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4th day - I had a brilliant idea that on our last full day in phuket, i suggested that we rent a motorbike, and have a leisurely trip of our own, visiting several beaches. So after breakfast, we head down the mall area, called boat avenue, and rent a bike for 1 day, for only 300 baht, with 3000 baht deposit. We visited bang tao beach, surin beach and kamala beach, had a casual stroll at each beaches and had our lunch nearby kamala beach. We then head back to hotel for some rest, before heading out again to view sunset at surin beach. We missed a bit the beginning of the sunset but the view was definitely much better than yesterday sunset view on the boat due to the perfect sunny weather today. After it gets dark, we made our way to Patong. We parked our motorbike at 7-11 near the dolphin roundabout, and have a nice stroll along Patong beach. After few blocks of walking, we walk towards the city and make our way back to our bike to go for dinner at a restaurant we passed by before, a bit uphill with view of patong beach. After dinner, we went to hard rock cafe phuket area to buy some souvenirs. We then parked near paradise complex area, and walk a bit towards the walking streets. It was tuesday night but the walking street is packed with tourists. Several very big bars here with grand decoration. I saw one bar that has muscular russians guys on their rooster, similar to the one in pattaya. We did a tour and after, we went to paradise complex. When we enter the soi, show was on going outside of zag club.They have about 5 coyote dancers on a small raised platform. While they have some muscles, non really my type. We sit down on one of the table outside and ordered our drinks. Half way through the shows, i saw one more coyote dancer going up the small personal platform, replacing his colleague. Then lady boys shows, one after another. While sitting, i saw that the bar on the corner, further inside, has shirtless muscular guys that are more my type. I told my guy i wanted to go there just to have a peek, and the bar name is cruise club. And to my suprise,the muscular shirt guys they have are actually similar guys that i saw in circus soi 4. I guess these guy were invited to be for a special show? There is also another bar called (i) bar that have some guys more on the twink side too, located in between cruise club and zag club. Anyway, i only did a quick peek so i didnt leave my guy alone too long at zag. We stay until the show moves inside, closer to midnight, and unfortunately, shows inside is pretty much similar to the outside show. Only diff now the coyote dancers now goes down the stage and start mingling with customers for drinks and gropings. Too bad non are my type, but cant complaint much, i have a hunk beside me. We decided to call it a day and start heading back.

Only in Thailand 😛😍😱🤡 https://www.facebook.com/staneemeehoi/?paipv=0&eav=AfZ1df2TMYvw9oSwWX0he4eSuYHoIbdPnFeSapORz0Ng-iHr_rWcwz0wRJIp4C8H1Q4&_rdr

Yes. A lot of men assume that women's tastes are mirror images of men's -- straight women mirror straight men; gay women mirror gay men. Not true. It's well-known in the literature. Allowing for bell curve spread (i.e. there are outliers), it is generally the case that women tend to need an emotional connection before they want to have sex. This emotional connection can be real or imagined (e.g. among fans of pop stars). The centrality of emotional connection displaces the importance of the visual (physique/looks) to a large degree; which often gives rise to the age-old question, "What the hell does she see in that man?" That's the point. It's not seeing; it's feeling that generates the attraction. Straight men therefore have a harder time getting sex (outside of hookers), because they have to work at developing that emotional connection before they get rewarded. One doesn't have to get intellectual to understand this. Just consider four things: 1. For men, the high point of sex is typically, the climax. While the romance of the moment can be a powerful factor, it is nonetheless possible to have a good time without the romance, just so long as there is the sensuality of touch and the climax. For women, climax is not always attained. Therefore romance and sensual touch become more important. 2. Tale a review of fairy tales. It's very common to have young princes fall in love at first sight with princesses... and somehow that is enough, once he has won her, to "live happily ever after". You rarely have a traditional fairy tale where the princess falls madly in love just on sighting a boy. Sure, these stories strongly reflect patriarchalism, but there lies some truth beneath that. Men seem to put more weight on looks and beauty and think that beauty leads to happiness. 3. Lesbians behave very differently from gay men when it comes to the erotic or romantic. If they mirrored us, there ought to be lesbian-facing gogo bars, lesbian-facing massage parlours and lesbian bathhouses. These are virtually non-existent. Lesbian social bars, yes -- I just saw one in Tokyo -- but not the type of businesses that offer instant sex. 4. Straight porn tends to be filmed from the point of view of the man -- looking at the woman, her breasts and her pussy. This strongly suggests that the audience is much more male than female, which supports the thesis that visual excitement is much more a male thing.

Thought I'd share my experience at Lagoa here instead of starting a new thread. I was there past 2 nights, just to check the place out. They had a karaoke session last night, and a drag show the night before with hunky strippers before and after that. The bar area was crowded on both nights I was there (Sat and Sun nights) Personally, I'd say most (if not all) the GPs there are hot! GPs ranging from bodybuilders to muscle hunks to toned, next door type. Clients seem to be mostly middle aged/older gentlemen, with a few exceptions. I only had a session with one of the GPs there: tall, muscular (Russian looking?) guy. Quoted 200 with gozar, which is pretty low based on what I understand from the posts here. The session was alright, he was straight, so some stuff were off limits (which I don't mind) but he gave me a rub down, kissing, some foreplay and let me play with his body. We both came, and showered together. I don't speak Portugese, and he doesn't speak English but we somehow made decent attempt at a conversation before and after the session. All in all, the place is amazing, with lots of options, especially for those who are particularly into hunks and toned guys.

I like the idea of a Kink monument! Most encouraging...

This one: https://shamelessmacktwo.travel.blog/2024/01/05/but-wheres-the-tool/

Félix Dolci, Canadian diver. Fortunately, he's not camera-shy. In fact, he seems quite (deservedly) proud of his body.

Your still working? Your going to 70?😮and there's nothing wrong with that,I'm still working too ,but my job is more part time and easy I couldn't imagine putting snow chains on trucks at over 60 Physical work gets hard over 60 I work mostly because I want to travel every 3 months , but soon I will give it away because life is not meant to be working

bedstands, lamps, safe box, power switches, door and window knobs . and with all that cleaning never hurts to take shower ourselves, specially on Fridays

even liberal and undemanding guy like myself would be hard pressed to call Golden Cock 'classier place '

You forgot the most important part in determining the monthly benefit: when you start collecting. Those who choose to start payments early also choose a lifetime of low monthly payments. My best friend had a roommate who was a truck driver and an avid drinker. The winter after he turned 60, he cursed his job when he had to put on tire chains going over the mountain pass on I-5 between Redding, California and Oregon. At the time, the earliest one could collect Social Security was 60, and he didn't waste any time to hang up those tire chains and start getting those checks. His monthly check was around $1700, which, in addition to his cooking, was his contribution to the household. He was always drunk when he answered the phone. His decision to start collecting early ended up being a good one, since he died of pancreatic cancer before reaching his full retirement age (FRA) of 67. Of course, I expect to live into my 80s, so wouldn't think of starting to collect before my FRA of 67, and will probably wait until 70, when the benefit is the greatest. Also, if I wait until at least FRA to start collecting, my widower husband can keep collecting a good portion of those checks. Collecting early mainly benefits those with poor health habits. Social Security does not pay a higher benefit (for obvious reasons) to smokers, boozers, cough potatoes, etc., even though their life expectancy is quite a bit shorter.

Papasan - Tee is the friendly uncle going around the bar "helping out" customers with boy selections and whatnots. Nice guy.

I've never understood women.

I hadn't noticed the names, Long Wang, somewhat suggestive!

I prefer shorter guys than me 1.75, HARDLY go with someone my height or taller. I have this at the entrance to my bedroom 😝

and the politicians and police.

So, after three days of work trip in Taipei perpetually surrounded by colleagues and having zero fun (seriously, how can you be surrounded by cute Taiwanese men and not have a chance to enjoy?), I finally landed in Bangkok, ready to unleash some excitement. My luck was on fire right from the get-go—I breezed through immigration, and my luggage appeared on the carousel before I could even blink. From landing to securing my Sim card outside for less 20 minutes. Seems like the universe is finally cutting me a break! I got to my hotel, Quarter Saladaeng, way earlier than expected, but lucky me, they had a room ready for an early check-in. This place seems pretty great! It’s competitively priced, within a healthy walking distance to Silom, and they've got a free shuttle to BTS Saladaeng/MRT Silom. It’s the perfect balance—close enough to be convenient but far enough from the chaos. Oh, and some the staff? Super cute! There’s one ruggedly adorable doorman who’s so charming I’d consider hiring him if he is a bar boy. He even helped me with my ridiculously large delivery of bottled water and random stuff. Fingers crossed I get to see him more. First stop: the reincarnated The One, which I missed last time. Big mistake , I showed up too early and asked if I could return the unopened can of Coke and come back later, and they were cool with it. I spent some time strolling down Surawong Rd., taking in the sights and smells. There’s something uniquely electric about this place—it’s crowded, a bit grimy, and just so sensory-stimulating. When it started to drizzle, I ducked into Good Boy and ended up chatting with their mamasan while lounging on the outdoor couch. She kindly invited me inside to check out the night’s lineup for free. Tee, the papasan, spotted me and started raving about their new hires—"Lao, Lao, Lao, so many from Laos!" he said. According to him, numbers 7 and 42 seemed promising. Before their show started, I left, promising to return later. At Tawan, the 10:30 showtime got pushed to 11. I was starting to worry that the recent negative reviews might be spot-on. The guys weren’t in top form, but as the show went on, I saw glimpses of the old Tawan charm—the friendly banter and lively atmosphere. I left hoping things will only get better from here. Back at Good Boy, the place was almost packed. The papasan directed me to a seat just as a customer was vacating it. Coincidentally, T—one of my previous favorites—was at that table and recognised me (even remembered the hotel we went to last time!). T immediately started working his magic, reminiscing about the fun we had at Khaosan Bar and insisting he’d like to "take care" of me again. He was pretty persuasive, so I decided to play it safe tonight and maybe check out numbers 7 and 42 next time.

that too but first and foremost we don't even look quarter as attractive as we were 20 years ago so what could be passable adventure just to make money than, now can be spasm inducing exercise for current generation

In case you missed it... Still a good idea to get vaccinated if you are not. https://www.bangkokpost.com/thailand/general/2849873/experts-warn-mpox-poses-serious-threat-to-thailand

now I know why it's silent when I asked it to lend me 100 $

no, while I agree that everybody is entitled to his own political sympathies, I pointed to those inclined to fuck republicans where it can be done with relative little effort

I never thought of a jetski as a mode of transport for 3, going to dinner...always as a recreational vehicle 😱

you trying to convert us ALL to Republicans here?

Just typed in Bismarck ND into "Travel" on Grindr. Plenty of closeted republicans to be had.

Normally the long tail boats would expect to be the vessel that comes off worse. What was a jet ski doing out on the river at night?

I am surprised the long tailed boats aren't required to carry lights in dark conditions. During a recent visit to Pennsylvania-Dutch country I notices that even the horse and buggies the Amish use are requires to carry lights and reflectors when using public roads.

worst homophobes are closeted gays

https://www.bangkokpost.com/life/social-and-lifestyle/2791477/smoggy-bangkok-gets-a-badly-needed-breath-of-fresh-air

but those have suckable cocks as well

If as woman had a good relationship with her father, she may well be attracted to a mate with similar characteristics. Aside from the face--which we all focus on first, women find men with a muscular bubble butt attractive. And a V-shaped physique. Maybe we're not so different after all. I look at this way: if the Olympics doesn't have a minimum height requirement,why should a pub. Plenty of short, attractve specimens on display in Paris a few weeks ago.

I am with you on this feeling @spoon - especially as it relates to that sexy beach attendant from Myanmar on the Dongtan beach here in Jomtien. As we both know, he has BIG sex appeal and is definitely not 1.7m

If ever his career as an athlete doesn't pan out, I'm sure he can make a fortune on OnlyFans...

No, I'm not still working, but living off of my pension and, so far, non-retirement savings. I expect my non-retirement savings to last until I turn 70, at which point it will be replaced by social security and retirement account savings. The former room-mate of my best friend, who retired as a truck driver, was actually a trained chef, but quit because he didn't like to have to be told what to do, and took up truck driving instead, because it let him do his own thing. I cringed when he gave up his work as a sous-chef, but at least he lived his life under his own terms. Some people don't do well just serving the public. I trust that he didn't drink while driving a truck. I don't think I ever saw him sober. He did seem to live a content life. When not out on the road, he was always at home. He never joined us in any activities (hiking, travel, white-water rafting, etc.).

Oh dear, there goes the floor! 🤣

neither did Columbus who set off for India and landed in Bahamas

And he who cannot be named....

If Tester doesn't win in Montana, how does the Harris campaign convey how completely obstructionist and insane a MAGA Senate is going to be, while sticking to their positive future vibes message? It's a criticism I have of the Democrats in Congress, not that I have an answer, it seems to me that they've never really been able to articulate how obstructionist the GOP has been for the last 14 years. In 2010 the Tea Bagging crazies took over the GOP agenda - and created chaos in government to distract from the Supreme Court legislating from the bench, with their life time appointments and their Christian Sharia law outlook.

Golden Cock, I recall! Very sticky...

they are making quite sensible points about possible abuse of right to repetitive entries without any limits on new 60 days visa

Yup, THESE are the people you want supporting you !

When I was single, I found the afternoons in Pattaya difficult to fill. Jomtien beach was fine for a couple of hours but no longer than that for me, and the go go didn't start until 2100. There were only two gay massage places, both far away from Boyztown but with only a handful of masseurs available; and no apps in those far-off days, obviously. Even TV was limited, very limited in the sort of hotels I could afford. No mobiles. Nor laptops. Royal Garden was newly-open (two floors of it) and there was some cruising there but I was much too shy; I needed gogo bars. I suppose I was lonely. The only people I knew in Pattaya were "short-time" friends. And of course, that particular tribe only comes out to play after dusk. This was the time I stopped being lonely. So , all I can say now to younger guys is "count your blessings". The internet, the numerous a/c-ed malls. Even TV. Hotels that are probably more comfortable than they were thirty years ago in my price range. Massage guys and willing visitors to hotel rooms are available twenty-four hours a day. No time to be lonely!

I take vitamin B as well as Magnesium, which helps with sleep which I'm sure would help with sexual health. Not a vitamin but I also use a lot of Maca which is supposed to have libido beneifts as well. I can't say I can directly measure the help, & I'm 33 so results might vary, but will say there's nothing like getting enuf sleep and taking a few days off from the cognac.

It is interesting that guys we consider "to die for" pay a significant amount of money to have sex with girls. Don't they get girls for free? Are girls' tastes that different than ours?

I'm now sitting at the airport waiting flight to Bangkok The cute tuk tuk driver who was outside my hotel on the day I arrived, and who I was contemplating putting the hard word on, finally returned to the hotel so I got him to take me to the airport. We had a long chat beforehand on which he told me business was bad because of the lack of tourists, especially backpackers Why backpackers? I asked. He told me he was able to hey lots of free sex from the foreign women. He'd hang out in front of the hostels and invite pretty girls to go to a bar for drinks. They would then go back to his place for sex. I think his gentle personality and killer smile would be a real leg-opener. So, what do you do for sex now? He told me he'd off a woman from a local bar. How much do you pay her? $15, but that's for one shot only Sometimes he pays $50 to spend the night with a girl. "One shot not enough for me. I young. Can do 4 or 5 times. No problem." If I had $50 I would have gladly given it to him so he could have a hot, steamy night of non-stop fucking. Unfortunately, I was leaving PP with as little local currency as possible, because I can't use it anywhere else, so I couldn't help him out. But if I go back again, I'll make sure I treat him to some fun. Afterall, you're only young once and nice guys like him deserve to be looked after. That's my philosophy. I remember a taxi driver who took me from Suwannaphumi airport to my hotel complaining how he couldn't fuck any more because the girls were now too expensive. How much? "1500 baht, but only ugly girl." I gave him 3000 baht and he had a tear in his eye! Nice guys deserve to fuck beautiful women! Lol

it's why it pays to know , at least rough, address. Wat Po Lanka in case of Men's resort. But now I guess most drivers know it, it has even soi named after it "Men's resort soi" off the main road National #6

Mr Handsome number 1 is not in the photos but number 2 is - he's on the left in the second photo. As predicted, last night was totally different to my first night there. There was only one customer when I arrived and he was sitting at a table with number 1, so I quickly joined them. I suddenly went weak at the knees as I sat next to him. He greeted me with a huge smile and a little hug and put his hand on my thigh. It's no surprise that he is a model and he showed me some photos on his instagram. There he was, strutting his stuff on the catwalk. He's in the Mr Cambodia competition and has his interview on Thursday. I think I'm in love! The crusty old farang at our table - he lives in Phnom Penh and is a regular customer - told me he had offed him once before for sex, but I somehow doubt it. Mind you, on the first night number 1 was constantly smiling at me and for a brief moment I thought he was giving me the come-on, but there was no indication that he is available. I'd be willing to pay any amount to take him back to the hotel. Number 2, who is also a model and who looks even better than his photo, was quite touchy feely. He lifted up his singlet and put my arm around his bare waist and snuggled up to me. He spent a lot of time leaning back into me as I felt his body and squeezed his muscles. As I was sitting there in sheer heaven another very handsome guy came up and put my hand on number 2's crotch. I immediately removed it, as it was uninvited. Then yet another guy (you guessed it - very handsome) sat closer to me and was continually touching me. He jokingly suggested we get a room across the street. When I said : "OK. Let's go", he just laughed and squeezed my leg. I only came here to go to Space Bar every night and it has definitely been well worth it. To sit in a bar surrounded by drop-dead gorgeous guys wearing singlets is a dream come true. Javier, the Spanish owner, has chosen his guys well. They are super friendly and speak enough English to be able to hold a decent (and very indecent!) conversation. Things may even get better tonight.

Off to Space Bar last night. I have fond memories of the last time I was here and all the fun I had. It was party time every night with the boys and all the customers. There was lots of fooling around with the boys and I had one guy in particular who would sit with me and we'd engage in mutual groping the entire evening. Since then, the bar has changed a little. As soon as I walked in I spotted an impossibly handsome guy sitting with Taiwanese customers at the next table. We were smiling at each other and I was dying for him to come over and say hello. Unfortunately, he stayed at the table and only came over briefly to clink glasses. Another guy came over and said : "I know you. You been here before." This was from my last visit 8 years ago! Another hunky guy came and sat with me and I bought him a drink but he then got up and started circulating among the guests. He'd drop by every now and then and sit with me a bit. But definitely no touching. I had a great chat with a Spanish guy and his French friend but I was more interested in Mr Handsome. At midnight, the tops came off and we got to admire their beautiful bodies. I asked one of the guys what time their jeans came off, but he just laughed. Although there wasn't any action with the boys and the customers, the boys were fooling around a bit with each other, poking each other in the arse, pretending to fuck, etc. Mr Handsome was sitting with one of the customers whose sex was indeterminate, and he /she was playing with his nipples. He gave me a look which said, I don't like this. At the end of the evening I had a long and interesting chat with Javier, the Spanish owner. He has a degree in Spanish Art and Literature so we chatted about the Goya and Velaquez paintings in the Prado museum. I asked him if the boys ever took of their jeans and he said he'd been trying to get them to do that for the last 10 years, but to no avail. I'll be heading over there again tonight. Once the boys get to know you, things can change. Here's hoping!