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for what it's worth, Management of the saunas could care less what the garotos charge or what you pay them! By law they can not take any % of the fees charged,, "prostitution is legal what is illegal is making money off prostitution unless you are the prostitute" I know the owners of all three saunas in Rio for over 15 years and you would be surprised at how much money they make off admission, drinks, room rental, etc. they do not and would not jeopardize their income by messing or advising the boys on income from clients. this I know to be a fact!

You are undoubtedly RIGHT as always.... It's a matter of time, since I find it really hard to "bite my tongue" when I am there..... And YOU, never second fiddle for me.... Always TOP shelf. You run your site with class and respect. (even when you SCOLD me) It's a "priviledge" to participate here. I just wish more people would.

I have been to Cuba for a couple of times and most recently I stayed for 3 weeks in January 2018. Here is the brief report: Weather is very nice in January. it is neither cold nor very hot, much better than the hot and humid weather in July. La habana: malecon (avenida 23 & calle hospital), cafe Toki (calle 25 & Infanta), parque central are the top spots to cruise. Parque central in the day time, just sitting and watching young men passing by; Malecon & Cafe Toki at night (and after midnight), typically 30+ people gathering in groups, with locals and tourists. typical price 25-30 CUCs (dollars); there are plenty of short time casa particulars nearby, 10 CUCs for one hour. It is also easy to find a private apartment with private entrance via Airbnb. Santiago de Cuba: unlike La habana, there are no visible cruising spots. I managed to find a men through Romeo, but the profiles on Romeo were very limited. I saw a couple of gays/trans in the plaza de dolores after midnight but I didn't talk to them. there is a love motel (casa particular) on street calvario No 551, just next to Plaza de dolores, where my Romeo friend and I had half an hour good time. I paid the friend 30 CUCs and the room 10 CUCs. Santiago is a very poor city. One day when I was strolling down the malecon at sunset, I saw two very handsome young men with great bodies. Both are 19 years old and are about 1.85 meters. It turned out that they were from the local lucha sport team and they had to train every day for local competitions. I invited them for beers and we became friends. In the next 2 weeks, I gradually learned about their lives, visited their homes, talked to their families, helped with their (money) problems, and got to know more of their friends. we went to beaches and discos. In the end, I managed to jack off and suck six young straight cocks from the same street neighborhood, all are 19-21 years old. The boys were willing to play as long as it was kept secret. One needs to get inside the communities to enjoy Santiago. But it requires patience, language skills and most important, luck. Holguin: very peaceful city. I found a 19 year boy via Romeo. there were a couple of trans in the corner of parque centro after midnight. I only spent 3 days in Holguin but I guess, just like Santiago, there were always opportunities. Trinidad: I spent 2 days but I didn't find any. I think Antigua of Guatemala is a more beautiful colonial town. Cienfuego: I stayed one night in Cienfuego and met a 20 years old men in Malecon ( we mad eye contacts when he passed by me). We had a good time in a nearby motel casa particular. Cuba is a very safe country. Almost every night I walked alone in the central area and never felt unsafe, often after midnight. I also found weeds were popular in Santiago, but possession could lead to 10 years prison in cuba, though there were far less policemen in Santiago than La habana. In conclusion, I have had great time in Cuba. But offline cruising can be very consuming so I am looking forward to the time when Cuba is opening up and getting richer and when wifi is widely available to local people. I probably will not visit Cuba for the next couple of years.

Usually takes about 30 years for Gays to bury the hatchet (and THEN, its still in each others backs)

Do you really believe everything garotos tell you?

To be honest and blunt, I ONLY return to Daddy's site because of the traffic and PARTICIPATION. When you post, there is usually response, and more than 1 or 2 people Start conversations, unlike here. When I am HERE, it feels as if I speak to myself, there is usually NO feedback, or comeback..... CRICKETS.... It feels barren, and desolate, and any effort I would put in feels WASTED.... There are many things I dont like about Daddy's site, but participation and interest is NOT one of them. I tried VERY hard here to promote and encourage interest and action. Hell, I even posted endless galleries of naked boys of an age group and type I am not particularly into, hoping to inspire guys to say or do likewise.... Again it was CRICKETS, except for Axiom and a very small handful of faithful followers, who I appreciate and thank. But I gave up... and YES, I do show up here more when Daddy bans me there, but only because I enjoy sharing and posting, and if I cant do it THERE, doing it here is better than not doing it at all.

Your fluency in Spanish will be helpful but not "adequate" as your friends told you. Spanish and Portuguese share approximately 40% similarity. Saying it another way, 60% of the time, when you try to communicate with a Portuguese speaker (using Spanish), you will not be understood in entirety if you rely only on spoken communication. However, with the aid of a translator, your Spanish knowledge will help you navigate better than if you did not know Spanish. In an earlier post you said that you will be traveling to Sao Paulo. Most readers in this forum who go to Brazil for the first time visit Rio de Janeiro. I personally like Sao Paulo better than any other Brazilian city. There is much to do there, culture wise. Of course, the saunas are fun but that is not all there is to see in Sao Paulo. If you are interested in "tourist things" then let me know. Sao Paulo is unique. If you meet the "right" garoto, you and the garoto can have a great time visiting various landmarks of the city. Most garotos do not know much about the city and most do not have the money to see the sights. You would do yourself and the garoto a favor if you could make such an arrangement. Here is but one suggestion of one place of interest: https://www.viator.com/Sao-Paulo-attractions/Altino-Arantes-Building-Banespa-Tower/d5112-a8415

As someone who was lucky enough to hang with Oz and Hooboy in Montreal, NYC, etc back in the day (never made it to Thailand with them), I can vouch for genuine fondness that Oz had for Hoo, and for his desire to do what he thought Hoo would want (i.e. the plan above). Some nostalgic memories of those times for sure. We were younger and the west was wilder....

I am starting to think about my next trip to Argentina, in July. Therefore I started checking the market and found out good news. The local equivalent to Boytoy and Daddy's Reviews is called EscortsXP. I never liked it because the level of the discussion was below low, and the comments about providers were not reliable, as the place was plagued with fakers self advertising. Well, thinks seem to have changed. The software is improved, the whole website is revamped (it includes also straight prostitution, the male escorts is just a section), there is a moderator that keeps everything quiet on point. Finding information about a candidate to hire is very easy. If you can read and write in Spanish, you must use this resource before hiring. The best combination is first check the guys in soytuyo or revistaratones, then go to EscortsXP to make a search or place a 411 if you do not find anything. I am planning to use it in June and July, so I will have a more knowledgeable opinion, but the first impression is good.

RIO I used 117 mostly and tried a few on grindr. The entrance for 117 is 57, condoms are 8, suites are 40 unless it is Tuesday. I like guys here in general because they have good attitudes Except a few. My only problem was Pablo, short muscular latin looking guy. I also was busy with the guy I met last year in Rio, so we met quite a few times at my hotel. He was really sweet but also horny all the time. Never had an erection problem, kisses like a BF. So I just couldn't stop hiring him I met with a few guys at 117 but I am not a so-interesting reviewer here because I tend to go back to the same guy. On my first visit, I met with Pablo, who after not being able to get hard, asked me to pay him at least 100. I asked without sex, why would I pay at all, but I am being nice and pay 50. Come on, we are paying the suite fee etc and more importantly the time I could have spent with a hot and dependable guy. Pablo does not understand it and had quite a bit of attitude. Then I met with a karata guy with glasses. He spoke a bit of English so we could communicate. Also he had a really nice attitude but was not so good in bed. His name is Igor. He has an average size, thick dick. And Can kiss but was not so good in bed. On my second visit, I saw the famous Fernando and we had a few eye contacts but he didn't wanna do any first move. Also, I remember he said he doesn't kiss last year, so I wasn't that eager either. But then there was a guy called Douglas. A better version of Fernando in my opinion. More muscled, a bit taller than him but still shorted than most guys there. He made the move, so I chatted with him on google translate. I asked if he is ok with 100, he said, 150 but I said no, he said 120. I said, 100 for sure and I am happy to tip 20. Agreed and went up. He has an awesome body and good SERVICE attitude (he seems to take his job seriously and customer oriented). His kiss was ok but still he kissed and did everything I asked. Not to the level of a BF experience. He made it hard immediately and performed well. Yet, I wouldn't say it was an awesome sex. I paid promised 120. Next one was a hit! His name is Wesley visiting from Fortaleza. Tall and muscled body, mixed race, beautiful ass and skin. We got an eye-contact and he immediately said hi and started kissing me. I didn't like kiss much because he was just sucking my tongue, so I was not eager. Yet I wanted to try his body, so I asked if he is ok with 100 (from my awful experience with Pablo, I decided to ask every time) He said something higher but I just left but he grabbed me and said 100 is ok. We had to wait a bit for the suit but this guy is smart! He went up to another client and made a deal. We were walking around so he left a few times but one last one we went up and I think he joined a group. Anyway, he tried to play it cool but I am not stupid lol Eventually, we went up and oh my, it was such a good sex. He is so skilled yet his body, dick, skin and attitude. I liked him very much. But when we are at the locker, he got his payment from the client who went up before us. So I decided not to tip. He is highly recommended. I forgot who the third one was that day but I left after three. I came back again in a few days because my regular boy went home for christmas. Unfortunately, during this visit, I hired Douglas again, but I firmly said 100 and he just immediately agreed. Again, sex was not great but I still like his attitude and body. That body itself is worth 100 haha Then again Wesley. This time he was leaving for a party but he extended his stay just for me. We went up and it was better than the last time. Again he is really smart and said "This is my gift for you" Yep, the sex was that good and he knows it. So I gave him extra 50 and this is my gift for you. I guess this is what he wanted. On grindr, there are a lot guys you can hire. Most are for 200 if you visit them, some are for 150. It doesn't seem like the price is reflective of the quality, at least on the pictures. I almost hired on guy in this picture but was too tired that day and went home. I could have explored more but I didn't have much time to play with a fire. Grindr is just too risky in terms of finding a good quality guy. I think sauna creates an environment where boys have to act nicely and think about the repeat business. Finally, I was also busy with tinder. I got a crazy amount of matches from really hot guys. I met with two, one had a tiny dick and another was a really good sex. Hot and typical brazilian guy with a really nice attitude and body/face to match and we had an awesome sex. He wanted to meet again and I wanted to but with the escorts and NYE celebrations, I just couldn't find time to meet again. Too bad but still have his contacts. SAO PAOLO I went to Sao Paolo to check out the scene. I also have some friends there so wanted to go out with them. Went to Lagos on Wednesday, hoping that it would be a busy day of the week but NO. The qaulity of guys are much lower than 117. First one was Akilis or something. Reall nice body, good attitude. No negotiation with price, immediately accepted 100. Had a great attitude but the kissing is dog is licking my lips. Can't call it kissing. Sex was bad, actually worse than Douglas, so I wouldn't hire him again. Next one is a guy with long hair, he sometimes wraps his hair on top and some tattoos. He has some teeth braces, so eady to identify, I forgot his name. He was not that hot but I guess when the rest is not so hot, he was better than the most. We chatted a bit and decided to go up but when I asked if 100 was he said 150. This really pissed me off because he doesn't have many customers and yet had some guts to say he wanted 150 for his look. Anyway, I said no and left. Some boys are so stupid but I guess that makes sense. I went to another one, similar looking a bit taller and better face. He had much nicer attidude and said immediately 100 was good. Maybe because they were chatting after I left the guy with braces. His name is rodrigo. While he said he likes kissing, he was avoiding kissing, that moment I kinda knew it was not gonna go well. But if the attitude is good, we could make it worth so I followed what he wanted me to do: lick his nipples and suck him dick. And he got hard but when I got the condoms and it was already slowing down. And once it is inside it was just soft. Then he pulled back and tried to make it hard by askin me to lick his nipples etc and gets kinda hard and gets softer again as soon as he puts it in. He just pulls back and tries to get and put the condom and slows, Then he removes the condom and makes it hard and then it gets soft he removes the condom. It was kinda annoying because I had ten condoms and he just wasted 8 of them just like that. So I stopped him and I put the last condom on mine and tried to top him. But he was not willing. He lets me try but he actively avoids it so I couldn't get it in. Then he says mine was too big. NO! He was just trying not to make it happen. I was really pissed but still he didn't have any negative attitude. SO I asked him to kiss me and he finally kissed with some passion and I jerked myself off. It was bad. Paid my 100 and he just left the sauna, probably realized he couldn't do it on that day. But I have watched him and he didn't have any customers before me....Anyway, I still struggling to find the best way to deal with escorts who cannot deliver. Any advice would be great. After a few disappointments at Lagos, I tried internet. Actually quite a good selection of guys. The price ranges from 80 to 250. I was surprised to see 80 and he seemed legit but just not my type. I found a guy who is 20 or so and had an amazing ass. In person he was less attractive but was willing and had a good attitude. He was a bad top but I topped him. Nice tight one, so I was happy. Paid 150 plus hourly hotel of 30. Not a bad deal yet it could have been better. I tried to hire another one but the timing was not good with my friends etc. So that was it.

There are two that fit that description, one tall and one short. the short one is Joey, who I first met in 2005! here are some pics I took of him when I met him and then some after he went on the steroid binge from the internet! His X photos are on line so not a problem posting them here.

I was the one who wrote about the wall at Bar Fama, at least 2 years ago, I believe was the first post written on this forum about such place (make a search) and the word "elevated" was never written. Is possible that at that night, which happened to be my first, the guys decided to be next to each other and accidentally formed a wall, probably not mandatory and not a regular feature. Coincidentally most of my description matches Tomcal's last week, the attractive boys, the street boys, the sleaziness, by the way, beeing sleaze is part of the appeal of the place, have anyone ever heard about the mythical Anvil in NYC in the eighties? Is great no know such thing is still possible albeit so far away. All this, the Lagoa boys (attitude and all) plus the mesmerising video Tomcal posted last night about Bubu Lounge contrast with the pathetic, non-existent gay night-life in Rio. Maybe some people will realize that spending thousands of dollars going to Brazil in a sex romp and limiting themselves to Rio, they are getting a beautiful scenery but are staying far from the purpose of their visit.

Well, there's the reason that HE'S more lenient on YOU.... He doesnt want to give up your funding. The answer was there ALL the time ! I dont like HIM, but wouldnt call him a monster....It's just BUSINESS !

Club Bubu R. dos Pinheiros, 791, São Paulo - SP 05422-011

Yes, since 2016 I donate the equivalent to 15 bucks per month. I am in the category mentioned earlier by @TotallyOz, I do not buy into the "I need your help guys" mantra, but I do want to support his website. I think its service is priceless. If you are implying he is more tolerant with me because I am paying, perhaps you are right. If such little money is enough to cancel his legendary (according to his detractors) authoritarianism and intolerance, well he is a monster very easy to tame. Perhaps he is not a monster?

That is most likely true. Hoo had ultimate Admin access. When he died, Daddy was the host provider and had access to all the code (MS Frontpage at the time). When he tried to steal the site from the estate, I took control of the domain name and informed the estate of its value. Daddy requested that I not tell anyone and that WE would run the site. I did not want that. I wanted Hoo's BF to get the site. My plan did not work. But, the estate was shocked when I offered them near 6 figures for the name and the site as Daddy was at the funeral and told them nothing of the site or its value. Old story, but all true. It was at the time that Daddy started hating me as without me interfering, the site would have been his for free. As the site got run into the ground, my price point went down every few months and finally it was of no value to me. I always regretted not just turning the site over to Hoo's BF as opposed to telling the estate I would buy from them to give to turn over to him.

Eventually most Daddy centered discussions end up in the Sandbox. I'm sure this one will too. Let me be clear. I have nothing against Daddy as a person. I find people that are banned from his site to return again, a bit nutty. I find people who buy into his BS about donations, etc. to be a bit nutty. But, I'm a lot nutty at times. I don't go to the site. I don't browse his site. I don't care about his site. I will go there at times when directed fro here to see another meltdown. I find those amusing. But, people that donate to him knowing full well it is BS but want the site to continue, I find respectable. The others I find extremely native. Daddy as a person and Daddy as a site owner are different people. I recognize the difference. I did find amusing that he posted on his donation page once that he and Hooboy were friends. They were not. They never were. The history can't be changed even if like Donald Trump you keep repeating it.

kjun, why do you bring this up here? Why not ask at the relevant site? Oz has made it clear that he doesn't want this site used to make complaints about that site. We thrive on our own. You and I have been posting a long time, and we have seen people go back and forth on any number of issues. But since "Daddy" has no participation at the Boytoy site, why use it to start a thread of bitches about him? I, for one, have other things to do.!

The locals I know are unaware of the R$70,00 charges. They usually pay 100 or even more depending on the boy. As the carnival approaches and the season gets to high gear, prices go up to everybody unless the customer happens to land some left-overs.