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I hate the use of the N word in any thread. I hate drama and bickering. I hate people who don't know how to not read a thread they know will only cause issues. One thread removed. One thread moved to Sandbox. For those that can't stand JDD, stay out of this threads. Period. The use of the N word in any context makes my skin crawl even if used by a black man. I grew up with racists in Alabama and I left there 30 years ago for a reason. JDD, one more mention of drama at the "other site" and your gone. I hate the other site and I hate it even more when people bring that shit to this site. LAST warning. And, the Sandbox is closed for 2 weeks. Hidden from view for all. Oz at his wits end! If anyone doesn't like any of the above, tuff shit.

The one rule I have had in my life that has been consistent is that when I have a BF that gets hooked on drugs, I'm done. Earlier in life, I tried to help, spent money, spent time, spent energy. But, in the end, nothing changes until they are ready for the change and the allure to the highly addictive substance is often more important than anything else in their life. With friends, I stay away from them when I find they are into drugs. It is not my scene and I do not wish to get involved in helping someone UNLESS they ask for the help. If they do not ask, they are not ready to change and your time and effort will be wasted. You can easily encourage, participate in the friendship and "pretend" the issue is not there. But, that is not helping either. The only time they will change is when they are ready to change.

Oz, when I'm stressed, a muffin basket always helps.... Please, have one on me..... ( the cream cheese is in the mail)

Actually I think what I meant was: I felt guiltiest about abandoning, and disappointing, my best friends with my escape into substance. But then what you say is absolutely what saved me: They kept giving me the unearned grace of just their loving presence, until that love finally melted through my problems, and gave me the first few feet of lifeline back into the real world.

I like the idea of vetting, but minimal vetting is sufficient. Forum posts will identify problem reviews and then those posts could be linked to the review to keep everyone informed. I agree that the form could be simpler. I encourage escorts who I plan to review to post a profile here to save me time in posting a review. But all in all, thanks for the great service you provide. Not much change needed.

I didn't find this necessarily to be true. One would leave his business card on my door every week for years. The other would call every couple of weeks and leave a message. Always the same. "Thinking about you, call me when you feel like it". When it was time to come home, I knew there would be a light on. The subject of my absence was never discussed. They simply stepped out of my way. What they didn't do was to try and save me, that never would have worked of course. It is my opinion, right or wrong, that the only person who is qualified to do that is another addict that has been there and back. "Tough Love" is bullshit... And that's all I've got to say on the subject.

You move among a much higher breed of people than I typically do!

It sounds pretty much like the average Joe to me.

Oz, my opinion is that you have put up with enough from him.

walk away. run away! only he can save himself. DO NOT throw yourself into his mess.

I did not know Tom Lehrer. Loving him.

...and of course!

The private room(s) (#1?) are 10E per hour. The better guys insist you get it because it's so much nicer and more private. AC that works, double bed. 9x12 ft. The free cubicles can be like fucking in a Sears changing room. Guys are nicer to you in the nicer rooms.

JDD, in over 10 years of this site and I think it is closer to 15, I have never once had someone more difficult to deal with. Never. You attack people but when they attack you, you get upset. Threads you start seem to start off OK but most deteriorate. Why? I don't know. Is it all you? No. Is it partly you? Yes Does it always center around you. Yes. Thus, that makes it difficult.

By splitting my time, I mean which cities and places are most recommended for a three week stay? How long in BKK, Pattaya, etc.?

February is the middle of the high season. Lots going on, great weather . Lots of us regulars usually there. High point of year for working boys. Give us an idea of what your looking for. Not sure what you mean by splitting your time.

The reviews at the other site have become useless in almost all the cases. "He was cute, made me happy and the rest I'll keep to myself" What good is something like this?

im working on coming over in December for a couple of weeks. This time I’ll come get you and drag you out

I agree. Nonetheless, you can get laid by a pretty hot guy there if you try.