actually..... just as tom said.
i have invited several guys to the appartment that i have rented.
but i have always went with them for dinner or day in the beach, so that you actually start to know the person and you can estimate that is safe.
if things go wrong in isolated place, you can not do much.....
if you don't want to mingle with local boys "before the deed" i would strongly recomment sauna. it is controlled place.