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Leg 2 - Pattaya - ALL inclusive hotel Arrived Pattaya mid week Monday till Friday. Hotel review - Centara Grand Mirage - 2 interconnected rooms (150 USD per room per night): This hotel is for families. I see no reason for a gay solo/couple coming here without children. It is far north and kinda isolated. For my needs it was great because this hotel has children activities, water park, children's pool etc. They also guaranteed me in advanced the interconnecting rooms which was the most important thing for me because I wanted privacy at night but also to be near my daughter and nanny. Breakfast is OK, but not more than that. Hotel Gym is one of the best I have seen for a hotel. Grindr hookup #3 - same as in Bangkok, I fakedGPS to the hotel a week before arriving. I then realized that one of the staff members is hot and gay. We first met on my arrival day but just for drinks cause he had a day off and was headed to BKK for the night. So 3 out of 4 of my nights there, my night fun was also provided by the hotel. So, I had zero intrest in leaving to explore out Pattaya. Fun with that guy was awesome with great chemistry and sex so meeting him night after night was something I was anticipating. This hotel was really ALL INCLUSIVE for me. Pattaya night out - I went out on my first night cause that was the only night my hotel entertainment was out of town. I started with BoyzBoyzBoyz that had a nice show but too twinkish guys for me. After that walked to Sunee which was dead so returned to Boyztown. Saw a really shredded guy outside Scandic offering me a massage. He stated the price of 1500 THB which seemed high for Pattaya but I was horny so didn't care. Later on I realized that 1500 included the tip but I guess that place enjoys the vagueness of that fact. Massage was fun so I didn't care that much. Place is horrible in terms of cleanliness and facility but for me it's not that important. It's always all about the guy. Helios Massage - on my second afternoon in Pattaya, I decided to try their soap scrub that was previously reviewed here. I texted with the place using LINE. They were unwilling to send photos of the guys working and mentioned they have athletic guys but none of them big muscle. The words "athletic", "muscular " are quite subjective so I had no other option but to try and see. Went there and was unsatisfied with the guys on display. Mamasan was hot but I didn't ask since he didn't offer. Upon exiting the shop he texts me "and what about me?" I then returned to the shop for my massage. That massage was awesome. It's in a special room and mattress with lots of foam being rubbed in sensitive places. I really loved it. Poppers in Pattaya - my second night in Pattaya was my first night with my guy from the hotel. We had lots of fun together but he said he can't do anal with me unless he has poppers although he's ok with keeping sex without anal. I had lots of fun with him but really wanted to fuck with him on the next nights. Morning after our first night of fun, I texted mamasan of Helios. He connected me with another guy and 35 minutes and 850 THB later I had been delivered poppers to my hotel. I love Thailand. Anal sex with that guy was awsome. He had a handless prostate orgasm, which is something I haven't seen till then. After 4 great nights in Pattaya, weekend came again just in time for me to do be Bangkoking again during the third leg of this trip.

Many-many years ago in Prague I took phone book in street phone booth and made choice from call boys adverts. When he arrived I told him what I'm virgin and need lesson "what and how". Then we spend 2 hours in explanations and practices.

Beauty of hiring guys, u can dictate how u want your session to be. Since u didnt know if you are top or bot, and if u really want to start to try, i suggest for you to find a verse so u can try flip flop and see which u like better. Not sure about others, but for me, first time isnt always what you would cherish. In reality, sex gets better with practice lol

Shalom y'all! Just landed. Took some plane time to start writing. Some Background. 35yo married + 1. Israeli. This was my 6th trip (and trip report!). My husband has a big exam soon so he asked me to take our 3 yo daughter and go somewhere for the entire Jewish Holidays period (almost a month). Without any hesitation I booked us both a ticket to BKK for 26 days. The first 10 days of my trip was accompanied by a Thai nanny, and the rest was with my parents that decided to join some parts of my trip to spend quality time with their grand daughter. The trip was devided to 7 legs and so will this trip report. I scheduled it so we'll be in fun to party places during weekends (Bangkok, Singapore) and the mid week we went to places where it doesn't matter that much if you come on weekends or not (Pattaya, Chiang Mai). Since this trip was relatively long, and most of my time was spent at kids stuff with my daughter, this report will not be a detailed one. I'll try to stay focused on things that will be of interest to this forum. Take into consideration that my trip was about 70% child play and 30% dad's play haha. The report will focus on dad's play. Leg 1 - BKK weekend - Engines on TLV-BKK 11h flight went easy considering the fact that it was just me, 3yo girl and a fair amount of carry on luggage. The fact that I won the bid for upgrade to buisness class sure helped LOL. Suvarnabhumi Fast Track - after getting recommendations from forum members, I ordered Fasttrack, golf car, porter and a car with a child seat. 14 minutes from airplane gate to the car!! It was not cheap (4800 THB) but very helpful for a dad in need. Upon arrival, met the nanny which we already knew from our previous trip. Hotel review - Somerset Park Suan Plu - 3BR apartment (220 USD per night): This place was conveniently located a 3 minute short walk from Prince. When traveling with family, the concept of serviced apartments is my preferred. Apartment was all I could ask for: big, clean and each room had a lock haha. Breakfast was medium. Will return. I decided that first day of my trip will be dedicated to commercial sex and the days after will be dedicated to non commercial sex. Prince #1 - My goal with fasttrack was to arrive to the hotel at 4PM so my daughter will nap immediately upon arrival. I've become an expert in adjusting her naps to my needs haha. So it was no more then 15 minutes upon arrival that I was already at Prince after checking in, greeting the nanny and putting my daughter to sleep. Guys on display were nice as always. I saw the guy I was with last time, who is nicked Cha. For some reason, this guy seemed to be actively avoiding eye contact with me. At a certain point he actually stood behind someone and appeared hiding. He was of course the hottest guy there that afternoon. And by hot I mean shredded muscle. Retroactively thinking, I'm not sure why I chose him knowingly that he is avoiding me. But that is exactly what I did. I don't come to Prince to get massaged so can't comment on that. But his service was even better than our previous time. And by service I mean getting fucking him while he flexes. And also the prefuck teasing. All was so good I have really no idea why he was avoiding me. But I am sure he was. Left that place very happy and satisfied. I will see Cha a week later at XXO party. He looked at me and said "you look familiar". I told yes, I know. He then said "from the gym, right?". The whole situation was so weird I told him no and just smiled and went on. I then found his Grindr and IG. He states there specifically that he is not a MB. I contemplated the thought of sending him a massage and talk but that stayed only a thought. Anyways, Prince was a great start. Tawan #1 - after my daughter woke up, we went to Asiatique market for a pleasant evening. Recommended. I Put her to sleep at 22 with the goal of making it on time to Tawan. Arrived at Tawan 22:30 and finally met this forums superstar massage reviewer, DivineMadame. We had a nice conversation and inspection of guys. We both appreciated the looks of one guy in particular over there. He definitely seemed like a superstar and got his share of attention and tips from the crowd. When the show ended, encouraged by DivineMadame, I went to say hi. I ask for his name, of which he replied Tiger. 15 minutes later we were at my room. I didn't expect much from that guy cause I thought he was more eye candy than bed candy but he was mind blowing at what I needed from him. Which was a intense and intimate muscleworship session. The next day I took my daughter to the weekend market. An exhausting and nice place. When it was time for her nap, it was time to go to Babylon (#1). Until that point, Babylon never failed me. Nor it did this time. Had a taste of the local buffet of Asian crowd and some white guys too. I really like that place. After some more quality time with my daughter, it was bed time for her and play time for me. Had a sex night with someone I met on Grindr (#1) during my previous trip. This guy wanted to film our action. I only agreed to do that with my phone so we did that, then watched, then played more. It was a great night. Came back way to late considering the fact that at 8AM my daughter will wake me up. Next day, after some more exploration of Bangkok's children's play spaces, it was dads play time at Babylon (#2). This was the first time Babylon failed me. Don't know why. Maybe I was too tired, maybe just bad karma, maybe after a while I got too picky. But after about 2 hours I decided that I need to face the fact that no fun will probably happen here. So I left Babylon unorgasemed for the first time and to date also the last time. At the evening I took my daughter to the Cat Cafe. It was a nice experience although I think the cats were way too friendly and probably drugged. After putting her to sleep I had some time to kill before my Grindr hookup so I went to Banana boys and the show and guys has improved since the previous time I was there. Grindr hookup #2 - I started working BKK Grindr a week before arriving with FAKEGPS. A week before arriving I just started talking to ALL the hot guys there. One guy, I actually talked to several times before but it didn't work out till this trip. He unsurprisingly works in the fitness industry. This time he was more eager to meet. We met for drinks at Silom. I then realized that this guy, as hot as he was, had serious issues of low self esteem. I usually find it tiring cause then I need to invest energy in making him feel desired and hot. So, I play along cause I have a goal of bringing him to my room. An hour later we are in my room. He still needs a lot of me ensuring him that he is good enough for me which is a little turn off for me. But I was really into fucking that guy so out of 3 hours meeting, one hour was probably dedicated on sweet talking him to bed. But it was worth it cause that guy did everything I wanted in bed. He also had a very clear OCD which made him very sensitive to his cleanliness. But he softened with time. All and all it was a great night. 3AM, 20 mins after he left, my daughter woke from a nightmare. I was very happy that it did not happen earlier. I did not want her exposed to the other side of this trip. After about 4 hours of sleep my daughter woke me up, and we started packing and getting ready for our next leg - Pattaya!

As a versatile, you will not have the full sexual experience if you did not do anal sex, this is based on experience only and personal opinion only so I did not intend for an argument, okay? When I visited BKK 4 the 1st time, I never, ever plan or even imagine 2 lose my virginity...until I met the go go boy from Dreamboys which I think got all I look 4 in a man...I even call him Mr. Perfect Guy...and I admit, the 1st time I really got hurt, he was only able to insert it, but on our 2nd encounter, WOW, he made me relax and we did it in a lot of sexual positions...I guess if u really like the boy and he is really your type, u don't mind the pain, but the pleasure after...now he becomes my regular and he always made my trip complete!!! But of course I also enjoy twinks bcoz being a top is a bit easier than being a bottom, lol!!!

Its not just incredible, its addictive and as ubdoubtedly reported here and most of the gay forums elsewhere, even those in their 70s still actively seeking for it. Having said that, it is still not for everyone. Certainly straight guys went ok without ever having anal and pure top gay never experience bottoming, and pure bottom gay never top a guy. But like i said before u will never know how u feel about them until u try it. And at the risk of sounding like a broken record, with sex, specifically anal sex, especially bottoming, itll get better with practise.

Maybe FOMO is in play? If u never try, ull never know

I think you do need to plan how to do it. If you wouldn't need to plan for that it would have probably happened till now naturally in at least one out of many encounters you had with guys. But it seems that something is making things a bit harder for you regarding anal so in my opinion getting help on that is a preferable way of choice. I agree with @ggobkk that an expert will be beneficial for that manner. Not a regular bar boy but a highly rated guy from RentMen. These guys, if they are highly reviewed, have seen and done it all and you will be able to discuss everything with them freely. I would even start with a first encounter with non anal just to see if you get comfortable with the guy. I also agree with @spoon regarding that you should lower your expectations on enjoyment. It's a barrier that needs to be crossed and after crossed you might start enjoying that. If still in difficulty, and this subject is of importance to you, I would recommend seeking help with a sex therapist, preferably one with experience with gay men. If what you are experiencing is indeed Aidsophobia (which is not that rare with gay men), it can be sometimes related to hypochondria and/or some variation of OCD. A professional therapist would know how to make a better diagnosis and help you overcome the barrier with some guidance and support. On the other hand, you can decide that this subject is not that important to you and identify as Side: https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Side. Good luck!

I don't think you want plan that, try to find the guy you like and are comfortable with and let things take its course naturally. When you feel your blood it's at boiling point , you will know now it's time.

this coming friday and Saturday i will be at the saunas! next Friday the 1st i will be at Lagoa

thanks God

There's a whole exhaustive /-ing thread on how to navigate trips and/or the "boyfriend experience." https://www.gayguides.com/forums/topic/11328-travelling-with-gogo-boy. [Note - the link to this discussion in the so-called "timeless" section is not correct.] Personally, I have great luck traveling and spending time with my guy-of-the-moment. I encourage people to try it if they think they might enjoy it. It may not be for everyone - and not everyone is right for it - but it can be a wonderful experience. I was probably lucky my first few times and now I might even have learned a bit more and it all works for me and, so far, for my companions. I think that real-time communication is the first most important, second most important and third most important thing to making it work. Also - and I'll confess this was a bit of a revelation to me - communication problems are not 50-50 (duh). Each of us is 100% responsible for communication if it's about something that we care about. If you see something you don't like, say something. Be clear, be double clear, confirm the mutual understanding. And raise issues quickly. Don't let things fester (a particular sin of mine). Your guy will 99.9% of the time adapt if you're being fair. I think that some (or many) working guys do indeed think that one part of the "boyfriend experience" absolutely is shopping. It is very common and happens every day (at least here in Bangkok). And it happened in the OP's situation. I don't like shopping for myself, much less someone else but following my own "communication-communication-communication" rule I let any guy with me know I don't do shopping. Any of these up-close-and-personal experiences in close quarters over anything longer than a short time are bound to be a bit bumpy, because flawed human beings with all their expectations, issues and anxieties, etc. are involved. And there may be things going in a guy's life that might make him shy, distracted, upset about something that may, or may not, have anything to do with you. Or maybe that gentle tease actually got taken the wrong way. We don't know. There's actual science (!) out there that says that we human beings are terrible at our judgments about other people's motives. Almost comically, we assign bad motives to people (other than those in our "in" group). So now I try to avoid that sort of thinking, or at least be aware of the pitfalls - "he must have done this because..." and just stick to the facts and try be more about understanding and less about vilifying, particularly when I'm dealing with someone who is a less than half my age. But if it's not working out, best to pull the plug. OP handled it well. Looking forward to the next installment.

Not sure I'd recommend a visit just for the cheap escorts, but I spent 4 days here in September, and had lots of hits on Grindr. Guys got together and happily took 20 Euro after. I had one hottie try to get 100 euro, but with the other options I gave him a pass. It is the poorest nation in Europe, and it does show.

I know this probably isn't the correct forum, but I need true sexperts, and you guys always have the best advice. Simply put, I have spent my entire adult life without ever having penetrative sex with a man. I have had fun with lots of guys, including in Thailand, but never had the full experience. I came of age during the AIDS era and have been gripped by fear ever since. But now I'm willing to try, however I don't know where to begin. To be honest, I don't even know if I'm a top or a bottom. My question is...how would YOU re-do losing your virginity? Would you hold out for that special guy or would you go to an "expert"?

I will arrive in Rio next Friday(10/25) will be there for a week and then head to São Paulo! i will not be going to Porto Alegre this trip, but will on my next trip. I will be staying at the apt in Ipanema which i have been renting for almost 9 years! it is literally across the street from the General Orsorio Metro station in Ipanema and 2 blocks from the gay beach at Posto 9. This trip 2 of the guys from SP asked if they could come up to Rio for 4 days. So they will be my bunk mates and in the late afternoon they will go meet friends at the beach and I will meet friends at the sauna, and we will reconvene around 10:00 or so to meet up for dinner! Since both they and me have been to Rio many times we won’t been doing any tourist things with the possible exception of Hang gliding which i really like doing there! On friday November 1st i am going to SP for 4 days and meeting 4 guys there and plan on going to Lagoa before it closes at that location.

I think the boys here are sooo intimate with each other, he he

I agree with other's in saying never try never know..... To try to top should be pretty easy and straightforward. Bottoming is not so easy, and the key to bottoming IMO is: 1. you have to really want it (in that very moment, not just in general) 2. to relax there. To get to the state of really wanting it probably takes two ingredients: the right guy and a high degree of horniness. Note: Horniness breeds desire, and desire kills anxiety. Which leads to the second point, to relax. Overcome your anxiety. If related to HIV, that should be easy as (i) there is no need to panic anymore anyway these days, (ii) use condom and (iii) consider Prep (in addition to (ii) of course). If anxiety is related to anticipated pain, there is no need at all for there to be any pain at all. Just learn to actively relax those muscles there. Train and practice with your fingers (increasing the number of fingers as you go), and probably with some, uhm, tools like a dildo (or a not too thick cucumber will do, too). Here @spoon's observation and advice is very true, practice helps. So practice by yourself, so you'll be prepared for the real practice with the real tools.

I'll admit my selection may have been limited. But I just found it difficult to find good food, whereas in Thailand (and other SE-Asian countries) good food is EVERYWHERE. A friend of mine, who also likes Thailand and good food in general, said the same about Philippine food after a few weeks vacation there.

considering tittle of this thread answer to second question obviously is 'yes' but you need to answer this question : is easy life worth living?

At first anal first -as bottom- is very painful and unpleasant experience however after practicing it is incredible , others will be top only and some can be versatile. Intercourse sex is great treasure you are missing I guess maybe you are hypochondriac and this is the main reason you are avoiding it on fear you'll be infected with HIV or other sex deseas ?

Hi guys, Most apps have a „travel" option so you can contact the guys before you travel there. In some apps you have to pay for the „travel" option.

Hello BB aka @pd1jap I can’t help with current guys, but I do know Buenos Aires well from having spent a year there. Assuming you can speak Spanish well, it’s easy to meet guys (working and non-working). Argentines do set great store on being in-shape (tho this may be less important to a rentboy) and being well-dressed in public. You can see a selection of working guys on various sites (eg soytuyo) but be aware the photos may be old. There are numerous ‘telos’, hotels with decent facilities that rent rooms by the hour, in Recoleta. There is a lot of info on Argentina in various threads on this site. Please be aware of the high level of street crime and robbery, and be savvy about carrying/wearing valuables and using public transport. You state you will be ‘staying in Palermo’ but you will need to be much more specific in making arrangements. There are several neighbourhoods named Palermo. There is Palermo Chico, which is a district of rich families generally. And there are Palermo Soho and Palermo Hollywood which are middle-class areas (some fancy parts and some newly-gentrified) with various restaurants and many boutiques.

Many gay men don't do anal sex. If you are enjoying your current practices, why is it so important to change?

My advice: go to an expert. Find a popular bar and ask the ma ma san to recommend the best top or bottom available. of course you must use a condom.

Ive read multiple experience sharing on utilizing of PreP and how it took away their fear of having sex due to Aids/HIV scare. Granted most of this story are either with HIV poz partner and/or those who bareback or lack adherence to regular condom use, there are some users who took it to reduce their own paranoia of the disease even when they religiously wear condoms. This is due to several incidents of condom slippage, breakage, under alcohol or drugs influence cases that makes using condom not their highest priority. Something to ponder as an added tool of HIV prevention. Of course this is totally an individual choice.

As much as it is tempting to accept this explanation, I do not think that my endowment was something that memorable that he remembered 6 months after our first encounter. He took it like a champ both times. If he works at Prince he surely saw and took all sizes and shapes. I tend to think this explanation is more reasonable. Although I prefer the too big explanation LOL.

I don't. I find life much more interesting & involving that way.

The images this calls up are just too uproarious!

Steven, the comments from Graham are disgusting. But, IMHO, there is something the President has on him to get him to be so subservient.

I'm sure there will be several opinions voiced and suggestions made. Before they begin, I admire your honesty and openness. I, too came of age as AIDS arrived and can understand the hesitation. My own response is go to an "expert" and be as open with him as you are here. I suspect you won't be the first and your expert will make it a valued learning...

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Hey Anddy, i travel to Asia the last 5 Years. I saw some Places in Thailand, Cambodia, Malaysia ,Indonesia ,Singapur. But never the Philippines.

I don't think you made any wrong with the boy as Vinapu advised it didn't work with him and it was better to cut it off fast . Chemistry is not something you can improve it's just an outcome with a certain boy sometimes there is a chemistry but usually not because 24/7 with a boy based solely on money without a real chemistry can not work unless the boy is very professional and experienced with such situations as spoon described his experience. From my experience in Thailand most of the boys do ST only, some will agree to LT overnight only and only very few will do 24/7 more than one night the ones who agree to are because : 1. He really likes you and have expcatations for more serious relationship. 2. The boy is desperate for money and will do everything to secure more money than he can do on ST. 3. The boy wants take a break from the bar / his job so long paid vacation with a client is appealing to him. 4. The client is very rich so the boy will jump on the opportunity to make LT with healthy client. 5. The boy is very experienced and professional and knows how to behave 24/7 with a client and extract the benefits of this situation.

I'm the same, it's all about the smile. When at Moonlight with @vinapu, @paulsf, @18past19, @CTCI8F I had ZERO intention to off anyone. As soon as I took my seat by the shower stall, noticed some boys lingering in the corner behind us, one of which with cute-boy-looks caught my attention. Then his warm smile - SOLD! So easy for the boys to off me haha

KT is to the far east of Ram IV, and toward, of course, the water/harbour side. A very safe and uncluttered view on it can be had if travel over the Expressway east from Sukhumvit toward Bang Na (= going toward Patters from inner BKK), f.e. using buses 139 or 511ew. A songhthaew, old/red open truck goes in there from the KT wet market, where many citybuses stop just before their garage further on. The general advice is not to go there without Thai knowledgeable guide, about the only place in BKk or perhaps even all of Th where this is indeed safe advice. Besides that, the Mercy center, helping orphans and other disadvantaged kids, set up by a once American christian priest, is also settled there, it sometimes has calls for help in the BKK-post. Oh-and the BKK-post HQ itself are just on the edge of it-across from that songhthaew stop-it also has its very own old truck for workers going there.

Hi, only see this now. The Thai to the right is not that hard, it simply list the tariff: nouat(=msg) Thai//Namman=oil, cream, which is already translated, and prices are for 60//90//120 mins. In the yellow is says promotion, free scrub with 2 hr msg. Service hours 13.00-1.00The Thai on the left=window I cannot read all, but it mainly says Indira Spa ''staff wanted''. Most translate it as ''INdira'' and Ram Indira is a very long and very str8 road east of Bang Khen toward Minburi, going west its Cheang Wattana. There are dozens of such places all over greater BKK and its unclear with just this if it specialises in more as just msg. Dont bother-as said there are 30/40+ of others, also nearby. The best site for such adverts is thaimassageboy.com, you can be pretty sure all places on there are more for the ''other'' as for the msg. Somehow I recall it may once have also advertised on TMB, but if yes, must have been quite some time ago. An excellent intro to such places with also many listed is by an active member on this forum, google for m4m massage bangkok. IF such a place is mostly for the ''other'' which effectively in very plain+rude english would simply say its a male brothel, then it mostly will have somewhere in Thai its for ''men only''. Just as a comparison: in BKK alone there must be 100s of such places, many of them castle-big lookalike, with ''ab-aam-nouat= shower, treat, msg'' on the str8 side, they always have signs for ''pretty girls/ladies wanted''.

and of course a comment on vinapu's (as always) fun and engaging report: it was great to be able to meet and catch up after the missed opportunity in August. It sure felt like he was just on a regular trip, one could hardly feel that there were "other activities" involved at all.... Great pleasure meeting @CTCI8F, @GoldMember, Tiger and the pizza at Madrid, thanks to vinapu's introductions .... except when it comes to pizza at Madrid

glad to hear Tiger worked for you , he is great guy but sometimes must be kept on short leash. Highly recommended

Loving all of your replies to my original post! Will reply soon, but in the meantime.. Day 3: One of the places that I wanted to visit whilst I was in Bangkok was the new IconSiam, so I decided today would be the day for it. Caught the BTS to Saphan Taksin, and hopped on the free IconSiam river shuttle. The trip didn't take long at all and it was a nice boat ride on the river. Arrived and was quite impressed at how massive it was. The first time I went to Siam Paragon I thought that was pretty impressive, but this place just takes the cake. I always marvel at how they get the cars into the dealerships on the upper floors. Wandered around for a while, exploring each floor, before having some lunch at a Korean restaurant near the top floor. I remember in one of @vinapu's trip reports he mentioned an outside terrace outside the apple store, so after finding the apple store, walked through it and went outside and it was quite a nice view of the river and the city. I really do like a nice view. Continued to wander around and bought some clothes for myself that were on sale (also saw maybe a couple of you guys shopping with your Thai boyfriends), eventually got bored so I got the river shuttle back to Saphan Taksin, got on the BTS, somehow managed to go in the wrong direction, got off the train and on another and went to Sala Daeng because my feet hurt and I wanted another foot massage. I was going to go back to Rapee but I walked up and down the street and it was like it disappeared because I couldn't find it. Maybe I was just being blind or not looking hard enough, but anyway, I kept on walking down and came across Nakarat and just as well because the guys outside were quite nice looking. I ended up getting a 1 hour foot massage with the guy who accosted me (his name was bee I think). Walked up the million steps to the 3rd floor, and it was quite nice as I was the only one in the foot massage area. It was mid-afternoon after all. I did see a few guys come in and out. The foot massage was really good, he was quite strong, massage was 250 baht, paid the lady at the counter with a 500 and gave bee the change. I told him I would come back (but turns out that I didn't unfortunately). Couldn't be bothered walking back so I took the BTS to the next stop to Chong Nonsi to my hotel. Later in the evening I walked down the street and ate some kale and crispy pork at some random restaurant, after which I felt tired so I didn't bother going out. Day 4: Today I went across the road to King Power Mahanakhon and omg it was amazing. So I paid 689 baht entry fee (apparently cheaper on weekdays, and I saw some cheaper online promotions too), found out I couldn't bring my bottle of water up (bear that in mind for if you visit), went through the X-ray and into an elevator which was super fast and displayed some nice projections on the walls as it was going up. Off the elevator at the 74th floor which was the 360-degree indoor observation area which you could see all of Bangkok from every window. Every time I went to a different window it was like I was looking at something new. Before going up to the 78th floor, the staff gave me some cloth covers to put over my shoes, and a soft bag to put my bag in. Can't remember if I went up the stairs or the lift at the 78th floor, but when I got there, wow. The view was spectacular. Spent a lot of time just looking out at Bangkok. Eventually made it to the glass panel (once the crowd died down a little), and it was so cool. Since I went there by myself, I was a little worried about where I would leave my belongings as they don't provide any lockers or anything, but the soft blue bag that they gave me I could take onto the glass. I had one of the staff members take some photos of me. Just looking down 78 floors below was really something. I would've stayed on the glass a bit longer, but everyone had to get off as they needed to clean the glass. Highly recommended experience. When I left Mahanakhon I walked to Baantewa. I had a really good experience when I visited 3 years ago, so I was hoping for another good time. When I got there I had to go up the stairs (unlike when I visited 3 years ago I just went in the front door), and there were only 2 guys available. They were both cute so I just randomly selected one, and off we went. Showered alone at first, and the massage was okay. His clothes eventually came off, but afters was just a handjob. Last time I was offered the full service, but not today so it seems. Yeah I'm sure I could've communicated better what I wanted, but as I mentioned before, I just kinda go with the flow and see what happens. I mean, a handjob is better than no handjob I guess! Paid the 700 baht for the massage, and the 1000 minimum tip. Had a meal at Alphabet Cafe and Bar near my hotel, and later on another meal at Beef and Shake (also near my hotel). Didn't venture out again (as I was tired.. this becomes a pattern..)

Thanks for the sharing. Was Chai avoiding you because your size may be too big to him?

I am a BIG FAN of the Philippines!! So many beautiful places to visit. And the Guys there are wonderful!! However, it is correct that the Bars and Massage Places are nothing like Thailand. Use PlanetRomeo and Whatsup to meet guys. I avoid Manila. It is too big and too congested. Takes 2 hours just to get across the City from Malate to Makita. Instead go to Cebu City. It is in the south and more relaxed. And it is a good hopping off place for Adventures; like hiking to the waterfalls, swimming with the whale sharks, mountaineering in the canyons, or just lying on the beach. I will not turn you trip report into a Travel Ad for the Philippines. Just send me a PM if you want to ask any questions. GWMinUS

I'm gonna go way out on a limb and assume you are not a liberal Democrat. But even if you are a Republican, even your own party is for "soaking the rich" to help the middle class and have nots. I'm gonna go even further out on a limb and assume that despite the great promise of trickle down economics, your bootstraps have not pulled you into the class of the ultra-rich who are worth over $50 million. So the good news is you have nothing to worry about.

I am not a monster. If avó can ace (beat) the screening challenge, this fairy'll consider granting the iWish.

I have been to Cuba for a couple of times and most recently I stayed for 3 weeks in January 2018. Here is the brief report: Weather is very nice in January. it is neither cold nor very hot, much better than the hot and humid weather in July. La habana: malecon (avenida 23 & calle hospital), cafe Toki (calle 25 & Infanta), parque central are the top spots to cruise. Parque central in the day time, just sitting and watching young men passing by; Malecon & Cafe Toki at night (and after midnight), typically 30+ people gathering in groups, with locals and tourists. typical price 25-30 CUCs (dollars); there are plenty of short time casa particulars nearby, 10 CUCs for one hour. It is also easy to find a private apartment with private entrance via Airbnb. Santiago de Cuba: unlike La habana, there are no visible cruising spots. I managed to find a men through Romeo, but the profiles on Romeo were very limited. I saw a couple of gays/trans in the plaza de dolores after midnight but I didn't talk to them. there is a love motel (casa particular) on street calvario No 551, just next to Plaza de dolores, where my Romeo friend and I had half an hour good time. I paid the friend 30 CUCs and the room 10 CUCs. Santiago is a very poor city. One day when I was strolling down the malecon at sunset, I saw two very handsome young men with great bodies. Both are 19 years old and are about 1.85 meters. It turned out that they were from the local lucha sport team and they had to train every day for local competitions. I invited them for beers and we became friends. In the next 2 weeks, I gradually learned about their lives, visited their homes, talked to their families, helped with their (money) problems, and got to know more of their friends. we went to beaches and discos. In the end, I managed to jack off and suck six young straight cocks from the same street neighborhood, all are 19-21 years old. The boys were willing to play as long as it was kept secret. One needs to get inside the communities to enjoy Santiago. But it requires patience, language skills and most important, luck. Holguin: very peaceful city. I found a 19 year boy via Romeo. there were a couple of trans in the corner of parque centro after midnight. I only spent 3 days in Holguin but I guess, just like Santiago, there were always opportunities. Trinidad: I spent 2 days but I didn't find any. I think Antigua of Guatemala is a more beautiful colonial town. Cienfuego: I stayed one night in Cienfuego and met a 20 years old men in Malecon ( we mad eye contacts when he passed by me). We had a good time in a nearby motel casa particular. Cuba is a very safe country. Almost every night I walked alone in the central area and never felt unsafe, often after midnight. I also found weeds were popular in Santiago, but possession could lead to 10 years prison in cuba, though there were far less policemen in Santiago than La habana. In conclusion, I have had great time in Cuba. But offline cruising can be very consuming so I am looking forward to the time when Cuba is opening up and getting richer and when wifi is widely available to local people. I probably will not visit Cuba for the next couple of years.

Hey everyone, starting to write this at the plane back home. I want it done while all is as fresh and accurate as possible. Starting again with an introduction. I'm a 33 year old Israeli, married + 1. This is my 4th trip (and trip report) to BKK. I love travelling alone for sex and party adventures. With the recent addition to our family, I felt an on going, growing desire to feel independent, self centered and have a trip that focuses entirely on MY needs. Don't be mistaken, I love my husband and daughter. But, I needed the break. My husband is well aware of all my needs and thoughts and while he does not accept them happily, he understands them and we find a way to make this work. I have been contemplating the idea of visiting BKK for a circuit festival party for the last 3 years but never got serious about it. When the White Party Bangkok (WPBKK) punlished the dj lineup and I saw 2 names that I liked - Sagi Kariv (Israel) and Suri (Spain) the idea of going started getting serious. Just didn't know how to sell the idea to my partner. Once the rumers of the arrivel of the mother of all gay djs, my favorite love, Offer Nissim, I knew that is my ticket. I will explain more what is Offer Nissim for me, for now lets just say I am a really big fan and my husband might understand if I wanna see my favorite dj in my favorite city. So started talking about it, also in this forum, and as time passed by it got more and more real. This was an expensive trip for me. That is to be expected from a short trip combined with NYE dates. Since this was a 80 (a little more that 3 whole days) hour trip (excluding flights) I did not see any other option than using the only direct flight with our shitty local airline that has bad prices, bad service and planes older than my mom. But also, for BKK they have perfect time slots for both directions to sleep very well and avoid any form of jet lag. That ticket was 1050 USD (and an additional 150 USD for TLV-BKK one direction economy premium) which is considered rather standard for that line at this time of year. No sane Israeli will come to BKK only for NYE weekend so there was no high demand that made ticket prices incline. That was not true for hotels. My gury, Vinapu, recommended that I order as fast as I can the hotel and he was right, prices inclined by the week. I usually stay in Surawong's Meridian but this time I followed Namazu's advice and ordered the hotel near the party area Centara Grand @ Centralworld (Namazu, best advice ever! Thanks). The price for 3 nights was 860 USD. Yes, I know, no one should pay those prices for lodging in BKK. But for me, it was worth it. Also purchased a VIP full festival WPBKK pass for 9000 BHT. European prices for an Asian circuit festival in BKK. So unfair for most of the locals that can only dream to enter there. There should be a discount for them. Of course that makes most crowd for the parties to originate from more wealthy Asian countries. This trip was also in very high risk for cancellation for various reasons so I insured the flight, hotel, party ticket so that I can cancel for any reason up until 12 houts prior the trip (100 USD). So paid more than I'm used to for BKK, but didn't care, this was MY trip and I wanted the best for myself as I don't get everyday to meet my favorite dj in my favorite city. One last thing before starting actually to report, as similiar to previous trips, I started sexting on the apps with FakeGPS a week before. It was on PlanetRomeo that I got a text from the guy that I will spend most of trip with. It was a profile that I would not text to myself. The reason for that is that it was a faceless, PERFECT, torso. Those usually seem unreachanle or fake to me so I don't bother. It's a good thing that he texted me. For the purpose of this report, and in order to respect his anonymity, he shall be called V after his perfect V shaped body. Some of the details are blurred to respect his privacy. So we started talking and he seemed not only hot but nice as well. He was in the WP staff. So we said we will meet when I arrive since he will probably be on a break. I didn't expect to meet him cause this guy is the kinda guys that can have anyone he wants from the party, and with all due respect to myself, that party has the highest percentage of amazing looking muscle gods (or gueez haha). So, after this long introduction, let's get into buisness. Arrived Thursday, Dec 29th at Ben Gurion airport for the 11PM direct flight to BKK. Saw dj Sagi Kariv at the plane, wished him good luck, took a sleeping pill (didn't want to leave anything for chance) and woke up 8 hours later. 2.5 hours later landed 2:50PM BKK time friday 29th. Smell of Suvarnabumi makes me happy, immigration queue (45 mins) makes me anxious. I had to pick up my festival pass by 5PM at Centralworld. Traffic was shitty most of this trip. Used more motor taxi im other cases to avoid it. Arrived at Centralworld 450 PM, took my pass, bought a 2000 bht worth of drinking ticket to use at the party, went to my room and texted V I have arrived to see if he has a break and wants to meet. Checked in Centara deluxe smoking room with king bed. As expected, a high standard, 5 star hotel. V came 10 mins after me, to my room. Overwhelmed by how he looks, I tried just to be cool and not to act excited. I suggested him to rest in his break but he wanted to make out so I complied haha. Connection and chemisry was intense immediately. I wanted to fuck him and he seemed tired for that and suggested after the party. Was fine by me. He asked if he can use the hotel gym later. Gave him my second key room and told him he can use it for the gym whenever he wants. I verified with him that he knows he needs to text me if he wants to come to the room to avoid any awkward situations. After he left, I met my almost monogamous boyfriend from my last BKK trip. The localy based fashion designer. I told him 2 weeks prior my arrival that I'm coming to WPBKK and that I need gay, white, unique party shoes. He did a great job. Met him for in room dining and sex at my place. Club sandwiches and beer were excellent, sex was too. He left at about 930PM. HPSQM (Homos per Square Meter) on Grindr was one of the highest I saw and resembeled Gay prides around the world. I was still a bit horny so invited a hunk aussie that suggested he just come to my room for bj and to drink my cum on his the way to the WP. A short, funny and hot 10 minute interaction. He was very high. Probably E. At that point I was happy and not horny at all. Decided to come late to this night's party cause this night was my only chance to go to the bars. On the other nights the parties were more important than the bars. Arrived at Tawan 22:30. Place was already full. I got a bad seat. There were two guys I would totally off for a muscle worship session but they were both occupied with other customers. Looked aroud to search for others I find attractive but did not find. I decided to leave at 23:00 cause I knew no chance for a good off and didn't want to waste my time on a show I have seen several times. So from there, based on forum recommendations went to Jupiter. Show already started. The show as a show is very enjoyable with some impressive eye candy. Rules of the place were less clear to me: who can be offed? how do I off? But as sexy as the guys were, they all seem unmotivated to be offed and so I just enjoyed what was a nice show. And I also kept in mind that hopefully, I'm returning to my room tonight with a guy that attracts me more than them. Passed by Soi Twilight, and returned to the room to get dresses for my first Asian Circuit party, The White Party: Military Ball. Bought at the WP booths a militay harness and straps to match so I followed the dress code. Left the room at about half passed midnight. Flight wheels touch the ground now. Slept great also on this return flight. Going straight to work. Will continue soon.

Thanks for taking me someplace I'll never go on my own. Your narration and impressions truly convey what it's like being inside the ropes. You managed well to sidestep the potential pitfalls and zeroed in on getting the best out of your experience. That's a lesson all us can benefit from regardless of our age or experience level. You were indeed fortunate to have the ideal mate for the trip, and he you. Your adventures couldn't have come at a better time for those freezing back here in north America or the EU. Wouldn't we all. LOL

Moving on to the morning of Dec 31st. We wake up at noon. Less than 4 hours of sleep but both of us do not want to waste too much time sleeping. We have some morning fun, I take some pictures of that. I then suggest V we do a proper photo shoot later this evening, I have dirty things imagined for that. He is game for that. We both are starving, I suggest to order breakfast, V suggest we go to out. We went out. I remembered from several years ago an impressive food court at Siam Paragon so I ask V to take us there. Outside weather is great and lots of people walking. We get to Siam Paragon and I spot a nice sushi bar called "Heiroku". I don't want to put V in a position he pays for things he cannot afford. Or maybe he can afford but is still really heavy on his pocket so I just tell him before we even get there that I am paying for it. He is a little uncomfortable with the idea so I explain to him the value of 2000 BHT for me and my currency and monthly salary vs. his currency and monthly salary. For me it is probably 1.5 hours of work's worth. For him it is about almost a week's work. He gets my point. Lunch was great, and now I am on a mission to find my husband the shoes that he asked for. This mission is important and I'd better return with those shoes otherwise just not return at all haha. V helps me and we finally find the shoes at CentralWorld after visiting 3 different stores. We both try on shoes ourselves in the same store. V has a membership card there so everything is 20 percent discount. I tell him that I want to buy him the shoes that he chose, just as a gift from me, he gets very excited and emotional. I tell him not to over think it, just a gift from me and to just take it. He starts getting emotional telling me that his recent ex-bf didn't but him any gift and they were 1 year together. I don't want things to get really dramatic and emotional so I tell him that it is just shoes, that it is not a big deal for me and that it is something I want him to have because I know he will enjoy them. These are workout shoes which he will use at the gym which he visits daily. We go from the store, happy, each of us with a new pair of workout shoes and an additional one for my husband. After that, I had a vision in mind, I start asking V how does he feel about a nice and sexy massage. He understands what I mean, and said that he did that only once and did not enjoy that very much. He asked if I want to have one, and offered himself as the masseur. I had other plans. He suggested I go alone. I was OK with going alone but I preferred he comes with me. I suggested we go to The Prince and have a massage together (was not sure that is possible but assumed it is). He took a minute to think about it. I assured him that if he feels uncomfortable then we leave. We arrive at The Prince probably at 4PM. Place is PACKED. For those that have been there imagine: no seating place available, people standing between the sofas and about 3 guys in the aquarium which are the ones that no one chooses. This is NYE side effect. I wanted to cut my loses regarding time and effort so we went back to the hotel instead of waiting and probably compromising or going somewhere else and having the same experience. At the hotel, we try to rest a little. V gets about an hour of sleep but I can't – the noise from outside gets louder and louder. Our room's view is to the outside area of CentralWorld and it seems that there are a million people outside already getting ready for NYE. When he wakes up I suggest we do the photo-shoot I had in mind. V enjoys being photographed so that works great. I start by oiling his whole body. We are both naked. I am totally hard during this entire session and play with myself and with his body while he poses and I take his photos. He does all the bodybuilder poses to emphasize each muscle, and when he forgets a muscle then I tell him what to do. I start also to fill the tub. I take the measurement tape out and start also to measure is well oiled muscular body. I take photos and videos of everything, including my hand enjoying his hard flexed muscles. These serve me well, nowadays, when I wanna JO at home. I then tell him to enter the tub, and we start doing some muscle foam pictures which are also very hot and make me very excited. We stop to make out in the tub, and then return to bed, and continue with some photos and videos of him being fucked, oiled and worshipped. My favorite one is the one I took while fucking his pecs' cleavage. He cums on his abs, and them I add my cum, and take a photo finish. This was way better than I expected. Total of about 220 photos and videos from that evening. We order room service for dinner and I want V to choose for both of us Thai stuff. He chooses way better than my previous western choices and everything is really great. Time to get ready for NYE!

On to the main event – Offer Nissim, White Party, Bangkok. My friends arrive at 23:48. I stay cool and just rush them to go as quick as possible. We enter the venue just to see that a show just ended and the club is full, dark and no music is on. This is classic Ofra – keep the crowd in the dark for several minutes and wait for her. I was very happy since that meant we did not miss her appearance. The music start, I recognize the intro immediately from last TLV pride. 2 minutes later when she appears the crowd is shouting and gives her a really really warm welcome. Show starts. She plays most of her new songs with some classics. I can write about it a lot, analyzing her choice of songs, and songs that she did not choose to play, but the only person this will be interesting to is myself, so I will spare you the text. My straight friends enjoy her music as well. They say that although the club is packed and sweaty it is way better crowd than a straight party. An hour later the wife gets tired and they leave. I am by myself, going to the VIP platform. I find a nice spot, and just dance to my favorite DJ, in favorite city and feel happy. I spot several Israeli Ofra queens in the crowd. It was especially easy to spot when she put on one Hebrew song and to look for people that sing along. V came about half an hour later. He knows what Ofra is for me and we dance together. Dancing with him to Ofra feels nice, especially in some of the sexy song. Same drill as yesterday – he dances in front so everybody sees him, me at his back holding him, touching. I know the lyrics for all the songs. When a sexy song comes along, I whisper him the words slowly from behind, while touching his sweaty, shredded, body as he moves with the slow and sexy beats. This was a great party. Half an hour before the end we get off the platform and shove our way to the front line. We make friends with 4 Israeli Lesbians and dance. We dance, sing, touch, and stay front line till the end. She puts my favorite song for last: Alone. I have a really nice video that shows the crowd's reaction for her finish but I cannot seem to be able to upload videos here. So we will settle for this poor video that she herself uploaded that probably one of her fans sent her. Sound starts only after 30 seconds for unknown reason. 3AM Show ends – the queen bows and leaves the stage. The crowd gives an enormous amount of love. This was a too short set, but nonetheless, a really great one. We are front line when the party ends – which should mean a long wait until everybody exits. But, V uses his authority to get us out from backstage. I try to look if the queen is there but she is already gone. 10 minutes later we are already in the room. V suggests we go to an after party (in Israel an after party after an Offer Nissim party is called After Ofra). He says that there is a nice music and play party at his friend's apartment. That is cool by me and tell him I do not want to go to sleep after 6AM so that tomorrow does not get totally messed up. So we start getting ready for the After Ofra at my room. V says that it is an underwear party which means everybody stays in their underwear. I then give V a sexy jock strap to wear that I brought from home. I do not wear them myself so that I don't mislead any potential men to think that they have a chance fucking me. I brought them with me to BKK because I like fucking guys in them. I put some sexy underwear myself. I drink another beer, V takes another E, and we leave. On the way there he has some requests that he presents for me: 1. Don't play with the host, who is his friend. This was a very funny request since the host is a very unattractive man and I was surprised that V thought that there was a chance that I will want to play with him. 2. Avoid fucking. He said that he doesn't mind that I play with people but it will be hard on him to see me fuck someone. 3. If anyone asks – we are a couple. I find the requests a little funny, but I get what stands behind them, and I assure him that I'm OK with what he needs. I must state that these sort of parties are usually not my cup of tea. Not because I don't like sex parties – sex and music is really my thing. But because these parties usually turn into Chem-Sex parties which turns me off a little. Especially if the more serious drugs are involved. We arrive at the After Ofra probably at about 4AM. There are about 20 men in that amazing and beautiful Bangkok luxury apartment. Men are mostly hot. But my guy is the hottest there and of course gets a lot of attention. He teases other guys, lets them touch him, and then comes back to me. Some guys actually come to me and ask if they can play with him, a situation that I found really funny. My reply was always, just ask V, I am not his owner. I find some guys at the balcony to play and smoke with (also a combination that I like). Party goes on, at my request some of the music is Ofra and Sagi. I have a good time. V and I make out a lot. He likes that I rim him (jock straps) and the others look. People coming, people leaving. Some have unprotected sex, some do drugs, some do both. I think the host is also a drug dealer. I was with no doubt the only guy there that was doing only Alcohol. At some point, a group of Israelis came. I did not know them but it took just one look to know that they are Israeli. V didn't understand how I could tell since they all look the same as each other but totally different then me. I then started explaining him the difference between Ashkenazi and Sephardic Jews me being the former and them being the latter (and usually sexier, in my opinion). Not sure how much he got it, being kind of high. V got their attention but once they realized he's is mine they took a step back. One of them told me as a joke in Hebrew that although he is a total bottom, seeing V's ass makes him consider, just for a second, topping just this once. That made me smile and laugh, V didn't understand but he knew we talked about him and I told them it was a compliment. Party carried on and V told me he wants to do K (ketamine) if I am OK with that. I was not OK with that, since K is not E nor is it G, it is a more serious drug. But I told him that he is a grown up (he is almost my age) and does not need my permission. But if he seeks my opinion then I do not want him to take it. He took it. This of course resulted in him being way too energized at 6AM which I already felt kind of tired. We kept on parting and playing with each other and mostly me also playing with others till 7AM. Back in the room V started feeling sick. I told him that he should go to sleep and rest, but both of us were rather horny so he declined and asked for 10 minutes in the restroom. He turned his music on so I am not sure what he did, but throwing up and using the toilet was surly part of it. 10 minutes later he seemed OK we shower together and fuck. This time with Sagi Kariv's New Year's set preparing got tomorrow's party. Same routine as yesterday and just as fun. I keep fucking him synced with songs beat, I love that. Went to sleep at about 8:30 AM. Not early as I wanted but everything was great so I don't care.

So carrying on, Still on my arrival day. I think it is about half passed midnight I enter the party. Dj Hector Fonsenca (USA) is on stage with DJ Tommy Love (Brazil) who is about to finish. This party is the least important one for me since I am unfamiliar of the DJ and I find it that, in general, American gay DJ’s are not to my taste (and to most of non-American people haha). There are some exceptions to this thumb rule. But, this one is not one of them. Although he is not bad at all. Just not that good, just OK+. The party itself takes place at a venue called GMM live which is located at CentralWorld 8th floor. From my room to inside the party it takes about 7 mins including hotel elevators, a little walking, entrance security, etc. This is amazing and a big advantage of the hotel choice. Especially when the party is over. Production did a really great job. Very good and efficient organization in terms of bars and toilets which usually in these kind of events are really bad. Prior to the event I was not sure whether the 60 USD difference between VIP and standard full festival pass are worth it. Well they are. For one main reason: The VIP platforms. It is way nicer to dance on a heightened platform then on the main ground floor – It is just as crowded but view is way better. This was taken from that party from the VIP platform: I will take now the time to discuss the general party impression and refer to the other forum discussion regarding the crowd, age etc. So, as expected, the place is packed. If I have to guess, in the biggest party, the Offer Nissim one, it contained about 10K people. I may be totally wrong cause crowd size estimation is hard to do, but that is my guess. Some other personal estimates: 93% Asian, 1% Female, 80% high on drugs (mostly E), Average age 32, 95% percent of people age range: 22-45, body shapes of people varies but a dominant, above average, tendency towards muscle queens and twinks (I do not mean that these are most of the people there I just mean that their representation there was higher than other parties and places I have been to). In general, more than usual percent of the crowd is nice eye candy. Will you feel comfortable there? I will say it again, it depends on you, and how well and secure you feel in a crowd as described. Post party, I will add that this one is rather hardcore in terms of crowd so people with a slight tendency towards uncomfortable feeling in gay parties will probably feel uncomfortable at this one. I hope this helps people to decide. I will add that I think that some people in those parties that tend to insecurity use drugs to feel better and seem to have a good time when high. For me, at these events I really feel comfortable and this one is no exception and even better since the Asian crowd is friendlier in my opinion and makes me feel at home. Another unrelated addition that one might need to know – bring ear plugs. I don’t know if they heard about decimal limitation in BKK but they were way off the limit. While I enjoy my music loud, I also want to exit a party without my ears ringing. So as mentioned, I enter at half past midnight, take a beer and go on to the VIP platform. When travelling alone, I try to stay in control, and limit myself with 2 beers per party that keeps my mind right but with a nice buzz. I enjoy dancing on the platform for about an hour. Music is OK+, dancers, lightning, video and vocal systems are high standard. I make out a little with random people and dance. At 1:30 AM, V ends his obligations and joins me. Dancing with V is an unusual experience for me. He gets most of the attention. People come, smile at him, touch him, etc. I usually get my share of attention but when with him, he is like an attention magnet and that turns me on rather than making me insecure. I like it that people really fancy him, and that although he really likes and enjoys the attention as well – does not want to be with other people, just with me. If it was vice versa, I would definitely leave the guy I am with and butterfly with hotter guys but I understood really quickly that he likes to be the center of the party but does not actually wants to have sex with all the guys that want him – he wants me. We dance, touch, make out and I feel like I have a piece of jewelry that everybody wants but at the end of the party will come to my room. At one point of the party, a guy so hot tried to make a move on V, and I told him that he should go for it and that I would have if I was him. But he said he just wants to stay with me. weird guy haha. 2 AM V took me to meet two of his friends at the main dance floor. Then V suggested we go to G.O.D (which apparently reopened lately). I told him OK, but that if we stay together for the next parties I will not leave before they end, just this party I don’t care that much. We passed by the room, refresh, V takes E (ecstasy), I drink a beer in the room, and all 4 of us go to G.O.D. We arrive probably at 2:45 AM to G.O.D. Music is way way better than at this night’s WP. The place is fully packed with no place to move. V, takes my hand and takes me directly to the stage. He tells the guy dancing on the main stage’s speaker he wants to dance there instead. The guy leaves, we go up, dance, him in front, me at his back. I touch and worship his body while dancing and I have a great and sexy time. We stay on the speaker for a little more than an hour. 4AM lights turn on, we say goodbye to his friends and go out straight to a taxi and to the hotel. We are both sweating and I want to have sex exactly that way with his man smell but V insists that he showers so I join him. Great night filled with sex and music. I am the DJ of our sex, and this night’s sex session is accompanied by Offer Nissim’s pride set of 2017 and half of 2016. We go to sleep at about 6AM and wake up at about 11AM. At breakfast I want to order room service. V says it is a little expensive and suggests we go out to CentralWorld. I explain to him that food is on me and he agrees for breakfast in bed. Breakfast is great, sex is fun too. This time, I feel comfortable enough with him to reveal some of my kinks and to ask him if I can oil his body while fucking him. He agrees. I feel at heaven. V starts getting aware that what turns me on is that he flex while I touch his oiled body while fucking him and he does it to perfection. V leaves the room by 1PM to go workout. I tell him that I wanna go out but he can feel free to use the room and room key as if it was his. He seems happy. He also has to go after the gym to the venue. This works perfect for my afternoon planned adventures: Massage and Sauna. I leave and we schedule to meet during the this night's White Party. I am doing this in relatively small chunks because writing takes me time which I currently lack. Will try to write more, soon.