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Lets wrap up this trip report! Day 4 Again, my alarm woke us for at breakfast 10:15AM. This time after not enough sleep, so we go, eat like zombies and return for another 2-hour sleep. After we wake up, I again tell V I’ll be out till night and this time will return by 11PM. I arrive to meet my friend at Cahtuchak weekend market. Although he lives several years in Thailand, he had never been there. For me it is probably the 4th or 5th time there. I’m getting better at doing that experience and I bought an additional suitcase right upon arrival. After about 2 hours my suitcase (which was a big one!) was full of clothes, toys and other stuff for my daughter, husband and myself. I also bought a small present for V as I knew tomorrow, we say our goodbyes. From there I managed to drag my friend for a late lunch at the Ari area since I had business there. And by business, I mean Chakran. Had Shabu Shabu and scheduled to meet tomorrow for more shopping at the Emporium mall. What I really like about Chakran is that you get 2 for 1 in the same compound. You can get a massage from what is usually a very good variety, and/or you can enter the sauna. I arrived there at 6PM with a two-hour time gap from my next plan so I decided I’ll first have a look at the massage at VCK’s and if I’ll see a stunner, I’ll go for the massage otherwise I’ll enter the sauna. I shared with the manager my plans upon arrival and he took good care of me, he stored my shopping luggage and took me to see the guys on display. He also mentioned that the Chakran compound is now also a hotel. With guests getting free all access to the place’s facilities. That reminded me of Babylon but I don’t think they’ll be able to pull it off the same way – Location Location Location. Ari is just too far away from the other gay points of interests. Anyways, I wished him luck with that and went with him to see the guys. About 10 guys on display, mostly handsome twunks. If I had more time I’d stay for a combo of massage and sauna but having to choose I decided to go to the sauna. Guys on display were of good choice but just no one there, at that time, that made me wanna skip the HOMO FOMO of not going to the sauna. Entered Chakran, about 50 guys on site, with a couple of foreigners besides me. I had my share of fun there, not anything that blew my mind but enough to say that I was happy to leave and I think that place has the best product to offer now in the post Babylon era. I leave for Soi 4 and meet another old friend from another trip report for drinks at Pride bar. Even though it’s Sunday Eve, Soi 4 is still pleasantly full with people. After that I meet V at my room to discover he too bought me a present, so we exchange gifts. It’s my last night so we decide to go to GOD for a quickie. We arrive to GOD to discover an almost empty and open club. I love that and V is disappointed. For me, clubbing is more for the music than about the crowd and I prefer, especially nowadays, to have my space. We enjoy dancing and at 1:20 when the lights turn on, we go back to the room. That night’s sex is V wanting to please me. I always ask V what are his “likes and don’t likes” about sex, in order to know what turns him on or off. When I am presented with a similar question, I am able to produce a long-detailed list of things that I like or don’t. He claims that he is mostly turned on when his partner is turned on by him and that he can satisfy his partner needs. So, V remembers that as much as I can be tender and loving, I can also enjoy being rough. He puts on a feminine thong which he already knows will make me crazy and tells me he’s my whore for the night. Whether he likes it or not, it is still a mystery to me, but he totally obliged that night and to my request, V turned into a total submissive sex toy. And by that, I mean that he let me pound him the way I want, the rhythm I want and to apply the amount of force that I want. I verified with him every 10 minutes that he is OK as I was uncertain if he is enjoying this. For me, it was Christmas. Or Chanukah. He took all of my aggression like a champ and asked for more. That cardio workout ended at about 4AM and we went to sleep knowing that he needs to go to work by noon so we have an early goodbye tomorrow. Day 5 After our routine alarm and breakfast V and I say goodbye. It’s Monday and he needs to be at work by noon and is kind of late already. Goodbye this time is easier than it was last time, less emotional. We promise each other to keep in touch and we both kind of know and feel it’s not the last time we meet so I think it’s less dramatic. I negotiate a late checkout at the W and get a 6PM for free which was awesome. I leave for Emporium and Emquartier malls to meet my friend. Already in the Taxi I realize I have some time to kill after checkout and before the flight back home. I text Sabaideespa’s LINE asking what’s on the menu for this evening. I spot a stunner on of the pics and book him. I meet my friend for shopping and late lunch, we say our goodbyes and I return for my checkout. I arrive at Sabaideespa just to actually see that the stunning guy in the picture is indeed stunning in real. If you want also to admire that guy’s beauty and body, you can either PM me (I don’t feel comfortable posting his pics in public) or send a Line to Sabaideespa enquiring about “Mr A.”. This seems like a case of guy that has little experience if any in the massage scene but his presence compensated on that. In this case a 90 mins turned to be 70 minutes. These is a precise case that is a good thing I asked for 90 mins cause I’m sure that 60 mins would have probably turned into 45. Regarding the session, a lot of red lights were there: he wore a mask and a towel for the first 15 minutes until he dropped them. He did not shower with me and in general had a shy vibe which I respected until he got warmer with the minutes passing by. Also, if Vinapu’s pouring direct oil on skin is a turn off – than he totally did that. As an amateur masseur he was done with the official innocent part in about 20 minutes. The rest of the session was half him edging me (like a pro!) and half muscle worship. Does this qualify as a good massage? Probably not. Did I have a good time? Oh, fuck yes! I left there extremely happy to conclude my trip with that climax. That’s all. Taxi, Flights and I’m back home overwhelmed once again by the big change of rhythm between that intense BKK weekend and returning back to normal life. Negative Covid test upon arrival home surprises me, as I had so much close contact with too many people this trip. God bless Pfizer. When is next time? Hopefully I’ll return for next January’s White Party. I am happy to say we are expecting a second child in the upcoming fall so some trips are in the near future to the USA. If all goes well, then I expect a much-needed vacation will align just in time for WPBKK. Will update. Thank you all for reading and commenting and sharing your thoughts. This is a video from last pride (June 2021) after a year and a half without my queen's appearance during Covid. This was her new opening song. I’m dedicating this song to all BKK lovers out there, trying to have fun like there is no tomorrow. I try my best to do so during my trips 😊

12 March, I went to the soi at around 1030pm, Dreamboy show started and the staff told me finishing soon so I decided to go Hotmale located at opposite. Around 7 tables seated and around 10 boys with jeans on stage, Saturday but only 5 shows on that night. Although boys with jeans and a few show only shaking their body with weird costumes, but big cock show still available and glad to watch it. Video below are those boys who joined in big cock show, I still prefer Hawaii florist shirt in the past instead of the doctor look. https://twitter.com/HotmaleClub/status/1502674945952067585 Show ended at around 1115pm and THB 400 for drink. After that I went to freshboy but their show finished too and a few boys with jeans on stage so I left. 13 March, went to freshboy at around 1020pm and started, two cute boys with white underwear dancing and kissing each other body. Follow with big cock show but only one boy participated, glad that fresh boy still have this and yes boy knocking the pole with his proudly part, hope they can arrange a few more boys join this as I like to see they playing each other with naked on stage. Around 5 tables seated, drink is THB 350, I gave a tip to a boy staff who sit beside me as he introduced me each of the show, he said their show start at 10am and cabaret included, seems I miss out those part. Show at freshboy ended at 1045pm, around 15 boys with jeans back to stage, as regular some from nearby country, few of them are cute unfortunately they did not join the big cock show. Dreamboy staff told me show finished but they have 2nd round at 11pm so I enter, I’m not sure if 2nd show only available during weekend or everyday, but Sunday almost fully seated and crowded, just look like before covid. Dreamboy have cabaret show, dancing, big cock show (around 10 boys participated) and surprisingly that fucking show also back available, unfortunately their boys is not my tea, I prefer freshboy or hotmale. Drink is 400 THB and show ended at around 1140pm. Glad to see that their business back on track and looking to visit again in next few month, hope everyone able to back to lovely Thailand soon. Take care.

I didn't feel like the last posts were judgmental. I think people were just sharing their thoughts, opinions and own experience regarding a subject which is usually sensitive.

Any reason why Goldmember's captivating trip report is being hijacked by a torrent of judgmental posts? This is a forum dedicated to men who visit a third world country, in order to solicit young guys who would be out of their league back home and/or to purchase prostitutes at bargain basement prices. There is no room for judgement here.

I absolutely love this series. One of the best stuff they produced so far! I wasn't sure if we should call it a BL series or not, but as it turns out it is clearly a BL and it even follows the rule that a BL couple never comes alone. All this embedded in a very modern action series background. As usual, the pre-ultimate episode is highly dramatic, but here it is more about life/death or prison/free, not just couple or not. Can't wait for the last episode. Full of social criticism. In the BL universe I would give them 6 out of 5 stars, but how did they manage to get an IMDB-rating of 9.9?

I'll share my thoughts regarding BKK and drugs. BKK is not different than any other gay capital of the world and substances use are strongly tied up with nightlife and sex. Especially in the gay scene but not limited to the gay scene. Although yours truly avoids drugs (except minor alcohol consumption), I do find it almost impossible not to find myself in situations where people do drugs considering the fact that I do enjoy the nightlife scene and the nightlife crowd. So, I try to develop an indifferent approach to most recreational drug use. V, for example, has indeed a substance use disorder, I'm sure of that and also told him that. But, he's in denial and that's his life. Usually in Grindr it's easy to see how much drug use and sex is common with lots of offers for High Fun. It's prominent in BKK as it is in TLV, BER, AMS, PAR, LND or NYC. It's everywhere and I try to navigate life without using it but also not denying myself from experiences that usually involve people using it. The real problem in the gay scene is crystal meth (also called Ice, T or Tina). Usually when that's on the menu of people I hang out with, then I take a step back. T is getting more common in my home city as it also gets more common in BKK. It is highly common in European capitals and the USA. This trip I was near it in more situations than I recall in my previous trip . And that is indeed the really sad news cause crystal meth is in the league of the highly addictive, deadly, life ruining drugs next to Heroine.

Day 3 We woke up by my alarm at 10:15AM. V asked me to set up the alarm so that we don't miss breakfast. When presented with a buffet, V eats for an entire family. Given the fact that we have 10 mins to stock up with food he piles up several plates and actually eats them. Breakfast at W is good. After that, I said my goodbye to V, told him I'll be back in the room by 9PM and that he is welcomed to do whatever he wants. He had his own key to the room. I have a friend from my time at the army that in recent years lives in Koh Phangan. I told him I'm coming to BKK and he said he will come too to enjoy the city and see me. We met at Yunomori Onsen & Spa at Sukhumvit. It's a really nice place to hang out, chill and facilities are in great condition. I thought I'll get bored but actually I really enjoyed that heterosexual experience of being naked among other men in an environment that Is relatively non sexual. Nonetheless, I was also surprised that there was some eye candy there. Several hours later, we go for Ramen and I tell him I'll meet him tomorrow as I have other business to attend to in the Sukhumvit area. He knows what I mean by that. I try to avoid the Sukhumvit area since it's jammed, far, and heterosexual but if already there, I knew I had to check the neighborhood's product quality. And by that, I mean Krubb Sauna. But before I review Krubb it must be said – Babylon is missed. Its absence was prominent during this trip. It's not that I don't like the other local saunas – I think they are great. But Babylon was something else. It was a different product. In Babylon, me being white was an advantage. Most people there were foreigners looking for foreigners or Asians looking for foreign men. I don't feel that my race is a disadvantage in the local saunas, but it is not an advantage. I know it can be argued that the local saunas are more Asian for Asian but I don’t feel that way. I do think that in the local saunas, rejection is commonly misinterpreted by white people as rejection by race. I think it's mere rejection, which is rarely based on race. Anyways, in addition, the level of facility in Babylon was nothing to be compared to the other saunas. I hope that a decent place that tries to enter that specific niche will pop up soon. RIP Babylon, I did a lot of sodomy in your premises. Arrived at Krubb sauna at 6PM on a Saturday eve. Staff were welcoming and friendly and explained that it's naked month and towels are provided only for showering. I loved that, and especially the enforcement of that policy as they kept enforcing that rule inside the compound and not only at the locker rooms. Facilities are high standard and well maintained. Compound has several levels which can be quite tiring and it's the same in the other local saunas I've been too in the past (R3, Chakran, Mania). Place is nicely full with about 100 men, me being the only white guy. The common dish that is served that night is Asian Twink and Asian Twunk which is not my favorite but it is something I can work with and I have my share of fun. An hour later I find one that is my type, and play with him. He asks me if I'll stay for the party which I was unaware of, but I already knew that when they say in the local saunas "party" they mean orgy. I tell him I'll probably stay and he tells me to come find him at the party. At 8PM, about 100 men went to a single 40SQM room at that place. My Covid conscious told me to get the fuck out of that room but my dick told me to stay. In Thailand I mostly listen to my dick. At home I am able to do more negotiation between the two 😊. In that room I spot my guy from before and realize he is part of the entertainment of the event. I come to see him, we have our public fun and I leave. All and all that place was fun, entertaining, well maintained. I leave and get back to the room where V is already waiting for me to go out for dinner. We go out for dinner at Soi 4 in the place opposite to the Mexican place and have another mediocre, reasonable dinner. From there we move on to GOD again. It's a full house that night (But still less than pre Covid), and parting with V was similarly great till lights turned on again at 1:20AM. This time I knew V would insist on an after party so I mentally prepared for a long night. You may be fooled by the term "after party" to thinking that it is a party with people dancing. If it was, I'd be more inclined on going, but it was a chem-sex party. Which means less party, more drugs and sex – which is a combo that is not a turn on for me. Anyways, we go, it is in a beautiful luxury penthouse at a very high tower. I suspect that there is an informal contract between the owner and some of the hot attendees – they come and play at his party – he supplies the drugs. Some of the more dangerous drugs are on the menu that night, but V stays with E and G. I don't even drink alcohol there, as I don't feel that it is a safe environment. V and I play, he takes more drugs and by that also he is more awake and energetic. At 3:30 AM we start negotiation on leaving time. I want 4, he wants 5, we leave at 4:30 AM for some more private fun. V knows that I'm a huge fan of oil play and he surprised me with a large Jar of Coconut oil for that night's fun. Bed is soaked with oil when we go to sleep at 6AM.

Thank you for sharing your report, fun times with us. It was a much needed read!

I've had oil applied at various temperatures directly from container but I think that always results in excessive amount that is very difficult to wash off unless boy helps you in shower. That always earns him an extra red note when leaving and I tell him why (if he showers with me before and after, I add another). My preferred method is when the masseur puts small amount in hands and rubs them together to warm it up.

He's is a great guy. Glorious dick. Hope you have fun. Plans sound amazing

Hello - their facebook page says their Line ID is sabaidespa22

This narrow but somehow precise forum definition made me laugh in this freezing Israeli morning!

Maybe only a conservative celebrity. The left still tends to hold people accountable, sometimes to unreasonable standards, Al Franken as an example.

From Emerging Europe The Guide is one of the most famous historical dramas produced in modern Ukraine. It takes place during the 1930s, considered by many to be the peak of repression of Ukrainian nationalism and cultural identity. The film’s main character is a ten-year-old boy from Kharkiv, whose American father is assassinated by NKVD agents for possessing evidence of state atrocities. A blind kobzar, a traditional Ukrainian wandering bard or musician, “adopts” the boy, who acts as the kobzar’s guide. The two then attempt to navigate the turbulent environment of 1930s Ukraine – it should also be noted that kobzars were targeted by the Soviet state for embodying what they considered to be a dangerous romantic ethnonationalism. Directed by Oles Sanin, the film features beautiful cinematography, inviting many comparisons with Andrey Tarkovsky. To this day, The Guide is the only Ukrainian film to be nominated for best foreign language film at the Oscars and it is a worthy representation of the country’s cinema.

I'm not judging others on their drug use, just that I'm personally uncomfortable being around it. It might tempt me to return to the folly of my youth. Of course, given that I couldn't stay up that late, I think there is little risk of that! 😆

The Player I also enjoyed this one! Not a BL series, but still pretty gay and many actors we know from BL series. Does this wisdom sound familiar? With all those cute delivery guys in Thailand I would like to know the answer too... Good question ...

I count myself among those who never had to do with buy being know user or behaving as such. If that would happen be trying to get rid of company ASAP under any pretext. Once at BBB Inn I was witness to commotion created in the room beside mine, by most likely drugged guest. Boy escaped screaming so I learned the lesson to stay away from users. One of our members once pointed at one of guys at Screwboys and warned me about him being user but he was not my type . Since I'm HongThong user , I hope that doesn't count as drug.

Im totally against drugs and tried to advocate that with the boys im with. Luckily so far, most of the boys i take fancy dont do drugs, or not that i know of. Sadly, some did. One actually shows some sort of withdrawal symptoms the night we were together, albeit mild. He did ask if i have ice.. No idea out of desperate needs or what since ive never give any indication that im into chem fun. On a second ocassion, a diff boys asked me if its okay for him to try drug with a diff customer. Apparently a customer is offering him chem sex for more money and i told him what i think of it. I advise him not to do it, but he said he already did it... And like it. I told him whats the danger of drugs etc, the whole thing i think he should know, and hope he listen. Apart from these, im pretty sure some of the guys i like took some sort of viagra to perform, as well as those bodybuilder taking steroids for diff reason.

W is a better hotel. No doubt about it. But, Meridien's location is better and it is good enough. Even having a 7/11 just opposite to it is pricless. W resembles So Sofitel in the manner that when you go out, there is nothing outside and you either need to walk some time or taxi. They are both "better" than Le Meridien. But Location, Location, Location. Next trip I'll probably return to Le Meridien.

Thank you so much for your amazing report! Looks like such a great time. Which hotel do you prefer Le Meridien or the W?

But in general in this topic, the main thing to keep in mind is there is a tragedy unfolding now in Ukraine. I dont disagree that many aspects of US foreign policy in the last twenty years (such as the invasion of Iraq or the the support of the extremist Likud position on the occupation of Palestine) have been shameful, but to harp on about these issues in a thread such as this, while also minimizing the blatant use of cluster bombs, the intentional targeting of civilian targets and the confirmed use of vacuum bombs THIS VERY WEEK in Ukraine, in a blatant attempt to shift the narrative, is unsavory. And I must say that the way in which what I would call "foreign policy leftists" from the USA, in particular, tend to frame this is very irksome to me as a European. The main geopolitical issue at hand is Russia (or the current ruler there at least) trying to regain the position in Ukraine that it had in Tsarist times. One can argue whether that is a good or bad thing (personally I think it is bad), but one thing it actually has rather little to do with is what the USA were up to in Iraq in 2004 or in Nicaragua in 1985. But if you read many threads on Ukraine with posts from US (not just here) "foreign policy leftists" seem to be ranting on about irrelevancies such as what Billy Kristol said onetime, or how much Blackwater might make out of Ukraine, or whatever. The sense in which they are not engaging with the lived reality of an international world system in flux, or the biggest single refugee situation since WW II, is frustrating. It seems like in their head they are still arguing with that annoying fellow student who was a foreign policy hawk in a university seminar in 2006.

If you think this is a good argument to persuade people to not support the Ukrainian people in their fight against Russian imperialist aggression, I am afraid that you are wrong

@GoldMember Your trip reports are one of the top ten things I missed most during Covid! Welcome back and thanks for sharing your incredible stories!

Sounds like one hell of a trip! Great story telling. I cannot even think of the last time I stayed up to 4:30 AM.

I had a similar experience with @macaroni21 during their peak, some of the tawan guys had attitude. Some would even refuse to sit down with customer. And most have 2x off a night. I had the unfortunate experience that the guy fell asleep on me. He later explained he had been with a few customers earlier that night. The demand for these guys were so high, that some ultimately had to stop working in the bar after being offed permanently by the rich gay punters. It was only after their peak that I got to know some of the guys working there. Most are OK and down to earth once they get to know you and are less transactional in their interactions with me.

Here's what may be an unusual viewpoint: At its peak of its "glory days", I could never find any guy from Tawan to off. They were way too muscly for my taste. Between competitions or in more recent (pre-Covid) years such as 2015 - 2016, I thought the selection was better. There would be some guys who were biggish but not Mr Rippled Hulk. Compared to other bars, they were also (generally speaking) more pleasant personality-wise. Unfortunately, while the period of faded glory of the mid-decade was good by my taste, it was beginning to "fade" a bit too much in the last 2 years or so pre-Covid. Several of the regular guys there were beginning to run to fat - it's a real risk when one has become used to eating big meals but do not hit the gym as much as before. Also, my recollection is that the number of working guys were dwindling.

You know, this may just earn you the upgrade that you've been pining for on your next Aeroflot flight to Moscow. In fact your Hero Putin may invite you to the Kremlin to have tea. And if you write some more stuff that makes the Ukraine look bad, maybe he'll give you an genuine MAGA cap, autographed of course by The Donald himself.

I told you so and I'm glad you were not disappointed. 1 hr session is for people in the rush only, on lunch break or running from the wife

pain in the ass

I am in Medellin right now I just hired this man. Passionate top, nice tool. Will BB for extra money.

I am sure all reasonable people agree. But the difference between the 1970s/80s and the 2020s is that Russia has the largest stock of nuclear weapons anywhere. We already know that NATO will not agree to Ukraine's request for a no-fly zone simply because of what might happen if a NATO aircraft brought down a Russian aircraft. Unlikely it would immediately result in a nuclear war, but it would dangerously escalate what is already a horrible situation. That the Russians are now fighting very close to Europe's largest nuclear power station is bad enough. What are these monsters thinking about? Sadly I believe there is nothing the west can do that will bring Putin down. Sanctions take time to work and there is little historical evidence that sanctions really work as intended. Only the Russian people can take Putin down. After nearly a quarter of a century in power, ex-KGB agent Putin will surely have his internal defences pretty secure by now, I'd think. But it was his surrounding coterie that got rid of Kruschev (as far as i know). Perhaps a group within Putin's inner circle may eventually find a way of getting rid of him.

I told him that I just wanted a gay touch in all his planned tours. The only specific thing I mentioned was that I was planning to visit the saunas and try the garotos de programa, without his help. But do not worry, I got the point. I am stupidly and ridiculously anxious about this trip. I need to slow down. Bitches.

Aren't "crazies" on photo - nationalists are base of current regime, and Nazi - are core of current nationalist movements in Ukraine. And please pay attention: I have relatives in Ukraine and Crimea, so I don't read "news" from both sides - I speak by phone with people who are trusted and are watching everything by own eyes. Moreover: Moscow is filled with etnic Russian refuges from Eastern Ukraine. They are very visible by their Southern pronunciation. Here are over one million refuges in Russia now half of them are surviving in Moscow and suburban and working as taxi drivers, construction workers, cashiers in supermarkets and so on... I meet them every day. Personally.