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I have gotten quite a few messages asking if i am going to stop going to Brazil now that i have a place in Mexico? The short answer is no! I still intend to go to Brazil, just maybe a little less frequently, maybe 3 times a year! IMHO Brazil stilll has the largest quanity of hot guys available in a fun enviornament! But Mexico has plenty of talent it just always isn't as easy as walking in a sauna but still easy to find a lot of guys! Grindr is a good place to start and once you meet a couple guys they will tell you what places to go to as far as bars/clubs etc. I don't close on my house for another 2 weeks yet I have already met 5 Mexican guys in their mid 30's to mid 50's who have introduced me to their friends and have attended several parties with them and I am feeling very comfortable in the local scene there.

"costs of the requisite muscle car and bull terrier" ? Bobbalino, did predictive text interfere and alter what you wanted to say?

I guess my experience is similar to Oz and Tom's. Here in Brazil especially if you visit frequently or live here part-time or year round, stay in good physical shape, speak the language, and are outgoing, it's not all that difficult to hook up on a non-commercial basis, have a longer-term thing going, or simply make new male friends. Speaking for myself the local gyms have been a focal point for all three categories over the years. Which is certainly not to say that I haven't also indulged in commercial pursuits here - this is after all an escort site. As Tom points out, once you break into a local social circle, as he clearly has in Merida, it gets much easier to meet guys.

Again...what are they getting out of it? If they aren't getting money...surely they are getting something... Even in typical May/December relationships there is a reciprocation... College tuition...a father figure...some type of security...maybe a fetish...hell it could just be the idea of being in the company of an older gentleman...I myself liked "older" men in my youth for various reasons but I have a motive... Everybody has a motive...just as you have your reasons for liking young guys I asked the question to be funny but of course there is some truth in the question and all responses....

We will have to agree to disagree as there was no assistance or gifting. I guess I am just more handsome and sexy that your typical overweight grey bearded older guy. I think it is my eyes. Or, they may have a Santa Claus complex. I agree we all have opinions. I just think mine are always right.

I am not sure what part of the scenario you don't get. I am not sure why you don't get that some guys like older men. Let me try to clarify for you a little bit and I hope this helps. Before I ran an agency in NYC, I loved twinks. I met many at bars, clubs and sex parties. I had sex with many of them for free with no requested payment, etc. They were white, brown, yellow, black. They were all young. Three of these guys were so amazing they ended up working for me when I ran the agency. They all made shit loads of money. Some would call me up and say they were horny and ask for a client. I once asked why and was told the clients were the types they picked up in bars anyway and they preferred to get paid when they could. I am sorry, but if you can't understand why some guys like different types I can't help you. I have a type myself. And, old and fat men are not in that type. But, many don't like my type. That is why Heinz makes 57 varieties.

I have had well over 10 guys from 18-30 in the last 4 months. None for pay. But, a few 18 and 19 year olds I like are moneyboys. Variety is the spice of life!