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π = 3.141592653 Twice today, morning and evening, the date and time will be: 3/14/15 9:26:53 Hope this special day finds you all rolling merrily along!

Interesting observation. However, (as per usual) makes me think of various things including old joke: Pie are round, cornbread are square. Also, military or aviation "time" never has those exact times. Plus, other countries even write the date differently, i.e. New Zealand writes today as 14/03/15. Best regards, RA1

Rumors of ill health refuted... Paparazzi catch Putin partying with friends.

Why not help your pal become a charming deceitful older gay man? One more quickie, then I'm off to the bank!

When are we gonna hear about all the lushness and sexual debauchery that is Habana. ??? We have all (at least ME) been waiting with baited breath ! Go On, tell Em Ax papa.....

"...you can't solve all their problems." Shoot, I can't even solve all my own problems, never mind theirs. Question: Would you do what they do for money? No? Then why do you expect they do it "for love"? They don't. Relationships that fail of any kind for any reason are always painful AND much easier for someone outside to see what is going on. Just take some solace in the fact that everyone on this board has been there, done that. Best regards, RA1

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So I meet up with my friends at Hot Male. One of the boys I brought home a couple of times, thinks I should bring him home every night. I did have a lot of fun with him, but he texts me several times a day asking what am I doing, can he come over, will I take him that night. I decided I would go to the show at Hot Male and buy him a drink and give him a few dollars and explain I probably wouldn't be taking him off again. As I am sitting there I glanced on stage and there is one of my two Vietnamese friends. He saw me at the same time. He came over and sat with us. I explain to Thai boy, he is an old friend and just arrived back in Bangkok after New Years trip to Vietnam. I could tell boy wasn't happy as he felt competition . It's been about 100 years since 2 boys have fought over me. Kinda fun. So now I meet hot boy at Hero, Vietnam friend is back, Thai boy wants me. Of course it's all falling into place, I go home in 4 days. Figure if all this happend in first week, I would be broke by now. It's Saturday night, so Viet boy will come over and we will do dinner and spend the night. Tomorrow and Monday I will go Back to Hero early evening and then take Viet boy late evenings. I'm not sure what Tuesday will bring as I have to get up very early Wednesday for flight home. So Tuesday will be a late afternoon of fun, just not sure of who. Overall I've had a great time. Lots of fun, lots of reading by the pool, a bit of shopping. A month long trip gives you time to kick back and not cram everything into a few days and wear yourself out. It will be an interesting year, as I plan on doing 4 one month trips this year. Time and money will tell.

As what happens with so many trips, the last few days turn out to be the best. This is the last weekend of my month long trip and everything came together. I'll go home with some good memories of the last few days, but the good part is I only go home for a month and then back here for another month. I have had some fun with a few boys that I have been with in the evenings and hanging with my friends in Soi Twilight. But it's been basically a quiet and relaxing trip, till now. I love the massage palors in Bangkok but haven't been to any this trip. Thursday afternoon I was in the mood and decided to go to Adonis. Not far from me and I've been many times before. Got there around 7pm. About 10 boys available. I picked a boy that had a tight little body, great chest and arms. Figured I'd get a firm massage. And I did. He was quite strong and used his whole body in rubbing my body. He was hard the minute he started. After finishing the back the boys will say turn over and then you hope the fun will begin. He started massaging legs long slow strokes, the all of a sudden he decided it was time for fun. He was all hands and mouth. He wanted to fuck so bad, but it's something I don't do anymore. So we settled for happy endings. Great massage, great fun. Now it's Friday and I figured the massage Thursday was so much fun, should do it again. But I wanted to go to Hero. The best Bangkok has to offer. I have commitment problems. I sit and overthink things so much, 1/2 the time I talk myself out of things and sit home. Hero is across town and doesn't open till 4. Getting a taxi to go that far at rush hour can be a choir. Do I go back to Adonis, it's close. Go to Arena, I can walk. Go to Senso, close but expensive. Really want to go to Hero. Figure I will try 3 taxi's then give up and go local. First taxi, no way. 2nd taxi, no problem. As the crow flys, it's about 3 miles, as taxi goes thru Bangkok it's probably 10 miles. Took 50 minutes, mostly sitting in traffic. Should have taken Skytrain, but at least I was sitting in A/c in a taxi. Next time you sit at a traffic light for 45 seconds and think it's the end of the world, keep in mind, they have a couple of intersections here that are up to 6 minutes. Ugh Arrive at Hero. As I walk to the door, a few boys sitting outside. Really hot boys and I wonder why aren't you inside waiting for me to pick you. At hero, all the boys are in a room sectioned off by a glass wall, separating you from them. There is a lot of seating for the customers as you make your decision. My initial glance brings a big WOW. Impossible to have so many hot boys in 1 room. I have been here several times and this is the first time I would rate all A's. Amazing. Mamasan sits next to me and whispers in my ear, straight boy, gay boy, top or bottom. I usually pick to quickly, so I told him I want a few minutes. To many hot boys. Seems like when you make choice, you will always then see someone else you like. About 50 boys behind the glass. Probably a 30/20, Straight/gay split. Said I would prefer gay and he started pointing them out. There was one boy my eyes kept coming back to. I took him. Waited about 5 minutes for a room. Place was very busy. Boy spoke good English, that really helps. Got to room and before I can even get my shoes off, he is naked and hard. Haven't even hit the shower and I know this is going to turn out well. And it did. Massage wasn't real strong, but it was relaxing. He was all hands and body.fingers everywhere fingers good be. After I turned over he massaged my feet and then kicked into high gear. Jumps on the table and me and starts kissing like I haven't experienced in a long time. I had to check to see if I still had my tongue. His sucking was equally high energy. Again wanted to fuck, not going to happen, he seemed a bit disappointed but made it up with happy endings. He shot over his head. I said to him, I guess no more happy endings for you tonight. He said he can to that 3 times in 1 night. I wanted to take him home and make him prove it. As good a time as I have ever had in Bangkok. As I'm getting ready to leave , he takes my phone and puts all his contact info into it. Will see him again, Sunday,Monday and Tuesday. At least I will have a smile on my face for the 24 hour trip home. So what a Friday, time to meet up with my friends for a couple of drinks before calling it a night. Can it get any better, yep.........

Hopefully a small price to pay. What's so bad about not using your insurance? It cost me thousands and I can't even catch a cold!

In praise of New England attitude, when the Gobie mess spilled out, a Boston TV news team went into Barney's district to get comment. When they asked a blue-haired little old lady on the street what she thought, she said: "Terrible! Just terrible! ...the way you people are hounding the poor man!"

I learned while browsing in the "other place" that a long time poster and frequent participant in early Hooville events has died. I met Jackhammer on several occasions and found him to be a very likable fellow. We had our differences but on the rare occasion when I would see him in public he was always civil towards me. RIP Jackhammer http://www.message-forum.net/showthread.php?103445-Jackhammer-is-no-longer-with-us

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Having been a pimp in one of my past lives, I can tell you NEVER fall in love with a boy you have hired. It never works out the way you want it to work out and in the end, it is always about money. That being said, I have 2 boys in Thailand that that been with me for over 10 years. Both are amazing and both love and adore me. But, I also still support them. Allow yourself to fall in love with a sauna boy. But, be intelligent and logical and spend on him what you feel comfortable spending without hurting your future. A few grand here and there on someone that makes you happy seem like a small price to pay for a good relationship. IMHO

Bingo, give that man a Cupie Doll.

I would suspect If this happens to you, you sign over your IRA, All your worldly belongings, bank accounts and even your Mother (if you still have one) to the Boy in the name of 1-sided Love..... ( of that Bubble butt and big, thick dark piece of meat hanging between his smooth thighs)

Yes, I read this over at the other site. they lost 2 members this week, Mr Hammer and FosterChow. Very said, especially from what I remember they were both clever, interesting and nice gentlemen... Both had ongoing health issues, so I hope they are at peace now and in a much Bettter place. We are ALL only visiting this Universe, and are given a finite amount of time. The goal is to make the most of it in the best of health, and when our time comes, leave a lasting impression. (although Grandmas impression Wont be that great !) May both of those fine gentlemen R.I.P. ,

Not much to add except that Tomcal was spot on. Sauna boys, dancers, escorts, masseurs etc etc etc. They are almost all cut from the same fabric. It is all a game to them, and you can enjoy yourself immensely while playing, so long as you know all the rules. From Mvan1's post: "The Garoto plays a clever and profitable game, which he wins, most of the time" Best to just chalk this up to a learning experience, fix yourself a nice cocktail, put your game face on, and jump right back in, the waters fine.

Very sad news indeed. He had mentioned his illness, but it sounded like he was on the mend. He brought much laughter to Daddy's via 'Friday Funnies'. As I recall he always honored the men and women of the armed services. A noble gesture. May he find peace in a better place.

You posted your situation on a public forum. Therefore, I feel that you want an honest answer. That, I will provide even though my response appears blunt and/or unsympathetic. Nonetheless, my response is well intended and hopefully will be helpful to you. First, let me say that your predicament reminds me of a friend of mine who is in a similar quagmire with a Brazilian sauna boi. My friend met a sauna garoto more than five years ago. The garoto continues to tell my friend that he loves him. At the same time, the garoto does not work a normal job and has not worked during the period he has been involved with my friend. The garoto is married and has two children. The garoto's wife does not work which means the sole source of income to the garoto and to his family is from hustling in a sauna and deceiving sauna clients. The garoto plays a clever and profitable "game" which he wins, most of the time. There is no question that handsome Brazilian garotos exist and many have a charm that is special and unique. These attributes are not found in most other cultures. Some garotos use their good looks and charm to their extreme advantage. Combine a handsome, charming and deceitful garoto with a vulnerable and sensitive older gay man and you have a recipe for an irreconcilable and one-sided relationship that can only equate to frustration and unhappiness for the older gay man. I have repeatedly tried to help my friend analyze the facts surrounding his relationship with the garoto. However, he is blinded to facts Conversations with my friend do not help. I don't know a solution to help extricate my friend from this unrealistic fantasy he has with the garoto. Each and every time my friend tries to break off the relationship, the garoto responds with more lies in order to keep the game going so that the garoto can continue to "milk" my friend for more money. After all is said and done, and after the relationship finally ends (and it will end), only the older gay man will be the loser. I have one final thought to ponder: If a client suddenly stopped giving money and/or gifts, how long would an alleged love for a client last? I suspect the garoto would quickly look for his next easily manipulated client.

Please read TomCal's post here as it is summarizes it best: http://www.boytoy.com/forums/index.php?/topic/23290-2015-porto-alegre-and-rio/page-7#entry134945 We've all been there to one degree or another. From my experience, I've been fairly good about not falling for a guy, but the couple times I did, it was an emotional rollar coaster for me and neither had a good outcome with many requests for money, etc. Do your best to assess the situation and leverage others in the forum who have been there for advice and who truly understand.

This is why I run out of likes everyday.

Your last sentence says it all. Never fall in love. We are ATM machines. Coming up with a new problem and needing money is the easiest thing in the world for them. There are some really great guys out there and you can have a lot of fun. But it's your money, and it needs to be on your terms with no long lasting expectations. Nothing wrong with buying a gift or 2, but you can't solve all their problems.

Engrossing excerpts from Barney Frank's new autobiography. My Life as a Gay Congressman It took me 32 years to come out. This is what happened when I did. http://www.politico.com/magazine/story/2015/03/barney-frank-life-as-gay-congressman-116027.html#ixzz3UHo4gdDi

Not everyone is a fan of the honorable Mr. Frank. Me being one of those people.

Clearly you have never cohabitated with somebody who was good-looking but otherwise Not The Right One. 24 X 365 X too-many-years is a long time around the wrong person. Good looks you can hire by the hour. (Cue Steve Gobie references. )

Many thanks to both of you guys for the information. As of now it looks like next January or February for a trip, to kind of get a lay of the land. If things work out, perhaps a couple of more trips before making the final decision. My biggest problem as of now is the loss of my health insurance. I don't mind paying for it in Thailand, but it's a bitch paying for something all your life, then not being able to use it. Thanks again gentlemen.