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The problem, buck bee is many of us believe when we feel strong emotions, that the feeling is shared equally. When many decades separate many of us from the much younger guys, reality disappears without a mirror and many of actually believe the gorgeous 20 year old hunk in our arms feels the same desire, lust, love for us as we feel for them. Denial is so strong and we want to believe so much that it is all mutual. Reality is always there, just look in the mirror, naked with the lights on and your eyeglasses. Still, we push that aside and think some 20 y.o. men actually prefer obese, bald 50+ y.o. men. I include myself in this lapse from reality and believe, but that damn mirror reflects reality. I wouldn't give it all up for a minute but losing your head means losing your heart and your wallet for most. Tread carefully and watch out for denial. Not directed at buck bee but at the vast majority of us.

Always helpful to mention interests. Some of us are better at advising on saunas and boy bars while others know more about restaurants, hotels and sightseeing. Are you on a tight budget or have plenty of money? Are you a student or retired? The more info you supply, the better chance of appropriate advise. Others are far more knowledgable about Bangkok than I , so I will leave it to the more knowledgeable members here.

Thanks guys. I ended up at Central, where I purchased the Samsung mobile a few weeks ago. They opened it up and played with the micro SIM card and got it working again. The problem had nothing to do with 1-2 Call. I think when they cut down the SIM card to micro size, it needed some attention to make the proper connection.

I'm not able to make a call or send SMS this morning. Anyone having problem too? My AIS 3G internet connection no problem

Brilliant and honest reporting. Anyone that bottoms can have occasional " leakage " and it can be embarrassing . Topping sometimes results in a bit of digested food on the condom with accompanying odour. Few admit it. I find many older farangs with very negative thoughts about bottoming and some deny ever "smoking" the boys or even kissing. I believe it goes back to the 1950's mindset, where "real" men only topped and "queers" bottomed, "smoked" and kissed. Some farangs see the boys here as only orifices for their cocks and never are intimate as "real men" fuckem and forgetem. I am happily versatile. Few farangs admit even to that and continue to play the "real" man game. Xilu fast becoming one my favorite posters, refreshing honest and without the crap many older farangs hold dear. I suspect younger gay man have left the "real" man bullshit behind them and enjoy the full sexual experience .

The lipstick a total turn off.

Reason I brought it up was we dined tonight at Casa Felini. Food was excellent, decor nice, excellent service. House red wine very good and a generous serving for 150b. My friend had a Thai dish and loved it. My Italian pasta was perfect. We will return. Great location for boyztown too. I'd forgotten restaurant name and which Soi. That's when I noticed mistaken Soi number. Thanks again firecat.

Casa Felini on Pattayaland Soi 1 not 3. It is same Soi as XBoys.

Bf might have died of boredom.

Just above the hot swimsuit photo is a bikini clad pair of boobs. Nearly clipped out of the photo. I guess if he was in a sham marriage, church going ,dull as dish water man, nobody would gossip. So many of us lived closeted lives, married, had children and lusted after boys when no one was looking. Sad, to put the man under pressure that many of felt our whole adult lives until we found A way to deceive others and deny ourselfs the life we wanted. Personally, I was out in my twenties but lived and worked in gay areas.

Thanks firecat. Never tried it and unlikely to return to Cafe New Orleans anytime soon. Good location for BT bars.

If I were reporting on Sunee, posting would have been depressing. Fun bar like Eros, too busy with too many customers. Nice Boys spoiled for me by a skinny boy with ugly deformed cock, who sat right in front of me and exposed it and chuck wowed constantly. Krazy dragon has been dead and Power boys not my cup of tea. Also can't stand the black lighting at Happy boys. Depressing enough?

A bunch of us went to Vassa boys last night for towel night. Three of us were happy and myself and one other were bored. Vassa has cornered the market on very slim, tattoo free teenage boys. Lots of pretty skinny gay boys. No tobacco smoking while we we were there and towels stayed firmly on with no exposed parts. Before going to Vassa, we dined at Cafe New Orleans. Restaurant was busy and it was over an hour before soups and salads were served. Some enjoyed their dinners but one will never return. Mine was ok but over 2 hours in a chair no fun. Last stop was Boys,Boyz,Boyz . Lots of manly men here and playfulness among the guys. A couple of twinky boys but young masculine men were bountiful. A few looked over 30 as well. Very hot sexy show (not Bangkok hot) and plenty of boners throughout . No tobacco smoking here. Many women in audience and many of the guys directed their attention to the women. One farang gave a very sexy teenaged boy a 1000b. Tip. The kid has the sweetest buns and is popular. He seemed stunned by the generosity as 100b. Tips are the norm and somewhat rare these days. BBoys super and the twins were featured and super as well. Boyztown has something for everyone.

Good, thought I was seeing things when the photos popped up again

Agree with above praise. Clean and fresh. Don't even miss the flirt for free photos.

I am terrified and leaving Pattaya today. Where oh where can I run to? Oh my, just lost my lunch. One would almost think there was a troll hiding in plain sight. I think I will stay in paradise after all .

Prejudice against Indians, Arabs, Russians, even Germans is not isolated to skin color. There are cultural differences, different norms as well as appearance at work. Fortunately, there isn't much prejudice at all against elderly, overweight and balding men. Maybe there should be with horrendous comb-overs.

Rickinoc, you are very welcome here. Hands down , hottest first post by a newbie ever. Great writing style.

Last night, I was waiting for someone in front of Toy boys. A massage boy across the same Soi was extremely friendly and helped pass the minutes while I waited. Then a decrepit ancient crone passed the same boy and got the same super friendly come-on. It made me laugh as for a few minutes, I thought the boy liked me and that I wasn't just another prospect. The ancient crone, deep in his eighties ignored the come-on. No matter how old, how obese, how ugly we are, you can have a ball in Pattaya. All you need is money.

Excellent points from firecat. If you like saunas then no money involved. At 40, you will find older farangs hitting on you, some as old as grandpa. If same age men are your thing, not many money boys still in the game at 40. First time a learning experience and everyone makes mistakes. Many of us keep repeating the same mistakes and most of us have few regrets and keep coming back for more. Most dangerous is the broken heart syndrome.

I've hooked with 'Top' only guys who were versatile bottoms, on gayromeo. Funny how many boys answer the fisting passive or active question. Don't take it too seriously when a boy answers in front of other boys or friends. You never know for sure what's possible or not without a test run.

Correct. Also not sure of spelling. Means dancing shrimp in English, which is a popular food, where the shrimp are not quite dead when served. Also good idea to bring some of the boys friends along.

Thread a nice tribute to Fountainhall. Whether intentional or not, it bought back fond memories of my favorite poster on this forum.

I will conclude my Xmas report with Xmas day. After a lazy playful day, it was time for dinner. I wasn't in the mood for a farang special dinner, especially after the excellent turkey dinner at Coco's a few nights before. Bf suggested a karaoke restaurant. Karaoke not my thing but it can't be all about us all the time. A friend of his joined us and we went down a dirt road to some wooden huts on a large pond. It could have been in a rural village but was in Pattaya. Each hut was widely spaced around the pond, which is for fishing daytime. Bf stopped for change of 100b. for 10b. Coins to feed the karaoke box. Food was very good featuring a soup you add ingredients to and a large meaty fish and of course Leo beer. Sorry, I have no idea of name of place but could get from bf if anyone wants to try a Thai experience away from the commercial scenes in Pattaya.

Enjoying some Bangkok boy bar stories. Also good to hear about a 40 yo. man getting offed. Too much obsession with 18 y.o.s on the forums and very refreshing to see someone with a broader range. Not there is anything wrong with teenagers, I met my bf at that tender age and we are going strong. My first off was at Tawan, at the turn of the century , but alas I needed to threaten to call security, so among the worst. To be fair, another off at Tawan worked out much better.