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Just want to update on my quest about travelling with this guy. We still keep in touch from time to time. It has always been brief, limited to saying hi and wishes on pubmic holiday. The most recent one was on early april. My friends who came to malaysia for a visit had just gone back, and as i was going through IG, he updated his ig (which is rare, the last post was january) and got me thinking of him again lol so i initiate the chat, without any hope of a reply since my last text was january as well. Anyway, he replied my text and i asked how are you, and he said good, and i said i miss u, wish i can bring u here to my place. He reconfirm my country and i said yes and i express i want to take holiday beforr fasting month. He said its songkran in thailand and i asked if he goes back home, he said maybe. I took that as an opening, so i ask if he wants to come here, and said ill pay (of course i will). He ask go Malaysia? I said yeah. And he said "just having free time can go." And i said let me know when you are free. And he said ok. Few days have passed, and as i read his reply again, i noticed i couldve misunderstand him. Did he meant to say he is just now havung free time and can go, or did he meant what i think he meant before, he need to find when he has free time and he will let me know. Anyway, i dont want to push too much, so i just sent a Happy songkran text on songkran. And he says thankyou with wai. Then another text a week later, just asking if he go and have water fight in silom during songkran or not (i had just watched bangkok love stories songkran episode) and he said nope, he just stay in room. And guess what. Earlier this week, he texted me, asking me if im working and i said yes, and asked if he is also working, he said yes. I finally ask again when he is free to travel. And he said next week he can travel!! I propose a date, and asked how long he can come, and bought his ticket! Itll be a first time ill be "travelling with gogoboy"! Well technically, he is travelling, not me. And technically, he no longer works as gogo boy lol but ill take this as a win haha. Cant wait until the day come. Ive reread both divinemadmen and vinapu advise here. Ive yet to discuss money with the boy though, but he told me before when he come here and how much the previous customer pay him, which i find reasonable, so thatll be my benchmark hehe.

Hi! There are 2 new Gogo Bars in Patpong 1 (night market street), half way between Surawong and Silom road, on the right side if you look towards Silom road. Both on the twink side of the range. Superboys: Upstairs, 4 guys, 3 guests Sweet Banana: 6 guys, 3 guests. Stage not suitable for any type of show. Both need to try harder to survive, I think. Also new?: Chillout Boys, host bar?

it was my mistake.. and I didn't do it only once, but twice yesterday … I had another outcall massage by a boy from Sanctuary spa last night, so I ended up not being able to go to any club last night.. the boy I invited from Sanctuary spa was a small twink, completely different looks from the pictures they sent me through Line.. it was a frustrating experience, but his massage skills were acceptable.. Fee 4000 baht. So, after so much damage was done yesterday, I took it easy today.. I decided to meet with someone I already knew since my first trip.. I brought a small gift for him as a belated b'day present.. he came over to my hotel, we had dinner together, and the rest you know... I completely agree with everyone's saying that s*x is better with someone you already knew.. he's my third boy on this trip, and is the BEST encounter so far. I sent him off to a BTS station.. Then I headed out to our good old moonlight since I had to give a small present to that mamasan who helped me on my very first trip.. he's my very first mamasan… I got there around 10 pm, and the club was half full (a Friday night)… towards the end of the show, the club became fully packed. Mr Smart seems to have put on some extra calories compared to what I remember him last year. .. I didn't see Nicky tonight.. having my sexual thirst completely quenched for tonight, I didn't have any intention to bring anyone back to my hotel tonight, but I was able to make an appointment with our famous mysterious Babe.. I will keep you all posted. wish me luck!

And someone may just open a nice beer bar that allows leisurely drinks and people watching...there are some vacant lots I believe. Twilight will live again.

Just cover your face when you walk...or better yet, my plan is 2 wear a face mask, lol...

Amazing that a nursing home doesn’t have a special diet for diabetics...

I am just coming back from a trip to Brazil. it has been fun, thanks to the boys I met and to the sites I visited, but also thanks to the members of this forum whom I met during my trip. Very often the difficulty is to know who is where without looking at all the posts. Sometimes members of forum are in a city but do not mention it and write a report when they are back. Impossible to meet them then. It would be very convenient to have, for the major cities, a kind of schedule pinned at the beginning of the post where people could simply indicate when they plan to be in the city mentionned. In February 2019, I tried to start up a post like this, called "BT travelers to BRAZIL : where - when" . Some members started to fill it but it was rapidly buried in the list of messages. To be useful and used, it has to be pinned and classified by major cities visited. I would suggest for cities : For LATIN AMERICAN : Rio de Janeiro - Sao Paulo, Bogota and Mexico City For EUROPE : Barcelona, Prague For ASIA : I do not have sufficient experience to propose cities FOR NORTH AMERICA : Fort Lauderdale, Montreal. Any comments ?

Go ahead and impeach. That worked well with Clinton. The Demos made the most during the elections after the Repubs impeached him. And, what is the point, other than dividing the country more? The Senate will never convict. Best regards, RA1

I just received a rather unpleasant email from one of my far-right "friends" praising the accomplishments of the Trump Administration and surmising that quite possibly he would go down in history as the most accomplished President in the history of our country. I simply sent him this. He has yet to respond.

That the migration of bars from Twilight to Patpong 2 has now encouraged others to open new venues n Patpong 1 should be viewed as good news. Some feared that the Patpong strips were too steeped in the tradition of lady bars and wouldn't be welcoming to boy bars. Thanks to risk-taking owners and the pursuit of potential profits, those considerations appear to be put to rest. Let's hope that the owners of these new ventures have the cash on hand to ride out the low season. Attracting clientele and building a reputation takes time. Sure, some will fall short but that would be the case regardless of what the business entailed. The glass seems to be more than half-full at this point, less than a month after just about all of the lights on Twilight have been extinguished for the final time.

This is my PCP. https://www.wakemed.org/brian-t-klausner-md-primary-care-internal-medicine Georgetown, then U of Chicago Hospitals. When I first called and asked for him, the nurse operator said, ‘Are you sure? He’s only in 2 days a week, because he’s on so many best-practice boards and committees.’ YES!

Lucky, I’m sorry I didn’t get to meet you. I too had a fun time. I took a young friend for the weekend. I was pleased that everyone was so nice to him, as was he! It was fun to see many of the providers “au naturel”.

It’s really disappointing to discover how incompetent so many are.

good luck and hope you both have fun

In caring for my 90-yo mama, she and I almost always have to do our own online research to find today’s best practice documented in the journals, and bring it to the docs to get right Rx + competent expert referrals.

I remember reading years ago that one of the frequent features of those who survived for a long time with AIDS in the early years was that they'd fired doctors. The point of it was that they took control of their own care and didn't just do whatever they were told. I've taken that lesson to remind me that my healthcare providers are my paid consultants, but at the end of the day, the decisions were mine to make. Not my business, but it sounds like you need to fire your nursing home and find somewhere that is more committed to keeping you healthy. We're rooting for you.

I am relieved that you chose the hotel option your first time. As you know by reading here, it is common practice to have your guest deposit his cedula (RD ID card) at reception and to accompany him to retrieve it as he leaves. This is important particularly if the guest was not vetted and brokered by third-party procurer. I take an apartment in Brazil but I was glad to have the safety net of a hotel in SD as a newcomer. The downside is that some escort guests are anxious if they think their reputation will be sullied. It will be inferred by hotel staff that trade is happening ... the staff are quite savvy about adding two and two with a gringo hosting a decades-younger local, and porters hanging around the lobby are in the same age and socioeconomic range and may know the guest ... the city is large but has a more smalltown vibe compared to, say, Rio. Similarly, most procurers are known locally and some potential escorts are even sensitive about being associated with these known sex brokers. Brokers are often juggling matching hunks, twinks, and chicas with male sex tourists. All the desk staff, hotel restaurant servers, and porters, possibly even the cleaning ladies, were on to me. I am a very private person, so it took some adjustment. Mind you, nobody copped any attitude whatsoever and I had a lot of similar-agenda company. In fact a large group of Americans seemed to know one another and be on a routine pilgrimage lining up dates with ladies of the night. My preferred type is different than some. Physique buffs with great looks and minimally average endowment. Goal-assist procurement was not the most effective for me because isolated photos and endorsements mean little, and I am spoiled in that I can get to spa brothels or strip clubs to assess first-hand any prospects according to my quirky needs. Furthermore, procurers have to delicately balance escort recruitment with maintaining a decent reputation for themselves among their peers and associates. They cannot simply put out feelers to all hot guys in the vicinity, inquiring if they are willing to 'get down' for decent quick profit. My sense is that they have a defined enough reputation that trade prospects may gravitate to the employment application level, but that they must avoid being too forward in flaunting their role and financial gain. I also doubt that brokers hold up clients as salt of the earth. Realistically, in a conservative machismo setting, we are fags with needs that can yield financial gain at the expense of provider integrity. Interestingly, gay expats I briefly met there seemed to be well integrated and getting what they want, but did not know some of the broker contacts reported here. Some implied that there were too many middlemen 'on the hustle' to keep up with who is who. They are viewed with mild disdain, or broker users are subtly pitied for naïvely falling for the hustle dynamic. Cine Lido and Apolo are poor contenders for me. My week in SD was partly to determine the prospect of future extended winter time. I have spent up to 90 days at a time in Brazil and can replicate my northern life routine without needing the high levels of stimulation and entertaining distraction that is usually desired when younger and with limited vacay time. Frankly, I am ambivalent but still curious about a month in SD next winter. I was not blown over whatsoever by the trade I could get thus far. You have to be careful and it is labour-intensive to scavenge for top-tier guys without drawing too much unwanted attention. I need more prep time and mileage there to determine whether some reliable repeat-worthy gems can be excavated, how direct to be in my agenda, and whether upticking procurer reward levels will make a difference. Gym time was cheap and accessible. The main grocery store on El Condé is certainly decent enough to support meal prep in self-catering accommodations It is reassuring that you seem to be getting somewhere with social media in advance. I am gathering data. Grindr there did light up to some degree, but I lacked the time to follow through. The historic area is very enjoyable to soak up. One Grindr lad asked what "generous" meant, though my profile was as clear as you can be without outright declaring being a john seeking muscular trade. I replied that I was very giving in terms of providing compliments.

sometimes imagination seems more enticing than reality... lol

I was in Dalat earlier this month. A charming destination for a few days - somewhat cooler than the soaring heat in Nha Trang and HCMC, what a relief! There are plenty of fine very good value hotels there. The several Tulip chain hotels seem like a good deal. The Iris hotel is more expensive but also a more posh (the entrance/lobby - the rooms are quite basic though). I used Agoda exclusively to book hotels there. In general the price level is lower in than HCMC, Hanoi etc. I had a perfect hair cut for 60,000 Dong! As for boys, the apps (Grindr, Blued and Hornet) were quite busy. Plenty of interest from what appeared to be next-door VN boys but I can imagine that if you are a mature "daddy" with a body everything else than fit there may be less takers in Dalat compared to what you are used to in Thailand (this applies in Vietnam in general) Some guys have limited English skills though and may be too shy to connect with a foreigner. Some massage/MB guys online - very reasonable rates offered once you interact with the boys. Maybe it goes without saying but often their initial quotes are very much negotiable. In HCMC expect to pay around 1,000,000 Dong for hot gym fit/muscle guys - in Dalat around half to 2/3 of that (admittedly, I didn't take any offers in Dalat). If you are offered rates very much lower than this there is a high risk that the boy will turn out to be much less fit or attractive than seen from his profile pic and the hot pics he sent to you when chatting online, so watch out! Nha Trang: Nice city with great beaches and night life (I didn't find any gay bars though) but everything geared towards Russian and Chinese tourists - they are everywhere and most signs etc are in Russian! I was approached several times in Russian language (by other tourists or street vendors) because apparently the assumption is that all foreigners (western) speak Russian. I doubt I will return to Nha Trang and fail to see that Thai tourists will find Nha Trang attractive as a tourist destination even with direct flights - it's marketed towards completely different tourist types (Chinese and Russian). I didn't look for any M2M massage venues so can't comment on that.

Just great!

'It's already begun': Feedback loops will make climate change even worse, scientists say https://www.yahoo.com/news/its-already-begun-feedback-loops-will-make-climate-change-even-worse-scientists-say-090000011.html

Beyond hilarious that the very self-aware chosen intro music for this clip is the ‘Entrance into Egypt of the Queen of Sheba.’ (Handel IIRC)

After Carnaval a few years back-- about 20+ male tourists from different parts of the world with the majority being Americanos and an equal number of escorts/garotos, boarded a boat in "The Green Isle," two hours south of Rio and had one hell of a day. Many of the escorts danced and played; a few got buck naked and paraded their charms. A photographer on board took photographs of the guys who had the biggest cocks, and I managed to meet up with one of the biggest, if not the biggest, back in my hotel room prior to my going to a Gay Ball later that evening. ...a time that I shall always remember and would like to repeat!

I think a lot of people for obvious reasons overestimate the skill and underestimate the luck and circumstance involved in their wealth. I'm with former president Carter. Why can we afford to fight wars all over the planet endlessly, but we can't afford to actually offer healthcare to our own citizens?

When I entered Oliver's house, the crowd was so big that it was hard to get around. So many naked guys, I thought I had entered the baths! Everyone seemed to be enjoying themselves.

"The young use respect as a mechanism to keep their elders at a remove, so we don’t remind them of an unpleasant truth: Nothing lasts." Varys, Game of Thrones. Season 8, Episode 1

Beauty fades....big deal. And for the record....many of them still look damn good! Take care of yourself and do the best you can with what you’ve got. You'll be fine....trust me.

Ever heard of ‘Read between the lines’?

I once lusted after him. My very closeted self snuck out to see that movie where he wore very little. He didn't age so well, and was not apparently a very nice guy. Thrice married, he allegedly hit the wife. He had a lot of problems with drugs. But damn, his young self was so sexy. RIP

Oh yes, did I have the serious hots for him when I was younger (and he was still smoking hot.) Drugs and alcohol can make beasts of saints.

Yes, of course I know, and there should be extra service...but I think its skyrocketing high based on my experience where I only paid half but the masseur looks premium, its like you off a superstar/ model in a go go bar...that's only 4 me, no offense meant...thanks Asn, looking 4ward 2 Babe's report.