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to spare boy an embarrassment of that call and waiting for me to answer I almost always walk my guy down to a street . This courtesy is NOT awarded to guys with disappointed performance

Mad Face Food Week is scheduled this year for 13-15 March. (I know, not really a week ). It's held on an open lot along the River. Easy to get to - just a short walk from the cross-river ferry at Saphan Taksin. Beers, lots of different good food to sample. Live music. Nice fun friendly young/mid/mixed crowd. I think it' 100B entry and that includes a drink. They have a series of chef's meals scheduled but those look too pricey for me. Certainly check to make sure it's not COVID-cancelled before going. https://www.madfacefoodweek.com

I, for one can't envision myself flying all the way to Thailand to watch good dancers. Bad dancers with good body and smiling face are more than welcomed though

Funny what different readers take from a crystal clear rendering of garoto [playful, amusing] impropriety. I snipped out the OP’s succinct description of the short encounter in question (below). I might say the 2 commercial sex workers were pushing the boundaries of #MeToo by overriding polite unambiguous decline signals, regarding erotic intentions that would unfold in a suite, except my friend’s Kevie’s profile handle would more appropriately be labelled ... NosetackleColossus. LOL. It. was somewhat unexpected that their importuning programa(s) would include spontaneous insertive oral intercourse, and his briefly permitting that would be the hospitable thing to do in that context, followed by JUST SAYING NO. Their gesture represents one of a range of normative seductive ploys, though I myself would have needed to think fast on my feet, as it would be a first for me. They requested payment predicated on his ORGASM, not based on their valuable seconds spent pursuing a trick. There was no ejaculation. They were communicating, outrageously: Pay for a phenomenon that has upticked commercial value but that never occurred. With sufficient language fluency and available time, the gesture of greatest magnanimity seeing as their line of employment, would be to school Rosencrantzio’s and Guildensternes’ comprehension of the stages of male human sexual response.

I have to say this, there is an old custom among those who visit the bars of Bangkok and Pattaya that would be well adopted here: if you sit with a bar boy and talk to him for 10 minutes or so; regardless of whether you have touched him, kissed him, fondled him - let alone, engaged in oral sex you MUST tip him. They are sex workers and you know that. I can't believe this is an issue that needs to be discussed. It is not an issue of being a "noble sex tourist " ( why you would want to be otherwise is a mystery ) but of simple good manners and decency.

Fancy equipment for a disease that is only slightly worse than normal flu

Yes, I do believe it is noble to pay sex workers for the work that they do, especially at an actual sex work establishment. I would hope that there are others here who read this who agree. There are thousands who read this forum logged on, and probably thousand of others who aren’t logged on who read it as well. I post for the benefit of those who may read this and not understand that this is not okay — not for yours. You clearly are beyond self-reflection, when doubling down on poor behavior is your and attacking the messenger are your best defenses.

On a certain young male with confident style, I love me some man bun. However, if you're an old, fat, geezer with no style or sense of what is style appropriate, then yes, I'm no fan either.

understood.... is this "look" better for you?

Welcome. I was never banned, just decided the signal to noise ratio wasn't working for me and left. My suggestion is to just let it go, and don't look back. I'm not a man bun fan, but you're super hot, so please keep posting!

You certainly like to make a lot of assumptions in order to make yourself feel better. I, OTOH, am only going by what you literally posted here yourself, about you and your own actions. Unlike some here, I don’t have to post a play-by-play of my travel sexcapades (with easily identifiable information about the partners) in order to prove something or boost lagging self-esteem. I have more than enough posters that I actually respect here who contact me privately to either get or share information. Continue to enjoy your trips. Just pay sex workers for their work they do with you. Surely, if you can pay for a flight and accommodations, you can afford another $10.75 (x2) for a porn room romp.

6’4”, 300 pounds is morbidly obese, not “in shape”, in any part of the world. Particularly for someone who is in his 20s. Trump (supposedly) is 6’3 and 237. We all know that’s not true, but even if he were 50-70 pounds more than that, he’d still be morbidly obese.

Truly bad form and quite an insult. The kind that gives gringos a bad name. So, you willing fucked around with 2 garotos de programa in the video / porn room of a payboy sauna, whom you already knew were working garotos, and then feigned outrage when they approached you for some money afterwards? And you refused to give them money for the work that they did? By your own admission, you’re at least 6’3 and a large guy. If you didn’t want the sexual activity from the known garotos who are there to make money from sex work (you knew they weren’t clients), couldn’t you have just said, “NÃO!” And walked away, or at least gently pushed them away from you? These sex workers didn’t force you to have oral sex with them in a place where you pay for sex with sex workers.. Did you think they just wanted to have sex with you because you are just so irresistibly handsome or interesting, and the rules somehow don’t apply to you? The drink after they asked to be paid for their sex work was a nice gesture, but they deserved to be paid for their work — whether you ejaculares or not. No matter WHO initiated the play. IMHO, even a $50R for each garoto would have been the decent thing to do.

Have you seen up close the results of a high speed collision? I did for many years. So spare me the crap about proudly breaking the speed limit and doing it safely.

Different locations, customs, conventions among bar workers, strip club peelers, brothel escorts ... apples, oranges, bananas. Giving a financial tip on demand based on explicit manipulation in Brazil would be frowned upon by many stakeholder groups within the trade dynamics. Simple example familiar to me outside of the BRZ context, strippers in NYC importune tips for interaction beyond private dance time, but it is simply not done in general in Montreal. One might go up to the stage and deposit a gratuity to a dancer, but making it rain in the general zone between stage and cubicle is just not the way.

VPN's do provide some protection. Just sign up and enter the access information on your choice of VPN site. I have noticed two problems with them. One, for some unknown to me reason, they drop your device. Just access the site to quickly get back on. Two, a cell phone paired with your car will lose that hand shake with a VPN in use. Best regards, RA1

The Insurance Institute for Highway Safety disagrees. And they have numbers to back it up in the U.S. because speed limits were reduced to conserve oil but then allowed to rise again -- and fatalities increased. "An IIHS study examined longer-term changes. During 1993-2017, a 5 mph increase in the maximum state speed limit was associated with an 8 percent increase in fatality rates on interstates and freeways and a 3 percent increase on other roads (Farmer, 2019). In total, there were an estimated 37,000 more traffic fatalities during these years than would have been expected if maximum speed limits in 1993 had remained in place. In 2017 alone, there were more than 1,900 additional deaths." https://www.iihs.org/topics/speed#by-the-numbers

Painfully slow traffic? Major highways are 70 mph. Yes, motorways have fewer total deaths but that’s because you don’t have pedestrians crossing streets to deal with. Motorways are limited access roads. It’s not the speed factor that’s responsible.

Bangkok shopping mall EmQuartier installed Auto Sanitizing Gate that spray mist.

Haven't we all forgotten him yet?

I'm not sure what daytime is.... I've heard and read about it though.

Happy landing! No one will ever find you over here. Even Jimmy Hoffa posts once in a while.

caeron, each of us no doubt has some experience with jurors. I am glad that yours was positive, and the fact is that all across the country jurors do their civic duty and do it well. But many of us have seen some strange exceptions. The Weinstein jury was asked to do something not commonly done in sex cases and bring the MeToo movement with them into the jury room. I wouldn't have, but that's just me.

Who was 70yo & chain-smoked so had zero sense of taste & thus used 5X the salt needed in every dish.

I have almost had it too with Steven Kesslar's very, very long politcal forum posts and his rants against others who don't agree with him.

Now that is an excellent view!

The author has been giving talks/book signing events in BKK lately (FCCT, SEA Junction and I am sure others). I hope he gives more - Very entertaining and informative if you can catch one.

Well that's the million dollar bet at the moment. I would love to hear those conversations. Given that Warren was not pleased with Bernie calling her a liar on national TV, given that Warren distanced herself from Medicare-For-All when she finally realized that Pete Buttigieg was correct, given that Warren very much knows where the power dynamic lies within the Democratic Party, my bet is that she will join forces with Biden. Fingers crossed, with an open wallet ready for donating.

Keep the informative posts coming! The situations described are likely to be repeated with others. Knowing this can happen gives us a leg up on being ready to handle the situation.

Some bad news.

I would completely expect someone like you to defend this behavior. No one “forced” a dick in his mouth. By his own admission, he’s 6’4 and 300 (and “in shape”), and the garotos were smaller. Pay sex workers in a sex worker establishment for their sex work with you. If you don’t want sex with them, just tell them no and walk away. If you want sex for free at a sauna in Rio with younger, attractive men, go to Rio G Spa and try your luck there. 50 reais would have amounted to only $10.75 USD today.

@SolaceSoulNo one has time for you and your constant negative comments! You don’t even post anything that could actually help people enjoy their vacation, just constant negativity. Old lonely angry ass queen, it’s not my fault the only time you get laid is on your biannual trip to Rio. But my young, tall, handsome, big dick, morbidly obese ass is done addressing a bitter old queen like yourself. I will continue to travel the world and having amazing experiences, both paid and free...

From the Author of "Very Thai", now his brand new take on Bangkok in "Very Bangkok" https://www.khaosodenglish.com/life/arts/2020/03/05/british-authors-very-bangkok-deftly-dissects-thai-capital/

LOL! You are a fast learner!

I know and excuse my grammar as well! I’m a developer so writing “words” isn’t my thing lol. I know it looks horrible! I will do better in the future so everyone can read it clearly.

There is the Venue which Vinapu has given a thumbs up. I stay at The Poseidon and have made it my Pattaya/Jomtien base for the past four years.

I stayed at Classroom Hotel.No Trouble with Boys.You have an Seperate Entry.Great Rooms.

No the options mentioned above do not check anything. Zing resort have swimming pool and you have second entrance through the street bypassing the reception so you won't have any problems to bring guests there.

Is this a Bangkok gogo bar? I was thinking a early night without going to gogo bars this evening but hearing this I think I might go out to support boys.

Since it has been raining all days and the sun has not been shining except the day of my arrival, I used free time to create contacts on internet trying to find a guy liking "coroas" (older gentlemen). Among some contacts, I started discussing with J. He was gorgeous in the picture he had posted. He was obviously interested by coroas and he was the one who first contacted me. I imagined that he was an escort and was rather cautious discussing with him. There are many boys on Grindr who appear as next door guy but who finally, once you are hooked, ask for money either when they propose to meet you or, worse, when they manage to meet you. Since I did not find him on Grindr, but on a bear site where there are few escorts, I had some hope that he might not be an escort. When we exchanged some private pictures, and finally the face, I realized that I had already met him, the last time being at a gay bloco during the Carnaval. He was barechested and stunning, his large torso and perfect abs drawing lot of attention from bloco participants. I was mesmerized by his torso and looked at him, making eye contact. But he was totally uninterested. I even thought he had not seen me ... I wondered if the guy I was chatting with was really the guy I had seen or someone using the pictures of the guy I had seen. Only one solution : meeting in person. We agreed to meet in the afternoon close to my appartment. The guy who arrived was indeed the guy I had seen. Even though he is gorgeous and around 30, he genuinely likes hairy daddies. We were soon in my flat, drinking and chatting. We started kissing and then proceeded for more serious action in the bedroom. Worshipping J's muscular body and hairless torso is a treat. We plan to meet again of course and I might skip some sauna sessions this trip :-)) J's torso and abs. I love Rio.

You will also love Salvador. Lots of muscular cute black guys there. After Rio and what you described, you might be disappointed by guys (number and aspect) in the saunas. But there are many guys advertising in internet sites

Fascinating is an understatement. My phone has been ringing off the hook. It happens to be sunny with clear blue skies in NYC today, but everyone on the streets seems to be walking with a lilt in their step ever since news spread of Bloomberg ending his campaign and vowing to support Biden. And the news spread so quickly with cell phone updates via text. Yesterday, pundits mentioned the possibility of Bloomberg getting out, but it was mentioned as wishful thinking. No one had a scoop. It was also fascinating to hear Andrew Yang's take on things, since not so long ago he was behind the scenes. Yang joined CNN as a contributor, and once in awhile he offers insider tidbits. He described the Bloomberg offices accurately, and his take on Bloomberg's grand data machine was also an earful. The speculation of Bloomberg's paid troops, paid through November, getting behind Biden almost sounded too good to be true. And as of this morning, it's closer to reality. What a great day for our country! We can almost taste the end of Trumpism in the air.

Strange to see strippers with mask in saunas in Rio. But they do remove underwear at the end of the show :-))

I'm surprised anyone intelligent would have a need to ask this question. The Democrats are dead serious about ousting Trump. They see Trump as a threat to truth, the Constitution, and democracy. While I think the behind-the-scenes conversations would be interesting to know, I am thrilled, like many fellow voters, that the Democrats are not going to make the same mistake that the Republicans made in 2016. Getting behind Biden in early March, with the Bloomberg apparatus supporting Biden, is the way you keep your eye on the prize. And what exactly is Trump doing on the Wednesday morning shitter? Poking more fun at Elizabeth Warren, which is just one more nail in his coffin. Everything Trump touches dies. It's time for him to go to hell where he belongs.

You have hit it on the nail: Build THIS site, make it a welcoming and active place, keep it energetic and vital... But I don't think continuing to bash the Daddy site helps us grow. I think we should focus on the future of this site and let the others play by themselves.

As I've said many times here, The golden days of hot Havana guys have been long gone, can find an occasional diamond in the rough, but not so common these days

If Oz says that the boys are cute, they are cute!

DJ station is too busy for me on Fri-Sat, and the entrance is higher. I like to roam around freely when I'm in discos or saunas, DJ-station on weekend is too much a squeeze (which I would happily bear if there were cute boys, but if I have to squeeze for half an hour past old and fat and wet sweaty until I find someone cute, no thanks).