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Back a few years ago, I said I met the love of my life at Tawan. Well, there were many naysayers. But, here is the thread: So, skip forward a few years, we are still together and doing great. He has been an amazing addition to this old man's later life. He keeps me busy, on my toes, and entertained. Not easy to do, but sometimes, you just know on the first meet. The BF of over 20 years, I knew that day. And, we are still together (kinda) as he has a farm now and lives with his family but talk daily. When I call, he comes that day. When I need him, he is there. When he needs me, I'm there. As for the love of my life, he has been a true joy. Don't let the people tell you that romance dies at a certain age or that every bar boy is the same. They are not. They are often diamonds in the rough and it takes patience, love, attention, and money.

@faranglaw thanks for posting this, as I believe that this is the NUMBER 1 reason why I joined, participate, and stay active in "OUR FORUM" = gayguides.com. It warms my heart when our responsible membership take care of our guys. On the other hand, it saddens me when we occasionally learn/read/discover that some of our members exploit our guys in a monetary and/or psychological way that is degrading to their wellbeing. In the end, we are all human - and we should be all treated with dignity.

For me sex is an important part of travels, but the main thing is sightseeing. In Latin America there's also the goal of practicing my spanish. Maup and I have a bit of a correspondence history. I told him I'm coming 2 Medellin and will b looking 4 BF material to accompany me on a week of self-drive to Cali. He connected me with J, one of his regulars. J is an unemployed 19 y/o twink from Venezuela. There was an instant click - whatsapp and then f2f when I landed on Wednesday (including in bed). Maup arrived 16 hours after me. We met three times; a pleasure in itself. Thank you Maup! I also posted in Grinder and other apps a "wanted" - ad (in Spanish): looking 4 a guy who can hold a conversation and travel outside the city, and enjoys sex with mature men. Was inundated with responses, but almost all didnt fill the 1st criteria. Then, on Saturday A appeared - 23 y/o, employed and even lives alone in a rented studio. He was nuts over me, and wanted to accompany on the trip, even at the price of cashing in some vacation days. I decided to take it slowly; cancelled my Communa 13 Sunday with J; and went with A instead. Had a great day (including the sex again); which convinced me 2 split my time btw them. J joined me on Tuesday for the car trip, until Monday in Cali; and I flew A to Bogota 2 join me there on Wednesday 4 a VERY long weekend. I feel VERY lucky and blessed to 2 out of 2. Had a great time with them, nice intelligent and sexy young men - each in his own way. No money exchanged hands. Of course I paid all expenses, and J also got 8 books as gifts. For A, the very visit to Bogota and via plane 2 boot was birthday gift enough. PS - 4 all of u contemplating a similar self-drive trip - have no concerns. At no point did I feel unsafe or insecure. Most of the driving is slow, but who's in a hurry..... ? I heartly recommend Jerico, Valle de Cocora and Therma Spa Santa Rosa. M sorry I can't report on any of the sex venues; was too busy interviewing candidates... (-:

“MB is no easy job. You wouldn't know all kinds of customers we've been through. There were times I was already naked in the room when the customer made a ridiculous demand. I wanted to put my clothes on and leave, then I think about how I'm gonna pay the rent tomorrow..." Yes it can be a very dangerous job, and worse. Ten years ago a massage boy I knew and liked was murdered by a client in the Malaysia Hotel. Awful. Daeng was 23. It’s good to see that the overwhelming majority of posters here show respect and genuine concern for the money boys we meet. Even if most of them don’t follow our hopes (saving money, getting out of the game, getting an education), our presence makes a positive difference in their lives. We should cherish that.

From VN Express Ho Chi Minh City's Metro Line No. 1 officially launches operations on Sunday morning, connecting Ben Thanh Market in District 1 to Suoi Tien Theme Park in Thu Duc City, marking a milestone 12 years after construction began. At 10 a.m. Sunday, all 14 stations of the metro line officially open to the public. But a large number of people already flocked to Ben Thanh Station, the line's largest, at around 7 a.m.Ho Chi Minh City Vice Chairman Bui Xuan Cuong said the launch of the city's first metro line marks a significant milestone in the development of its public transportation system. The metro will cater to the public's need for fast and efficient travel, contributing to the creation of a sustainable and modern public transit network, Cuong said. "This project is also a symbol of the cooperation and strong ties between Vietnam and Japan, achieved through years of relentless effort." He added that the metro line sets the foundation for the future expansion of the city’s urban rail system. Japanese Ambassador to Vietnam Ito Naoki expressed hope that the Ben Thanh - Suoi Tien line will improve connectivity in high-traffic areas and encourage residents to shift from private vehicles to public transportation. "The success of Metro Line 1 will serve as a catalyst for the development of additional projects and infrastructure," said Ito Naoki. Single-ride tickets paid with cash will range from VND7,000 to VND20,000 (US$0.27-0.79), depending on the distance traveled. For cashless payments, the fare will be slightly lower, ranging from VND6,000 to VND19,000. https://e.vnexpress.net/news/news/traffic/finally-happening-hcmc-s-1st-metro-line-begins-service-after-12-years-4830183.html

Looks like they're preparing to make pole ring in big cock show.

He could buy Hotmale!

I've always been too shy to chase. On my first visit nearly thirty years ago, I required my object of desire to make the first, second and third move. And to be blunt, I don't think I've changed. I envy those who are braver than me and more resilient when it comes to set-backs.

I am with you, TotallyOz. These partnerships aren't easy for either party and among all their problems one, though not the most significant, is the cynicism they sometimes encourage. On both parties, I hasten to add. P and I celebrated our twentieth anniversary in January of this year.There have been bad moments, I confess; times when I doubted him and occasions when he, I know, was disappointed with me. But it has worked for both of us, if in totally different ways. I hope it continues for you, too. I wouldn't presume to offer advice but I do urge patience and realistic expectations., for you both.

It depends - if memory serves me correctly - gay camping and cruise walking "in the forest" .... proved to me that it is NOT hard to "grow boys in the forest" boys will be boys in the forest https://nomadicboys.com/gay-campgrounds-usa/

Yet another AI generated animated image! Enjoy your Sunday, folks! The_setting_is_a_gay_bar_in_Bangkok._The_name_of_the_bar_is__Bangkok_Boys_._In_the_middle_of_the_bar_seed4256445704.mp4

Thank you for reminder that on apps we (mostly ) are meeting people we don't even know really anything about the and often not even how they look like. And it's two way street, host may be prone to assault guest as much as other way around. Second warning is about loading EVERYTHING on one's phone for sake of convenience , not realising we possibly create trap for ourselves.

And PS, Trump already FAILED at his first Presidential task with the budget and raising debt ceiling, almost causing a govt shutdown by interfering , and wanting the debt ceiling to be raised or eliminated on Bidens watch, so he can Give his oligarchs their expected budget cuts and not be blamed for getting rid of the debt ceiling. . The dummy just doesnt get it. He just keeps LOSING. Perhaps President MUSK will straighten him out ?

For me, the moment came nearly eight years ago. The happiest years of my life have followed. Thanks for reminder that hope springs eternal.

From one of their posts on FB: Location: 361 Soi Silom 7, Suriyawong Subdistrict, Bang Rak District, Bangkok 10500 Never heard of this place??

That’s my experience too. From time to time I’m surprised by how much some of the “macho huge dick stereotype” that says they are exclusive top enjoys the session as a bottom behind the closed door. A smaller increase in your offer usually unlock that option.

When I went to Nana this year, there were quite a few vendors on the pavement selling sexual items.

You know my sarcasm, gotta get over the 3 yr hump before I'm onboard, bad luck to change your status on social media to married also, sarcastic and superstitious...what a mix 😉 A "3 year hump" in relationships refers to a common period of challenges and potential conflict that often arises around the three-year mark, where the initial "honeymoon phase" of a relationship wears off, leading to increased arguments, boredom, and a feeling of taking the partner for granted, potentially causing strain on the relationship; essentially, it's a point where couples need to actively work on communication and deeper connection to overcome the "itch" and move forward together. https://www.verywellmind.com/three-year-relationship-problem-8663224

as long as we remember that we are dealing with boys , not saints and , mercifully rare but not unknown to science , maltreatment goes other way around

Yes you are right AI is learning and evolving. It should make variation in body shape and type. At least AI is smart enough to know by now that guys who work in a bar have noticeable bulge in their briefs.

@jason1975 Great work with your new AI video creation skills. One of the things that i notice about these is that all of the belly buttons (navel umbilicus area) seem to be identical. Also, the packaging of what is in their underwear briefs. Does the AI software simply duplicate the 1st person onto the 8 other guys ? I see that the face and height of the individual guys are different - but much of the rest of their body is the same (as if to be duplicated).

I know many tops that go.... just don't be self conscious when the bottom has a huge dick flopping around while you are fucking him.... many guys will say they are top when they are really vers anyway.

This is all good stuff, Olddaddy. You can use it on customers when you open your bar. And you thought you weren't a people person.

Hi you little rascals! Just decided to pay donkey dick island another visit. Found a reasonable air fair tucked between all those staggering holiday rates. So Santo Domingo's up in January. Any forum member there at those dates? Always good to share experiences over cold drinks at Paco's! I will provide mentionable updates and/or trip reports in the comments below!

It doesn't look like it's "boys for girls" given the references to "Man Only" and "Dark Room Available" on some of the posters on Facebook for previous events. Our collective radar seems to have failed to notice this place to date(thanks to OP for picking up on this) and spies definitely needed to attend!

Hope it's not one of those " boys for girls " bars patronized only by locals. We need to find some spies to go and check, all mine dissipated at the moment

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you know how to cheer people up, don't you ?

Know the soi but never heard of bar.

That's welcomed although not really necessary as Thailand is really , all in , very secure country . Tourists worst enemy there are themselves as that behave recklessly , get carried over by friendliness around and forget to take basic precautions and then we have stories bout snatched golden chains, robberies etc , big chunk of which can be scams for insurance purposes I suspect . Whenever I see tourist, not even necessarily farang , pulling out fat wallet to pay for bus ticket or can of coke I wonder how long it will before somebody will be tempted to help him to count all that money.

https://www.facebook.com/people/Himbkk/61560383199435/ The address translates to 58/16, 58/17 Surawong Rd.

Agreed, but this is not a truth limited to the GPs or to Brazil, but a universal truth.

Well, he met you!

I’ve wasted my time there as well but seeing is believing and it’s an evening out and geographically centrally accessible even without desired fulfillment if you want a nighttime activity. I have followed their socials for years and there’s but one dancer making appearances that I would fork out money to, but he was bookable through his Instagram account. There are few ‘gogarotos’ that interest me but there’s a new cute muscle pup on the circuit that looks promising, has not worked at Hot House yet though. Entrance is BRL50 and that’s what I pay. As I don’t drink or I order à la carte I don’t know what the 130 consumption includes. But if pressed to pony up 130 reais as opposed to the basic 50 you might show a banner ad screenshot; one here upthread.

BTW: I think I met the love of my life again yesterday at JJ Market. But, it wasn't a boy this time. Beautiful white cockatoo. I could not stop thinking about him all night. Just hoping when I return next weekend, he has been sold.

I think you may have misunderstood some nutritional information. Not all fat is bad for one's health--mainly just saturated (and, of course trans) fat. Most of the fat from vegetable oils and seafood is unsaturated fat. Diets high in unsaturated fat (high in vegetables and fish) are associated with lower mortality. The Mediterranean diet, in which there's plenty of olive oil (and seafood) is associated with long life. In fact, certain unsaturated fats, called essential fatty acids, are required for us to live. As you can see, olive oil is high in unsaturated fat and very low in saturated fat: If one wants to be even more obsessive about avoiding saturated fat, canola oil is probably the lowest in saturated fat:

I am totally with you @TotallyOz with what you wrote above. Thanks for sharing it with us. Especially the part about the "diamonds in the rough" - especially if it has sharp edges from a bad upbringing and/or unfortunate MB experiences --> or both. Those "sharp edges" can wound the both of you - but the potential emotional rewards and happiness can be unparalled.

I love Tailor on Ten.

I really love this guys Facebook profile😍😍😍 I have no idea if he does Gay4pay💲💲 on the side though ,I'm trying to look for Non money boys in Facebook,just ordinary sexy Thai guys not gay or bisexual How do I get in contact with him? ,I have no idea how to use this Facebook Do I go to messenger?📭📧 What should I say ?🗣️ I don't want to offend him?😖 Is there any other Facebook boys Bangkok with sexy teasing pics such as this one ? Or Instagram boys Bangkok?

Enjoy the snow....

On one hand, it is true that one shouldn't fret too much over occasional indulgences. If one visits Germany every once in a while and has a Bratwurst, this should not affect one's health by any significant degree. However, it's important to recognize that one's diet definitely has a significant effect on one's health, and one should be doing one's best to avoid saturated fats and simple carbohydrates. I would definitely not compare eating foods high in saturated fat and cured meats to drinking water. Although it is indeed possible to overdose on water, this would have to be done in an intentional manner, and drinking plenty of water every day certainly does not adversely affect one's health. The only time I've ever heard of someone being harmed by water was in 2007 when a Sacramento, California radio contest unwisely offered a free Wii gaming console to whoever could drink the most water, and the contestant died of water intoxication (her brain swelled and was pushed out of the skull). Needless to say, the radio DJ's were fired, and there was a massive lawsuit by the surviving family. (To make matters worse, a nurse called the station during the contest, telling the DJ's that this was dangerous, and they ignored her) https://www.nbcnews.com/id/wbna16614865 "A woman who competed in a radio station’s contest to see how much water she could drink without going to the bathroom died of water intoxication, the coroner’s office said Saturday. Jennifer Strange, 28, was found dead Friday in her suburban Rancho Cordova home hours after taking part in the “Hold Your Wee for a Wii” contest in which KDND 107.9 promised a Nintendo Wii video game system for the winner...". https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/KDND "... On October 29, 2009, after a week of deliberations, the jury awarded the survivors of Jennifer Strange the sum of $16,577,118 in monetary damages. Entercom Sacramento LLC was found to be 100% at fault for Strange's death, while Entercom Communications was found to be 0% at fault. The jury also found that Strange was 0% at fault (that is, there was no contributory negligence) for her own death...".

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From Pattaya News Pattaya City painted a rainbow crosswalk on Beach Road, in front of the Royal Garden Plaza, and on Pattaya Second Road in celebration of the newly enacted same-sex marriage law in Thailand, the first of its kind in Southeast Asia.

no. I was busy counting my blessings that I'm not UK pensioner living abroad in country where that rule applies. I agree that it's unfair and sometimes pensioner moves to other country he rather would not live but at least rule , while unfair is clear and known

Vinapu, have you looked at the exchange rates recently or the U.K. freezing pensions at the rate that pertained at the date of retirement?

" Whoo-Hoo, I'm The PRESIDENT..." (and it Only cost ME 277 million bucks)

I hope the flight to Bangkok is included?

Nong Nooch Gardens and Sanctuary of Truth are , I'd say world class attractions, there's also Wat Siem with only original Terracota Warrior outside of China.

How was it?

Onlyfans really killed the business, I hope gays wake up and see that it's not worth paying to see naked men if you can pay to have them in your bed