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I know I'm sleepy and it's late but... huh?

I left that site years ago and am not going back. Life is too short to deal with that much toxicity. Sorry this is happening there, but I do not think Daddy or that site is fixable.

GRACIAS @TotallyOz for this recommendation! I am so glad I waited to have my new sound bar up and installed. This is so fucking good and uplifting. The perfect break from all the current drama. Thank you, thank you, thank you.

I couldn't agree more. Some members over there are trying their best to educate that loser, but some of us have long known what a lost cause and waste of time that is. I'm delighted that some escorts are speaking up. It's high time they understand who they are supporting in the escort community, who they are granting gatekeeper status.

Thank you to the member who alerted me to this post on Daddy's site. Black Lives Matter is Racist My message to Daddy: Daddy, you're an ignorant fool and you don't deserve the support of intelligent gay men. You certainly don't deserve our money in the form of donations. I hope your racially-sensitive board members get some serious wisdom and see you for the ignorant fool that you are. Even though you are fat, broke, unhealthy, with an awful skin condition, you are a privileged white man who will never know what it is like to live life as a Black man, especially when confronted by a cop. "Blacks are three times more likely than whites to be killed by police" simply because of the color of their skin. And that's the very serious point you miss with your ignorant post. "President Donald Trump has stated that "Black Lives Matter" is a divisive term and that the term is inherently racist." And we all know how intelligent and enlightened Donald Trump is. We also know he's a racist defender of white supremacy. Daddy, you're free to agree with Donald Trump, but many of us are free to disagree with you. "All Lives Matter is a demonstration of how we don't actually understand structural racism in this country". And it's very clear to me that Daddy will never understand. When Daddy foolishly expresses his outrageous ignorance and bias on his board, members should feel free to respond. IMO, the best way for a gay man to respond is to end support of this fool.

Most of the gay massage parlors have opened back up in Bangkok. I don't know how many customers they have as the country is still not allowing visitors and therefore the places will have to rely on expats. As an older expat, I am not yet willing to risk going to these places.

Cheese that isn't yours.

So a new thread dedicated to puns! Lake Havasu!

That is Oz' version of one of the many didactic analogies people are trying to open the eyes of the well intentioned "All Lives Matter".

I am OK with that. I read the post in question. It is obvious to anyone that reads it what the owner of that site stands for. If they choose to support that, well, that is on them. It is kinda like electing Trump. We knew what we were getting when he took office. A racist does not change over time and IMHO, anyone who posts that the Black Lives Matter movement is irrelevant when so many others struggle, are missing the entire point. Lets say that Oz, Buddy, Liam, Rockhard, LatBear and Caeron all went to dinner. The dinner comes and everyone gets food except for Buddy. Buddy says, "Where is my food? I'm hungry." Rockhard says, I'm hungry too. Oz, says me too. But, Rockhard and Oz have food and are starting to eat their lobster. Buddy still has no food. The meal ends. Buddy is still hungry. But, everyone else is full. Does it matter that Buddy is still hungry since no one else is?

I would say that short-term three immediate goals are: 1. Passage of Justin Amash's bill to revoke the immunity from lawsuit for police acting improperly; 2. Defunding of police departments to force them to get rid of purely military equipment they have been purchasing to confront crowds of citizens; 3. A strong requirement that body cams and auto cams be on when any citizen is engaged and that badge numbers not be covered. Two blacks were murdered in Louisville by police in the last week. In the first the police broke Louisville law by not having their bodycams on during the killing of the woman and they promised they would abide by the law in the future. A few days later they murdered another black without bodycams and the police chief was fired in 20 minutes. Police traditionally "drape-in-mourning" every day their badges with black tape covering their badge numbers so complaints cannot be lodged.

I was the one alerting here about that thread. My intention was not to start here another rant of posts insulting Daddy and the Racist participants in the other side. I tell directly to them what I think about their horrible ideas. My intention was to call for like minded Boytoy members who hold double citizenship in M4M, to do as I was doing. The money I was putting aside to donate to Daddy's as I have done the last few years, it is now gone to #BLM, and I have decided not to donate again. However, I do not plan to withdraw and leave a space free for the Racists. My criticism of the shameful Racist ideas being shared by Daddy and a few more is receiving considerable support. I think it is clear that the majority of the participants, silent or not, are not Racists.Despite how tempting it is to insult Daddy because of his weight and his physical imperfections, you cannot fight the pigs becoming one of them. His Racist stand is clear and it is disgusting. But Daddy like each of us, is a multidimensional human being. Although his Racism disgusts me, I can still appreciate other virtues on him. For instance, I have called him Racist in public and in private, and I am still there. Once again, if you are reading this post and you participate over there, I invite you to join the fight. I want BoyToy to have more traffic and I am doing everything I can to do it, but the fact is that the MRM are significantly more popular than BT, and therefore a more accurate reflection of the USA. It is nice to talk with people that think like us, I do enjoy preaching to the choir. But it is even better to engage in conversation and confrontation with opposite views. This is not about Daddy, BLACK LIVES MATTER!!!! IMG_4938.MOV

"The Republican Senator Lisa Murkowski said she endorsed James Mattis’s scathing criticism of President Trump, and suggested she may not vote for him." #NYTimes

That is fucking appalling. Glad I'm well away from that cesspool.

From Khaosod English Government says Cambodian workers should remain in Thailand during Covid-19 The director general of Thailand’s Employment Department, Suchart Phonchaiwisetkun, says Cambodian labourers should remain in Thailand while the fight against the Covid-19 goes on in the region. He was speaking following a meeting with the the Cambodian Ambassador, Ouk Sorphorn, where they discussed how Thailand would deal with its migrant workforce during the pandemic. According to a report in Nation Thailand, Suchart claims Cambodian workers wish to remain in Thailand and continue working, rather than returning to their home country. He says having them travel across the border now would not only cost money but could increase the risk of virus transmission. He adds that having them remain in Thailand provides reassurance to Thai business owners that they won’t have to deal with a shortage of workers, adding that the Cambodians themselves are in agreement. “The Cambodians agreed to the preliminary principles and want relevant agencies in Thailand and Cambodia to meet in a video conference later.”

and then, and then, can't breathe, and then...

They all had their day of proselytizing and are equally useless to me, but when it comes to infectiousness, nothing beats christianity. So many have cast off their colonial overlords... but kept their religion.