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I just saw this thread from one and one-half years ago. I recall the person who called himself Trilingual. For those who remember him, you might know that he married a Brazilian he had met in a Rio sauna. While they were married, Trilingual put the Brazilian through college. Upon graduation from college, the Brazilian presented Trilingual with divorce papers. It was back to Kansas for Trilingual

Those who read this forum regularly know that I have a 2nd home in Merida Yucatan, Mexico. I have been asked many times why Merida? what's the gay life like there? Costs to live there? etc? I, like many people had never heard of Merida(it is 90 miles west of Cancun). Florida Rob on this site is a good friend of mine for close to 15 years and he had moved there and opened a restaurant and told me I should visit him. His stories about how all the guys in Merida "are gay or if they aren't they want to be" lol, sounded so over the top that I wanted to go and find out. Merida is the capital of the state of Yucatan and has a population of over !,000,000 It is considered the safest city in Mexico as it is not a route for drugs to the U.S. Unlike Cancun, there has been no killings, robberies assaults of Americans/Canadians. The city has a expat community of approximately 5,000+ Americans and even greater number of Canadians! Canadians seem to have discovered Merida years ago as a 6 month winter get away that was very inexpensive. It is also the number one city for Medical tourism in Mexico. Merida has a International airport(MID) and has direct service from Houston on United, Miami on American and Atlanta on Delta. It is about a 1-1/2 hr flight from either Houston or Miami. Airfare from SoCal to Merida is usually just under $400.r/t The Centro part of Merida has the Historic Homes that are over 100 years to 200 years old. This is the area where most of the foreigners have bought homes as the younger Mexicans would rather move to the new suburbs rather then in the town center where their grandparents lived. Merida is about 20 miles from the beach area which really doesn't have any major hotels...Yet. but a 4 mile long pier was built to accommodate cruise ships. you can still buy individual private homes on the beach for $300,000. The city is dominated by one of the oldest churches in the Americas, built in the 1500's the park in front of the Cathedral is where all the activities take place every night in Merida, with music, dances, food fairs, and a number of hustlers always there. the photo of the guy is one of the strippers at one of the four gay bars, who often swings by in the late afternoon on his way to work to ask if I want to do anything. if I say no not today he goes "ok will check with you tomorrow". He is tall compared to most as he is 6'1", he is from a village about a 100 miles away.

More than that at times.... My problems were all Bacardi induced....and weren't with rent guys, was being in bad areas late at night when I shouldn't have been.

The last comment of his, I recall reading in a now defunct Brazil gay travel forum, after hearing the story of their separation and his nervous breakdown from a friend (Gingado) who was living in Rio at the time, Trilingual was recommending his boyfriend as an English speaking guide and Portuguese language tutor in Florianapolis or thereabouts where he has then moved back to after uni where he landed a job as math teacher, so it seemed to me that the separation was not at all as brutal or as dramatic as had been reported. Trilingual was quite the pioneer promoter for Brazilian gay travel and I relied completely on his recommendations about this matter so on my first trip to Brazil, I even offered to buy him dinner which he accepted with that boyfriend in tow along with Eduardo from Buenos Aires who was staying with them for a few days on a visit to Rio. He was younger than him but not by much and I was not too impressed by his appearance and demeanor, specially with what was available at the saunas at the time and keeping in mind how he gushed over and went on about him in that travel forum. It could be that he possessed attributes that were not apparent to casual observers. Later, I ran into Trilingual again and again in my subsequent visits since I stayed at the same apartment he recommended which was in the same city block as his apartment. He appeared okay.

Carretao is very good. I do not agree with some of the things the European friends warned you about. Bringing a sauna guy at home will always be 100% safer than bringing any other stranger at your place. The sauna guys must provide an ID in order to work inside. The last thing they want is to get blacklisted because of a customer who reports a bad behavior. I am not saying that it will be 100% safe as the sauna of course. But you can meet the crazy one (who steals or beats you down) even in Europe or in the US. Speaking about drinks cost... I found the saunas to have the same (if not lower) prices than the bars outside. Not sure about what to be warned about. Do not hook up guys from grindr unless you are proficient with Portuguese. Be very careful since there have been many reports of violent catfishes.

No the stories are partially true, He did not lose his assets to the BF unless you count taking him to Europe twice and paying for 6 years college all on a govt pension! bttm line Tri is in “love” and is leaving what he has left to the husband who 15 years ago was a “lean” tall guy..now a close to 38 yr old who is more rotund!

It don't matter where I were born. It was (1959) far enough out into the suburbs to quality for Country. My being a singlet child did help a lot in persona development. (If I may be permitted such a Freudian thing. ) I be that boy, down to the least single chromosome. You can doubt that at yer own peril. Let me know which.

How can we recognize you? Are you the one sucking her fingers?

There will never be a replacement for Corujinha's https://www.google.com/search?q=song+-+there+will+never+be+another+you&oq=song+-+there+will+never+be+another+you&aqs=chrome..69i57j0l5.8319j0j8&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8

it reminds me when i was at escape in 2012 and George Baston the porn star was performing moving from table to table fucking anther twink! I asked him if he could meet me the next day and he did...for the next three days!

Merida has 4 gay bars/clubs in town and a sauna about a 1/2 hour from the centro, 2 of them are approximately 5 blocks from my house. Grindr is very popular and so far about 70% of the guys i have met on there have been “free” even thou i have in my profile i am looking for business! most have been between 20 to 24 yrs old, although there is one persistent 18 yr old that i am not interested in but he keeps messaging! my last 10 day stay, 9 out of the 12 guys i met up with were free. also even paid hookups last several hours to all night! If you have beer they are happy to spend the entire nights! Paid encounters run $500.Pesos ($25.US) I have had two guys i have seen multiple times not charge after the first time!! they just want to relax and drink beer and have sex! Most of them have jobs so usually they get up at 6:00am to go to work, that is the only hard part, getting up to let them out! but they are back the next night to do it all over! I have not been to the sauna in Merida but Rob has! They have special party nights, there are no escorts but as i have said in Merida that is not a issue! :-)

Belo Horizonte Really had a great time in Belo Horizonte last weekend. Immediately impressed by the friendliness of the locals during our first time visit to the city. Rented an apartment located in the city centre less than a couple of minutes walk from both Olimpo and 1097 Sauna. Felt safe walking around the immediate area of our apartment, mostly due its central location. Favelas appear to be located outside the city centre so this might have something to do with it as well. An abundance of good restaurants and bars located in short walking distance, all making our time in BH very easy indeed. Olimpo and 1097 are located less than five minutes from each other. The two saunas offer very different yet enjoyable experience. 1097 is rather basic establishment offering good working sauna and steam room, a couple of ground floor lounge areas, friendly bar and upstairs cruising area with several free rooms. These rooms are very basic containing plastic mattress without linnen. Went there early on Sunday evening when the place was chocked full of young brown skinned guys, lots of which were walking around naked with their extended manhood on display. Certainly worth a visit if favela guys are your preference. In complete contrast Olimpo offers luxurious facilities in probably the best appointed sauna we have visited in Brazil. Excellent sauna and steam room, high class suites, lots of cursing areas to explore on both floors of the venue and plenty of places to unwind and relax. Some of locals spend their time playing cards in the lounge area which add to the laid back feel at the sauna, along with most friendly bar staff. A wide variety of good looking guys on offer, certainly of a higher standard than what we saw in Specifico. Was told by a customer that the average price is 70 although one guys did offer his services to us for 50. Visited Olimpo each evening from Thursday to Sunday. As expected Friday and Saturday were the busy nights; not so on Thursday and Sunday, although there were plenty of guys to keep us interested during each visit. Saturday was the busiest evening with a most entertaining drag show, bingo and hot gogo boy show. The performer turned out to be one of the hottest garatos working at the sauna. At Olimpo I had the pleasure of meeting the delightful Junior Rodriges from hotboys.com.br https://www.hotboys.com.br/modelo/243/junior-rodrigues This link doesn't really do Junior justice as he has a most delightful smile and fun personality, along with his massive endowment - close to 10 inches! As I'm active I took Junior, along with a hot passivo guy, to a suite from an extremely hot and lengthy session. Junior's porno experience certainly come into play as he would constantly direct the activity to ensure we're all having an extremely hot and uninhibited time. This experience was so good that I once along took Junior, the hot passivo guy and the aforementioned gogo boys for a fourway session on Sunday evening. Our session lasted around an hour and a half and was undoubtedly one of my most enjoyable sexual experiences in Brazil:) The most pleasing aspect of this was my undoubtable feeling that all three boys were having as much fun as I. Junior would always ask for a tip after the session so more than happy to add an extra 20 to the already agreed 100 per guy.

Thank you, sir. I have a birthday party tomorrow. Besides that, after the first 2 weeks of school, I am ready to do nothing.

a lesson to all.......don't get so CRAZY in love with a boy in another country that you blow everything you have for "imagined" love.......OPEN YOUR EYES..(my favorite expression in Thailand, btw)

Around 2007 or so he moved into the basement of his sisters house in Kansas City where his elderly parents were. I believe he moved into his own apt several years ago and he is still in KC, you can find him on FB!