You cant BRING people here... they have to wanna come, and from the numbers they do COME, but dont participate. So that might be something the site just has to accept. Many people, including myself have started various topics, but they dont hit a nerve or inspire participation. I am not exactly sure what it IS about competing sites that bring the boys to the yard, but on those sites their seem to be OC members that basically run the show. Participation seems brisk, but does also ebb and flow at times.... I say let OZ keep doing what he does, and let the chips fall where they may....Other than him promising to send EACH participating member a hot boy to their home, I dont know what else he can do. As we have seen from our current political situation, people are migrating toward a dictatorial rule, so maybe THAT'S the secret of the "other" site ?