I completely understand the lurker stuff. I get dozens of pm's from 0 or 1 post guys who never post but in pm are very interested in the subject of a thread. Usually it's a "how to" question or "do you know" concerning Prague, Columbia, Thermas Sauna or Facebook. Tourists on or preparing a trip.
What I don't get is why there's zero attention to what seem to be the current "hot" ways to meet escorts; Chaterbate, Facebook, OnlyFans/Instagram, Massuerfinder, etc. There are many thousands of gay guys cruising these sites and I keep looking for the models/escorts on them and so do many others and very many escorts and porn stars are also on these sites. .Very many do "private shows"" online and many also do them in person, ie escort. I wish I could find out the sites of escorts I may be interested in to see what they really look like, personality, etc. It's hard to do without a database of people who know that stuff. (In the Prague forum we do it very well.)
For example, it's common knowledge that many of the best-looking guys on Chaterbate are in Columbia. It would be nice for visitors to Columbia to have a thread someplace that lists the guys and what city they are in. Also any personal experiences and how to contact them best. But there's nothing like this I can find anywhere.
Maybe BT won't be the site that catches this need. I hope someone does.