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Well after 6 years I’m back in Rio and what a 2 weeks it’s been so far. club 117 remains the best the hottest and the horniest spot on the planet I’ve been there 6 nights a week for 2 weeks and wow just wow. I love that 99% of the guys are as straight as you can be when you have gay sex for a living ! There is muscle there is twink there is Black as the dark of night and blonde as a swede and of course your typical Latino and they are all so lovely. They kiss they suck and some even deep throat, they fuck like their life depends on it and most make you feel ( at the time) they love you. I have found a great guy who will happily get fucked for his pay check and he’s a fit number and he runs off to find other guys that suit my taste and are also up to get fucked and we all take turns at the front back and middle ! Beef sandwiches are my thing. Sundays are relatively quiet, Monday’s closed and Tuesdays wall to wall as there is no charge for cabins so there are more customers which brings MORE BOYS. I’ve been eating my way through 3 a night and one night 4...... they will come and sit and chat for ages and after aren’t in a rush and to run off and are happy to snuggle up for a bit on a sofa. As always agree what they will and won’t do as I had one who said he was versatile and then changed his mind when I told the other guy to fuck him so the other boy got him gone, it was part of the deal so there was no problem. If your main reason to visit Rio is for sex you will find it and every kind of guy in 117 and in abundance ! Don’t be shy ask for what you want and they will let you know if it’s possible, they don’t mind it’s their job. I stay 4 minutes walk away in a reasonable hotel called the Diamaond and you can have visitors for R50 for the night but always be careful who you invite but they do have to register at reception so there is some safety net not that I’ve had a problem. Grindr is also hot but had a let down when a not so hot guy arrived with not such a big cock, must have been using his brothers pictures lol. I have another month in Brazil and I’m exhausted already. happy hunting guys

Sex hotel...If I meet guys from the sauna, I feel confident enough to bring them back to the apt. street, beach, club, grindr, etc....sex hotel

With the advent of sophisticated travelers like Tomcal and floridarob, the NY Times jumps on the Merida bandwagon with a lengthy feature piece in today's Travel section: https://www.nytimes.com/2019/02/25/travel/shaped-by-meridas-artistic-soul.html The article is the front page, featured piece for today's section, and is chock full of pictures and valuable information. Did floridarob and Tomcal know that they were pioneers in the new Merida? Or is it because of them that Merida has a new Merida?

And yet, you blathered all of that while you are traveling somewhere with lovely sights and beautiful, available local men. Empty life, much?

Overruled. Counsel is ambiguous, confusing, misleading, vague, and unintelligible — per usual. No further latitude will be given towards your antics in this courtroom.

Objection ... leading the witless.

Moonwalker, the recurring theme you query is 'safe'. It is a self-preservational and commonly asked question. When folks ask about my BRZ travels and safety, notwithstanding they are usually unaware that I pay for muscle studs to skull- and ass-fuck me into next Tuesday, my usual repsonse is that adventures there are unSAFE, where SAFE is acronym for 'satisfactory answer for everyone'. Safe is retrospective ... it was or wasn't. Prospective safety does not exist. Mitigating harm is possible. Folks here like sanddunes and some others are spot on in terms of the central question. He gave some examples for harm-reduction, though you may have already considered them. Same for specificity. Only generality is prospective. Retrospectively, you got royally fucked or royally fucked. If you got royally fucked, no thanks to anyone here. If you got royally fucked, no thanks to anyone here. (Not a typo) Getting us to helicopter here will not have helped you much if it is the good royal, it is flimsy, and I doubt this forum would be credited for any of your good fortune. If it is the bad royal, you messed up or shit happened, but you had asked the unanswerable though the question is instinctive. Ego/status preservation among any of the contributors here will not value-add to the core question or predetermine your sexual fun fate. I do think that in the sexual and fishing-for-same domain some respondents may emphasize checking ego, bravado and previous life averts at the door because libido and naïveté may override common sense. Such admonishments should be taken as community care and I have sometimes wished I were as self-critical of my own risk of safety lapses. How they are packaged is less important than you extracting what is relatable for you and GF. Words to the wise have been delivered. When you ask a safety question within a collective, it is your job to sift, sort, and toss or integrate. You may get your hackles up for me saying this, but I think that you, in this case in this thread, started it going south when you nipped a hand that fed you. Better to think (or say), for answers to questions made that you do not fully like or embrace: I had thought of that, or, if I had thought of that, I'd have thought of that. Not that I am an exemplar in terms of this very advice. Condoms, PrEP, and STD surveillance are recommended. Some of these precautions will be more normative and acceptable within the GdeP pool than at large, where you may get more pushback and ire from recklessly cavalier hot studs with big dicks and atrophied brains. For every 50 local clients a GdeP gets down with, there is a .5% chance a tuberculosis exposure occurred. Public Health there is concerned about the degree of TB denialism that exists. You may see related ed posters in some of the brothel venues. Now then, to more important questions ... will I be safe leaving my house today?

Anything beyond refund of the off fee will most likely just get you a stare (aka I don't know what you are talking about) and if understood then "I'm sorry, Sir but we can't do that. Sorry". The concept of compensation for wasted time and inconvenience/annoyance does not exist in Thailand (or in fact most countries beyond the US).

Hi all! So I went to Bangkok back in 2016 and I was always meaning to write up a trip report but just never got around to doing it. So I thought I would do it now whilst I have some spare time, plus am returning to Thailand in the next couple of months. Better late than never I guess. A bit of background, (was) 32 years old, Filipino/Australian heritage. Shy, small in stature, and look a bit younger than I am (thank you good Asian genes), and it was my first time to Thailand. It doesn't contain heaps of sex stuff, so apologies, but here goes: Day 0 Flew from my home city to Singapore, where I had an overnight stopover. Invited a 'massage' friend to spend the night with me. I met this guy when I was last in Singapore a couple of months before my Thailand trip, and we got along quite well. Last trip I booked him for an hour and he stayed for like 3 hours and even bought me McDonalds afterwards. Anyway it was good to see him again. Day 1 Since I was staying at one of the airport hotels, I caught the skytrain to the terminal that I needed to be at, my friend saw me off, and I eventually boarded the plane. Landed at Suvarnabhumi Airport and was expecting huge queues and chaos in immigration, but it turned out that there was hardly anyone there. I was out within a few minutes. Good time of the day to land I guess. Waiting for my luggage took ages, but once I got my luggage I went and changed some AUD into THB and went to get a tourist sim from DTAC. Found the taxi stand, showed him where I was staying on my phone but I don't think he quite understood but we got there in the end. The driver's English was limited but he did attempt to make some conversation including "many lady company" and "bang bang". Oh if only he knew. Arrived at my hotel (Hotel Muse on Soi Langsuan) checked in (there wasn't a check-in counter, but there were all separate desks to check in which I thought was a nice touch). Whilst checking in they brought over a sample of 4 different (alcoholic) drinks). My room wasn't ready yet since I arrived before check-in time so I went and sat in the bar and had some Singha. Shortly after, one of the hotel attendants took me to my room (it was huge!) and carried my suitcase (never had that happen to me before!) and I slept for a while as I was exhausted. Upon waking, I went for a walk to find dinner, couldn't decide on anything so returned back to my hotel and got room service. Day 2 A few weeks before my trip I had organised a travel companion for two of the days I was in Bangkok. Just found his website randomly on google. We had a big day planned, so he met me in the Lobby in the morning and the first stop was to a tailors (State Tailors) because I wanted to buy a suit or 2 whilst I was there. I had a look through some magazines to see what styles I liked, and chose some fabrics, and the tailor told me a price for the 2 suits (includes 2 pants, 2 jackets and 2 shirts) which was a little too much more than I could afford. I told him that I could only afford 1 suit. So he crunched some numbers and got me a price of 14500 baht for the 2 suits. I then had a think, and thought that if I had 2 suits made for me in Australia, the price would be in the thousands. So I accepted, since it would be a worthwhile investment. I got measured, paid my deposit then off we went. We walked to Sathorn Pier and took the boat to Wat Po and the Grand Palace (beautiful but so busy). Afterwards, took a tuk tuk (hated it) to Phanfa bridge and took another boat to Jim Thompson's house. I went on the tour and it was really quite an interesting story. Afterwards, I took the skytrain back to my hotel for a rest. My guide then met me again later and we went into Soi Twilight (my first time!), had dinner at Maxi's first, then went into x-boys (I think), and just sat and had a drink. There was this guy, number 19, who kept smiling at me but I didn't call him down. We then went to dreamboys to see the show, and wow. Having never experienced something like this in my life, it was amazing. Didn't off anyone that night as I was too tired. Day 3 I had today on my own, so my first stop was to a clinic where I had a consultation about a cosmetic procedure I want done, then I went back to the tailors to try on the (unfinished) suit, and made some adjustments, then found my way to Arena. My heart was beating quite fast because I was nervous! Anyway, I went in and the guy at the counter didn't say much. He didn't really explain anything, just sat with me while I chose. It took me a little while, but there was this one guy who was smiling at me and was cute. His name was Art (I think) and he was my age. Went upstairs, had a shower together and he started massaging me. After a little while he said "I fuck you?" and I was like "okay, but be gentle" so he put a condom and lube on and started to put it in, but I don't have anal all that often so it kinda hurt a bit so we didn't do it for very long. We just sucked and jerked each other off for a while. It was satisfying, but nothing earth shattering. The shower decided to not work afterwards, so I had to go without. I tipped him 1500 because he was a genuinly nice guy, wasn't cold, and kept saying that I was lovely. Whether he says that to all of his customers, I don't care, it made me feel good! After that I went back to the hotel (was proud of myself for navigating the BTS all day), and went to Siam Paragon later on to browse. My favourite was the floor with all of the luxury cars - how do they even get them there?? Day 4 Today started good but ended bad. Another big day was planned, so I met with my guide and drove to the Rom Hoop Market and watched the train go past which was kinda cool, then afterwards went to the Damnoen Saduak Floating Market, which again was pretty cool. Bought a fake LV bag on the way out for 1000 baht, no idea why. It was too expensive, and I never even used it! We then drove back into the city and had lunch at a restaurant in Silom (I forget the name now). Had pad Thai and some sort of mango shake. After that I went back to my hotel for a rest, and the plan was later on we would visit Babylon, have dinner at Asiatique, and then visit Soi Twilight again. What happened was (too much information ahead, I apologise) I had a nap, and upon waking my stomach was feeling a little off so I messaged my guide and postponed to meet by an hour, in the meantime I was stuck on the toilet pissing out of my ass, my guide ended up coming to the hotel and I met him in the lobby where he gave me some medicine, went back to my room, proceeded to vomit, which smelt like my pad Thai lunch, and at one point I was feeling really faint and ended up passing out. I woke up a little while later laying down next to the toilet with a bruise on my head (must had hit my head on the toilet on the way down). It was kinda scary. I don't know what caused the food poisoning, but I figure it may have been from my lunch (pad Thai, might have been from the prawns, or the mango shake may have been made with ice that was from tap water). I was kinda annoyed but the worst was over and I slept on and off that night. Day 5 I didn't want to go out today as I still felt a bit ill, but I needed to pick up my suit, so I had one of the hotel staff hail a taxi for me, I went to the tailors, tried my suits on (they were absolutely perfect, worth all the money I paid for them), paid the balance, the guy even chucked in a free tie. Afterwards, I hailed a taxi all my myself (was proud of myself) and spend the rest of the day in my hotel room feeling sorry for myself as this was not what I wanted to do on my holiday! Day 6 Still wasn't feeling 100% better, but decided to venture out for a while today. I ended up going to the Chatuchak market which was huge, and bought a few nice shirts. I was feeling still a bit weak so I just went back to the hotel. Day 7 My last day. I was feeling slightly better today so I went out to Siam Paragon and was craving some western food. Normally if I am in a foreign country I don't eat the western food, because I can just get it back home, but today I had a burger and fries and it was amazing. After browsing for a bit, I ventured out to Baantewa, getting a little lost in the process. I chose a small, but strong guy named Dan, and the massage started pretty normally and then got heated, he was a really good kisser, and then he said those magic words, "I fuck you now?" and I was a little apprehensive because I was still not feeling quite right, but I relented and was glad I did because it was actually really good lol. He called me sexy and kept saying "I like you" and again, I don't care if he says that to all of his customers, it made me feel good. Tipped him 2000 baht and was on my way. Later that night, I had dinner at the hotel's rooftop bar and it was nice just looking out at the view. Day 8 Back to Australia today. I'm a bit of a stress-head when going to airports so I feel the need to get there quite early. I figured traffic would be a nightmare, but then ended up getting to the airport 4 hours early. A little too early. But anyway, the rest of the trip was uneventful, made my connection in Singapore on the way back to my home city. Afterthoughts: Would I say that this trip was a success? Yes and no. The whole food poisoning thing was a bit of a downer and took time away from my plans, and I didn't off any guys really. Had a couple of massages which were nice, but there wasn't much action on Grindr either. I dunno? Maybe I didn't put myself out there enough, I'm quite a shy person normally. But I'm glad I went. I got to experience things that don't normally happen in my home city. And the Thai people are really nice people. I had random people speaking to me in Thai on a few occasions - do I look Thai? haha. Anyway I'll be going back to Thailand in a couple of months, this time staying in Pattaya (also going to Cambodia, Phuket and Phillipines) so I'm going to do it right this time! Thanks for reading

Hot Male is a go go...up a flight of stairs, boys on stage or seated to the audience left of stage. Two or three mamasans usually present. I’ve found them helpful. Usually two shows a night. The later show usually had some hard core stuff...that show brings in anumber of women. Hot Male has the same ownership as Moonlight. I’ve had several offs from HM...most provided a good time.

yes and actually the customer's misfortune, too, as his evening was thoroughly ruined. However, I'm not sure what kind of compensation the customer was seeking from the bar and why. Refund of the off fee? Or damages for (hopefully and presumably minor, if any) injuries? Why and on what basis? I don't think doing so would cross my mind....

How To Do It.

Haha! Reminds me of the old Tonight Show with Jack Paar, where they had a translation chain through 5 people and languages. The end result was always hilarious!

2 weeks to go and i'm in town...……………… way hay!

A agree about good word about Nakarat. Used them few times , always engaged the same guy (Art) and without any doubt my 1.5 hr session with him was best 90 minutes of my short 8 days trip to LOS last October

very precise description !

I didn't see this thread start out as advice. I saw it as someone doing something different than I had seen and I asked questions and clarification. Having read on my own, I did not know there were alternatives to the daily dose. Now, I know that is an option. I appreciate the OP broaching this subject and sharing his insight. Everyone should read their own research and do their own due diligence. Talking to friends outside of the USA and even to my doctor in Bangkok who is a specialist, he did give credence to those that take it in short cycles as opposed to daily. In the end, everyone has to decide how best to lower their own risk vs the risk of harm done. I have made a decision for myself as I have worried for a while about the long term side effects to daily doses of any medication and effects on my body. Feel free to keep debating but I appreciate the OP information about something I have never known was an option.

I don't that is the case at all. Like anything in the world it depends on the person. It appears you have been around this individual so your thoughts may be right. Unfortunately DivineMadman is right also in that Debit card may be the only way to go. Easily gotten at any bank and accepted around the world. Just has to be money in the account. I wonder if you asked him if he already has such a card. If not then you can explain to him the value of such a card especially for protecting his cash from theft . Seems to me it starts with asking him if he has such a card and if he thinks it would be valuable to have . Then go from there.

What about the Kennedy tax cut back in the early 1960's? ----- Back in the 70's a group of conservative theorists came to the realization that restraining the Beast was a loser's game and came up with the strategy starving of starving it as a politically attractive alternative. Fuck the deficit, just cut taxes and the more irresponsibly revenue is cut, the better. Think about it... It's a lot more difficult to implement Medicare for all (for instance) if the government is already running a multi-trillion dollar deficit. LOL, force the liberals to be the adults in the room.

I mean it isn’t like you are planning for your girlfriend to bareback with them right? Wear a condom, get on Prep for extra protection. I doubt the guys on Tindr are that much cleaner than the average garoto. A lot of guys on here have been with lots of sauna guys and never gotten anything. Please let us know how you adventure goes..

My unsolicited advice. First day have nice full service massage to get your rocks off, I mean take the edge off, in the late afternoon. Now that that's over with, relax. Later grab a bite soi 4 or Maxi's. On Soi 4, Telephone or Balcony will be a better choice than the German restaurant. My own advice would be mindful not to drink too much. The advantage of Maxi's on Soi Twilight is you could get there and chill and watch better-than-Netflix as the guys show up for work, the bars open up, the massage guys at Bangkok and Bonny are hanging out, a food vendor or two pushes the cart by, you see lots of other vistors old and young, etc. After 9:15 pick a bar that maybe isn't top on your list and tell yourself and anyone who asks that you are not looking for an off, just a visit. The bars may sort of open at 8:00, but not really, and some guys don't even have to show up for work until 9:00. Only newbies or guys picking up regulars go to gogo bars early. Let this first bar by design be your no pressure gateway experience. DO NOT OFF ANYONE NO MATTER HOW CUTE. The purpose of this particular visit is just to lose you newbie status. Have a drink. See the guys on stage trying to get your attention. Practice the eye contact-smile-but-no-promises game. Practice your ignoring-the-mamasan skills by politely shaking your head and saying no to whatever they ask. Finish your drink. Now you get to say "check bin, kap." Pay for your drink and leave at least 20 baht for the deserving waiter. No need to tip anyone else. If you think there is someone you made delicious eye contact with and you want to make an impression, hand him the 50-100. After this you are legit longer a newbie. You are now an experienced veteran. You now know as much as anyone else. You can go into any bar with confidence. You can even start giving people unsolicited advice on what to do. Next bar you can have a guy sit with you but now as a vet you don't feel any pressure to off him just because he has the softest most beautiful skin you have ever seen in your life. Or maybe you will. You're in charge. You're a pro. And after having visited another top-of-your-list bar or two you think the love of your moment is back at bar, you can always go back or on another day. DO NOT BECOME A VICTIM OF FOMO. That's my advice. With one caveat. You could also do exactly the opposite. It's all supposed to be fun.

I envy you! If I could find a beautiful black woman to have Bi sex with. I would marry her and have freaky sex trips all the time. But unfortunately Bi is the same thing as gay in the black community. Enjoy your time I’m sure you won’t have any trouble finding a guy that would be delighted to fuck your young wife with or without you; rather than an old loose booty queen lol! I would go to the sauna so you know exactly what you're getting. I hope you both find that perfect guy or guys!