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It was most enjoyable to hear the story about your first encounter in Bangkok. I hope others will contribute!! To that end, this was my First Encounter in Bangkok... Mine is about a tiny bar across from Tawan. My first visit to Bangkok was in 2001. I was lucky to have met a German man on Yahoo Chat. We met at the Tarntawan and set out to do the Bars!! We went to Tomahawk Go-Go, which was directly across from Tawan. It was tiny place with banked seating along one side of the room and a small platform on the opposite side where the Boys came out to dance. One of the Guys dancing caught my eye and after he left the stage I ask the Mamasan to bring him over for a drink. As an aside, the Mamasan was Lek who later managed Soild and recently the small bar in Soi Twilight. So the young guy arrived and sat with me. But something did not seem quite right. We talked, all the standard questions. And then I excused myself to go to the toilet. It was toward the back of the Bar when the Boys hung out between their moments on the stage. A path was cleared for me to the toilet, I relieved myself, and when I came back out I saw standing there the Boy who I had really been smitten by earlier. What was going on?? Well it turns out it was his younger Brother who Lek had brought over!!! We quickly cleared up the confusion and both understood my preference for the older Brother. So off we went to Tarntawan for an excellent night!! The Boy who I will call “T” was a dream. He had a great body. Beautiful smile. A huge cock. A nice tattoo. He did everything!! He loved to smoke and be smoked and he even had me fuck him!!! Well I fell in Love!!! Too bad I had a long-time Boy Friend back home in the USA… Just to complete the story. We met several times on future trips. And I always enjoyed our time together. Went on several trips in Thailand. He had two sons he was raising himself. His younger brother was Gay and had a Thai BF. Now many years later, my Guy is in his late 30s and still looks good. He worked as a Mamasan at Boys Bangkok. And the last time I was in the Bar he took me down the Soi to meet his two sons who work in other Bars. They are both grown, equally handsome, married, and have children. Too bad I have not seen Grand Dad in several years. But the memories are still the best!! Hua jai kong pom ben kong koon!!

https://www.ajarn.com/blogs/ajarn-street/how-far-does-a-30k-salary-go-in-bangkok I often get asked the same question - is it possible to live in Bangkok on a 30,000 baht salary? I'm going to go into as much detail as possible to hopefully answer this important question. And I'm certainly not going to sugar-coat things, because after all, you wouldn't want it that way. OK, let's really drill down those numbers. Why 30,000? This is the amount that most of the people asking me the question will be earning - give or take a thousand or two. These days, it's very much an ‘average' teacher's salary in Thailand. Many teacher placement agencies pay in the ball-park of 30K a month, as do most of the companies who specialize in hiring teachers from abroad for short-term teaching contracts (the latter are usually jobs for the ‘gap year' crowd) There are of course plenty of teachers here earning far more than 30,000 baht (and plenty of teachers making less) but 30K is the amount we're going to play with. Admin: See link for the full article

Heading back to SP today, this trip was supposed to be all about the sauna but alas! the reports have me worried. I however swear I am up to no good!!! I will keep you guys posted as much as I can.

I hesitate to call this a trip report as it's much less detailed than many, but here are my observations from a trip to Pattaya earlier in May. Typically I only frequent gogo bars - massage is not generally my thing (I'll make an exception for a stunner), and host bars are usually a last resort. I spent a week in Hua Hin, one of my favourite places to unwind, before hitting Pattaya for 10 days. The transfer was hellish, for some reason known only to herself the driver decided a route via central Bangkok was best. The motorways were gridlocked on a Friday afternoon, so instead of the usual 5 hours the journey took 7.5 hours. It will be the ferry next time for sure. In Pattaya, Boyztown was subdued with very few customers in the outside bars. Panoroma in particular was very quiet, Castro and Serene seemed to be busier. A-Bomb, one of my regular bars, was closed for a long overdue refurbishment. I was disappointed as I'd been hoping to find a lad from my last visit. I found the A-Bomb barman working as a waiter in Dreamboys, along with several of the A-bomb lads. The waiter explained a couple of other A-bomb boys were working at Cupidol, including the lad I was looking for. He headed over to Cupidol, and brought my lad over to Dreamsboys for me. Now there's good service! I caught the Dreamboys first show, which is pretty much a copy of X-Boys and BBB minus the Bboys dancers. They started with a candle show, which I thought was extinct in Thailand. The candle boy was not really my type, pleasant looking but not a stunner, but as I watched he grew on me - the waiter helpfully explained he was "number 1 big cock" in the bar. However, it was his big chunky ass that capitvated me, especially when I saw him naked later during the big cock show. The waiter was talking about a 700 Baht off fee for the show boys, plus tips of "2000 Baht up", so I didn't off him. Later in the trip I saw the Dreamboys 2nd show, they seemed to have many more boys in the big cock show who I hadn't seen previously in the bar. It was fun. I spotted an exceptionally handsome older guy who I'd offed years ago - frustratingly I couldn't remember from where. It must have been BBB, or Dreamsboys in Bangkok, I think. I had a quick grope for 100 Baht. It was pity this was my last night and I already had a boy from Dreamboys sat with me. X-Boys had a good selection of boys. I always find the staff here a bit odd, other than asking if you want to off anyone they don't seem to want to engage or help you choose a boy as they do in other bars. Maybe their English is not up to a conversation. I did off a good looking lad, I wasn't sure he was gay when I saw him on stage but he soon convinced me he was. He'd already had a few drinks, and was in fact slightly drunk. This didn't really affect his performance. in Cupidol, other than my former A-Bomb guy who I offed a couple of times, I didn't find any boys my type - but then I rarely do. I ventured into BBB several times. I'm not a fan of the way the boys are generally fully dressed. The muscular ones who do take their tops off invariably have an unimaginative tattoo in the style of Dwayne "The Rock" Johnson, across one pec and a half-sleeve down the arm. Twice I offed one of my regulars, a cute gay lad from Chiang Mai with an unexpectedly large cock. One evening when he wasn't there, one of the muscular guys caught my attention. He's cute but distinctive looking with a great body. He was from Cambodia, which surprised me given his build. When he worked out what I liked (which is not difficult, I'm easily pleased), he was quite the dirty devil in bed. Unfortunately his cock, while looking good when soft, never got even slightly hard and was so pumped full of fillers and silicone it was quite off putting. After my usual short time I gave him 1500 Baht. He looked at it pretty disdainfully and asked for another 500 Baht. He hadn't mentioned it earlier in the bar, but I reckoned he probably thinks of himself as one of the stars in the bar and deserving of a minimum 2000 Baht. I gave him the extra 500 without any argument as I don't want any bad feeling. I made a mental note to check prices with "star" boys in future. I don't normally discuss tips in the bar, and rarely have a problem like this - it's happened 3 times in 20 years. With the 1200 Baht charge to the bar (2 drinks at 350 plus 500 off fee), it made for quite an expensive evening. He won't be joining my list of regulars. Toy Boys is the best run bar in Boyztown. My regular waiter knows what I like and works hard to find a suitable boy for me. I offed two boys from here - one was a sightly older guy with a great body I'd offed previously. He's straight but does everything. The other was a newly arrived young lad, straight but cute as a button. He was pretty useless in bed however, lying there like a sack of potatoes. I ventured over to Sunee once when inspiration in Boyztown was lacking. Sunee is a shadow of it's former self of course, with many bars closed and those that were open had very few if any customers. I went directly to Winner, in the hope of finding a boy from my last trip in February. He was new then, and unlike the typical Winner boy he's compact and muscular. I was slightly surprised to see him still working in the bar, he didn't really seem cut out for it. He remembered me and was pleased to see me. He'd grown in confidence and his English had improved, so he was a chatty companion. He was below average in bed, but I knew that anyway, and I find him attractive enough not to mind. Overall my tally in the gogo bars was 4 new boys and 6 repeats from previous trips. Next time I'll be on the lookout for more new boys - I'll aim for a 50:50 ratio.

It's early Sunday in Thailand...me, well, I just arrived back home after too many hours of being on planes and sitting in airports. I checked into the forum and find that my last report never made it - the forum went down for maintenance or something Thursday just as I was doing an edit. I will have to compose and post...right now, I need some sleep. The final leg of my return, Hong Kong to San Francisco was 14 hours on a full to the airline bank account 777-300ER.

Roxy fin club, and dude club (which might be closed already). Maybe someone can do a trip report to roxy fin club? Mainly muscled guy there

Thanks for introducing the website. Seems like google translate did an acceptable job to at least makes navigation and reading enjoyable still. And i learned about two other bars that isnt discussed here. Two man bar catering more towards women because the guys they hired are straight, but still open to all to come and we all know money talks hehe.

Penetration...censored version, hahaha...you got better chances on Mr. Smart, I believe...good luck!

Google "random attack". You'll get a lot here in the US too. It is our nature to want to find a reason for things. Blaming it on the country and poverty is easy, but the truth is that there are crazy, damaged people everywhere.

Yes - on one occasion in February I was sat with a boy in A-Bomb, and one by one every other boy (there were about eight) were called down to sit with customers leaving none on stage. When new customers arrived there were no boys to look at and they left immediately. Many of the A-Bomb boys don't arrive until about 9.45pm (they don't get a salary so just turn up when they please), so I would say 9pm is too early. If and when the bar reopens it will be interesting to see if the regime changes - I would expect the owner to want to maximise his new investment!

anddy, worked for me also. Thank you.

Thanks Lucky. I ll have very little to contribute as compared with the other regulars.

Still loged in! Perfect solution, anddy.

Thanks for the update, @BlkSuperman, as well as for acknowledging the respect for anonymity of sex workers — especially in a culture like the DR where community and family shame and even violence can result from exposure. And none of us want these hot guy to STOP providing us services out of fear of reprisal. So, again, nice job. Course correction is a sign of character. Two comments: (1) Paco’s / Grand’s clandestinely acts as a cambio for exchange of USD (I assume also CAD and EUR, but not sure). And they provide as close to the actual exchange rate as I’ve seen. If you have a reasonable (not really huge) amount of US dollars and you need them converted into DOP (or vice versa), also try Paco’s since it’s open 24/7. (2) You stated that you and your spouse tend not to have guys spend the night after you heard about the DC attorney being killed in Santo Domingo by a guy he was dating. As I’m familiar with the facts as well as the person you’re referring to, allow me to clarify: The DC attorney (Van) owned an apartment right outside of the Colonial Zone in Gazcue where he stayed alone and had guests when he regularly visited. He was not murdered from an overnight stay. The Dominican was a regular that he saw who came to visit him in broad daylight, and the Dominican (presumably unexpectedly) brought along another guy with him who he said was his cousin. The DC attorney opened the locked gated door for both of them. He was then tied up, robbed, tortured and murdered by strangulation with some items the two had bought at a store earlier (so the murder/robbery was pre-planned). Before Van died, the two got him to open his safe. With that money (approximately $1500 USD, some electronics, cell phones and clothes, the two went and bought a motor bike. Van was in his mid 50s. The Dominicans were 20 and 19. I only state all of this to emphasize that the DC attorney’s murder had nothing to do with an overnight stay. But yes, be wary and be cautious in all situations, and always watch your back. The DR can be a beautiful place with gorgeous, friendly people, but there is also an underbelly of it that is grotesque and unforgiving.

Numazu - with only 4 days to spend in Thailand, I would suspect you are not looking for a long term relationship... I don’t know what to recommend. I’m now in the midst of day 2 of the Pattaya leg of this trip. All sorts of guys from other visits are finding me and making it a great time. Yet, Bangkok was incredible for gracing me with exceptional offs. I think having a chance to hang a bit with anddy would weigh in favor of Bangkok.

Happy to help. The site does not make enough income to support the cost of running it. Donations are accepted at any time. jk Sites ebb and flow and money comes and goes. It is never enough to pay programmers, keep up with new code, upgrades, security, etc the way I like to do it. This site is a passion of love for me. I love hookers. I love people who love hookers. I love gay sex and I love people who love gay site. But, I mostly love gay hooker sex. So, I am OK with not making ends meet on the site. However, the costs of running the site is VERY low. Unless I decide to pay myself a salary. Then, the costs go up. My understanding is that Daddy needs money for his lifelihood from his site. I don't begrudge him that. And, I hope he finds what he needs to life his life happy.

I think the one on the left is fairly cute, but then I'm not in the military, so I guess that's no problem. More seriously, I'm getting too old for all this shit. Even a couple of decades ago, who would have dreamed that a Chinese corporation would wind up owning the world's go-to gay hookup app? LOL, that there would even be such a thing as a gay hookup app? My brain just gets weirded out by this kind of stuff.