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Long post ... I returned from Bangkok on Sunday, after spending nine days in Silom. After all of my planning and worry about missing out on sex in Bangkok; which is why I was busying myself with trying to book guys in massage spas, I ended up not going to any at all. I changed my Grindr profile to 👀mb🍆 and then used google translate to write a short description - caucasian bottom in Bangkok for 9 days looking for well hung money boy tops. From the moment I opened Grindr after I arrived in the hotel (Ibis Styles Silom), I was flooded with messages from money boys, and "not-money-boys" but happy to get a little reward for their time... The first guy I met (Thai) insisted he was a top online but then couldn't get it up and eventually admitted he was a bottom and wanted me to fuck him... wasn't going to happen... I was a top when I first visited Thailand twenty years ago, but not anymore. He was a beautiful guy though and I loved laying with him in the bed for a couple of hours. He charged 2000 baht and wasn't watching the clock at all. Next guy (Thai) was hot - gym toned and smooth and a big cock. He fucked me perfectly and came back another three times before I left Bangkok. He was 2500 baht each time and also didn't watch the clock. Over the following days I met a few more guys... They were always either 2000 baht or 2500 baht and none of them were clock watchers. I only felt that one of them didn't really like me and he still did the job well. A few seemed to either really like me or the money or both and messaged me constantly. Three guys are still keeping in touch with me even since coming home, which is amazing to me. All the guys I met were between 19 and 32 and were all slim to athletic or gym toned. A few were from Laos, Cambodia and Vietnam, one was from Myanmar and two were half Thai mixed. I have to say that even though I knew that the old story that Asian guys have small cocks was not true, I found out on this trip just how untrue it really is. From one day to the next I seemed to be getting bigger and bigger cocks to the point where I am sure that I had the biggest cocks I've ever had during this trip to Thailand. I had two young guys (19-20) that just liked me to suck them off a few times each for 1500 baht which was nice. One guy brought along his "friend" to put on a fuck show for me in my room - I'd never seen a gay sex show live before so that was really hot and cost me 5000 baht. For a guy who can't host at home, and rarely organising hotel hook-ups, seeing these incredibly hot toned smooth young guys some with huge cocks undressing in my hotel room, showering and then walking over to the bed proudly swinging their meat as i was about to suck them and take their cock in my ass was just about the hottest thing I have ever seen. Even though I managed a lot of sex, I still got out and about to see a bit of Thai life and culture on the skytrain, skywalk, metro, at local markets (Khlong Toei and Khlong Thom - wow) and the Maeklong train market at , various temples, the grand palace, Saranrom Park and Lumphini Park. I didn't hit the bars, even though a few guys offered to show me around. After getting drenched in sweat on my long walks about town and then head down ass up for a few hours I was exhausted. But I regret not taking them up on the offer now and wish I had have done a little of the nightlife. I will sure do that next time. I am pretty sure that most of the guys I met this time will still be in touch with me next time I visit (via Line app). Some of the guys were really really nice, and Thai people in general seem really polite and friendly. I will do some Thai lessons in the lead up to my next visit. So, I was completely blown away in a good way by my visit to Thailand for the guys, the sex and the experience generally. It was so much better than my first time to Thailand 20 years ago (when I was a top), though I am not entirely sure why. Maybe I am a bit more mature or worldly than I was back then... I can really see myself retiring to Thailand in ten years or so to an apartment in Silom or a traditional Thai house on the outskirts of Bangkok (who knows?). I'd be best to take a few more trips to Thailand between now and then to confirm that's what I want to do. When is my next trip? December 2023 already booked! 🙏 PS. There's not much point in doing individual reviews (as I said I would do in the case of massage spa boys) on the money boys I met off grindr because they change profile names so often and fall off and back on grindr even during my 9 days there. It's very easy to hook up on Grindr in Bangkok and my success rate of getting exactly what I was looking for was very very high. But do watch out for guys who do drugs. I had one go off his face in my hotel room after taking something before he arrived. After that experience I always made it clear that I wanted no NO DRUGS - NO HI...

Here you may run into problems. My only advice would be to befriend a Thai with good English, drag him around with you and have him do the negotiating. There was a fetish bar in Pattaya, but it died in 2019. The other solution is study some Thai language before your trip. Communication with just a few key words can do wonders. As for "rough stuff".... I'd advise against anything like that. It's generally not the way here. You can quickly get yourself a bad reputation, and that will do you no favours. It's best to keep in mind these are generally poor guys trying to make their way in the world. They deserve the upmost respect.

Very nice place for coffee. Was there this afternoon.

Grindr isn't your friend in Thailand. That's why Blued and Hornet usually win. Their algorithm detects talk of "money" or "money boy", and after some woke prat in their moron department reviews it they are quick to ban those accounts. That's why you see boys set up new accounts every week. After a few bans, they ban the boys device, and then they run to MKB (Bangkok) or Tukcom (Pattaya) to get another phone that isn't device banned.

From CNN Workers move blocks of ice into a storage unit at a fresh market during heat wave conditions in Bangkok Every day, countless mopeds criss-cross the congested city of Hanoi, in Vietnam, with commuters traveling to work or motorbike taxis dropping off everything from parcels to cooked food and clients. One of them is Phong, 42, who starts his shift at 5 a.m. to beat the rush hour, navigating the dense swarm of mopeds and drives for over 12 hours a day with little rest. But an unprecedented heat wave that engulfed his country in the past two months has made Phong’s job even more arduous. To get through the heat of the day, he equipped himself with a hat, wet handkerchiefs and several bottles of water – precautions that provided little relief as recorded daytime temperatures soared to more than 40 degrees Celsius (104 degrees Fahrenheit). The average May temperature in Hanoi is 32 degrees Celsius (90 degrees Fahrenheit). “If I get a heatstroke, I would be forced to suspend driving to recover,” he told CNN. “But I cannot afford it.”  Phong, who declined to give his surname, said he carries a tiny umbrella to protect his phone, the main tool he uses for work as a driver for the ride-hailing platform Grab, along with his bike. If the phone breaks, he misses out on much-needed income. “I was worried that the battery would overheat once exposed to the sun,” he said. Nearby in the same city, sanitation worker Dinh Van Hung, 53, toils all day cleaning garbage from the bustling streets of Hanoi’s central Dong Da district. Workers like them make up the backbone of many societies but are disproportionately affected by extreme weather events, with dangerously high temperatures greatly impacting their health and the already precarious nature of their professions. April and May are typically the hottest months of the year in Southeast Asia, as temperatures rise before monsoon rains bring some relief. But this year, they reached levels never experienced before in most countries of the region, including tourism hotspots Thailand and Vietnam.  Thailand saw its hottest day in history at 45.4 degrees Celsius (114 degrees Fahrenheit) on April 15, while neighboring Laos topped out at 43.5 degrees Celsius (110 degrees Fahrenheit) for two consecutive days in May, and Vietnam’s all-time record was broken in early May with 44.2 degrees Celsius (112 degrees Fahrenheit), according to analysis of weather stations data by a climatologist and weather historian Maximiliano Herrera. Herrera described it as “the most brutal never-ending heat wave” that has continued into June. On June 1, Vietnam broke the record for its hottest June day in history with 43.8 degrees Celsius (111 degrees Fahrenheit) – with 29 days of the month to go. In a recent report from the World Weather Attribution (WWA), an international coalition of scientists said the April heat wave in Southeast Asia was a once-in-200-years event that would have been “virtually impossible” without human-caused climate change.

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Wednesday night at Jupiter and longtime singer Poppy is back singing. He doesn't sing every night at Jupiter nowadays. Only certain nights. I was at Jupiter with some fellow members after dinner together. We got a sofa seat at the back. Quiet night. Only 14 guys working tonight - fellow member actually meticulously counted them! In terms of customers, only half full compared to Monday night. Many ladies. There was in fact one group of ladies on 2nd floor looking down like fangirls and they remained there until the show ended. VIP table near the stairs was reserved for 2 very well dressed ladies. Midway during the show, they asked mamasan to arrange some guys to stand in a semicircle for them to choose. Poor ordinary male customers would only be able to choose them during the 3rd model walk when they finally wear number tags on their jeans. During the 1st and 2nd model walks, they were in briefs and shorts but no number tags so it was quite difficult to call them down to your seat unless you have mamasan next to you and you tell him. Cambodian handsome hunk whom I took back on Monday was not working today. But I spotted a Laos guy who worked at Banana last December and whom I met. So surprised that he's working at Jupiter now. Happy that he climbed the ladder. I wanted to get reacquainted with him. Unfortunately, another customer had arranged to off him in advance. I told mamasan that we would not be offing any guy tonight but I asked mamasan if it was possible to send over some guys to our table who could drink and he helpfully found some from those who had not been offed. We played card game where the loser had to drink half a shot of whisky. Some guys barely lasted a few shots while some guys could really drink and lasted all the way till we eventually ended at half past midnight.

From the Daily Mail Three gay men from Thailand have tied the knot in what is thought to be the world's first three-way same-sex marriage. Happy newlyweds Joke, 29, Bell, 21 and Art, 26, took the plunge on Valentine's Day after exchanging their vows in a fairy-tale ceremony at their home in Uthai Thani Province, Thailand. The three blushing grooms are thought to be the world's only wedded male threesome and have since become internet sensations after photos from their big day went viral.

Good review, sounds like a fun trip....I tell/show my friends that think all Asians have small dicks pics, luckily it isn't so!

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"You think too much", would probably be the Thai reaction to anyone who feels offended by these packages. Having your junk checked regularly is important in today`s gay hook-up wolrld where PrEP and BB seems to be more the rule than the exception. I know that many visitors does that in the PULSE Clinics in Thailand because they might not have the same opportunity at home.

You’ll be more than satisfied with the average size you’ll encounter. Wouldn’t even bother bringing it up. If you want him to cum, that’s certainly something you can discuss beforehand. Some may want an extra few hundred baht. But it’s been my experience that many will climax if they feel at ease without negotiations.

Despite changes mentioned by OP in this thread, things remain the same along gay Soi Patpong. Tuesday night but no lack of customers. In fact many were casual tourists who went inside the bars for the shows. Hot Male beer bar downstairs remains best spot for people watching as they walk up and down the soi. And of course it's a great spot to perv at the shirtless Dreamboys guys on the balcony. Hot Male beer bar staff are as friendly and chatty as ever. Freshboys 10.30pm show was well attended - a group of farang tourists comprising one guy and three ladies, a gay Taiwan couple, a big spender with bottle service and two Freshboys guys (who have changed out of Freshboys white shorts) and a mamasan around him and an eclectic Asian group in their 40s/50s (5 men, 3 women). The lead guy was seated with the women and dispensing tips to performers on stage. The other men called down a Freshboys guy to sit with them. Later before second show, two farang ladies came in, with one of them using crutches as her leg was in a cast. She must have heard many good things about the show because she was willing to climb up the narrow stairs to the bar! As for Freshboys guys mostly twinks and some twunks. Many familiar faces from last year. Mamasans and waiters also same, including one lanky handsome waiter with a number tag. Show was same as well. Mix of ladyboy lip synching, shower show and big cock show (4 of them). Drinks at 400 baht.

Monday night at Jupiter last night and it was a full house. Mostly Asian customers. Ladies were all seated in front aisle rows. The Jupiter dancers really loved performing for them. In terms of show items, same as last year. No difference. Why change a winning formula after all? I arrived at 10.15pm at door and told waiter that I would be ordering a bottle of whisky. He led me to a table next to sound system. Not a sofa table but at least a private space and a splendid view of the locker and gym area where the Jupiter guys hang out before they go on stage. I took a look at drinks menu and ordered one bottle of Johnnie Walker. Mamasan remembered me. "Poppy (the singer) no work tonight. He work Wednesday night." "You come alone? Where your friends?" Mamasan called over Cambodian handsome model whom I met last year and whom I had also contacted im advance. He was in red briefs - tonight's attire for first model walk on stage for Jupiter guys. "I have to do model walk 1030. After that, I come to you." No problem, I have all night. 10.30pm - the first model walk started. Quite a number of Jupiter guys working today, easily at least 30. Most Mondays are quiet affairs. After the first model walk, the show started. Cambodian was with me, now fully dressed. We watched the show until 11.30pm after the second model walk where the Jupiter guys came out in white shorts only. One interesting thing happened. An Asian male and female couple in 30s had come in and they were seated at table next to me. I knew they were from China because they spoke to each other in Mandarin and they spoke to mamasan in English. They were looking for a guy for a threesome. Mamasan called over 8 Jupiter guys to the couple and the lady took some time to pick one tall fair skinned Jupiter guy. All this while, I was sniggering away. I looked at my guy and asked him if he had ever been in a 3some. Cambodian smiled shyly like a schoolboy and shook his head. He need not worry about me asking him for a 3some. I wanted him all to myself tonight. Still at least 2/3 of Johnnie Walker left. Shall go again another night this week and next week.

Since Aniki died 2 years ago, most of the discussion on saunas in Taipei has revolved around the relatively new Soi 13in. It certainly remains THE sauna for meeting mostly young Taiwanese and other Asians, especially at the week-ends when it always seems packed with way over 100 cute guys. But another sauna is undergoing something of a rebirth! For at least 2 decades, Hans Mens Sauna near the Red House gay complex of bars and cafes has continued to attract mostly older Taiwanese with occasional university students after classes and on a Saturday. The last time I went pre-covid it was pretty run down and sleazy, its one main attractive feature being a hot pool where you could sit and watch guys taking their showers, those having emerged from the very dark steam room often sporting sizeable erections. Four months ago it moved two blocks further up XiNing South Road into totally new premises. It now occupies the entire 8th floor of Wan Nian Building. It has obviously been designed from scratch and is spotlessly clean. It obviously hopes for a large number of patrons as I counted more than 300 lockers. I went twice, the more active being late on Saturday afternoon. Since it is so spread out, I could not accurately estimate the number of patrons but I reckon at least 70. Most seemed to make a beeline for the two steam rooms, at least to start their visits, and these were pretty active. The facilities also include a sauna, TV room with reclining loungers for relaxing and watching one of the regular TV movies, a corner with a long couch showing porn, a karaoke lounge, a decent number of private rooms (but not nearly enough if it ever gets packed) and about 4 totally dark spaces with mattresses. It also has an open-air balcony which I did not venture on to. I rarely if ever have met anyone I knew at a Taipei sauna. This time I was attracted to a young guy who came in and seemed to smile at me. After he had changed into his towel, he came up to me and said, "Obviously, you do not remember me!" I hate it when someone says that, but fortunately he went on, "It was at the hot spring about 4 years ago when I was 18. I only spoke a little English then but we chatted a little." Then the icing on the cake, "Really nice to see you here!" Needless to say, after he had showered and we had met up in a steam room, we chatted a bit and then proceeded to a dark room where we had a really great time. Afterwards we exchanged Line IDs and will keep in touch. The one thing the new Hans lacks is ambience, but then few attending will be looking for that. The walls are mostly industrial concrete and the floors linoleum. But overall I thought the clientele had moved down an age bracket or two. Clearly some guys were in their 20s but I reckoned most were between late 20s and mid-50s - except for me, that is!! To get to the sauna, probably the best way is to go through the Red House from near the subway exit to Sol Bar at the very end on XiNing South Rd. Exiting Sol, turn right, cross over the traffic intersection and walk up about 80 meters to the next intersection which is from the pedestrian area. Across the street you will see a large building in green. This is the Wan Nian Building. Find the entrance on XiNing South Road and walk through the small stores (a bit like Terminal 21 in Bangkok although these are mostly watch shops). There is no sign in English for the 8th floor, only one with two Chinese characters on a blue background. The lifts will be on your left. Entrance is now NT$400 (US$13), NT$50 more than at the old premises. I noticed there is a hotel on the 6th floor. No idea what it is like but I imagine pretty inexpensive. On a more general note, as far as the apps are concerned, I gave up on Blued a couple of years ago and was a bit surprised that some of my Taiwan friends had also ditched the app. Grindr was arguably the most active for young guys seeking older westerners, but Hornet and Jack'd were not far behind. I did venture out one evening to the gayish Hot Spring, Huang Tzu. Not as many guys as normally the case, but then it was very hot in Taipei last week and a hot spring is better suited to cooler if not colder weather. Still, there must have been 60 - 70 guys there with some as usual being agressively handsome.

Depends on the guy as always. You will have to click through them to find out. This guy is passive and practicing to be active This guy is active only.

There s nothing wrong with giving too much too little bay cause trouble though. 1500 to 2500( for top quality bodies and performers) for short time(1-3 hrs ), 2500 to 5000 for long time (overnight ) Those are Bangkok rates, in Pattaya 500- 1000 less. Bar fine in boy bars called off fee is usually 500, I know about 2 exceptions, Boyzboyz Boyz Pattata charged me 1000 three nights ago, Moonlight in Bangkok charges 1000 off fee but for models only.

I was called worse things by better people as old Trudeau used to say about Nixon

Everything is complicated. Stop using it as a fall back excuse. From Pattaya Mail By Barry Kenyon To judge from the optimistic comments of prospective prime minister Pita Limjaroenrat of the Move Forward party, securing gay marriage in Thailand should be a piece of cake. In a sense, he’s right. The military-backed government of General Prayut Chan-o-cha two years ago agreed legislation in principle. But the two bills in question, one guaranteeing marriage equality, but the other proposing a diluted civil partnership arrangement, were referred to parliamentary sub-committees and had not reported by the time of the May 2023 general election. Gay rights advocate Mookdapa Yanguenpradorn argues that the answer can only be marriage equality. The civil union alternative falls short by legal definition, by failing to recognize pre-marriage gay engagements and by declining access to spousal benefits such as tax deductions and government pensions. So what’s the problem? In November 2021 the constitution court ruled that only a man and a woman could register a marriage, adding that supporters of gay marriage would need to amend section 1448 of the civil and criminal code. Gay activists in Thailand are obviously aware of the need to amend the constitution at the time of writing the marriage equality bill, but challenges would be likely to delay the process substantially. Another issue is whether one of the partners in Thai gay marriage can be a foreigner. Taiwan, the first state in Asia to recognize same-sex marriages, initially restricted participation by foreigners to those countries which also recognized those unions. However, the nationality rule was rescinded in January 2023. The government of Vietnam in 2013 attempted gay rights legislation, even suggesting that two foreign persons might register their union in Vietnam, but all parliamentary moves on the entire subject were dropped the following year. Khun Pita recently promised he would achieve his gay marriage aims in time for the world pride event to be held in Bangkok in 2028. He may not be far out with that prediction. Separately, Thailand’s gay population has not yet been hit by the internal rifts and disputes which have hit the movement in Europe and the United States. The acronym LGBTQQIP2SAA (lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer, questioning, intersex, pansexual, two-spirit, asexual and ally), incorporates any form of non-traditional sexual identity. Not everyone likes that. Some gay activists believe that the all-embracing definition is too radical and counter-productive. Can a transgender male-female woman actually be a lesbian? Is it appropriate to incorporate asexual people, who don’t fancy anybody, with pansexuals who are sort of the opposite? Should individuals be able legally to declare their own gender identity at birth rather than being told what it is? Should we scrap the terms male and female altogether? Sooner or later, these cantankerous debates will hit the gay movement in Thailand. Or, if you prefer, the alternative sexuality movement.

I agree with @jeremy one can skip bars and find guys on Grndr. But the fun at bars is interaction with the guys and even the waiters and mamasans. Glad you enjoyed your trip!

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Definitely. It explains the popularity of host clubs for women. It's not really about sex per se; it's women paying for the attention they do not get from their husband's at home. Most of the time it's just innocent fun for those women lucky enough to be able to afford the exorbitant prices these clubs charge for alcohol, companionship and often a shoulder to cry on. Sex for men in Japan is largely commercial. Huge areas of Tokyo and other cities turn into brothels after 6 pm.

Haha, thanks! Also, I am a bottom, so any rough stuff I asked someone to get up to would be rough towards me, not towards them haha. I fully support sex work and would want to be a good client and not someone who is making somebody have a bad day at work 😁

Yes, you can ask about the size of their cocks but maybe not get a correct answer. As for "do they cum", that all depends on what you mean. They will cum in your mouth, if that is your preference, or otherwise just shoot on your body or their body.

Without buying , absolutely no as Olddaddy stated above but feel free not to drink your drink if you not inclined. That way they will not harass you for another one

I don,t . Thay may be visitors from countries where such screenings are not available or being subject to those may put I dividual in line of trouble. Business is business and ar Christams time Chrismss trees are hot items and I,m certain that most condons everywhere are sold after dark so hospitals are trying to cash on Pride

I already reported from Hot Male that I snatched boy from client who took too much time to contemplate her move, sometimes one needs to act fast

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Ummmm..... definitely not ! They will probably ask you to leave.😳The drink price is really the entry price , they aren't going to give you a show for free ! I Never forget about 10 years seeing Neil the owner of hot boys Go Go shouting at a group of Russian customers who had brought their own water in from the nearby 711🤣

Zombie is right, make sure boy understands your question. Try to use simple language I.e. ," I fuck you ?" No need to be shy, thay saw and heard it all and more. I usually don,t involve mamasans but at times translation may be necessary. Conversation starts with obligatory questions you will be asked: what,s your name , where you are from , how long you stay in Thailand. That,s ritual and feel free to lie, just remember your lies. Never , absolutely f....g never admit in bar that you are in Thailand or bar first time or it,s your first day. No ,last time you were just before covid or if you brave, last October.

that's how one achieves longevity not burning itself over minor issues. On merit ,yes I did not like Jupiter for years as boys seem be disinterested ,at least by their expressions .Apparently that's management policy ,customer is supposed to pursue guy , not other way around. That way we customers are supposed not to feel pressed . Whether it works as intended is another issue. To rub more salt, AC is usually too low and sound level too high, lethal combination. Few offs were invariably waste of time and money, great bodies but rushy and greedy. Post-covid it seems things improved to a degree that my last three offs ,easy or not ,were great. Last one ,several days ago could be less speedy though but still pleasant company, not shy to walk hand in hand all the way from bar to soi 3 so at least some appreciation for and off was shown. So I'm in the market as long as Jupiter is concerned. And as commented recently , on my recent visit there ,all and absolutely all guys present were offing material for me .Probably first time of such occurrence anywhere

Hi Macaroni21. For non-Japanese speaking customers they either have LINE or email to make the appointment. You can just spell out what you are looking for and I usually include a clip of the boy I want. It may not work out due to availability. I have been in Japan 3 times since they reopened last October and used 3 or 4 different agencies during my time there. It is not the easiest system but it worked for me. I don't speak Japanese. Top (anal sex) mean the boy will top you. Top only means they will be leading or active but there will be no penetration. 3 thumbs - I think you mean 3ps circle means yes, triangle means in training, and x means no

Let me start by saying how much I really enjoy @macaroni21's posts and longer comments on the shamlessmack site. I still have copies of his guide to masseur types and the ground plan he posted years ago about his ideal Bangkok go-go bar. if only someone could have taken him up on his suggestion! As for Bali, I agree with his comments about Ubud. I now find it much overrated but then my memories go much further back, although not nearly as far as @Marc in Calif. My first trip there was in 1981 when I stayed in the Campuan Hotel just over the bridge at the end of town on the way to Sayan. It was merely a large wooden building which incorporaed the admin offices and an open dining room. Each accommodation was a simple hut on the hillside with gauze for windows and buckets with holes in the base for showers. The hope was you could raise the bucket high enough to get some water before it emptied! Yet I loved that hotel and its wonderfully friendly staff. There was a western style bar nearer the bridge and just over it Murni's Cafe with superb honey drenched yoghurt with fruit! I returned 10 times over the next five years. Wandering through the rice paddies you could make out the sound of gamelin playing in several villages. There was virtually no sex but it was the culture of the island that totally gripped me. Yet it was starting to become clear that more and more tourists were visiting. So I stopped going. The charms of Bangkok had won me over some years earlier and so I concentrated my future visits in Thailand. I did return in with my bf in 2005 as he was desperate to see Bali. I was reluctant but gave in. I found the island almost overrun and the peace I had enjoyed two decades earlier had all but disappeared - even in Ubud. But then that is just how tourism works. I was saddened by that visit, but remain thrilled at my meories of earlier times.

There are several. I used to see quite a few advertised in one of the large monthly magazines but have not been in Tokyo since pre-covid and no longer have a copy. The problem you will almost always find is that the mamasans and big boys will have little if any English. Point taken. Surely the easy answer is just to call the bar and find out. They obviously speak some English and I am sure will answer your questions.

I recently became aware of several more that have a Twitter presence. And once you follow one the others get recommended. I do not have any experience with any of them https://www.dgdgdg.com/top.php?shop_id=10 https://www.fragrance-boy.com/top/ https://chance-shinjuku.jp/

This site doesn't seem to be well maintained any more, but it links to a lot of gay brothels that still have sites of their own. https://boysnavi.jp/sbc/

Thanks to my partner's checking on some of the South American sites, I am staggered at how amazingly handsome many of the Columbian boys are. On my two South American trips (from Asia) I kick myself for not having included Columbia on the itineraries! As for Asia, I hope more readers will start to think about Taiwan and especially Taipei instead of always it being Thailand or The Philippines. I realise there will be concerns about not knowing the city and its gay places, not being able to speak Mandarin or read signs etc. Yet just on the apps alone there are many very cute Taiwanese young guys looking for the company of a westerner - often an older one.Most will speak reasonable English. On my trip last week, I had one young 20s guy all but desperate to travel up from Taichung (170 kms away) to spend a day with me! Taipei now has a plethora of gay venues from busy gay saunas and hot springs to gay bars and cafes, fetish clubs, gay dorm-type hotels with single and double rooms but where most guys walk around naked - and so on. Other cities are not so well endowed (sic) with gay venues but some are well worth a visit for a day or two. There it's the apps that will be humming and calling you! Plus travel is now so easy with the inexpensive high speed train linking Taipei in the north and Kaohsiung in the south in less than two and a half hours. For first time visitors it's probably best to consider a gay guide to take you around for the first couple of days. Or if you're adventurous, just look at some of the gay websites and get a map. Or even look at posts made here. I have no idea about flight costs from Europe and the USA. All I know is that Bangkok/Taipei flights on China Airlines are still what they were pre-covid and will continue as far as November year - less than 10,000 baht return including one 20kg bag and a large meal on board. And the service is excellent.

This reminds me of my first ever visit to Thailand more than 4 decades ago. I was staying far from Suriwong and given the times I was somewhat timid about exploring. Then a tout offered to take me to a gay gogo bar and for the only time in my life I took him up on the offer. A long tuk-tuk ride later, I was in the somewhat notorious Stockholm bar near the foot of Langsuan - long before that street moved very upmarket. It was a large bar in an old Thai building, hardly any other customers and about a dozen boys dressed in jeans. The mamasan soon sat next to me asking my choice. Jet-lagged and unsure of protocol I said i was still not sure. She recommended I take two upstairs and let them do a show for me. And that's what i did. For one whose only prior experience of sex clubs was a couple of visits to the Reeperbahn in Hamburg and the saunas in Amsterdam, I was somewhat nervous. But the boys were great. As they were performing, one suggested I move to sit on the bed. It was not long before I was invited to join in the action. Given my inexperience of Thai bars, I loved it and even today it remains clear in my memory.

ask discretely at Tawan, Freshboys or Screwboys, they may have it on some nights. Or arrange your own show, hire boys and ask him to find f''k his mate subject to your approval , invite them to your room and enjoy the spectacle or even join in

Yes, I met many 'models' as they like to call themselves on my trips to Colombia. It takes a bit of effort, but it's certainly possible, although not all models do 'presenciales' as @Boy69 already mentioned. A couple more tips: Don't go for the 'first page' models, unless you are prepared to pay a lot. They earn more in a couple hours on the sites than they would earn by meeting you. Visit also the lesser known sites like stripchat, bongacams, strreamate, cam4,.. as a general rule of thumb, the less popular their page, the more interested they will be in meeting you for a reasonable price. Try to find out their real location first. They are often in another city than what is mentioned in their profile. You will need their whatsapp. Some of the guys will give it for free, some will ask tokens. Only spend tokens if you think that he would be prepared to meet you. Moderators of groups of guys can be a blessing or a curse. Some are willing to act as the pimp of their goup and other guys of the studio, others will just try to get more tokens from you and fence off any direct contact with the guys. It helps a lot if you can speak and understand basic spanish. If possible, send them a picture that proves that you are in that city (or at least have visited that city in the past). I keep selfies with the "I ❤️ name-of-the-city" boards that you find in every Colombian city for that purpose. Take the indirect approach. Go to the local gay disco and try to get their whatsapp over there. While maybe 15% of the guys in industry club (Medellin) work on webcam, I would guess that around 80% of the guys in pandora (Cucuta) are webcam models. Do always check their ID. Do not assume they are 18+ because they work on those sites. Some are not.