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I have been a reader of this forum for many years and have benefited greatly from such rich information from active posters - My holidays to Europe, South America and Asia particularly Thailand have been fun and extra spicy because of info generously shared here. Now I feel compelled to share my recent Thailand experience to hopefully help out and keep the info following. Please note that English is my second language and I would like to apologise in advance for any grammatical and other errors. Please be kind to me ❤️ I spent 12 glorious days in Bangkok but I will only be writing about days with spicy bits so as not to bore you people with my other vanilla shenanigans. Day 1 Arrived at Suvarnabhumi mid morning and immigration lines are flowing smoothly. Quite pleased that they no longer require those arrival cards. I always feel paranoid losing that other half you need to show upon departure. After sorting out Sim card and mobile, I marched straight to the designated airport pick up spot as per email sent by the klook app. Pick-up was efficient and after a couple of minutes, I am already in the middle of Bangkok traffic giddily planning what and where to go next. Check-in with air bnb was straightforward. Maybe because its low season, they allowed early check-in. I'm a bit wary with air bnb's legal status in Thailand. However, I am working remotely and hotel wifi is highly unreliable from experience. After checking-in, I decided to give the classics a try so off to Arena I go. My trifecta used to be Arena, Prince and Hero - still wishing Hero will be back! While walking towards Silom Plaza, I can't help but notice how much cannabis shops have setup and mushroomed everywhere! Not my scene but it was surprising how the number quickly grew since I visited last year. As I enter Arena, things flow like clockwork, The Uncle will ask you to sit by the couch, show you that Dogeared rate sheet and will try to sell you the most expensive package. Why do I have to pay 300thb more just for a different type of oil? I would rather use that to tip my man of the day and get better outcome later. While this is happening, them masseurs will assemble in front trying to get your attention. I always tell myself to calm down and take my time but I always feel low-key flustered with the attention which forces me to hastily make my selection. I chose this cute guy with a toned built. He introduced himself as Tom. He then asked me to shower and he stepped out of the room. I was quite disappointed that he didn't join. He returned with his massage stuff and took a shower before starting the massage. The massage itself was uneventful. It's that usual routine where they seem to focus on your leg area. I was starting to get bored and started yawning (so tired from my 13hr flight) and I think Tom took it as a cue to start the more interesting phase. He compensated well on his lack of massage skills and was quite surprised when he initiated a kiss. His body to body massage is quite good together with other things that comes with it. He then asked if I can make him cum which I gladly obliged. I must say it must be his first one for the day! I left Arena quite satisfied and decided to walk through Surawong to plan what tonight will hold. Had a quick bite at Foodland and took a taxi back to my place for a quick nap. Waking up refreshed, I made my way to Hotmale. I must've arrived too early and the selection that night looks not that promising. I made a mental note to give it another chance and visit it again later. I then went inside screwboys purely out of curiosity. The place was smaller and that night seemed to attract a lot of smokers. I'm not a delicate person but I really struggle with cigarette smoke. There's quite a number of potential offs but I am not in the mood tonight for reason I don't know. I made my way out and had a good yarn with one cute waiter from Laos. We exchanged Line which led to a number of proposals later to meet and be his boyfriend! Decided to call it a night and grab a coffee from Starbucks while waiting for my taxi. Starbucks is now open 24 hours compared to closing at around 8pm last year. Sign that things are indeed normalising? Overall, first night feels like a success even if i am going home alone. My session in Arena I guess is enough to cap off my night.

Great report. However, you can share the vanilla too. We like it all here.

Just one spa in Bangkok and look at these boys! Who can't find someone they don't like from this selection? Thailand is alive and well and the boys are waiting!

Strike the word gay....

The term Boyfriend means many different things to everyone. Gay men are whores. All of them. Or, 95% of them. Commitment is to each other but not to monogamy. Anyone that thinks their partner is monogamous is a bit nutty IMHO.

I like to just show up too, Arena or Senso style but sometimes we don't have much choice. Don't mind booking in advance guys of known quality from the past though. Sometimes not much choice is necessary. Last trip I went to Jey Spa with one of our members just to try our luck. They had 3 guys on duty and that was enough , we both left happy.

There are wealthy Thais who happily pay the European price to enjoy young white meat.

Yes agree to book ahead. When I visited without an appointment (as is usually my style) there was only 1 guy available and a handful that could arrive within 10 minutes or so.

because you like pussy , you traitor ? I checked with somebody fluent in Thai , it means 'working outside of massage place'

and, 5 more added at 6PM

From Thai PBS World Speculation grows over Kamnan Nok’s actual whereabouts The mysteries surrounding the detention of convicted former prime minister Thaksin Shinawatra has also caused many to doubt whether Praween Chanklai, “aka “Kamnan Nok”, a prime suspect in the murder of a police officer, is really being detained in Bangkok Remand Prison. Scores of comments on social media are demanding that the Corrections Department provide solid proof that Praween is really in the prison. Others claim that the man presently in detention is a Praween doppelganger. They do not believe in the country’s justice system, many of them say, out of a local belief that prison is only for the poor, as rich people, like Thaksin, and influential figures, like Praween, receive “special” treatment and don’t have to stay in prison. Speculation over Praween’s actual whereabouts have gone viral, forcing the Corrections Department to publically deny it. The department’s director general Ayuth Sintoppant reiterated that Praween is definitely being held in detention. Many believe that it is because of his money and power that Thaksin, a convict, is being allowed to receive medical treatment outside prison. They even wonder whether Thaksin is now residing in his house. The Corrections Department has refused to provide images of Thaksin in hospital, claiming protection of privacy. Therefore, no one outside his family, the police, prison officials and hospital staff have seen him or photos of him since his high profile return from self-imposed exile on August 22.

you can't do it with checked luggage. Asking them to only check your bag to LHR is just asking for them to investigate. The only issue you might face is for your next trip if they flag you. Here in the US a kid in Florida recently tried to do this and ended up getting all over the news because they canceled his ticket altogether and he had to pay for a last minute fare to where he was trying to go. If you do it more than a couple of times you could apparently get blacklisted by the airline.

I mute chats whose new messages I don't want to see in notifications. Open chat, three vertical bars at right upper corner, mute. Those pictures of available boys can safe a lot of time. For some places, there is none whom I would like, others several. Before, I would have to go in person to find out.

About 15 years ago I passed a volleyball court near Jomtien beach (still active?) and among the players I noticed very dark muscled hunk, who I thought was exceptionally handsome. He was really the only dark guy among the pale players. He noticed me…and I did not visit my hotel for 3 nights as I moved to his flat. Good times, I got emotionally attached and when I left I think I gave him 400 euros or so (that was my initiative, he just asked some support). I also remember various „solutions“ like me renting a condo and he would always be for me when I am there😃. That sounded a bit too much though..

Since everything is dark, how is money exchanged? Or is all this interaction for free?

From what I read You are not quite the loyal serious boyfriend material , when you say looking for BF I assume you mean long term escort ...

Dirty Old Man, and I could hear him speaking.

DOM = Dirty Old Man???

next time you fuck him try to be more gentle or remove that mook from your cock as it may be hurting him

don't worry , you won't be disappointed. Take an umbrella though make sure you don't waste it. I wish you luck

My experience with European MB, in Bangkok, is indeed that they wanted to charge European charges. I declined, quite apart from the fact that I was there to enjoy Asian boys!

Right next to BTS Bearing.

European MBs do exist in Thailand (have a peruse on the rentmen website), but I would imagine that the price would not be cheap.

I'd also add Medellin. The guys were really hot and readily available. I met quite a few on Grindr. I had many more offers than I took advantage of. Also Mileroticos. There are love motels if you don't want to bring them back to your place. Definitely a sex paradise.

Went to Nice Boys Fri night.....had about 10 anorexic looking guys and 2 or 3 decent ones. A group of Europeans came in and put money on the table for the first 3 to cum. One of the guys that came 2nd, was interesting to me, but after he nutted, He looked spent and uninterested ( I can relate)...so much for that. X-Boys were in underwear and they had about 3 or 4 performers that were dancing around naked, not hard. I was interested in one, but apparently not gay and not offable, wtf? I can't remember if Dream Boys were in underwear or not....some might have been, but can't be sure. Tomorrow is my last night, no stand out massages or sex to report on, pretty lame time in Pattaya this trip. I went to Sansuk sauna tonight for my first time ever....was much nicer than I expected based on reviews. About 80 people mixed ages, nothing wow, but I hooked up and got off.

word of warning for those who start salivating right away. On my last trip I tried to book three of them ( not at once , one by one , if not this perhaps that ) and none of them was available on my day. Since it was toward end of trip I did nor try again but definitely will next trip. Good news is some of those are regulars on Grindr

Same here, a few days ago I was in Nice and Winner and both a level of activity that justifies a visit (i.e. entering and buying a drink). However, more activity in Boyztown and Jomtien, but not the kind of activity I like.

Line is primarily a messaging app. You need the other party to give you his contact ID. Line is not a dating app where you can trawl through listings.

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Just some quick notes on Bali..... I'm not sure why it's not more visited from board members. Generally less expensive than some other places and not so transactional like Thailand. The gay life is pretty active, even if it's only a couple of gay bars, but Mixwell is fun all nights, weekends are packed. It seems like Grindr blows up the first day or 2, because WE are fresh meat. Since there isn't such an influx of gay visitors like in Thailand, the guys can be looking to hang out or meet for more than one day. Eating local food is stupid cheap, western food= western prices. I had a NY style pizza that would rival any NY pizzeria, I was shocked. Indonesians are usually cut and have BIG asses, a nice change from other Asian countries I visit. A lot of the guys know how to do massage, like Thailand, but cheaper. I went on this trip with my bf from Mexico, used miles for Business class, stayed at the Conrad Bali (used points) and got upgraded to an amazing suite with a private pool and direct ocean access. I was in the hotel business and the GM put me on the VIP guest list.... every worker knew me from sight, I wanted to adopt/marry one of the 21 yr old waiters in the Diamond lounge....I felt like a rock star. I also visited the Hard Rock Cafe, where I knew the manager from Jakarta, also made us feel like rock stars. Was a most memorable amazing trip, plus between Thai and Singapore in Business class, my BF is NEVER leaving me, lol I'm in Pattaya now, will post something later.....

I told a few of the massage boys I was looking for a BF and not a massage and they have all been telling me how they are gay and love me and want to live with me and be the boyfriend. One high at the top is a boy I love watching getting fucked and fucking others. He is from Laos and just loves sex. But, little English. Another is a Thai lad. But, looking forward to seeing who comes out of the woodworks in the coming months.

I haven't been there, so I don't know the answer to your question. However, I did spend a few minutes on Google Search and find multiple references to a gay Thermas Jardins, Rua Germânia, 221 - Bonfim, Campinas - SP, 13070-770, Brazil. There may have been confusion over the name because it is situated on Rua Germânia. There's an inactive facebook page (including an e-mail contact address): Thermas Jardins | Campinas SP | Facebook I don't see mention of GP, however. Edit: When I use Google Maps street view for the address I mention above, it's a vacant lot.

Mister International 2023 is scheduled to be held in Bangkok on 23 Sept Before that, Thailand will select its representative tonight (3 Sept). Last night was preliminaries.

Best of luck....plenty of long term escorts around. If the money is right. Boyfriends are a different matter and require commitments from both parties.

or never worked at all in a sense of question ' how many people work in this building?" , ' about half"

you not alone

getting old is no fun

Why did you reply to your own post?

be careful about skipping legs. US airlines have really been trying to crackdown on it since it technically violates their contract of carriage. But I suspect Europe has more sensible rules about airline regulation.

He possibly could be 'luk kreung' or like half Thai.

You must have had some really terrible experiences in Brazil. I feel bad for you. Why do you even go when you obviously don't enjoy yourself? I can assure you things happen as advertised. Hot house is a lot of fun and the hosts are really accommodating.

I do owe you an apology. I'm sorry. I was a bit drunk when I posted that. I shouldn't have, it was very rude.

Translation= he doesn't want to be the only one pushing your ass around in a wheelchair and changing your diapers.....I tease my bf about his future with me a lot and what to expect 😉

The boxer cover his claws but the pussy doesn't?

Ok. Understood and thanks

I like the dark skin Isaan guys .... when they tell me they're 'black"...I show them Chris Rock and say, That's black.

I've been quite surprised in my last 2-3 visits to Thailand of how much popular Chinese guys are on gay apps. Not just on Blued but even on Grindr which tend to be more used by Thais looking for Westerners, I see every time profiles with "Looking for Chinese only" on them. Have to agree though that a large number of Chinese guys coming from big cities from a middle or upper-middle-class background can be quite sexy and attractive. They definitely take care of themselves and their bodies.

Guys speak English, about like Thailand. There are nice sized dicks, and everyone I was with was hard before taking their pants off, lol massage only on Grindr was like 13usd and with sex 26usd....some might ask for more at first, but those are pretty standard prices. And like Thailand, be aware some pics are photoshopped, so ask for most recent pics. For massage venues, Shameless Mack recently did an in depth review of the gay ones in Bali https://shamelessmacktwo.travel.blog/category/bali/ There is 3 gay bars, all next to each other, I like Mixwell the most, is bigger and super friendly people. Depending on your hotel budget, there is everything available look in the Seminyak area to be closer to the gay scene

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