So there are hot guys everywhere.How does it help you? Being lucky to have seen Tomcal operate in a Brazilian sauna, I can say that those hot guys might not give you the time of day, yet they will give Tomcal their whole watch. He is not, for one, shy. He doesn't hang against the wall, hoping Mr. Hot will nod at him. He doesn't let the good one get away.
How does he do this? It's a combination of charisma, some horniness, no doubt, but mostly he conveys not only an interest in a guy, but the clear promise of a good time. That helps a lot! A guy thinks he might not only have fun, but when he sees multiple guys sitting at a table with Tomcal when he is by himself, he might want in on whatever Tomcal has to offer. It's not going to be boredom. And once that table of guys starts to build, well, you might want to sit there yourself! He can't have all of those guys...can he?
But having watched Tomcal in action, I am no Tomcal. I can't do what he does. Sure, I may be way better looking...:)