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Cambodian mystery and Thai solution - first trip of 2023
ChristianPFC and 11 others reacted to vinapu for a topic
day 14 part 2 Our choice of bar for tonight was Jupiter but when we went there it was only singer and few customers inside , too early for boys so we switched to Moonlight greeted warmly by barkers outside. A , the hunk happened to enter stage exactly at the moment when we got our drinks so I did not waste a time and called him over right away and secured him for off later tonight. It worked for both of us as I wanted to see the show and he had short meeting with some client who invited him just for a meal. Fact confirmed bit later by mamas an who wanted to be sure I understand why A need to disappear for hour or so. One of boys on stage was guy whom I recognized as former New twilight dancer and when commented to A that I like his look quite a lot he suggested I take him as well vouching he is great guy. It’s not first time A plays mentor role and tries to promote his bar friends so we can’t say he is selfish. Shortly A finished his drink and went for his meal meeting, promising to be in hotel in hour or two. Radek who arrived only yesterday evening started to feel jet lag so we shook hands for good bye and left too. All of the sudden I was lonely in the full bar so I called buy in question from the stage , bought him a drink ., learned that he is Lao so which endeared him to me bit more as I have almost universal good time with Lao guys, must be something in their water. Asked him about going with me and A and it turned A already primed him about such an option because he confirmed right away he is ready. So I decided to skip what was left of show and we went to hotel. Not as hunky as A or Moonlight models but still very well built and commanding quite good English he turned as great guy as I hoped for. Long ago , independently , American, Soviet and Burkinabe (from Burkina Faso, Africa ) scientists noticed that very often we find our best boys on last or second last night of our trips. That New Twilight transplant seems to be another proof supporting such discovery. Hour later I went downstairs to escort A to the room , guy on reception did not even blink an eye. It 2nd time in row I have A in the room on my last night and great conclusion to such short but rich in turns of action trip .12 points -
Day 14 I set alarm because I did not want to be late at MahaNakhon at agreed 10 am and today is my hotel moving day so right after breakfast at Ibis downstairs I need to pack. Released room leaving luggage for storage at reception and marched to Mahanakhon when I was surprised to see K already as agreement was he will pick up Radek from his hotel and they arrive on his motorbike. Clearly misunderstanding on K part Soon Radek showed up and we went up . Ticket the same , 250 senior over 60 , 880 the rest. Another place where is plainly visible that tourism picked up, gone are days when in the morning there were just few people. After admiring views, quite foggy day today unfortunately and taking obligatory picture on the glass to make family and friend jealous we went to Amazon near Chong Nonsi BTS for a coffee and sandwich and from there I went straight to Jey Spa for my 1 pm massage with Maii arranged yesterday. While first session about week ago was very good , today was nothing short of excellent. Benefit of us being familiar with each other. Great consolation after last night fiasco, part massage , part romantic, exactly how things should be . Worth every penny of 1250 massage fee and 1800 min. tip enhanced by me by 400 as I was truly happy with experience and fact that finally pain I was feeling in my left leg ever since my long 16 hours flight was gone. I walked few steps along the soi when Maii stopped on his motorsai and gave me lift to the BTS station as a bonus I guess. I returned to Ibis , liberated my suitcase and rolled her to Convent to my next digs, Le Siam ( formerly Swiss hotel ). I got room on 7th floor with a view. Room sizable, well furnished, spacious walk / roll in shower. I’m sure if price will be right I will stay there again . It’s only very short walk from Silom so location is excellent and as we will learn later no problem with visitors. I said visitors , not visitor, understand ? Yesterday I reported about guy I sped in Thai Relax in soi 6 so I went there and on approach my heart beat increased as he was seating at front. Bingo ! NOP. He said he is booked and suggested I take his friend sitting nearby. Disappointed but not wanting to create lose of face I agreed. Massage was good , not that freshly massaged by Maii at Jey I need one and guy quite pleasant but hunk or axe murderer he was not. Only when I returned home I learned from other member who hired him few times that I missed plenty indeed as hunk turned excellent in both body and skills. At least I know where I got first next time in BKK. It was late afternoon and I was till running on that coffee and sandwich but We were supposed to have dinner with Radek at Foodland but he went too far and Lined me is sitting already at G’Bangkok in soi 4 so we treated ourselves with meal and conversation there. Then seeing restaurant is busy we released table and moved across the soi to Banana club outside for a beer and more talk. day 14 to be continued7 points
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that was precisely my intention, to show that good time can be had if one wants to have that. And is very easy to find it. Naysayers may be right that old times were better in terms of variety of options available and certainly more liberal but what I observe every trip , even if options are shrinking , they are still abundant. I was there 14 days , 12 of those in Thailand and only at Hot Male go-go I counted 10 guys I wanted to off . So one can go easily on monodiet. As for liberal side, very graphic performances may be appealing to some but appalling to others so not even sure that part is missed that much , I personally like bit of spice in bar shows but that's me. I was thinking about missing whole part of Cambodian Charming Prince fiasco as certainly I look stupid falling into that trap but decided it's better to be open, first because it may provide lesson , second because I still cherish memories of those pre-trip days when I was sooo excited such chance opened for me , third to show that disaster today may be replaced by fun soon after and fourth , even if I don't believe what I'm saying , until i hear other side of story , there's vague possibility that that fiasco was not fiasco at all and I should be glad it happened avoiding bigger trouble and expense - again half full part of glass theory.5 points
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Cambodian mystery and Thai solution - first trip of 2023
ChristianPFC and 3 others reacted to vinapu for a topic
You are 125% right but lesson for me , despite of all troubles described above is : if you really like boy, go for it, watch your back and don't miss troubling signs but go for it. If I follow point 4 in case of HC , birthday boy, who on previous trip dumped me over trivial issue of phone overuse I'd miss one of most rewarding offs of my all trips to Thailand. "Prince charming" case was adventure in nature of trade, goal was missed , money spent wastefully but for me it was worth trying. I'm glad I did. If I was smarter I should cut if off right after strange request to change flights. But knowing myself for many years, after all they don't call me KFC man for nothing, I know if I did I would live with feeling I missed boat. I rather live with knowing I missed boat. Small difference but I feel better because being sure is better then being in doubt.4 points -
5 more luxury hotels, endless new office space, endless upmarket apartments, presumably a major mall or two. All of which Bangkok simply does not need! Would that the night market with the superb Joe Louis Puppet Theatre, its plethora of cheap eating sna shopping places and the Lumphini Boxing Stadium were still there. These would be fsr more appealing to residents and tourists than virtually anything in Bangkok One.4 points
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A bit of Advice . . .
Patanawet and 3 others reacted to thaiophilus for a topic
I've received random blackmail emails of this kind on several occasions. I'd have been more worried by them if I actually possessed a webcam...4 points -
Cambodian mystery and Thai solution - first trip of 2023
traveller123 and 3 others reacted to reader for a topic
Your reports have given the forum a much-needed boost, Vinapu. They demonstrate that it's indeed still possible to have a great time in BKK and Pattaya despite the naysayers who see the glass as nearly empty compared to back in the day. That you didn't--as Floridarob observed--sugar coat it made it even more entertaining. Your day-by-day quest to wring the maximum satisfaction out of your limited time will surely inspire others not to allow temporary setbacks to detract from all that Thailand has to offer in terms of sights, sounds and men.4 points -
Cambodian mystery and Thai solution - first trip of 2023
Ruthrieston and 2 others reacted to vinapu for a topic
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daily cleaning, avoidance of getting foul of anti shot term rentals in condos, proximity to your favorite bar , walk distance to a nearest church2 points
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Koh Samed. 3 hours 2500B taxi. Busy at weekends with Bangkok residents. Very local. No big resorts. Just rent a motorcycle. Koh Lanta. Fly to Krabi and drive for 1 hr. Bigger island again few resorts. Best to have a car. Amazing sunsets2 points
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Cambodian mystery and Thai solution - first trip of 2023
ChristianPFC and one other reacted to floridarob for a topic
So you had luggage AND a seat....showoff2 points -
It’s actually Lady Graham2 points
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Should Biden run again. And, if not, what's Plan B?
Marc in Calif and one other reacted to Suckrates for a topic
Well, perhaps Miss Lindsey is one of those that Fani Willis pegged for Perjury and will be receiving a nice, fat indictment ? Wouldnt that be Grand, bless her heart ? And then in a nice, cold prison cell, Miss Lindsey can finally find herself a Big, strong man to actually call her own.....who fucks some sense and dignity into her. ...... Make mama proud for once.2 points -
Should Biden run again. And, if not, what's Plan B?
unicorn and one other reacted to stevenkesslar for a topic
Even though he was not part of his administration, Lindsey Graham would be my choice for "moral worm" poster child of the Trump era. His flip flopping was even more craven than most. Like when having a mob attack the Capitol he serves in was just a bridge too far for his ladylike sensibilities. Until MAGA world turned out to be okay with Jan. 6th, and Miss Graham was, too. Fiona Hill is an example of a real lady. And I'd even argue John Bolton was a real gentleman, too. Both worked for Trump thinking they could do some good. Both acted like adults in the room. Gen. Kelly is another. I admire Hill in a way I don't admire Bolton. She was willing to testify. He saved his judgments to make money on a book. But whether I agree with every conservative thing they say or not, I feel they were working for the American people. Instead of just working for Trump and advancing his lies.2 points -
I got my best night and found the best boy on my last night too. Those scientists don’t lie.2 points
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Should Biden run again. And, if not, what's Plan B?
Marc in Calif and one other reacted to Suckrates for a topic
For me it wasnt their decision to work for Trump, it was their COMPLICITY to Support and ASSIST him in his anti american agenda and spreading of Lies. It makes them no better than him IMO.2 points -
Recently had a late night in Pattaya and ended up in Boytown. The busiest and best place in that area seems to be at: BoyzMusic bar. Taken over the former premises of Cafe Royale. No idea how long this bar going, but a fun place with boys moving there when they finish work at BBB. A good selection! https://www.facebook.com/BoyzMusic20191 point
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Suvarnabhumi Airport is enhancing its passenger and baggage security under an Automatic Return Tray System (ARTS). As a resuly some zone screening points will be closed for the month of March. See details below.1 point
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The largest construction project in the city gets closer to completion by the day. One Bangkok (pictured in an artist;'s rendering above) is being worked on around the clock at the intersection of Rama 4 and Wireless Rd. (opposite Lumpini Park). TCC Assets, the same folks who brought us Samyan Mitrtown and Silom Edge, reports that One Bangkok is destined to become the city's prime central business district. It's due to open in stages between 2023-2026.1 point
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Many places to relax and still subtly check out guys and things. Can't beat that sightline from the lawn chairs (where our exhausted beauties rest up for their next encounter) through the locker area to the pool area. Now the site is just another skinny skyscraper condo building. Oh, the poltergeists the new residents will find!1 point
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Babylon-like Sauna?
vinapu reacted to khaolakguy for a topic
The Travelgay review reads like AI. I wouldn't take it too seriously.1 point -
police can do only that much to prevent scams, tourists should remember that while they are on vacations their brains should not be. I'm privy to very recent (Thursday ) story which will not find it's way here. Guy hired girl for you know what and after session in his airbnb he paid her tip out of wad of money he pulled from his desk. Smart and fast thinking girl asked for water so he went to kitchen to get it, and you guessed rightly, intended tip quadrupled. He also was kind enough to tell her he is leaving in Friday so all she need was to hide herself just for one day and night. Is not easy to be hetero those days it seems1 point
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Cambodian mystery and Thai solution - first trip of 2023
floridarob reacted to vinapu for a topic
coincidence, as I left her in the middle and was taking pics from every corner. not much really special , it's 50$ suitcase , not 350 $. Only tittle of fame is that she was intended for CCP but he dropped the deal and did not get suitcase. Also it's was first time in perhaps 10 trips when I had full size luggage with me as this time ticket included both luggage and seat selection.1 point -
Airbnb (or other apartment) recommendations
Lucky reacted to floridarob for a topic
It felt like the housing projects when I last stayed there....1 point -
Some Specific Brazil Questions
sydneyboy1 reacted to floridarob for a topic
Yes...there are 2 regular "taxi" guys there if they're not on a run....Paulo, kind of loud and crazy at times and tries to severely overcharge, just look at the price on Uber and show him. And also Douglas, a very professional bearded gentleman with a nice car, I use him to take me to the airport as well when I'm leaving. If they are tied up, it's Uber1 point -
I wanted to add some comments on Apolo Spa/sauna based on my recent Sunday afternoon visit for the foam party which was great fun. The entrance fees have already been covered above. It is 600 pesos on Sundays (but including a pair of nice trunks (underwear) from the collection for sale). The guy in the reception is indeed very good looking/handsome. I arrived around 4:30PM. Downstairs are the section for changing clothes with lockers and the main room with the bar and the jacuzzi in the corner. A DJ was playing but only a few quests downstairs. Upstairs it was quite busy - 2 saunas (1 wet and 1 dry), dark room, video room and the cubicles with glory holes/cabins (and shower/toilets of course). I was chatting with a local guy in one of the saunas and he gave information about the venue which is apparently the only of its kind in D R. According to him, the best day is Sunday late afternoons as the sauna has theme parties and stripper(s) coming. Later I joined him and his group of friends downstairs which in the meantime had become much busier. Great music from the DJ and the bar was selling quite a few beers (the local Presidente is great, even the light version, 200 pesos) and drinks. A lot of hot local guys there (i.a. young and fit) and hardly no visitors (not that I could spot). So a lot of eye candy. You walk around in your underwear (speedos or trunks) or shorts; I can't recall any with towels only. The stripper came at 6 PM downstairs. Nothing spectacular but he showed off his hard dick and gave the audience a chance to grope (and obviously hoping for a tip). Soon after the foam started pouring down from the ceiling and everyone started dancing and groping in the foam; many guys took off their underwear/speedos/shorts on the dance floor. Certainly not shy; great fun. Guests were going back and forth between the foam downstairs and the cruising upstairs. Some action in the dry sauna as at least on 2 occasions I saw 1 or 2 guys sucking others. The dark room (pitch dark so a bit uncomfortable for me) was also busy with a lot groping going on. It was very busy upstairs and in general guys where coming and leaving the sauna all the time. At 8 PM the foam party had ended and most had left. So did I. A great experience; I wouldn't hesitate going again. Saturday and Sunday late afternoons should busy and good days to go. I didn't observe any hustlers or working guys looking for customers there, but I might be wrong on that. Massage didn't seem to be on offer.1 point
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Should Biden run again. And, if not, what's Plan B?
Marc in Calif reacted to Suckrates for a topic
Clearly, they all made a CHOICE.... and that choice hopefully will be their downfall !1 point -
Is GOD open again in Bangkok?
floridarob reacted to anddy for a topic
yes it is open, but currently closes at 2am, same as DJ, which makes it pointless IMO1 point -
Should Biden run again. And, if not, what's Plan B?
Marc in Calif reacted to alvnv for a topic
Not any more. Remember “…I love poorly educated!”1 point -
Why don't we post Grindr profiles?
colmx reacted to Marc in Calif for a topic
It's also a way to make messages unreadable for a certain subset of people one might have a certain type of prejudice against. Just a thought...1 point -
Cambodian mystery and Thai solution - first trip of 2023
ChristianPFC reacted to bkkmfj2648 for a topic
Vinapu, I would add to your list, those of us who choose to retire here to continue all of what is written above - because it is cheaper than in our home countries, the weather is better, the food is great, the beaches are wonderful. Furthermore, the big gay retirement community that is here gives us a sense of happiness and security knowing that we can avoid the assisted care centers back in our home countries, that might require us to go back into the closet for the last years of our lives. Instead, we can die with dignity, having our Thai guys take care of us until the bitter end - in my mind, this Thai type of assisted living care is SO much better than the back home version and is affordable. Last year, my mother died in assisted living care (she was there for 3 long years), and it was costing us between $7,000 to $9,000 USD each month - truly outrageously expensive. The assisted care center was nice - but very mechanical and mundane in its approach - not the way that I want to finish the last years of my life - so, Thailand it is for me.1 point -
all I know we only know about them as much as they told us. The same works other way. I personally am not that critical and as reader pointed , I see young men who are trying to make living using assets they have i.e themselves and their good looks. some are quite uplifting like one of my semi-regulars , single father who use to proudly point 'I don't have girlfriend but i have a son" Other one , also mentioned often in my reports was orphaned my mother in his childhood ( my friend who also offed him overheard him mumbling to himself ' mom help me", quite moving ) and later father was killed by Thai police. Yet still managed to built a house in his native village, whatever it is he calls a house. Personally when I think about them I avoid generalizations. Not all are poor or coming from poor backround. I know about 4 who have a car. One has small business, other one owns a condo. few , judging but how they speak English have quite extensive education. By no means they are prevailing examples but they do exist. One who has steady job but paying only 10200 per month freely admits he goes with clients for easy money. Sleepless night bringing him 3000 it's almost 1/3 of his monthly take after all The same applies to us, their clients. Our motivations to engage in the world of paid sex half world from home are very different and sometimes not even clear to ourselves I suspect. Some like Asians, some like sex far from home, some like to avoid any commitments (old saying 'most expensive sex is free one). It will be sex addicts and those who treat sex as vacation adventure. And it will be those like me who fruitlessly search for dream guy who can be offed for hand holding session only. Such dream guys are existing but it seems heat of the moment always derails hand holding only part.1 point
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And sometimes a more obscure reason may actually be the one in play. I discount "I don't want to be seen with him" for two reasons. First, they could have just taken seats remote from one another. Second, this guy works publicly in a popular bar in he country's largest city where he can easily be observed in the company of numerous foreigners. Despite his claims he doesn't go with customers, it's fair to assume this wouldn't be his first rodeo. Then you have the mysterious "delivery" on he evening he was scheduled to meet Vinapu in PP. It's unlikely it was a shipment of dragon fruit from China. And then there was the request for a new suitcase that PC had been counting on Vinapu to deliver to him on arrival. If you were planning to bring something surreptitiously into another country, wouldn't it be nice if you could somehow get another person to carry your bag--and on a separate flight--because your own baggage exceeded what was allowed (or some other excuse). Perhaps he got cold feet at the last minute as he began to realize Vinapu wasn't about to buy such a yarn. Maybe he ended up using the ticket Vinapu had purchased for him and went about his business in Bangkok? In hindsight, it's easy to see the red flags popping up. But in the heat of the chase, we're all subject to being thrown off the scent by the cloudy mist of lust and attraction. And there's always the possibility that there was nothing untoward going on here, aside from a deceptive young man trying his best to extract rewards for services he had no intention on delivering.1 point
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QAnon Connection to "Company of Men"
EZEtoGRU reacted to nynakedtop for a topic
Thanks for sharing that....Wonder what happened that finally pushed them over the edge? I guess anything that deprives the QAnon pond scum a forum is a good thing though.1 point -
I couldn't agree with you more and appreciate your concern. In hindsight I had some regretful lapses in judgement. 100% won't be making the same mistakes twice!1 point
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First day in Bangkok
singitback reacted to Tartegogo for a topic
As this holiday ends and I am writing from Tokyo, just a few last words reflecting on my first hiring holiday in Thailand: 2 weeks in Bangkok (arrived an early Monday morning, left a late Saturday evening) I tried to sample a bit of everything, the Grindr boys, a boy from every famous bar and a masseur from every famous spa, and got each day an average of 4 or 5 orgasms (which all either happened in spas or my hotels) Total spent just on boys (*) THB 131,000 So we are talking about 12 * 4.5 = 54 orgasms, which gives me an average of THB 2425. My final recommendation if for BT House Men Massage on Sutthisan Winitchai rd. They don’t have the largest number of masseurs, but they seem to vet them thoroughly. I tried 2: Kla and Wit and they were both exceptional in their massage skills and in the transition into the sex. Wit was so good I hired him right away to spend the night with me, and he kept delivering. I think he is gorgeous, but mostly he really likes to top and to bottom and takes all the pleasure he can get out of it for himself, he is not just giving you an orgasm, he wants one too, and then he wants cuddles and kisses etc. BT house men spa’s line account is @BTMASSAGE https://liff.line.me/1645278921-kWRPP32q/?accountId=btmassage (*) In this cost, I am including the bar fines, the drinks for myself and the boys (which are a necessary evil to speak to them and find out if we are compatible), the payments for their short time or long time, the payments to the Grindr guys, the presents bought at the mall, the spa fees for the massages, and the ‘tips’ for the masseurs. I am excluding the restaurants, the entrance fees for various activities, the hotels, the taxis, the flights.1 point -
Just got to Rio, 1st night Point summary
Tartegogo reacted to floridarob for a topic
I usually pick weird routing, rather than fight for flight segments the end of the year for status...Went Boston-Newark-Houston-Sao Paulo- Santos Dumont, all biz class except for the the last leg on Azul. Bought this ticket last July for 2100usd confirmed Business, was a good fare, I thought. I'm staying at Atlantico and the hotel is full with 1 working elevator, but I still like this place. I was so tired, I almost fell asleep and didn't go to Point but I snapped out of it and got there a little after 6pm..... It was packed, both customers and GP's.....I could've gone with at least 7 or 8 there but I'm not a rabbit like so many here, lol I went with a 19 yr old, very humble back to the hotel. He only asked for 150, I gave him 200......good to see Point so busy, Junior was working the bar as well.1 point -
I just finished a 2 weeks trip in brazil, overall, it is a great trip. (1) Lagoa in SP, not that great anymore. The house is packed on Friday and Saturday, not good on other days. The owner has hiked the entry price for both garotos and clients by 15R, I heard a few garotos complain about this. And there is never a free cabin day. Even though the house is full on Friday and Saturday, but there are very few garotos that are of great quality. Half long time veterans who have long past their prime days, the other half new comers are really just boys next door type, they will not catch my attention if they walk outside the sauna. Greek god is something Logoa does not have anymore (2) 117 + 202, a lot of fun. I did not expect I can meet so many new guys in Rio this time. 117 is packed + packed on Tuesday, no place to sit. 202 is less packed on Wed, but still a great amount of new faces. And I have met 3-4 new guys in each sauna that I would like to keep seeing in the future.1 point
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flight tickets to rio from dc
Tartegogo reacted to floridarob for a topic
You're that little kid in school that just wants to get the last word, even though 5 posts after saying that you didn't care 😆1 point -
flight tickets to rio from dc
Tartegogo reacted to floridarob for a topic
yet you continue......ironic.1 point -
Gogos at Lagoa in São Paulo
Tartegogo reacted to BrazilianBoiChaser for a topic
Honestly the guys that are the strippers only have slightly prettier faces than the strippers/gogo boys but are generally less endowed than the boys are. If you have a stripper fetish just get one of the boys to give you a lap dance in the suite or your hotel.1 point -
Gogos at Lagoa in São Paulo
tm_nyc reacted to floridarob for a topic
I'm loving the new Riobard.....😉1 point -
1 & 2: you’ll see for yourself soon first-hand; I don’t see an advantage to knowing the drill in detail ahead of time. But you might want to snag a chair leading up to show time, as the bit of audience circulation occurs mainly among those seated, in an annoyingly small space taken up mostly by the unnecessary armrests of the plastic chairs. Those brief seconds won’t lead to follow-up. Tip; don’t tip; up to you, but if you wave a bit of greenery a dancer will come to you, pull down his panties below his rubber-banded dick and your little task is to pull back up his panties … though that’s what they do pretty randomly anyway for those last few moments. They are often on a circuit and shoving off to another gogo venue. No backstage opps. 3: No 4: Well, yes, possible to arrange with some of them, but through their social media mostly. Very hit and miss. Too much detail to summarize here. Most of us don’t kiss and tell anyway.1 point
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Didn’t stay for the show, went to Lagoa instead 😃1 point
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Exactly as FloridaRob describes. Moreover, it is located in fairly dark (middle-class?) residential area without a cafe or even a convenience store in sight.1 point
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It is always a surprise to me, why Sao Paulo has a much larger population, but only one good sauna, Logoa also the locals in SP should be richer?1 point
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Yea, asking price is SP is 200 now, but majority of them still accepts 1501 point
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I agree with your assessment based on several weeks in both cities spanning Jan to July this year. I am not so concerned about overhead prices; in fact just congregating in such a setting has its appeal at a social outlet level. However, it’s a challenge to find worthwhile guys in the venue we attend on Rua Pedro Taques. I used to pray that guys from ads would turn out to be garotos de programa there. However, as others have pointed out, there is l Iikely a hierarchy of dignity in terms of how trade is plied. Thus, one is left to screen from escort ad sites, or try one’s hand at the spas with two to four. I hate the ad route, not so much out of security concerns but more so the frequent disparity between what you see and what you get.1 point
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What do you feel about wokeness in film and theater?
Marc in Calif reacted to JKane for a topic
The couple problematic Dr. Seuss books weren't banned. They were removed from publication BY THE SEUSS ESTATE/FAMILY. So fucking tired of the right wing-nut taking points being abjectly wrong and even opposite (WHICH SIDE IS CURRENTLY BANNING BOOKS?) while people just let that fly by without thought or challenge. And Song of the South, should it be featured on Disney Streaming? Or should the company be ashamed of it while University media programs use it to teach with? But wait, no, THAT'S Critical Race Theory!!!! You can't discus abject pervasive racism in the past, even though it's demonstrable!1 point -
Min's tidbits about my Thailand and Vietnam experiences
1moRussian reacted to Min for a topic
(part 8 ) Back in Hanoi, I encountered a similar problem with a newly opened gay massage parlor a few years ago. The owner also applied a rotation system to make sure his masseurs all have customers, so he told me I was not allowed to pick. When I turned around to leave, he immediately gave in "ok, you can choose." So I marched into the M star shop around 8h30 pm (not sure if it's peak time though), trying to look aggressive (and failing completely). I prefaced my request with "My friend said that you guys don't allow customers to choose masseur, but..." The masseur standing at the door cut in before I finished my sentence "You can, you can". Just like that. I had expected a fight! So @flashbarryallen just be assertive if you need to. Guy at the door also told me the minimum tip for normal no-sex massage is 100. Any extra services, I should discuss with the guy once we are in the room. So I picked my boyish masseur, who's 27, paid 500B for 1-hour aroma oil massage and proceeded to the fourth floor for my session. Once inside the room, I started price discussion right away, as I usually do, to make sure no problems or misunderstanding at the end. Unfortunately, the kid's English was extremely limited so after a while, mostly with help of Google translation, I figured that minimum tip for no-sex massage is 200 (not consistent with what Guy at the door told me). If I want him to take off his clothes while providing the service so I can touch, that would be 1000. If I want to suck his dick, that would be 1500. He's man, so he wouldn't do anything else. 1500? I repeated and just looked at him. He quickly lowered his asking price 1300 ok? I do saloh saloh massage ok? What the hell does "saloh saloh" mean? I asked him in a more polite language. He tried to explain in vain, then kept saying sorry for his limited English. Looking the kid's very agitated face (he was obviously uncomfortable with haggling), I kinda felt bad so I didn't bother with further negotiation. If it means that much to him. The massage turned out to be much better than I expected. Kid had good techniques, his touch was quite sensual and one hour flied by quickly. The only thing that irked me a bit is that he kept saying "saloh saloh" during the whole session and I still couldn't figure out what he meant. Anyway, satisfied, I gave Kid 1500 and he bent over so low (almost to a kneeling position) to thank me, like I were Royalty or something. If only he bent over like that during the session I might have doubled my tip. When I walked down the stairs to the ground floor, he led the way and again kept saying "saloh saloh" and I finally got it. He meant "slow, slow," (take your time). The next day, I started my evening in Banana Room outside. Bought a drink for one host who spoke decent English (again, he used to have an American boyfriend for about a year so no surprises here) and got some intel. Banana Room actually has three bars. Downstairs, the outside bar serves as a beer bar (my soft drink 80B, in line with other bars in the soi), the inside bar - as a go-go (when I moved inside I had to buy a new drink at 350B). The bars downstairs close at midnight, at which they start the upstairs one that stays open until 4 am. Host showed me videos of the upstairs bar. It was pretty roomy and packed with customers, DJ station-level packed. Looks like this is the cash cow for Banana Room (owner is straight Thai with a wife) as I didn't much activities in both bars downstairs during my last two visits. So outside downstairs, they currently have 4 hosts (3 from Laos and 1 from Myanmar, 3 gays and 1 straight). Unfortunately the cutest one, a Laotian, that I would off is straight. He had a girlfriend and wasn't allowed (by his girlfriend?) to go with customers, Host told me. But in my previous visit, I saw that boy in underwear standing on the stage inside as a go-go boy. Sometimes, when there were too few boys inside, boss would ask him to double as a go-go so the stage would look less empty. Host explained. So does he go with customers when he's inside? Nobody knows. Or, probably, everyone knows but his girlfriend doesn't. Inside downstairs, they have around 10 go-go staff. Host admitted that they didn't have the strongest cast in the soi and some boys never had any customers since they worked there. Then why they kept coming back? Because boss paid each 200 per night just for showing up. Host said he himself gets paid 8000 per month and for that salary, he starts his work at 3 pm, serving in the outside downstairs bar until mid night, then moving upstairs to continue working as bartender until 4am. That means 14 hours a day for 8000 a month. It doesn't seem fair even though he can stay for free in the bar. He said he went to bed at 6am and when he wakes up, it's time to start his work again. That grueling schedule also means he can go with customers on his off days only. He also earned tips from the bartender gig, but usually just around 100-120B per night. That was enough to cover his food expenses. This trip, I finally come to terms with the fact that it's much harder for me to find cute twinks who can bottom in Bangkok bars than in Pattaya. I think some members in this board also draw the same conclusions (app is a different story though). Most boys of my type in Bangkok go-gos turned out straight. Out of two dozen boys currently in Fresh Boys, only 5, according to a mamasan, who rattled off their numbers and I duly took note (No 1, 8, 14, 24 and 29) are gay and can do anything. But I like number 26 and 28, both of whom aren't willing to do much. Not even kissing or sucking, which wouldn't do for a top like me. My last day in Bangkok before returning to Pattaya, where I usually stay for much longer, I decided to revisit Dream Boy. Mamasan, who helped me with offing a boy last time (no 75, very cute, but straight and dud in bed) and got tipped accordingly, was very happy to see me. "We have some new boys you can have a look". Another mamasan, who had seen me on and off the soil for the whole last month, said "You never go home?" Actually I did but I came back. So I sat down, and Mamasan pointed out the new ones (they currently have between 30 and 40 boys, the most of any Bangkok go-gos, I guess). No 26 immediately caught my eyes. I also like No 45. I asked mamasan what No 26 is willing to do. He wasn't sure so he scampered off to ask, then came back with a big smile: he's gay and can do anything. I asked for Boy to sit with me. 22, fresh from Chiang Mai, just been here for a week. 3 customers so far, not bad for one week (then he added: including you - good, he already counted me as a customer). He also advertised on Hornet but no catch yet. I asked to see his Hornet's pictures and I think I can see why: the camera must hate the kid. In fact, I saw his pictures a couple of times before but didn't think much of it. Even his body looks worse in those. In person, he got my attention right off the bat with that toned body, boyish face and that little shy smile. I told him: you should change your pictures. Take a picture with smiles. You have a nice smile, show it so customers would find you more attractive (gosh I sound like a pimp). I later checked his Hornet again, kid did change his pictures but still no smiling ones. Since he's gay and versatile (he told me he and his ex-bf back in Chiang Mai took turns to top each other), I asked him which boys currently on stage he would pick. If he also picks No 45, I don't know what I would do (maybe the obvious - as my professor in orgy-ology @vinapu would say). But he picked no 24. Damned, so no threesome this time (my other professor in modesty @reader would feel so relieved). So like the Phnom Peng trip (reported in parts 5 to 7), my Bangkok trip also ended in a decent note. It looks like I finally had some luck with offing boys from bar. I would rank it my third best on this trip. The other two were from the apps. My second best is an 19 years old boy from Isan, in Bangkok to study (he told me). He used to work part-time in a restaurant, lost his job due to Covid, never worked in a boy bar before. We chatted on Grindr, he seems nice and very accommodating, answering all the questions without attitude. Asked for 2000 then agreed with 1500. So I told him to come to my hotel. I didn't know that at that point jason1975 was doing more or less the same thing, in the same hotel (just different floor). I got lazy so I copied his narration Anyway, I could tell that the boy was really into me. He was all over me the moment I closed the door. He kept giggling and holding my face with both hands, saying "you are nice". After sex, we cuddled a little and a couple of times I tried to get up (it was time for me to hit the gym), he held me back for a few more minutes. When I gave him the money (the agreed amount + 200B for travel), he said in his broken English: "I like you but not as customer" hehe, so we are like brothers with benefits now? My best is a boy, also from Chiang Mai, who stopped in Bangkok just for one night on his way home. He stayed in Quarter in Soil 6 a few hundreds meters from my own hotel, so we kinda "ran into" each other on Hornet. He only asked for 1000 so there was no haggling. Since he's so close, I asked to meet him in person and he, not just met, but took me directly to his room. I didn't expect this, nor did I expect the sex would be so... inspiring in a so tiny room It all happened less than 30 min from the point we started chatting. I asked him when he would leave Bangkok, thinking for an immediate repeat the next day (I rarely do this) but he said he will fly out early the next morning. Since he said the Quarter room cost him 1500, I gave him all the pocket money I had on me at that point (1800B). I walked from my hotel to his in my shorts, sleeveless T-shirt, slippers, bringing no wallet, condoms or lubes, thinking I would just see if he really looks like his picture (to be continued)1 point