It’s been 14 months since I was in Thailand. Before that I’d make 2 or 3 trips a year. I like the clubs and have success with apps, especially outside of Bangkok. If I have to have a preference, I’d go with the clubs/gogo bars mainly for the vibe of people watching or seeing the boys show their exhibitionist side. I maintain a transactional relationship with several of the mamasans. They keep me updated, they (sort of) know my preferences and give me a heads up. A non-app, non-mamasan variation are previous offs who knowing my likes/dislikes make suggestions which are usually excellent.
I know why I enjoy my visits and I know their is a financial aspect involved - it is what it is - so I go with what the moment, venue, and person provides. Kismet!