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Those sorts of scenarios used to bother me alot. I dreaded having to call my maintenance people because it meant having to jump thru hoops to PREPARE my apt for the visit, hiding ALL the things I thought would make them "judge" me. But then I realized those feelings of fear and dread were akin to being in the closet, and Grandma is proud to have exploded out of the closet years ago. All this acoutriment makes us who we are and WHY should we be embarrassed or hide from people we hardly know or mean nothing to us. Of course with family, its another story if you have not come out to them and desire to remain as such... I certainly am no longer MORTIFIED over such things..... Its not my problem, its really theirs if it bothers them.

My brother recently visited and did some chores for me in anticipation of my return home from hospital. One of the things I asked him to do was to stash any porn i had left lying around the house,wellllllll he missed one- Micheal Lucas's PISS PIGS The cleaners left it on my desk in full view. MORTIFIED!

I agree with AS completely. Better to be home and have such problems. I had a house fire many years ago and the cleaners found a picture of a naked boy. Imagine that! They left it in my fireplace. It was also mortifying at first but I got over it in about 1 NYsecond (upon thought). Best regards, RA1

Mama was right, you are a bad influence.

Grandma cant afford no fucking "Bone phone". I just write my number on THESE and let the boy keep em... If he calls, you know he's into you.

Does a slowly running clock mark one as a conservative?

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The gay bar scene is disappearing all over the world. It has been a slow death. But, I think as acceptance of gays has become more common and the ease gays have for meeting other gays (online), the gay bar scene is less relevant. When I first moved to NYC, there was a bar for blacks, a bar for bears, a bar for leather, a bar for twinks, etc. Naturally, I looked very odd in the black bar and the twink bars. LOL But, I did meet some great guys. Oh, and lets not forget the hooker bars. I loved them but they faded out years back as many escorts took to the Internet.