In my recent visit, I let a garato talk me into a massage. He first pulled my sore left leg back as far as he could. I screamed in pain. So he did the same thing to the other leg. Again, I screamed in pain. He didn't seem to get it. He started tomahawk chopping on my legs --really hard. So I pulled myself up, told him we were done, and paid him in full*. There was clearly going to be no massage, and I didn't hire him for sex because I wasn't that attracted. For me, the assigned masseurs at the saunas are not particularly attractive, thus that assignment. I don't want a sexual massage with someone I am not attracted to.
*Even so, he was still pissed that I didn't like his "massage."