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Having a stroll down Walking street on Halloween night I was very surprised to see a big billboard about where soi Diamond starts from Walking street, proclaiming "Boys Yes" and photos of half naked muscular men. If I understand the billboard correctly it is the lady agogobar "Yes" in soi Diamond, one of the small side sois to Walking street, that after 2 am now turns into a boy showbar. One of the many barkers on Walking street with their laminated papers about ping pong shows etc, noticed me looking at the billboard and approached me claiming "Have boy show! 500 baht entry!". I have no idea if he really knew anything about it and I didn't want to talk with him, and the quoted price is most sure very inflated. But maybe I will visit Yes agogo some day to find out what's going on there. Or maybe someone here can provide more info?

So when I went to Thailand earlier this year in April I thought I wouldn't be back until next year. But then I went in Sept/Oct. When I was there in Sept/Oct I thought that trip would be my final trip of the year. Until I booked flights and accommodation this week. So I will be back in Thailand for the 3rd time this year for a couple of weeks in December (indulgent much?) spending some time in Bangkok and Pattaya (Jomtien).. I'm super excited!

Let me try to help with some of your questions. What/whom to avoid? Touts, touts and touts. They'll make a beeline for you once you look like a newbie. Mostly found in the Silom, Surawong and Patpong areas, they'll want to show you where the bars are, etc. Don't let them. Don't even answer their questions or make eye contact. Pretend that the only language you speak is Belorussian or Fulani and cannot understand a word of what they're saying. Keep walking on.The bars and massage places are not hard to find by yourself. Thailand is pretty open about sex and related businesses, and these establishments are not hidden in deep back alleys where tourists would never dream of entering alone and so might need someone to show them the way. They're on the main street! They have bright blinking neon signs. I would assume you have some sort of gaydar. Turn it on. Spot the gay guys and see where they're going. Follow. How much is an off? It'll vary from one place to another. Just ask the bar captain as to the bar fine and the desired boy about his own charges. They'll be upfront about it (especially the Vietnamese!) How much is a tip at the table? I assume you're indicating a situation where you've had a bar boy sit with you for more than 3 minutes but you really don't want him to continue sitting there, or he doesn't want to continue sitting there, so you part ways. 100 baht would be fine, that is in addition to the drink you've bought him (which he might have hardly touched, but that's not the point). A quick short visit like you have planned likely means you'll spend nearly all your time in touristy areas. The bars and massage parlours in these areas see mostly tourist patrons*. This means there is no working week to affect the pattern of traffic, so whether you go Saturday, Sunday or Monday won't make much difference. *On this note, I'll add that first-time farangs may make the mistake of thinking that the Asian-looking patrons of bars and massage parlours are Thais. While that may be true in some massage parlours, in general the Asians are tourists like you, from other neighbouring countries. Some will outspend the farang by a mile. They are now THAT rich! Best shows? It depends whether you're looking for Magicians pulling rabbits out of hats or nude girls spitting darts from their vaginas. Could you be more specific? By the way, my blog has a Massage explainer and a Bar explainer that throws a little light on the mysteries of the different kinds of gay bars and massage parlours, plus accounts of my experiences at some places. May give you an idea of how things work (or more often than not, how things fall apart ) Take it easy. Enjoy the experience, don't set your hopes on everything turning out perfect. They won't, but they'll be fun eye-openers. Anything to do in the day? Since you'll be there over a weekend, you could visit the Chatuchak bazaar (BTS skytrain, Morchit station) on Saturday and Sunday. Or you could marvel at the consumerism in any one of the countless shopping malls around BTS Siam station. Or even make your way, via BTS Saphan Taksin station, and a boat ride, to Icon Siam on the other side of the river. Well, of course, there's the Grand Palace, the Wat Keo, the Wat Arun.... google these up. They will need taxi or Grab. Along the way there you'll also get to experience another Bangkok attraction to write home about: horrendous traffic jams. Most of the bars on Patpong soi 2 (Hotmale, Lucky Boys,Dream Boys, Fresh, Screw Boys) and the Banana Boys on SIlom soi 4 will have some lean muscle chaps amongst their off-able crew. Ditto with the selection from Jupiter and Moonlight, though maybe a bit pricier -- these two bars think they are classier. Thais, Cambodians, Vietnamese, Lao and Burmese are almost all uncut. In fact, hey, most of the world are uncut Speak English? Keep your hopes low, real low. Consider this, how many farm boys in your country, hustling in the cities, speak Thai? Good luck! You'll be fine.

is not that bad, I found that simple statements like ' put that fucking phone away ' does miracle , both with boys there and younger cousins at home

He just did something to his hair that I think is very unflattering. I prefer the curly locks in these dated pro photos.

In Bangkok off fee will be 400-500 depending on the bar drink 350-500 , boy drink the same range although in some bars buy drink may be slightly cheaper or more expensive ( 20-40 baht difference either way ) short time from 1500 , some guys may accept less but they may be from apps or beer bars in soi 4 and Hot male outside in Patpong 2 rather than go-go bars long time is subject to double inflation , it looks less guys are willing to do it and if they do, 2500 -3000 seems to be bottom and more popular or better built guys may not even start that " low ". Again boys from apps may be less demanding. Hunting for guy matching your specification is 80% of fun, other 20% you will have in your room

A little bit more "eye-candy" Tie - guide from Siamroads.com Works on Phuket.

Saw Lohran Paixao both in Pointe 202 and 117 last week. He did the usual asking the client put on his underwear routine with a hardon in 117

Grindr has been very good to me in CDMX. I don’t pay to play. I don’t show face but do show plenty of accurate and recent body and cock pics. I’m tall, hairy, good shape (never been to a gym though) whitish 45. I’m always amazed how many young attractive guys I can get to my hotel on any given afternoon and evening in Mexico. No luck in the USA but great response and follow through in Mexico. The video booths in Zona Rosa can be fun too. Bring condoms and lube. The twinks seem to love getting fucked by big guys. good luck

I’m in Pattaya just now - arrived yesterday pm I intend to check out Toyboys tonight. Last night I visited Winner Boys in Sunee, not intending to off due to being rather jaded and tired after 24 hours “on the road”. On my arrival early at 8.15 about 10 boys were on the stage, wearing a variety of underwear and some, with bare feet. Several wore speedos type briefs and I picked one boy with very fetching stripey ones revealing nice buttocks and an impressive bulge in front. He was a 19 year old twink, the type I like, but was not responsive to my attempts to initiate some basic conversation,. I left the Gogo after tipping him to have a walk around to acquaint myself with some Pattaya landscape having not been in town for 6 months and planning to return alone to the hotel for a good sleep. There seems to be a lot of excavation of roads to install much needed higher capacity drains which no doubt causes even more horrible traffic congestion. however I changed my mind and went back to Winner to find only six boys in circulation and a couple sat with customers. On an impulse I offed the stripey boy, who had surprisingly not been taken, and went two-up on a motor bike to the hotel. His performance in bed was good so sex wise my trip has got off to a good start. But his quietness and lack of verbal responsiveness was a little unnerving as was his frequent consulting of his phone. So I paid him the ST rate and had an excellent sleep, which was the sensible course of action in retrospect.

for sure he heard but sometimes we need some encouragement to go somewhere , even if well known. Look at me , I like muscle guys but it was only 8th trip when I went to Tawan. And the 9th when I went to Pattaya for a first time. In 20 visits I still did not cross DJ Station, GOD nor Babylon doors and still feel uneasy going to soi 4. On another hand I know few Pattaya regulars who visited Bangkok scene last time during Clinton presidency before Lewinsky hotel in Pattayaland got it's present name.

There are several of these dancers that dance at the saunas and clubs that I wonder if they are GPs or not. Or even in the sly. Rodolfo Marins and Ramon Ventura whom I follow in Instagram are similar situations. One can dream!

Hopefully someone else has experience of him... but if not, you could send him a message... https://www.facebook.com/Adriel-Fernandes-1138464602963502/ https://www.instagram.com/adrielfsdancers/ His instagram doesn't say he's married, doesn't feature loads of women... and he seems to have a gayish dog... so he may be open to it...