persuaded him to move bars. His brother followed him. Being straight, he was very embarrassed at being asked to wear a G-string with his arse on full display. When Sunny Boys folded he moved back home and got into the fish farming industry. He spent 20,000 baht to buy the fish but in the end only made 4,000 baht in 6 months. "Ok, I try and I fail. It make me strong. No problem." He applied for a job at Boyzboyzboyz. He was told to go to the toilet and get hard. They were impressed with what they saw but told him he needed to bulk up. On my suggestion he went to work at Cupidol but didn't like the way he, and others, were treated. Mamasans have so much power over the boys. So he has ended up in Jomtien Complex. He makes a reasonable living but of course, the income is not reliable and nowhere near the money he had been making earlier. I asked him if he would consider returning to Eros. "No, never! I have you, so enough for me." And more than enough for me!

Unfortunately, it doesn't stay unspent for long. I'll just find something else to spend it on!

I've never seen Pattaya like this - it's quite depressing. Last night my boy and I were surveying the scene in Boyztown from the 5 floor balcony. Hardly a punter in sight. The only activity was the Chinese tour groups, but they only wandered halfway down the soi before turning around. If I didn't have my guy here, I'd be long gone. For me, the only real fun to be had is at Nice Boys. But I wouldn't consider offing a guy from there, as performance, or lack thereof, in the room would be a worry. At least I'm not spending much, unlike in Bangkok where I was going to the ATM every 3 days. Here, I'm not visiting bars so my only expense, apart from the hotel, is my guy and our dinner every night. BTW, I got a great deal on Booking.com for the Ambiance Hotel. Less than 900 baht per night! Last night I asked him if he'd like a new shirt. He was delighted at the suggestion so we wandered around Central Festival shopping centre. He wanted a black one, but couldn't find one that he liked. But rather have me buy him just any shirt, or asking for something else, he just said "Don't have. No problem. It's ok." I would not have expected anything less from him.