NIrishGuy

On good, even better, well done for that. Good luck with the reopening and yes you'll see me on my next trip for sure.

Congratulations on your reopening. I see from the pictures that you attached that you seem to have removed the recently installed safety deposit boxes that had previously been situated outside the shower doors. Can I ask is this a permanent removal or have you perhaps just relocated them elsewhere in the building perhaps ? I ask because as a customer I always found them useful to use and reassuring to know that the management cared about customers property safety ( having have items removed from my belongings in other massage premises in your area - but not Blue Boy I hasten to add!). So, have the safety boxes been removed now for good ?

A lot of Thai boys "in the trade" seem to be able to call on bar owner friends / contact / forgery companies to write them the required "yes he works here as waiter / cleaner / cashier etc and we have agreed to 3 weeks holiday but then he is required to return to his job" letter for use when they need it. As to whether or not immigration believe such a letter without there being some proof of earnings showing in his bank etc or some other obvious proof of its validity is a whole other matter. The good news for you is that as you live in a Shenzhen visa country it certainly IS doable and as long as you / he meet even the most basic of requirements of ticking the required boxes - even if only half honestly - you should be ok. As to whether or not it's a good idea to actually bring a free lance money boy from Thailand to your Country in the first place, well now THAT is a subject for a whole other thread load I'm guessing !!

Ha I love that you literally "busted your budget" right down to your last 42 baht ! lol Now that's what I call spending right down to your last penny ( or Baht in this case) when on holiday lol - way to go there, as you sure as hell can't take it with you ! :-)

A447a said....."I sat there holding his cock" See, and who said that romance is dead !! lol

^ Not always as I regularly ask the boys for 2000 to go with them and I never seem to get it so I always have to back track and revert back to "ok, ok, I like you, i go with you just for shot of your whiskey and we stop on the way back to your loom and go 50/50 on bowl of noodles " and ok I may have to supplement that with a little extra to sweeten the deal for them ( usually about 2000 baht strangely enough) but hey at least I never go home hungry or without a drink ! lol

I should add my comments re banana bar ( and hotmale bar opposite) are merely as they are at the start of Soi twilight and you can sit and have a cheap beer or two, watch the guys go to work, have a bit of craic with the bar staff ( if you make some effort and don't sit there waiting to be entertained ) - not that i suspect you EVER do that Anon :-) so don't be expecting anything other than that, but apart from that your plan sounds just about perfect and mirrors must of my own nights of debauchery when in Bkk so I'm sure you'll enjoy :-). Hell in just sorry we weren't both there at the same time and then I KNOW the craic would have been good !!! ;-)

Likewise re Bkk - and thats what I meant re my you might be disappointed etc as I know how you like to go out and party hard and late and Bkk used to be great for that and much more "real" than Pattaya and manys a night I headed out alone, fell in with a great crown of guys in the usual bars such as Telephone etc and then on to DJ ( which I STILL love and is basically my reason for always returning to Bkk) and then went on from there at 3am to maybe GOD for a continuation of a cracking drunken full on night and easily hooking up there too if that's what I wanted ( or nipping into the sauna next door for a sneaky quicky if I'd found someone in GOD but was already with someone from DJ after excusing myself to go to the toilet for a minute :-) and then on out for food with everyone or on to another club even as morning broke and back to my hotel wrecked at 7, 8 or 9am. Now unfortunately since the Army took over Soi twilight is over priced, over policed and as boring as hell ( although that's just probably over exposure to it on my part) and the likes of Golden Cock etc are just plain boring and dirty ( and not in a good way) and just not my cup of tea and with Nature boys is just a quick cash grab by the guys in there with very little actual long term fun - well unless you're wanting four or five guys cumming over your face all at once just for a quick change to your normal evenings entertainment I guess lol. GOD seems now to be even 50 / 50 as whether it even opens or not not and even the other straight clubs I've been dragged to ( as there's no where else now) have been made close early and more nights than enough I've ended up walking back to Tarntawan at 4am or something and stopping off back in Soi Twilight at banana bar for a last drink at their secret lock ins if you know the secret knock lol ( and before anyone complains about 'oh maybe you shouldn't say that in case they're raided" well as it's a policeman who owns and runs the bar I doubt anyone will be raiding them any way soon!" But I'm guessing as you're only there for the one night and there is loads of "new" things for you to see and do it'll all be fine and you'll have a ball anyway as you always do, my advice is to stop at the beer bars in Soi Twilight for a few drinks and chat and play there a bit as at least you can can have a laugh there ( ask for Gun in Banana bar and tell him I sent you and I'm sure he'll take good care of you - in a totally non sexual way I mean lol) Im looking forward to reading your Bkk report to see what you thought yourself?

I fear you may be sorely disappointed on many levels ! :-(

"Not always easy....involves compromise....sometimes we "fight"...you know, just like any other relationship." Amen to that Brother ! I'm currently in "fight" mode with my questionable better second half Asian BF right now ( something to do with his BF deciding to fuck off to Thailand and Bali fucking for month I believe but that took about about two weeks to get to that WAS the actual cause of our ongoing fight of course with a mountain of drama being thrown in along the way just to ensure I couldn't actually work out what was wrong and have an adult conversation about that - god forbid eh ! But yes it cracks me up when smug bastards / friends here in my Country all think they know it all when if you mention to them some minor tiff you might have had over breakfast over him forgetting to put the milk back in the fridge or some nonsense they look at you in a "well, are you surprised, I mean what do you expect when you're with one of those Asian guys and I'm right in saying he is younger than you....isn't he ? As if they have some god given right either to comment at all or that they know SO much more than you and that their relationship with their wife / girlfriend / boyfriend is better and is of course a REAL one, whereas the guy you're with well "hell, sure it's only one of those Asian guys you're with", absolutely does my head in, like THEY don't fight with their partner ever ?? The fact that he works 12 hours shifts in our local hospital, doesn't matter as there's always that knowing look as if to say " oh don't worry of course we all know he's just your money boy / here for a passport / insert any other racial slur" - of which none are true of course as he's already a British permanent right to reside long before he met me and works his ass off to provide for himself and doesn't get and more importantly would be horrified at the thought of taking a dime from me ever. But hey never let the facts get in the way of a good old racist character assassination of someone just because they fit your negative stereotypes eh !! Grrr ok rant over ! lol And anyway I still just think that deep down they're just jealous as when they fight with their fat ugly wives and it's all over they still end up with just a fat ugly wive who's just that little bit more pissed off with them for the next week, whereas when we fight I've always the great make up sex to look forward to so fuck them I win ! lol

I can think of nothing worse, stuck there in an airport, your flight already delayed by hours, sitting quietly watching a movie on your iPad and the next thing a crowd of attention seeking theatrical types decide to inflict their latest offerings to you, whether you like it or not - thank god for quiet zones that's all I can say - and yes before anyone else says it - bah humbug ! lol

To be clear I'm with GB on this one as to what sort of culture I would rather fill my nights with, you'll get no argument from me there, I was merely pointing out "the obvious" when someone else suggested that my view of Pattaya's fine cultural offerings might be incorrect as they are as most of us know almost non existent - which it seems is how most of the residents seem to like it otherwise I guess they'd live elsewhere .

Apparently he thought the guy had hacked into his computer during a previous meet ( which the guy denied) he then paid him 300 of the 400 dollars they'd agreed and asked him back, then handcuffed him to the wall and beat him up and threatened him with sex toys ( as you do lol) and told him he was going to get what was coming to him ( don't we all say that in those circumstances ? ) but the guy managed to escape and ran down the street screaming ( drama queen !) and George got a 15 month ! sentence ( I didn't realise it was that long actually ! ) Heres a link - although it's from the Daily mail so probably only about 20% of it is true of course........ http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1119427/Drug-crazed-idiot-Boy-George-jailed-15-months-chaining-male-escort-wall-beating-him.html

To be fair if I was banging the above I wouldn't need an App to monitor him as anytime he wasn't on top of me or under me he'd be chained to the radiator in the bedroom awaiting my eventual return ! lol ( ha ala Boy George in New York when off his head on Coke when a rent boy crossed him over some minor matter such as payment it seems, resulting in him having to pick up litter from the streets of New York in an orange jump suit for a month or two :-)

I assumed this post was a joke / troll etc ( perhaps not ?) and then laughed at the idea of a "Stalking type App" as mentioned and THEN googled it and much to my surprise many such apps DO in fact exist that once easily messaged to your partner then feeds you back just about a double of everything they've said, seen, sent, read and just about everything else on their phone over long periods and all in an easy to read "dashboard" that you can monitor almost live ! Time to start checking back exactly what "message" my BF's have been sending to me over the years and think back about all the things and people I've said and done ! ( alternatively fuck them, if they're that insecure and jealous where they felt the need to spy on me I hope they read some shit that wrecked their minds for a while and that will maybe teach them not to do THAT again ( OP take note if you WERE serious in your original query!) Oh and before you ask no, I'm not giving you the App's name - they're all there within a few clicks on Google if you're really that way (retarded) inclined.

Try the "forget it, you're fucked, he's so fucking all round him now" App. I believe that's the App most likely to give you an accurate idea of his daily activities. Good luck :-)

Ha I can only assume that you are jesting - I did and there's not ! Short of numerous adverts for Eros bar ( one of their sponsors) and numerous bar closings listings there are only two other asverts for events in June that could in any way be classed as "cultured entertainment" so I think I'll stick by my scurrilouly insulting remarks towards Pattaya and its cultural offerings I think :-)

Did you perhaps mean something a little less than a full course, more something like " how to massage your partner better at home' type course rather than a full on "how to be a professional Thai masseuse" type course ? As I too have always fancied doing a short version of that type of course actually just to cover the basics, I can handle all the happy ending stuff perfectly well but it would be nice to learn how to rub a back muscle one way and not the other as that's how it should be done based on a body's physiologly etc. I did come across such a course as the one I mentioned in Bali, where the massage lady spent I think it was three hours with you being able to be shown and learn on the other ( OLD ! ) massage lady where the first lady showed you the basics ( or you could bring "your wife" too I recall lol), so I went and found a suitable ( fuck buddy) male partner and we were all set to go and book it then for no real reason we just didn't - I think from memory an afternoon fuck session may have gotten in the way and by the time we bothered to get up out of bed again later they had closed and I was leaving shortly after and on my return a few months later the place had closed down :-(

Wow - "Culture and Pattaya" - now there's two words you don't often see used together in the same sentence ! :-)

Or if a jealous BF needs to collect on the life insurance :-)

Sorry to hear about the wind, I recommend Boots the chemist, they have tablets that can instantly help with that. :-). And as for the cute guys, well now there's certainly ONE who's one gay social media but it appears he's just s bit further north than where you were :-( Damn, I miss all the good farang coming here for sex tourist holidays :-( lol Although firecat I did think it a little unnecessary that you posted that sex porn pic in your photos, you know the whole sheep on the hillside thing as I thought you already understood that what happens in Ireland STAYS in Ireland !! :-( And vinapu - yes Ireland, both North and South tend to do that green thing VERY well, you should come visit sometime, I'll even buy you a beer and hook you up with a hot sheep for the night if you're lucky :-)

Or paying very well in Bangkok - definitely one of the two I'm guessing ! :-)

So, apart from the vague rumour that James had perhaps left the Country I wonder has there been anymore word on his current status / safety ?

Damn for ONCE I wish that was me you were talking about but alas we both know it's not ! :-( lol Mind you even the guys that do happily "cum free" I tend to offer a little something to anyway as a) they probably need it and b) it does tend to keep everything on a certain level so that there's no confusion about who I am or what we're doing and after a few shags they don't get the idea they're a BF.