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That"spark" may have something to do with the fact that if he topped a customer, the next one he would have to bottom for until he was ready to cum again.have One of the great benefits of becoming a bottom as you get older is that there is no pressure on you to perform. There are times during an extended trip when, towards the end, it becomes difficult to get it up quickly. Being a bottom means I don't have to worry about that. The other bonus is that I can have more sex. Yay!!!

I've never bought a waiter a drink and see no reason to do so in a bar like BBB. I can get all the information I want straight from the boys. I've noticed over the past year that BBB has become increasingly greedy and money-hungry. They introduced those ping pong balls that you buy for 100 baht and throw at the boys on stage. I find that degrading. Apparently, the boys only score a few baht for each ball they manage to catch.

My regular Narcissisus masseur told me back in January that they were moving to Sunee Plaza, but I don't think that happened.

Usually 8:30 but if the boys decide to turn up - it's very much hit and miss - it's often after 9 pm. Go too early and there may be noone there. If you find someone you fancy - look for a guy called Mai - get their phone number so they can let you know when they arrive in the bar.

If we are getting ripped off, have a bit of sympathy for the poor Chinese, many of whom turn up in organised groups. They visit for a few days and then go back to China, never to be seen again. The bars know they won't be back so charge what they like. They also know that the Chinese probably have no idea what prices are and often are reluctant to complain. Or lack the language skills to do so. Many farang are frequent visitors and, thanks to sites like this, know what they should be paying. Plus, culturally we have no problem complaining when we are taken for a ride by greedy businesses. I'm glad you have decided to talk to the manager.

What a rip-off! And I wonder how much of that 450 baht ended up in the waiter's pocket. 20 baht? Maybe 30?

Is only a short cuddle and a perfunctory kiss on the cheek, but I appreciate the effort.

Walking is always suggested as a good form is exercise and it will also help you lose weight, or so they say. This isn't always the case. Last year I traipsed around Europe for a month with a friend, walking an average of 15 km per day and I didn't lose any weight at all. Not that I had to but I was, nevertheless, very surprised, especially as a lot of the walking involved going up and down steep hlls and stairs. This terrain in Croatia and Lisbon was a real struggle, day after day. Up and down, up and down. It was exhausting. In Croatia I found myself on a small island in the middle of nowhere, standing next to Sir Bob Geldof! I managed to take a quick photo and then he was off like a mountain goat, scrambling up a steep hill to the castle. My plan was to follow him to the top and get a photo with him but even though he is older than me, he left me struggling in his wake. Incredible. I wonder what his secret is. Unfortunately, I never got to ask him.

Not really. It's a very conservative Buddhist country and outside of the gay areas I think the locals would not appreciate any shenanigans.

Or do as I do - just concentrate on the guy. I don't think my guy in Narcissisus is looking at himself, and he's certainly not looking at me, that's for sure!. Instead, he manoeuvres himself into positions where I can get a good look at him.

Well, I'm into manly, hunky guys so Goodboys is just perfect for me. It's true that the guys look like they've just escaped from the local juvenile detention centre, but nothing could be further than the truth. Behind the screen they are sweet, gentle guys who are very willing to please. And despite being 100% straight, they are not hesitant in giving you a hug, a cuddle and even a kiss. Koko, try another visit and I guarantee you'll be very pleasantly surprised. They are some of the nicest guys I've ever met in the business.

I tend to think that some stress is beneficial. But not too much. Some parts of my job were very stressful, requiring incredible concentration. There were always times when I was thinking "What if..." But that kept me on my toes, and that's important for mental health, I believe. The rest of my life has been totally stress-free, apart from a few occasions. Good health, ,lots of friends and plenty of time to enjoy yourself should, hopefully, help people to age slowly. The slower, the better, of course! But what will I do when or if the time comes when I can no longer get it up? Hopefully, I'll lose my libido so it won't matter.

Lol!

Narcissisus in Pattaya has big floor to ceiling mirrors right next to the bed. I wrote about them in a trip report. My favourite "masseur" loved to watch the action and also made sure he positioned himself so I could also get a good view.

So, which one did you go for first?? Ah, decisions, decisions!

Yes, you can smoke inside the bar but I moved to the stairwell, as a lot of customers understandably do not like smoking. This led to my meeting the gogo boys there, which was an unexpected bonus.

Smoking leads to erection problems, as is so graphically illustrated on Thai cigarette packets. I know this is true as I once started smoking heavily during a couple of Thai trips and found that it does indeed have a negative effect on the strength of an erection. So I stopped smoking and everything went back to normal. However, if you have been a life-long smoker, the damage to the blood vessels may already be done and is irreversible. You'll need Viagra. It was also during some trips to Thailand that I started putting on weight, especially around the stomach. I was drinking beer every night but worse still, was heading off to McDonald's every single night before bedtime for a Big Mac! Having been a skinny kid and slim all my life, it was a real shock to look in the mirror. I couldn't help looking at myself in shop windows and hating what I was seeing. So it was back to Diet Coke and no more McDonald's. As someone who never eats fast food, that was easy. And I'm back to normal. I think self-discipline is the key. I loved sitting outside with the guys sharing a smoke and getting to know them better. I met lots of guys in the smoking area by the stairs to the toilets in Hotmale and in the smoking room in Adams Apple in Chiang Mai. If I hadn't been smoking I'd never have had the chance to meet some of the nicest and hottest guys in Thailand. And have sex with them! And I loved getting mildly drunk with the guys. Conversation flowed, hands drifted into nether regions and lack of inhibitions led to fun times and awesome sex. And I really, really loved those Big Macs!!! I had no idea how delicious they were. But I'd gone through life without smoking, without alcohol and without Big Macs and so just reverted to my old self. It was very hard, but the rewards were worth it.

I agree. Some of the nicest (and biggest!) boys around.

I didn't want to disrail this thread.

Yeah, I did think about that before I posted. But he was totally ok to share that information with me -a total stranger- and it's not the first time he's spoken about his health. I don't think I'm the only one he's spoken to about his health. I didn't go into any of his specific ailments in my post, although having said that, they are nothing unusual for someone of his age. And again, he looks ok for his age.

In the thread "August in Bangkok" steveboy wrote: "Physical functionality declines very, very slowly with age." I was chatting with the German owner of Dreamboys in Soi Twilight and he told me the exact opposite. According to him, he was going fine up until around 68 when suddenly the wheels began to fall off. He's now well into his 70 's but despite what he's says, he looks ok to me. But obviously, he isn't. So how well we age depends on many things. Previous life experiences would play a big part, I'd imagine. So what is everyone doing to keep healthy and active? Giving up smoking and drinking? Exercising regularly? Eating well? Having more sex? And I often wonder just how long I can enjoy sex. Is there an age we reach when sex becomes somehow impossible, even with the aid of Viagra?

moved to new thread

Yeah, I know. But I figured that would be too hard to swallow for board members (pun most definitely intended!) so I've now changed it to centimetres. Anyone still believe me? Lol. BTW, the fact that Dthump got my posts so wrong suggests he's never even read one. If that's the case, why criticise? Just for the sake of it?

The posts I make are never, ever about me. I don't even get a mention. Not a single word about my super-human sexual prowess, my 20 cm cock, my swimmers body, my awesome cumshot, my incredible stamina, etc. Lol All that refers to the boys I write about - the stuff that you like. Not even I would want to read about myself! "Yuck!"

This is the third news article I've seen this year purporting to show road fatality statistics, and they are all different. The first one I read said Libya had the highest number of road deaths. Another article I read just the other day said it was India. Now we are told it's Thailand. What's going on?? Whatever the truth, best take particular care in any South East Asian country, especially if you are contemplating riding a motorcycle. It's not always the worry that you might cause an accident; more often than not it is the guy coming the other way towards you who you have to worry about.