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JC, he's actually kind of Adorable, under 5 feet, and when he speaks it's soooo cute ! He's like a little puppy dog running around the house.... My "backdoor" has a Welcum Mat A pint-sized penis from WEHO..... (actually his peen probably aint that small)

Honestly, I am still consumed with "Whether Tomcal will Wed", and not able to focus on anything else on this forum..

FINALLY, the index. Thailand has benefits but the stupid drama (and hypocritical culture) and how many Farang's "fall in love" (when they are only a walking ATM) ....Sex can not be beat in Brasil, IMHO. All are great places for one thing or another, but give the gold medal where it is due!

Day 9.5-10: Até mais, tchau tchau I get back to the hotel with a feeling of accomplishment. I guess I could just average one sauna visit per trip and it would be fine. I’m good with that. I’ll be back in the country in 3 months anyway so I have time to try this again. And barely before I get situated in the room I get a WhatsApp message. It was Jonas, asking what I was doing and if he could go to my hotel. I thought about it for 5 minutes. Should I troll for dick online or spend more time with hunky Lagoa boy? I asked him what was going to be his rate. He said the same as was in the sauna. So 200 reals. I asked him if he was going to stay overnight. He said yes and he said he can stay till after lunch. I asked if I could have unlimited sex with him. He said no problem. I was sold. I told him I was available, and gave him the address for the hotel: He said he was going to be there at 9:30 PM. Great. One hour to relax before I get bombarded by the famous Brazilian charm again. I calculated that with all the hours I spent in Brazil this trip, I only spent 10.2% of it all alone. And that included about 7 hours of sleep the first night. But then again, why spend any time alone when you can be in the presence of hotness 24/7. At 9:10 PM Jonas tells me he is on his way. At 9:40 PM he tells me he is at the lobby sitting. At 9:43 PM we were back in my room making out. That what the best part about him. The kissing. And there were so many good parts about him for sure. There was no way in hell I’d go for a 4th round right now having just cum my third load today two hours ago. instead, we eat. We go look for a nice restaurant near the hotel. We find the Braugarten Restaurante just 100 meters from the hotel. We order some steaks and beer. Over dinner, he asks me about how I came to learn Portuguese. I told him about my progress, and my goal to be fluent by December 2019. I told him the only reason I can speak Portuguese now is because (a) I was not relying on Google Translate and being forced to talk and (b) I am talking to native speakers. The minute I set foot in California, I knew the Portuguese immersion will be over and I will forget everything I learned. I told him that I learn more about Portuguese from him and Gabriel, two people who didn’t know a lot of English, and not from people like Marcos who were fluent in English and there was less pressure to speak in straight Portguese. We talk about him and his origins. He was a student, just trying to earn money for school through the sauna. He had just about a month working in Lagoa, having worked in the Rio saunas mostly. He said he was from Recife, and would go every once in a while to visit his family. I told him about my “visit every state in Brazil” project, and Pernambuco is a state I have not been to yet. He offered to go with me and to show me around. I asked him if there were garoto saunas in Recife. He said there were a few. I asked if he could go with me and help me fucking the boys. He said that would be fun. I was beginning to like him. So we make plans about me going on a side trip in my December trip to Recife. I pay the bill and it was 145 reals ($41). We go back to the room and cuddle. After a while it was inevitable of course. In the presence of such perfection one cannot help oneself. I fuck him again, he cums again. He tries fucking me but he was simply too big. I cum for the fourth time today. We sleep soundly. We have breakfast in the morning (Mcdonalds, don’t hate me). We make out a few more moments but don’t have sex. I give him his 200. I get him an Uber back to his apartment (20 reals). I pack. I take an Uber to GRU. Another successful trip. Jonas keeps in touch as promised. Not as much as Gabriel but it was still nice. He asks me when will I be in BRazil next. I tell him I plan on doing a Belo Horizonte and Rio trip in September. He tells me he wants to go to Rio to see me. I ask how much. He said he does not need payment, just a trip: Two days later I understand why he was offering a freebie. He wants to send me $1000 to buy some clothes in the USA in the Outlets here. This was an interesting turn of events. I say yes of course. Let’s see if he really does send me the money in August before my trip. That’s all folks. Bonus Topic: The Monger Index Since Jonas was able to do both short sauna sex and a longer overnight stay with sex with me, I thought I’d put this into my “Monger Index.” It’s a metric me and a buddy of mine came up with while super drunk at the Crowne Plaza Bangkok at 3 AM in the morning years ago. He asked me why I get all these prostitutes overseas. With the airfare and hotel rooms, that cost adds up. Wouldn’t it be just cheaper to hire prostitutes back home? I told him he was crazy because (a) the prostitutes are expensive back home and (b) sex is more fun when on vacation anyway. But I disputed his thesis that it is cheaper to hire prostitutes back home. So I came up with an index that measures how much cheaper it is to get hot guys overseas than in the USA, accounting got airfare and lodging costs. Some assumptions: (1) Time Range: The index would not work in measuring one-offs. Of course ONE prostitute would be cheaper in the USA than ONE prostitute in Brazil. A $250 an hour prostitute you hire for one hour to take home to your USA house is cheaper than a $35 sauna boy you get in your cabina at the sauna if you add the $1000 roundtrip airfare one needs to get to the sauna, plus the hotel cost. It will only work if you hire by bulk, and have a longer time range. My assumption for this index example is one week, or 7 days. For example, if you get one guy every day in a week in the USA, that adds up to 7*$250 = $1750. Now we are talking bigger dollars. Have sex in bulk when overseas helps you recoup your cost. (2) Airfare: The index should include the airfare. For my purposes here, I use airfare coming from California, because that's where I live. So for example, a typical off-season RT air ticket to Sao Paulo is $1000. For Bangkok, it’s $550. This is a fixed cost in the index. (3) Hotel: Of course you have to assume you are getting a hotel in the city you are mongering in. I assume my hotels will be typical AirBNB’s, with basic amenities in a decent and nearby neighborhood. Translation: not a dump but not fancy, and Uberable to the sauna and tourist-friendly services. For Sao Paulo I assume of the cost, the AirBNB me and the BF got in Bela Vista last December. It was a decent $50 a night. For 7 nights that adds up to $350. (4) Overnights: I put in the calculation the cost it takes for hiring a guy overnight. For California, a typical overnight with a hot but not “superstar porn star” hot is $1000. For Sao Paulo, Jonas’ example was 200 reals, but I count his initial 200 reals in the sauna as part of the overnight, so 200+200 = 400 reals, or $104. So here are the gross calcs. For 7 days, if I hired a boy for one hour and another boy for overnight every day: California Prostitute: Price for one hour times 7 + Price for an overnight times 7 = $250*7 + $1000*7 = $8750 Sao Paulo Garoto (Jonas): Airfare + 7 nights in AirBNB + Price for a garoto in the sauna times 7 + Price for a garoto overnight times 7 = $1000 + $350 + $52*7 + $104*7 = $2442 The index is calculated as the ratio of the 7-day cost of USA boys, divided by the Sao Paulo boys. 7-day Monger Index for Sao Paulo = $8750/$2442 = 3.58 Issues: (1) I do not count the Uber cost to get to the sauna, or the entrance fee for the sauna, or the cabina price (2) I do not account for food costs. Of course you have to eat whether in the USA or Brazil. This may be a future improvement to be added. (3) The airfare is just from California, maybe it’s more or less where you are. Maybe my assumption of $1000 is too much or too little. This is just what I see anecdotally. So, with that, here are my Monger Indices for some 6 cities I’ve been to, ranked by the best to worst: 1. Pattaya, Thailand: 5.54 2. Bangkok, Thailand: 4.70 3. Mexico City, Mexico: 4.53 4. Bogota, Colombia: 3.77 5. Sao Paulo, Brazil: 3.58 6. Rio de Janeiro, Brazil: 3.44 These are solely based on my experience. Your Monger Index may be different. Some observations: (1) Thailand remains the most bang for your buck, because of the presence of cheap decent places to stay in and low cost to fly there from California. (2) Mexico is helped by the fact that it’s so close to California, therefore the airfare is cheap. (3) Brazil on the other hand, is dinged by how expensive the airfares are from California. (4) If I factor in food, Thailand may even get a higher index, and Brazil may get a lower index. (5) Grindr prices were only used in Bogota and Mexico, because I do not have experiences getting anyone there outside of Grindr. So your mileage may vary. (6) Quality of boys is impossible to measure. And it is subjective, so it can’t be put in the index. The index is solely a quantitative metric. For example, twinks may be better in Thailand. Adonises may be better in Brazil. Again, quality is subjective, and can’t be measured meaningfully. Of course, in the end, your mileage may vary, and these indices are only meaningful to me. If you don’t like having sex with Asians, your Monger Index for Thailand is -1000000, for example. -The End-

You will "see what happens" - for sure - Where is the "cross section of American society" in Trump's cabinet shown in the below photo? Even though numerous white men shown in the below photo have departed Trump's cabinet, they were his choices for his cabinet. Trump merely replaces them with more whites when a cabinet vacancy occurs. Each and every former cabinet member has a scandal attached to him except for Tillerson. The others have all left for lack of ethics, dishonesty and worse. Only one black man is on Trump's cabinet - Carson - Considering the above facts, you should be ashamed of yourself for going along with Trump's mantra of making America white again -

Erm, in a decade, their male heirs ...

IMO, those emoji likes are the ruination of social interaction. If I like something, i will SAY so, and not take the easy way out, avoiding a personal connection. Dont tell me your fucking life is so busy that you dont have 3 seconds to SAY you like something ?

5 ft Pocket Gay JC is a contestant on the new Season of Big Brother 20. A go-go boy at Leboy, this pint size Ricky Ricardo seems like the only interesting guest on the new Season...

I can't recommend her book "Just Kids" strongly enough. Excellent.

Even if it were, a 5" cock on a 4' 11" frame would look huge, and its often just about a good visual that turns you on .....and makes you go "Ohhhhhhhhh"

The icon with the little cup has a clear text attached that says "thank you". That has always been what it means to me.

And, here I was hoping this was going to be about Morey Amsterdam. Best regards, RA1

I knew that, but I'm the bitch that always has to have the last word.....

Yes and No,.... some of us make an investment when we join these sites, of time and content, and in some weird, twisted way it becomes sort of a family dynamic eventhough you dont KNOW these people. But you THINK you do. So any event that occurs affects you in some way as well... I dont understand Lars banning in this case, but I am not the site owner, judge or jury. It's a risk you take as an outspoken site member. And there's no way not to take an action against you "personally". In the end we really know nothing about the people we interact with here, their lives or their mindsets, and oddly enough what happens here possibly could have significance to THEM, something we really should be mindful of.... Being passionate about something doesnt change because of the venue you operate in.... If it did, then it wouldnt be a passion ! And some people just wear their hearts on their sleeves...

Greatest genius. I am bereft.

In the end, my point is really unimportant...no? Lars has been banned for a week. I am going for a self imposed exile to the gallery, and with luck, I'll be able to wean myself off of that also...

Steve Schmidt‏Verified account @SteveSchmidtSES Steve Schmidt Retweeted Ed Krassenstein Jim Jordan is a clown, albeit a dangerous one . He is an heir to McCarthy, Demagogic, dangerous and faithless to his oath and America. He is unfit to serve in the Congress AND THIS... Steve Schmidt‏Verified account @SteveSchmidtSES Rod Rosenstein doesn’t look like an action hero, but that is what he is. Guts, integrity and courage. Americans don’t get to see that from our high ranking public officials these days but today they did and America is strengthened because of it

Well, I didn't see the hijack. So, I was asking for clarification. If I can't see it and I ask for clarification and it is not given, then it stays as it is. There are no different rules for certain people. However, when someone requests for intervention and clarification is asked but not given, there is not more I can do. good night.

I was going to respond to you. But, jeeze, you have ZERO patience. I just woke up 2 hours ago. Can I have a cup of coffee? Or, did you want to deny that?

This one is tricky... If you feel inclined to do so make sure you have built a safe network around you... knowing where you are going to stay, knowing if he shares his home with somebody else and letting other people know you are staying with Gabriel there. Unfortunately São Gonçalo is one of the most dangerous parts of the metropolitan area. I would not advice any tourist going there if not with someone he really trust.

In fairness, if Bucky feels attacked here, those are his feelings to process, and we cant/shouldnt discount them. However, as a black man, if HE is finding comfort or salvation in Trump, that's a way bigger issue. We have all been guilty of derailing a thread, something recently addressed by our host Oz... Apologies to Lars for leading his thread astray, however I feel this new behavior will take time to adjust to ? Sometimes a little "hi-jack" is necessary to diffuse a potentially heated environment.... When your pot starts to over-boil, dont you lower the heat ?

Yes, it happens for me. I have talked to the admins and they are working on it.

I think you've been "mislead" Bucky. ? Trumps goal is to have WHITE America.... Where does that leave YOU ? back serving the "massa" ? I think you need to open your MIND ? you are a black man and will NEVER have that WHITE privilege, regardless of what Trump promises you.

He is the one that lives in Spain and who i still communicate with. He is German as are most of the guys pictured. and comes from a German Village about 50 miles from Porto Alegre. At the time that photo was taken he was 23

Let's get real here... Even with all the pushback for Trump and his regime, we arent making any headway, and things seem to be getting WORSE, if that's even possible ? Resistance is making the Trump camp stronger.... So disheartening to realize that the heart of America is in the sewer along with all the sewer rats and people that feed them. I'm about to wheel my wheelchair off a cliff, but I dont want to give Bucky any satisfaction....

Not that's a post that deserves a trophy and that's a post that deserved a "quote" here, just so that we could see it again!!!!

Donald got where he is because of Putin...Let's NOT forget that.... So perhaps his 7/16 summit with his good buddy will be another plea for help with the "drainage" ? Or maybe Trump just needs another golden shower from the Russian hookers Putin supplies for him ??? It's hard to resist...

Bucky, the only sludge in the swamp now is Trump & Co.....

Wow, you even give Trump credit for a justice retiring ? Trump really needs to send you a muffin basket !

This is how I use it also. or as in the case where photos are posted in the gallery. Many are deserving of a trophy...so a shout out to... @Suckrates @Suckrates

DERANGED is an interesting use of word here.....

DOLLAR RIGHT NOW: U$S 1 = $AR 28.05 Time goes and I am slowly getting back to normal. I am definitely horny again, and soon you will have some hot experiences to enjoy. You can skip to the bottom of this post if you are only interested on the local men. In the meanwhile, I am enjoying my family and friends. Last Sunday we had a delicious traditional "asado": What you see is the reduced version that families usually grill at home "parrillas". If you go to a restaurant you have much more choices, but those require a mastery that most regular people lack of. This is what my brother can do, and he does it pretty well. A kg of ribs is about $170 in the butchery. The sausages between $80 and 170 depending on quality, the blood sausages are $130, and they are premium. I am always talking about price per kilogram. Weather is really wonderful. We are in the core of the local winter and the lowest temperatures, at sunrise, are never below 6C (I am in the metric system guys, sorry). During the day we even reach somedays the 25/27C. I took a walk on Tuesday by the local coast line avenue, the Avenida Costanera. If you do not see anyone is because the match between Nigeria and the national team was taking place during the World Cup, as you know this is soccer head land: Corrientes is a beautiful city, if you love fishing and rivers, you will fall in love with her. The Parana river is my favorite one out of all the water streams of the world I know. Just 40' driving from Corrientes city there is a small village called Paso de la Patria that has just a few thousand of local residents. But it is the place where the middle class from Corrientes city and from Resistencia (the capital of the state on the other side of the river) build their week end homes, and on Sat and Sundays turns into an overpopulated city. It is also a paradise to fish the "Dorado", a very prestigious species amongst fishing fans, and there is an anual fishing contest that drags them in the thousands from all over the world. I mentioned before that the city is extremely conservative and Catholic. The culture is so religious that they even have an specific touristic circuit: Prices are amazing and lower than in Buenos Aires. You can get the famous "bife de chorizo" in a restaurant for $300 (it is a huge steak). In the US a similar dish would be around 30 dollars. But let's go to what you really are interested in, sex. Please consider that this is a first exploration of the local sex market, my previous experiences were before the Internet and not about professional providers. Everything I share here is just a first impression and nothing definite. Tonight I am meeting the guy I shared a picture of in my previous post. He is 27, a member of the local state police, and married. Making an appointment with him (remember I got the contact from the local forum) has been a challenge. He has two jobs, is in the DL, and his marriage does not give him a lot of time. My communications with him paint a guy who is not a professional sex worker, but a very horny bisexual who needs extra money and charges to guys when he can. He is clearly not gay for pay, he loves dick. He will be picking me up and taking me to a "telo", which is the slang for "albergue transitorio", the local motels regulated to host for one or a few "turnos", each turno is about 1.5/2 hours depending on the "telo", and the price is between $AR 200 and 300 depending on the room. You will have a full report here and in my blog afterwards. It will be my first time renting a room in this kind of establishment, as I always was fortunate enough to have a place to fuck in the past. Besides this contact I brought from before arriving here, I reinstalled Grindr in my phone, which I had deleted in the DC. I also tried Planet Romeo and Manhunt and I am getting some contacts in those, but most of the activity seems to be in Grindr. There is plenty of sex for free. If you like guys older than 35, it will be easy to hook up for you. I do not, I am looking for younger than 30, and I have to face two expected obstacles: most of them are not into guys my age, and almost none of them has a place. After filtering the first obstacle, I still have plenty of candidates. Corrientes and Resistencia are cities that host several colleges, including a prestigious public one, and young guys are in abundance. Young guys into older guys are more common here than in my experience in the States. Yesterday I hooked up with a 22 yo boy who is in the School of Veterinary a few blocks away from my place. He does not have a place, and we ended hanging up in the Parque Mitre (I did not take pics because it was night and dark), a big park between my apartment and the waterfront. We made up and he sucked my dick. I only have pictures with his face, so I will not share them, but he is a very cute boy, slim and short (5'5). I love "petisos". He lives with his brother a few blocks away from me, and told me he will connect the next time he knows his room mate will be out for a while, so we can have a full fuck. I rejected about 6 boys who were not my type (all of them between 18/25), but they all were very insistent. Guys here are very horny, and very afraid of going public. Discretion is the word of the trade. I am probably going to meet this boy: 25 y.o., acrobat, teaches in the local school of performing arts. Beautiful face and amazing vibe, and smokes pot. I have not smoked in about 10 days and I am missing it. I will also probably meet this guy this week end: 26 years old, works as a trainer in a gym in Resistencia, the city about 40' away on the other side of the Parana. You can see the bridge to cross in the above pictures. He does not have a place, so I have to fix that problem. Those are all sex for free, and there is more, the field is really promising. I am considering to rent a room in a regular hotel. There is a 2 or 3 stars one in downtown called Hotel San Martin. A double room is about $AR 1,450. I think it would be a good investment to pay for 2 or 3 days to meet these guys and to have the photo sessions with the police agent and with a guy I am about to introduce to you. I have not made yet a decision, but it looks like the most convenient option. So it seems that fucking for free is easier than finding a good professional. I am very hopeful though about this one: I contacted him through Grindr. I asked him wether he was into daddies, he responded he was when $ was involved. We started a very friendly and promising conversation. He is also in Resistencia, and we are talking about meeting tomorrow. The fee is $AR 800. I actually offered him $1,000. I am also offering $2,000 for a second sex session that involves photos and filming for my blog. They feel like I am super generous. I apologize I do not show more, but these are not guys who publish their services in an escorts website, and I have to respect their privacy. Keep tuned!

the guys on here that know me, know that i am a pretty happy guy always up and happy with life in general. I take things as they come and accept that we only have limited control over our lives, saying that, i am the happiest i have ever been and this and one other guy :-) have everything to do with it! I am going to be in Rio 8/9 - 8/20 and then back to Merida with the Paulista 9/27! then i may have to make some decisions...but it will be great whichever way it turns out! I used to say who ever came up with the saying “the golden years” was full of shit! maybe not so much!

My favorite photo of my house in Merida!

Your comment made me laugh out loud! i am up for it if Andy Cohen wants to do it! In all seriousnessly i feel very lucky having found this guy after all these years of HOing in Brazil! But i will probably blow it so to speak, as i am not the best at LTR since my first one of 6 years duration! But this guy could make me commit for the first time in a long time! Brazilians are like a addictive drug to me and i don’t want a intervention!

@sanddunes is correct about sponsorship. FWIW about 12 years ago I did sponsor one of the guys in the Mr Brazil contest. He finished in the top 3. As you might expect, he was very handsome with a beautiful physique; he defined as gay but was not open outside of his family. As I recall, my cash support of him cost me US$2000 but that total included several visits in Brazil. Where my sponsorship proved a wise investment - apart from his company in and out of bed - was that he gave my contact details to several of his friends who were visiting Europe. All were great looking and in their early 20s. Most of his friends defined as straight (not that I asked) but all of them proved excellent companions and made me very happy when they stayed with me.

Yet another. Alas time. Science fiction writer Harlan Ellison dies aged 84 https://www.theguardian.com/books/2018/jun/28/harlan-ellison-death-science-fiction-star-trek

I'll help you with that sis..... NO MORE PICS posted.... considering the lacklustre audience for them, its kind of a waste of time, even for an old lady in a wheelchair.

Got this from a Brazilian friends FB post today: If you think your life goes wrong, imagine these siamese Twin(conjoined) brothers, in which one has declared gay and the other straight... but the ass is just one...